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homoe 12-04-2017 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Sweet Bliss (Post 1184788)
not one thing






but the day is still early, give it time.............:giggle:

tantalizingfemme 12-24-2017 02:49 PM

I am always disappointed when I see someone publicizing their own "act of kindness." I immediately question their intention. Especially now with social media, where they post it for everyone to see. I see that as wanting praise and pats on the back. If you are really doing it to be kind, then do it and move on. No need to crow to the world about what a great thing you did and expect attention. Unless, that was your intent all along.

girl_dee 12-24-2017 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by tantalizingfemme (Post 1188502)
I am always disappointed when I see someone publicizing their own "act of kindness." I immediately question their intention. Especially now with social media, where they post it for everyone to see. I see that as wanting praise and pats on the back. If you are really doing it to be kind, then do it and move on. No need to crow to the world about what a great thing you did and expect attention. Unless, that was your intent all along.

i get this but i do like when people inspire people to be charitable. i do however get what you are saying.

Lyte 12-24-2017 08:23 PM

Totally get what you're saying re: getting a chain saw stuck and losing momentum on the day! The pinch is annoying as hell... even when you've weighed n measured every angle and it STILL gets stuck! :blink:

The only thing that's slightly more scary but no less annoying than a pinch... is a kickback on a circular saw! Each time I swear I'm gonna slice a limb! :blink: :blink:

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Originally Posted by RockOn (Post 1184541)
More optimistic about the incident late yesterday afternoon. I only lost a couple of hours work while it was still daylight. And after cranking the chainsaw, I see it is fine. I was tired yesterday upset about the hold-up is all.

This morning I have re-evaluated the mess I left yesterday with the tree caught up in another tree's branches. It'll be a non-quiz to get that tree down. I do need to quit getting so cocky with outdoor machinery though. When I am having a good time and things are going well, I notice I go too far with it, push my luck. Yesterday I knew I was cutting in too deep with that one cut but thought I would just hurry things along. I now see what happens to me with that mindset. Last night I recalled summer of 2016 when I was having a party with that GroundHog auger I rented from Home Depot. I went too deep (knew better) and buried the auger tight. It was like buried in concrete ... took half a day to dig it out in scorching heat and over the top humidity. I know I do not want to end up in a youtube DUMB-ASS EPIC FAIL LUMBERJOCKING video. LOL ! I wonder if there is anyone else here who does things like this.

I will take out the limb late afternoon because yesterday was supposed to be only day of weekend to work outside. I must do indoor work today when I get back from buying groceries and getting a haircut. Now I wish I had done housework, bought groceries and gotten haircut yesterday. I despise working indoors. It makes me feel trapped. :( But I seriously need to quit whining about it or hire a housekeeper.


JDeere 12-24-2017 10:06 PM

That my ex has not talked to me today. After everything i did she's ignoring me. I just hope I'm over thinking.

homoe 12-25-2017 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by tantalizingfemme (Post 1188502)
I am always disappointed when I see someone publicizing their own "act of kindness." I immediately question their intention. Especially now with social media, where they post it for everyone to see. I see that as wanting praise and pats on the back. If you are really doing it to be kind, then do it and move on. No need to crow to the world about what a great thing you did and expect attention. Unless, that was your intent all along.

......:goodpost:...........

girl_dee 12-25-2017 09:22 AM

family drama..............*puts blinders on*.

Kobi 12-25-2017 09:51 AM


It's New England. It's winter. It's Xmas. Weird weather is the norm.

It was raining. Now it is snowing. It is cold. The winds are howling. BTW weather channel, the winds are coming from the north not the west. Yes, it matters here.

Had to drive 2 towns over to find a convenience store that was open and had electricity. A 10 min drive turned into a half hour or so of dodging debris, tree parts, tree branches, and trees. Felt like I was in a remake of the Wizard of Oz.

The lights are flickering. Xmas dinner is in the oven early - just in case the electric goes off. It would be romantic to have Xmas dinner by candlelight.
I'm not even dealing with the fact I have electric heat. We seldom lose power but when we do it means the entire town is out.

Anyway, it will an adventurous day.

Happy Xmas everyone.



~ocean 12-25-2017 10:01 AM

THEY DON'T CALL THE WEATHER RIGHT ANYMORE ~ I agree Kobi from a coating to 2 " we are having a storm instead ~ I expected the high winds ~ it's a Norman Rockwell scene this Christmas ~ snuggle up people it's gonna be a bumpy ride !

PlatinumPearl 12-28-2017 10:28 AM

I would have to say most times my disappointment comes from people.

I most recently I have been chatting with a someone again after they ghosted for months. I don't understand their logic behind this hot and cold behavior but it is definitely disrespectful. Anyhow, out of respect for myself I cut cords.

It's sad that some people just have no respect for others and don't know the true meaning of friendship. Maybe one day they will learn.

Kenna 12-30-2017 07:48 PM

Sugar cookies from the farmer's market that were marked "old fashioned sugar cookies"...
They sure looked pretty, they reminded me of my grandma's cookies, but they were nearly rock hard crunchy.
I miss my grandma's SOFT sugar cookies. Now those were so old fashioned she guarded the recipe with her life.

Gayandgray 12-31-2017 12:12 PM

The stepdaughter as usual...........

Bèsame* 12-31-2017 12:49 PM

How long he has not been feeling well...

This crud needs to go------>.

Deborah* 12-31-2017 04:42 PM

That a strong cold front blew through and it's too cold... too cold to go outside.

Deborah

Teddybear 12-31-2017 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by PlatinumPearl (Post 1189196)
I would have to say most times my disappointment comes from people.

I most recently I have been chatting with a someone again after they ghosted for months. I don't understand their logic behind this hot and cold behavior but it is definitely disrespectful. Anyhow, out of respect for myself I cut cords.

It's sad that some people just have no respect for others and don't know the true meaning of friendship. Maybe one day they will learn.


I'm sorry ur dealing with this if u find a way to put it behind you let me know.

Deborah* 01-01-2018 09:04 PM

Disappointed that the weather report said the freakish very cold weather pattern will last almost every day this week. Yuck.

Deborah

JDeere 01-01-2018 09:06 PM

Only disappointment today is the fact my birth mother has and will not change.

Deborah* 01-02-2018 12:04 AM

Disappointed that I did not do anything I should have done all day long. I blame it on the extremely cold, break-the-record cold weather.

Deborah

girl_dee 01-02-2018 06:07 PM

Waking up without my love next to me :(

cinnamongrrl 07-13-2018 06:04 AM

Yesterday....

I was SO.disappointed with my Dunkins cold brew. It looked like iced tea and tasted.watered down. I don't understand why I can't get a consistently good product from store to store. Irks me to no end!

cinnamongrrl 08-22-2018 12:10 PM

I made a nice big pot of tortellini soup for lunch...only to find that the tortellini has somehow gone bad while in the freezer.

Le sigh

FireSignFemme 08-22-2018 04:51 PM

Disappointed to find Fred Meyer brand of coffee wasn't in stock. That's the second time they're been out of stock of their own brand of coffee. What's wrong with these people? Well for one thing I was standing in Walmart looking for Fred Meyer coffee. :seconddoh:

cinnamongrrl 09-04-2018 03:50 PM

Very disappointed that my clients, who I really do like, played the entitlement card.

girl_dee 09-04-2018 07:12 PM

not getting as much done at work as i wanted to

Chained Daisy 09-05-2018 08:20 AM

Myself. Sitting here, heart racing, stomach in knots, anger and indignation coursing through me as yet again I am triggered in an instant by my narcissistic ex husband who never fails in his ability to find a healing wound and rub a huge handful of salt in it.

cinnamongrrl 09-05-2018 09:22 AM

All I want is some potato salad...

The other day, I started some potatoes and eggs and went upstairs. I fell asleep and burned the pot and all.

So... today I tried again. I started the water to boil and added in the taters. The whole displacement of water thing totally escaped me and I flooded the gas stove, extinguishing the little fire that makes the ringer start.

It’s my first gas stove. I don’t know how to light the thingy back up. Can’t reach my honey at work to ask and it occurred to me to call my mom and ask....which led to yet ANOTHER episode of sobs... and I’m back in my room.

So no potato salad for me.

Meh

cinnamongrrl 09-11-2018 09:15 PM

Going book shopping with my honey. He’s not into books. I felt like I had to amuse and distract him the whole time so I could peruse for a few seconds on my own.

Definitely NOT going to repeat that again. I like to take my time and look around.. I feel slightly robbed of the proper experience it should have been.

:fastdraq:

candy_coated_bitch 09-11-2018 09:43 PM

Having to cut a lunch date short because I realized I forgot my morning meds.

Canela 09-11-2018 10:47 PM

My last two clients of the day...oh well...

Gemme 09-12-2018 07:00 AM

Nothing yet today. The day's early but I hope it will stay that way.

Gemme 09-13-2018 08:09 AM

Yesterday wound up being pretty good and I did get out to vote, which is more than most people did. Low numbers! I wanted to work out this morning but have a nagging headache due to the weather system in play here so it's going to be quiet and relaxed this morning. I'm disappointed about that but it is what it is. Tomorrow's another day.

JDeere 09-13-2018 03:51 PM

My dad is back in the hospital.
Im disappointed in his doctors and him along with my mom when they dont listen about the fact he needs new doctors.

TL1 09-13-2018 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 1224891)
My dad is back in the hospital.
Im disappointed in his doctors and him along with my mom when they dont listen about the fact he needs new doctors.

How I could go on about disappointment in doctors........

I hope everything works out and from experience you have to fight to get what you know you need from doctors. And then fight some more. It’s like a damn battle with some of them.

JDeere 09-13-2018 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by TL1 (Post 1224894)
How I could go on about disappointment in doctors........

I hope everything works out and from experience you have to fight to get what you know you need from doctors. And then fight some more. It’s like a damn battle with some of them.

Thanks. I just think he needs 2nd or 3rd opinions but i dont get heard.

WheatToast 09-13-2018 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1224802)
Nothing yet today. The day's early but I hope it will stay that way.

I disappointed myself, when I let a resentment from yesterday carry over to today.
Once that happens, I get annoyed at the stupidest things...like someone mixing upper and lower case letters in hand-lettered signs.
One of my clients makes small signs for his restaurant to advertise upcoming music acts, etc. They look like this:

ThURsDaY liVE MuSic wiTh daVE SMith 8:30

Then he tapes them to the glass next to the entrance, so the place looks like wild animals make their signs.
Mixing UC and lc letters should be a misdemeanor, heavily fined.

girl_dee 09-26-2018 06:06 PM

myself. i am disappointed in myself.

I’m trying to regroup but today was just one of those days.

I have been doing accounting work for many years. I like to balance things, and find errors. I love to calculate and work on margins. I have always been really good at it. I am not sure what is happening.

I had one special thing to do today, and it was not a complicated task, but I just could not get there. My boss kept checking the project and reminding me that it was still wrong, and I just made it worse and worse trying to fix it. It was embarrassing and humiliating. He is such a nice man, my boss.... he went on to school me on how I need to take my time to get things figured out, and how he does not want to have to check my work but is worried with my mistakes today. It involves his money and boy does he watch that.

I was right in the middle of working it out, and I stopped and started 3 other things, I just could not focus. I had to fight to stay on track and I kept getting lost in the task.

I don’t know who I am anymore!

Gemme 09-26-2018 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee (Post 1226233)
myself. i am disappointed in myself.

I’m trying to regroup but today was just one of those days.

I have been doing accounting work for many years. I like to balance things, and find errors. I love to calculate and work on margins. I have always been really good at it. I am not sure what is happening.

I had one special thing to do today, and it was not a complicated task, but I just could not get there. My boss kept checking the project and reminding me that it was still wrong, and I just made it worse and worse trying to fix it. It was embarrassing and humiliating. He is such a nice man, my boss.... he went on to school me on how I need to take my time to get things figured out, and how he does not want to have to check my work but is worried with my mistakes today. It involves his money and boy does he watch that.

I was right in the middle of working it out, and I stopped and started 3 other things, I just could not focus. I had to fight to stay on track and I kept getting lost in the task.

I don’t know who I am anymore!

We all have a bad day here and there, dee. You are wonderful at your job! Tomorrow is a different day and you will be able to figure it all out after a good night's sleep.

What disappointed me today is the behavior of someone. Ridiculous!

Kätzchen 09-29-2018 06:32 PM

Learning that the GOP henchmen have subverted the justice system by failing to empower the FBI to conduct an exhaustive investigation into the background of Kava-Not.


I hate that this is happening. It makes me very ill. It triggers me in very deep ways. All week long I've experienced hissing in my ears, shortness of breath, panic, anxiety, and all kinds of other symptoms.


The trauma for sexual assault survivors experience is very real.
It never goes away. Ever. I've cried so much this past week.

candy_coated_bitch 09-29-2018 08:13 PM

My Dad showing his white male privilege.

Orema 09-30-2018 08:38 AM

I bought the lousiest muffin I’ve ever had. It was hard and chewy. Whoever heard of a chewy muffin? I’m not eating it and am thinking of returning it to get a refund.


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