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miss entycing 08-04-2010 03:17 PM

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candles lit for all of us here who are hurting... for those of us who are suffering in silence...
for those of us who need strength... and for any of us who feel like we are falling apart.

WolfyOne 08-04-2010 03:55 PM

Today I lit a candle in a universal kind of way

It is for those that need their pain to be healed and health brought back
May the powers that be hear our cries for help and act accordingly on them

Once again asking to keep our circle of prayer strong
Believe in the power as it works for us

WolfyOne 08-04-2010 03:56 PM

The Candle Link
 
While I'm thinking about, so you don't have to go back to page 1


http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...m?l=eng&gi=SDR

Tommi 08-04-2010 07:26 PM

For all
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 168141)
While I'm thinking about, so you don't have to go back to page 1
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...m?l=eng&gi=SDR

Thanks WolfyOne.

Lit a candle..Tomorrow my buddy Milana is having a jejunostomy and debridement of the area that a feeding tube leaked, leaving a sac of liquid food and meds in her belly, NOT in her stomach.
Then get weaned off the ventilator, then get chemo and radiation therapy. :candle::candle::candle::candle:

WolfyOne 08-04-2010 07:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tommi (Post 168314)
Thanks WolfyOne.

Lit a candle..Tomorrow my buddy Milana is having a jejunostomy and debridement of the area that a feeding tube leaked, leaving a sac of liquid food and meds in her belly, NOT in her stomach.
Then get weaned off the ventilator, then get chemo and radiation therapy. :candle::candle::candle::candle:


Your friend will be in my thoughts and prayers Tommi

Spirit Dancer 08-04-2010 11:51 PM

For
Diva and mini Diva
Milana
Tommi
Lady Pamela
Pat
Wolfy
ST
Syr
and to all the Planeteers for their support, thank you
May the faith we have in energy and healing
transcend to those who need it.
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Sam 08-05-2010 12:13 AM

lighting a candle for jayson, my bff's son who was killed in a car accident last night 8.4.2010. RIP

miss entycing 08-05-2010 06:21 AM

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for Jayson, may he sleep with the angels.
I'm so very sorry Sam.... if there's anything I can do, call me.

for SD and Syr, continuing respite... and healing strength to you both, from us.

for Pat, and Met and your Lady.... sending y'all strength to continue the battle.

for Milana and Tommi & your beautiful girl.... sending y'all healing energy so that your friend may continue the fight to survive.

for Dolo, and T... hoping she is doing better, and the treatments are bringing her back to good.

for our Planet family.... I hope today leaves us content in knowing that so many of us care about eachother.

Tommi 08-05-2010 08:04 AM

[QUOTE=Tommi;168314][B]Thanks WolfyOne.

[COLOR="Black"]8:30 my buddy, Milana is havingthe jejunostomy and debridement of the area that a feeding tube leaked.

Doc's says they have to do it. No other way because of the fistual and mess from that f**cked up first feeding tube leaking. She has been in intensive care since July 16th. On her back , unable to speak..and last night wrote a note that said. "Sorry for being a bitch". Sniff..I can't tell you what allshe has been through, and still can smile.


Candles would be so appreciated. Have to run/
Take care of each other.you just never know. And my best to all those that come here***

WolfyOne 08-05-2010 08:53 AM

Today I lit 3 candles

You can go here, read them and while you're there light some, too
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...m?l=eng&gi=SDR


For those that have never been there, just put your cursor over the candle to read or click it

Nat 08-05-2010 10:16 PM



For all y'all.

Also, don't forget to visit the candle place

<3

JakeTulane 08-06-2010 11:38 AM

I light this candle for always2late, her Mom, and her family. They received news back after tests on her Mom and the prognosis is not good. I have been where she is with My Mom and My Dad. As have most of you with a family member, partner, friend. Please everyone, keep her in your prayers and thoughts .. as well as her Mom and the rest of her family. Light candles and send them strength and love as only this thread can. Thank you.


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Isadora 08-06-2010 04:54 PM

So 2 plates and 8 screws in the ulna, 2 plates and 6 screws int he radius, they could close the wound because the muscle in his forearm is so swollen. So another surgery for that on Monday or Tuesday.. The bone in his ankle is shattered and looks like grapenuts so they couldn't do anything with it. They can't plate and screw in sand. *sigh*

Tommi 08-06-2010 08:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JakeTulane (Post 169537)
I light this candle for always2late, her Mom, and her family. They received news back after tests on her Mom and the prognosis is not good. I have been where she is with My Mom and My Dad. As have most of you with a family member, partner, friend. Please everyone, keep her in your prayers and thoughts .. as well as her Mom and the rest of her family. Light candles and send them strength and love as only this thread can. Thank you.


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For always2late's Mom. Know the miracles happen, even when the news is dire. Life changes, ebbs and flows as we journey on this plane unto the next, and the miracles can be recognized in the flower, the sunshine and the wind upon her cheek.

Along the way I send my strength, wish for good doctors, healing energy, and peace when she needs rest. May the family listen to her voice, and be still and quet with her when she sleeps. Surround always2late and her loved ones in the caress of meaningful caring, and curing pains of all that are touched.

waxnrope 08-07-2010 06:57 PM

I have not been here for a while. I've had a bad respiratory infection that my doc initially said was bronchitis, then, pneumonia. I ask for healing prayers. Thanks to those who have contacted me.

Also, please keep my sis, Dolo, in the light of your warm prayers. She is experiencing again the hoarseness she had before starting chemotherapy. Her red blood cell was low as was her magnesium level yesterday.

I have a lot of reading here to catch up with. Know that I thought of this "place" even when I felt feverish.

Sam 08-07-2010 07:09 PM

lighting a candle for my mom today, she would have been 79 RIP Mom

Tommi 08-07-2010 08:40 PM

We have today
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Sam (Post 170266)
lighting a candle for my mom today, she would have been 79 RIP Mom


My condolences Sam. :candle: Missing them.:candle: :candle:

My friend Milana, is recovering and came to today with a smile,:candle: after being in ICU since July 14. She smiled at the quacking fuzzy duck that played Old MacDonald had a farm as she opened her eyes.

Still on a ventilator, she made a circle with her thumb and foreginger when i told her why she was here. She felt for the trach, shook her head yes, and then clapped. Most activity in 21 days.


Thanks to all of you for lighting candles, text messages, calls and words of encouragement.

Tommi

Spirit Dancer 08-08-2010 09:42 AM

For the light that burns bright
sends healing energy and peace.
Always2late and family
Diva and mini Diva
Nat
Entycingfemme
Milana and Sister
Tommi
Isadora and family
Lady Pamela
Pat and Family
Rav
ALK
WnR
Dolo
Sam
Wolfy
ST
Syr always

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Tommi 08-08-2010 04:23 PM

Cure
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 170251)
I have not been here for a while. I've had a bad respiratory infection that my doc initially said was bronchitis, then, pneumonia. I ask for healing prayers. Thanks to those who have contacted me.

Also, please keep my sis, Dolo, in the light of your warm prayers. She is experiencing again the hoarseness she had before starting chemotherapy. Her red blood cell was low as was her magnesium level yesterday.

I have a lot of reading here to catch up with. Know that I thought of this "place" even when I felt feverish.


waxnrope, a quick hello before you rest and need to get the bad bugs out.

Also , hope Dolo finds today better than yesterday, and every day gets better N better. Here's info you may find helpful

"CureToday.com - Combining science with humanity,

CURE magazine, is a free publication for those on the cancer journey, and is the indispensable guide for patients and their families from diagnosis through treatment."
It is provided free of charge hard copy magazine and on-line, and has some fantastic articles, helpful hints, breakthrough news and clinical trials.

I get the hard copy and the emagazine, because it has such a wealth of information, from actual survivors who have helpful tips, and I have it here for those that may want to read about the journey we are taking.


Best regards, and fast healing for you both.
Tommi

Isadora 08-10-2010 09:09 PM

I am sorry I have not kept up with everyone personally but I am a wee enmeshed in family and the craziness that is my life (which means lots of meetings and commitments that all run together in a pack). My brother had pneumonia again and so they postponed the closing of the wound on his arm til today. They took a skin graft from his thigh and used it to close up the wound. He was still sleeping when I talked to my sister. The blood clot has not gotten smaller and he still has a brain bleed. He continues to be in critical stable condition with only my sister in law allowed to see him.

Thanks for all your prayers and candles. I so appreciate them.

Diva 08-11-2010 12:16 PM

Forgive me....I'm not as diligent in this thread as SD, Lady Pamela and others.....

But this morning, I have lit candles for:

~SD
~Lady Pamela
~Isadora's brother, Ray
~my daughter, Erin
~an elderly gentleman(70) here in Austin who was mowing his lawn this morning and a swarm of bees stung him over 500 times. He was taken to the hospital with life~threatening conditions
~for Jack and Medusa
~for those traveling next week to The Reunion



Diva 08-14-2010 08:49 PM

Tonight, I lit candles for ~

~Thankfulness that good things are [finally] coming my daughter's way for a change! (Neat house to share with 2 really neat kids! Met them and the Mom of one of them and we have a lot in common!)

~For SD & T, for a safe journey home...

~And for sweet BK, for strength and comfort following the passing of his partner....




JakeTulane 08-15-2010 08:09 AM

I light this candle for anyone in need. For those that are suffering and for those that are not. For those that need to find some peace and respite and those that do not. For those that need strength to persevere and those that do not. There is no discrimination when it comes to sending love and strength.. regardless of your past nor your future.. or who are in the station of someone's life.. especially to the one lighting the candle. I lit this one for everyone.

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Spirit Dancer 08-15-2010 09:21 AM

Diva you do just fine(f)
Today in prayer and light
Diva
Mini Diva
BK~ and family
WnR and Family
Lady P
Milana and Tommi
Those who need light
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Jett 08-16-2010 09:04 AM

Thank you all for you positive thought, prayers and candles for Pat
 
As it's stands the chemo is too much for her in her deteriorated condition and she is unable to eat hardly anything. She has chosen to return home from the hospital (w/ hospice care) today and it appears it will won't be long at all now.

My gf is down there with her, if you could see fit to send some of that positive energy her way it would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you... and you are all in my thoughts each day.

Metro

Isadora 08-16-2010 04:03 PM

My brother is sitting up 2-3 hours a day. Very aware of his surroundings. He is doing PT on his arm, shoulder and leg. He has been moved to the telemetry unit. Thank you for your continued support and prayers.

WolfyOne 08-17-2010 08:48 AM

It's been a while since I've been here to light a candle, so today I lit 2 candles

The first one for R
Her doc called her yesterday with results from her CT scan
Her lymph nodes in her mediastinum are enlarged
She's complained about pain in her chest for over a year
Finally a test that found something, but she's scared
And I'm scared with her and for her
More tests today and then maybe a biopsy after today
She may no longer be my partner, but she will always be my friend
I pray for her every day

The second candle is for everyone
For the sick, for the healthy and for the traveling.
May all your tomorrows be full of sunshine.
Live life to it's fullest each day.

miss entycing 08-17-2010 09:36 AM

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For R.... please keep her healthy and safe.

For my very good friend Wolfy, strength be with you, to help R through all of this... I'm here if you need me- a phone call away.

For my Planet family... know that I care, and I leave candles burning for anyone who needs strength.

purepisces 08-17-2010 10:41 AM

For all the abandoned, abused or homeless animals suffering from hunger, illness, injuries, abuse and loneliness; may you all find forever homes, and if not that, then may you be granted a moment of comfort today.

For all the animal lover’s, rescuer’s & rehabilitator’s who answer the call to reach out to these precious creatures; may you find the strength & finances needed to continue this rewarding (and heartbreaking, at times) work.

Tommi 08-17-2010 10:50 AM

Milana moved to regular room
 
For my friend Milana who has struggled to hang on after routine surgery left her on a respirator, and then a massive infection from the routine feeding tube placement. :candle:

She has fought to get better, and is now out of ICU, now moved from step-down ICU, and now is on the regualar med-surg floor.

My Buddy still has a trach, and is still on O2, but lookins ooo soos soo much better. Thanks to all of you. You know, it all comes together when people pull for ya. :candle:

Blessings to you and keep those candles lit for those you know and don't know. It works when ya work it .
:candle::candle::candle::candle::candle:

Tommi

Diva 08-17-2010 04:26 PM

Candles lit for:


~Those on their way to Little Rock~

~Gemmie, who's on her way to Texas~

~C&A~

~SD~

~E, C & A~

~R~

~Pakistanians who are struggling with the floods~


Diva 08-17-2010 05:00 PM

A candle is lit for N for the surgery tomorrow....

Isadora 08-18-2010 12:01 AM

For the last 25 years almost every morning I light a candle at my "healing" altar. The most Compassionate Goddess, Kwan Yin smiles at me as I pray for all who need healing in any form.

friskyfemme 08-18-2010 10:31 PM

I lit a candle for my mother whose health is bad. I am so wanting her to come for a visit in Oct. as she has been planning for a year. May Spirit eliver her from her anguish and give her pain free days to enjoy herself.

Isadora 08-19-2010 08:41 PM

Ray is being moved from the step down to an acute extended care facility. They are removing the trach and he is talking. He is so much better everyday. Thank you for all your prayers and good thoughts.

ravfem 08-19-2010 10:05 PM

:candle:
__________

Spirit Dancer 08-19-2010 11:09 PM

For Win
Sending light and energy to you :candle:

miss entycing 08-20-2010 07:41 AM

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Keeping a candle burning for my Planet family... always.

contentment and divine bliss today.

Passionaria 08-20-2010 07:09 PM

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For safe travels and good company, and some naughty!!!! I hope you all enjoy the BASH!!!

Isadora 08-20-2010 09:36 PM

My brother said his first words last evening they were..."Life is too short"! He then went on to tell his wife that they needed to simplify their lives, he said i love you Boni, and then he said he was going to take a nap! All amazing things. Thank you for all your light!


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