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Just_G 12-18-2009 11:31 AM

Why is lemon juice made with artificial flavour, while dishwashing liquid is made with real lemons?

NotAnAverageGuy 12-18-2009 11:39 AM

what are artificial flavors anyways?

Jet 12-18-2009 01:18 PM

great news

NotAnAverageGuy 12-18-2009 01:54 PM

finding out my drug dealer neighbor got his suv broken into AHAHAHA, I guess his drugs sucked or he owed money, what a payback, hopefully they will move out.

hottprof 12-18-2009 03:31 PM

on my mind is my christmas wish... well one of them...


and I think I will post it in the dear thread lol

Smiles :frog:

WolfyOne 12-18-2009 05:12 PM

Ever have one of those days when you could laugh or cry at the drop of a pin? Well, today I'm feeling like that. I'll be spending Christmas alone because someone has to be here to take care of our cats. R is taking Mindy back to live in Michigan on Monday. Then she's going to Chicago to spend her Christmas. I'll be losing 3 of the cats as they also will go to Michigan. I guess I'm just kind of feeling isolated and alone right now. I can't remember the last time there wasn't someone around to share a holiday with. Makes me miss the part of my family in Vegas that much more.

Waldo 12-18-2009 05:53 PM

My work week is OVER.

Gemme 12-18-2009 06:20 PM

The inevitable happened. I'm sick again. DammitalltoHell!!!! :batmoose:

Pixie 12-18-2009 06:58 PM

Wondering how someone that loves you can not just respect your decisions if they are not harming anyone.....you don't have to support them just respect them....that is all..

FeminineAllure 12-18-2009 07:12 PM

Peace at last!

There is a snow storm coming this way so every place I had to go to today took twice as long. I waited in a hour long grocery line. :shocking:Then on the way home someone almost slammed into me from behind.:freak:
Home at last, I made a cup of coffee and lit some candles. Ahhhh....:bringcoffee:

Jet 12-18-2009 07:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FeminineAllure (Post 23076)
Peace at last!

There is a snow storm coming this way so every place I had to go to today took twice as long. I waited in a hour long grocery line. :shocking:Then on the way home someone almost slammed into me from behind.:freak:
Home at last, I made a cup of coffee and lit some candles. Ahhhh....:bringcoffee:

glad you're safe FA

weatherboi 12-18-2009 07:25 PM

Recipes...I am making an awesome granola that is enhanced with some ginger I ground. Next time I am gonna break into the banana chips I have and see what I can do with those....oh and fresh vanilla bean rocks!!

purepisces 12-18-2009 08:54 PM

The past.

I had a long, heartfelt and very painful conversation with my dad today. I love him so much, but his continued support and enabling of my mother has driven a wedge between us over the years. I worry about him all the time, he’s seventy and not in good health. He had his driver’s license taken away a year ago so he is completely dependent on my mother.

I have this terrible fear that he will end up in a “What Ever Happened to Baby Jane” situation. I told him that today, while sobbing in his arms. He chuckled and said not to worry, that if he was unable to take care of himself that he was sure that she would put him in a nursing home. He doesn’t seem worried, so I’m not sure why I am? I told him that it’s hard for me to spend time with them together because of the horrible way she speaks to him. It brings back so many traumatic memories for me.

They’ve been married for forty years and I told him that it breaks my heart knowing that he has been miserable more years than I have been alive. But, he said that he’s happy, mostly. He’s learned to let things roll off his back. He said I need to let go of the past and just thank god that I’m still here.

Letting go. It’s a constant struggle for me, but I am trying. Most days I do pretty well, but today is a bad day and the memories are vivid. Hopefully, tomorrow will be a better day.

Surayna 12-18-2009 10:31 PM

3 1/2 hours till my birthday. I know there is a surprise coming, but I don't know what (obviously - which is why it is a surprise). Getting excited!!

Gemme 12-18-2009 11:00 PM

I just finished watching Enchanted with Amy Adams and Patrick Dempsey. I really liked it, though it's definitely not Oscar-worthy or anything. I like the whimsy of it. Plus, Amy Adams actually has a really good voice (not to mention being really pretty). I think it fit in nicely with all of the other movies of this season. The only one I haven't seen yet that I really want to before the New Year is the remake of Miracle on 34th Street. I like them both, but am in the mood for color versus black and white film.

I need to get some mini marshmallows. Tis the season for hot cocoa.

I can't eat and breathe at the same time and, until you lose that capability, you never really grasp how important it is.

I want to see It's Complicated. It looks fantastic!

I'm sooooooooo tired. :alarm:

Andrew, Jr. 12-18-2009 11:05 PM

What is on my mind
 
Just a horrible fight I had with my adopted sister. :readfineprint: :overreaction::overreaction::overreaction: Is my pov.

Then our brother got involved. :hammer: and went back to decorating more.

Next up - his partner got involved. :whoop: :deadhorse: Just because the game was over. :football::football:

This was like a scene from the movie "My Big Fat Greek Wedding".

Jet 12-18-2009 11:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by purepisces (Post 23133)
The past.

I had a long, heartfelt and very painful conversation with my dad today. I love him so much, but his continued support and enabling of my mother has driven a wedge between us over the years. I worry about him all the time, he’s seventy and not in good health. He had his driver’s license taken away a year ago so he is completely dependent on my mother.

I have this terrible fear that he will end up in a “What Ever Happened to Baby Jane” situation. I told him that today, while sobbing in his arms. He chuckled and said not to worry, that if he was unable to take care of himself that he was sure that she would put him in a nursing home. He doesn’t seem worried, so I’m not sure why I am? I told him that it’s hard for me to spend time with them together because of the horrible way she speaks to him. It brings back so many traumatic memories for me.

They’ve been married for forty years and I told him that it breaks my heart knowing that he has been miserable more years than I have been alive. But, he said that he’s happy, mostly. He’s learned to let things roll off his back. He said I need to let go of the past and just thank god that I’m still here.

Letting go. It’s a constant struggle for me, but I am trying. Most days I do pretty well, but today is a bad day and the memories are vivid. Hopefully, tomorrow will be a better day.

Try to let go, remember only the good things and be at peace with them. I'm in a similar situation with my dad, minus the mother figure. Now i appreciate the good things-memories of him

WolfyOne 12-18-2009 11:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 23045)
The inevitable happened. I'm sick again. DammitalltoHell!!!! :batmoose:


I hope you get to feeling better soon Ms Gemmie.

I know what you mean about getting sick again. In a month's time, I caught a cold twice. It's no fun, you can't breathe out your nose and you can't sleep well because you can't breathe. You take that night time, so you can rest medicine, but it doesn't help for more than two hours. Awake again while the rest of the house sleeps except one cat. Oh and eating, why eat when you can't taste it or breathe while trying to eat. Better drink those liquids fast while holding your breath.

WILDCAT 12-19-2009 02:30 AM

I'm thinking about...
 
... yet another woman/mother/wife missing. And it looks, AGAIN, suspicious for the spouse. Is this going on MORE in recent years, or is the news just covering this more and more these past several years? Or, am I just now noticing it so much, (like post Scott Peterson)?

Are people really this crazy or heartless? Were these cases not covered by the media because they were just women and not celebs? However, NOW it gets the news ratings up? Just pondering this here and feeling some pain.

Yeah, I think it does look a "tad" ODD for the husband to state that he and his family went out "camping, during a snowstorm/BLIZZARD around 1:30AM" or some damn inexcusable, unexplainable time/situation. It defies logic so blatantly.

And the woman/mother's father stated emphatically that his daughter NEVER would have allowed her children to be put in any safety compromized situation such as that!

This is what is absolutely heart wrenching, regarding the children - ESPECIALLY "if" it is their other parent who committed the crime.

Very sad and disturbing it all is.

(I hope they "find" her... that she is alright would be such a miracle. I really hope she was not hurt by another - and certainly not by someone she knew, loved and trusted.)

:rrose:

PEACE

LadyFlamezzz 12-19-2009 04:14 AM

I think that people have since time began been hurt by those close to them. Now the media helps to enlighten us of these outrageous and hard to believe actions. Some times I just want to close my eyes and make believe it doesn't really happen to anyone...I don't understand how people can flip that switch in thier head to turn on the people they sometimes have been with for many years. Like mothers who kill their own children! As angry as i have been at times in my life taking someone's life is just un heard of for me, unless of course it was in self defense. I think even then i would feel some kind of remorse.
I did learn along time ago though some folks just don't have the ability to feel remorse or shame or guilt for anything...

I hope she is found safe and sound too Wild...!

NotAnAverageGuy 12-19-2009 12:08 PM

I am ready to go back to bed lol

purepisces 12-19-2009 02:11 PM

I can't believe that I haven't gotten all my Christmas cards out yet! :antler:

Vlasta 12-19-2009 11:46 PM

food , food and food ..... I just ate not a long ago and I am still hungry .... going down stairs to fix me more food . :girleating::eating:

lillith 12-20-2009 12:36 AM

My sinuses are finally clearing up... yay!

Gemme 12-20-2009 01:22 AM

I.

HATE.

BEING.

SICK!!!!!!

*stomps foot*

Andrew, Jr. 12-20-2009 10:12 AM

Wild, and Lady Flamezzz,

I feel the pain of the children. It is just overwhelming. Something is wrong. I want her to be found alive and safe...but I have a sinking feeling about this.

I think about all the folks who are depressed and try to kill themselves during the holidays. I feel it all around me. Some are successful, and some are not. It just takes my breath away.

We all see the celebrities who are hurting, Elin Nordegren-Woods, Alexa Ray Joel who overdosed on a homeopathic aspirin called Traumeel, and the list goes on and on.

Then we have those intentionally hurt others to save face. Sad.

I hope and pray for peace.

MrSunshine 12-20-2009 10:22 AM

The whole Universe

Mitmo01 12-20-2009 10:42 AM

Fucked up management at my job that drives me insane

but on the positive side its giving me the momentum to move on down the road to new and better begginings elsewhere : )

Abigail Crabby 12-20-2009 11:26 AM

I'm hungry and craving B A C O N!!!

Can I get any volunteers to do a store run lol

NotAnAverageGuy 12-20-2009 02:02 PM

football, that's it

Kimbo 12-20-2009 03:59 PM

On my mind is my Mom--today is her 70th birthday. I wished I could be there with her to celebrate with her and to let her know that I love her.

Kimbo 12-20-2009 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 23574)
I.

HATE.

BEING.

SICK!!!!!!

*stomps foot*

ME TOO, damn it anyways!! These Seattle germs can just move on!!

Could I get you some tea?

WolfyOne 12-20-2009 04:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kimbo (Post 23718)
On my mind is my Mom--today is her 70th birthday. I wished I could be there with her to celebrate with her and to let her know that I love her.


One of my nieces turned 18 today. Sorry you can't physically be there to celebrate with your mom. I understand, my stepmom turned 75 this year and I wasn't there with her. I was, however, able to spend some wonderful time on the phone with her, reminiscing about the past.

hottprof 12-20-2009 11:09 PM

M&Ms

Reese's pieces

a tuna hoagie

sour cream and onion chips

orange gatorade

I am hungry


Smiles :frog:

WolfyOne 12-20-2009 11:16 PM

Stressed and depressed


WILDCAT 12-21-2009 04:48 AM

How far we've come, and then how far BACK it seems we are at times...

Andrew, Jr. 12-21-2009 07:11 AM

I am surprised at Brittany Murphy's death. She was 32 yo woman from a heart attack. How sad.

TIMBERWOLF 12-21-2009 08:10 AM

On my Mind....... Working 10-7 tonight. Those chocolate chip cookies WT made last night and a glass of milk...............Getting dress to go to the bank before going to work.OH Shit I have to put the pot roast on...............Bye

TIMBER

Surayna 12-21-2009 10:15 AM

The night before my birthday we spent the night in the ER with a dear friend of mine who has a brain tumor. We had to call an ambulance to take her in that night.

Last night, during the last 3 hours of my g/f's birthday, we once again had to call an ambulance and spend the night in the ER with the same friend.

I feel so horrible for her. The ER can treat her immediate symptoms, but no one can really do much of anything for her until they remove the tumor. The brain surgeon is booked for the next few months. It's so frustrating for everyone involved. I totally wish I had some super powers to take all this away from her.

hottprof 12-21-2009 11:12 AM

on my mind...

hoping for a good night at work with out whinning

I am really hungry for homemade chocolate chip cookies

wondering when I will get motivation to clean

wishing my body did not hurt so bad from shoveling and or wishing I had to do it more often then my muscles would not kill so much once a season...

Smiles :frog:


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