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ruthie14 10-26-2011 06:40 PM

I hear you about the lean Christmas folks. I work full time and part time and still don't make enough. Today we were told that there is a "problem" with the checks so we won't be getting paid on friday. meanwhile the new owner is mia in Texas... hmmmm Not looking too good. I am wanting to leave this job NOW! I've been very unhappy here for the last year and a half but this is getting rediculous. I just wish I had went to school for something other than early childhood ed. Now at 49, I am making less than some at the mall. REALLY? Going to try to go back to school and see if there is SOMETHING I am good at besides education. Meantime, I am exhausted from working my 2 jobs, dog sitting, babysitting, etc... just trying to make ends meet. The worst is watching my mother sell some of her jewelry, not getting her nails done anymore, etc. These were suppose to be her golden years. Now she may have to find a job...again... at 72. Makes me sad and I feel helpless. I know I'm not the only one, I am lucky to have any job at all..... but we are still not making it.

sigh.... I need :chocolate: and :wine:!


Rockinonahigh 10-26-2011 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 447535)
I hear you about the lean Christmas folks. I work full time and part time and still don't make enough. Today we were told that there is a "problem" with the checks so we won't be getting paid on friday. meanwhile the new owner is mia in Texas... hmmmm Not looking too good. I am wanting to leave this job NOW! I've been very unhappy here for the last year and a half but this is getting rediculous. I just wish I had went to school for something other than early childhood ed. Now at 49, I am making less than some at the mall. REALLY? Going to try to go back to school and see if there is SOMETHING I am good at besides education. Meantime, I am exhausted from working my 2 jobs, dog sitting, babysitting, etc... just trying to make ends meet. The worst is watching my mother sell some of her jewelry, not getting her nails done anymore, etc. These were suppose to be her golden years. Now she may have to find a job...again... at 72. Makes me sad and I feel helpless. I know I'm not the only one, I am lucky to have any job at all..... but we are still not making it.

sigh.... I need :chocolate: and :wine:!



Rithie,I went back to school at 52,yes it can be difficuly but very doabl,just make shure u pick something that you can go somewhere with.Dont beleave the school whant theysay thay can help u find a job cause mine did and did nada..check it out your self.

Rockinonahigh 10-26-2011 07:45 PM

Up comeing Hollidays
 
About ten years ago I thought the world would always be a big shining place to be in,then the bottom fell out,I wont go into the long story of it but it was one hell of a drop.Because of this situation me and my son ended up near homeless,We did manage to find a cheep place to live,but it was a dump in the first order.Just to make it from day to day was a struggle,either he had a job or I did,it took me going back to school to finaly get a decent job.while I was going back to school he found a job with an Rv dealership that he still has today.Hollidays back then were so hard that I just nearly stoped even acknoedgeing them..it was just one more day to get thrue.For a long time its just been him and me..we get something for each other I send out christmass cards.Its now been five years since we managed to get to where we are now,I still have holliday blues..he thinks they are over rated( he may be right)
But I put up a fue christmass things on the mantle,the tree is 2 ceramic trees my mom and my aunt Jo made...I like to sit in the dark and watch the lights blink and remember the times whan they were hear,I learned that the hollidays are what u make of them no mater how much $$$ u may have.

ruthie14 10-26-2011 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh (Post 447580)
Rithie,I went back to school at 52,yes it can be difficuly but very doabl,just make shure u pick something that you can go somewhere with.Dont beleave the school whant theysay thay can help u find a job cause mine did and did nada..check it out your self.

Ya... already been down that road with university of pheonex and the local county college. Not a job to be had. Half of my problem is finding something I can do that has a market... so far.... nothing... a big giant goose egg!

Rockinonahigh 10-26-2011 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 447624)
Ya... already been down that road with university of pheonex and the local county college. Not a job to be had. Half of my problem is finding something I can do that has a market... so far.... nothing... a big giant goose egg!


I hear ya,I spent two years getting a culinary degree,I did work as a chef for a long time BUT with the job market the way it is im back to slinging drinks.The colllege degree, I polish off now and then,not shure its worth the papaer its wrote on.

Wryly 10-26-2011 08:00 PM

good evening everyone!

on the train - homeward bound. a good shift at work today - a few things didn't go quite right but I'll chalk it up as a learning experience. a nice dinnertime convo with a co-worker. and a hilarious phone call with someone who has turned out to be a good friend. so nice to know someone has my back despite knowing all my faults! ;-)
dead tired but have a few things to do before I go to bed. same shift tomorrow - it is nice to get home early for a change.

clay 10-26-2011 08:04 PM

good evening all you gorgeous lofters! Hope everyone is having a great week. Weather here is still gorgeous...high 70's days and mid to high 60's nights...love, love, love it! Still wearing shorts and tees...my standard issue clothing...lol.....have a wonderful rest of the week..hugs to all...

Wryly 10-26-2011 08:12 PM

ruth and rocking -
I just read your posts (I'm surfing on my phone and your messages didn't appear until my last post went thru).
yeah - the last couple years have been tough. I am sorry to hear how it has been for you both. but I know they will get better eventually.
we just have to tough it out a little longer.

clay 10-26-2011 08:19 PM

hey Ruthie:
I hear you on the holidays...being lean..and all...this will be a truly lean one, for me..and this is the third year since my wife passed away..I don't even celebrate them....I still miss her...like it happened yesterday...BUT I know she wouldn't want me to grieve, but to forge ahead and enjoy life...still, it is so very hard. The ladies ,for the most part, seem to be so hardened, so jaded, and so broken, at this age that they are so afraid to love again...but I am ever positive and hopeful she does exist, and we will find one another when it is meant to be...meanwhile, I flirt, I play, and I believe....so....keep the faith..it isn't about what we can spend, it is about how we treat our fellow beings...peace on earth..peace in our heart..and love for one another..THAT is the spirit of the holidays...

rustedrims 10-28-2011 07:21 AM

Hello everyone..
 
Kinda a spooky story for Halloween..

First of the year i gutted my kitchen..Time for a new look..As i tore things up i was taking pictures on my progress and of course i took the "before" pic's..Well i got my very expensive throw away camera full so i took it into get the pictures developed..Couldnt wait to get to the car to look at them..As i was looking at them i noticed "Orbes" all over..Scared me and made me nervous to go home and not to mention when it got dark..I was afraid to close my eyes in the shower..I got myself real scared..Then i got to looking at them closer to try to find out when they started..It was when i tore the origional plaster off the ceilling..They literally fell out of the ceilling..They wernt there when i took the before pictures..One pic there were 12 of them floating around..Took a pic of my cat sitting on the ladder and there was one floating around her face..She didnt seem to be bothered by it..Then i got to thinking again that i kept loosing my pencil..I picked things up and put my stuff in piles out of the way and my pencil was right in there..The next day i get busy and needing my pencil hummmmm it is gone..I get a new one sharpen it and get busy and without looking for my lost pencil it showes up out of no where..Then i think why didnt i see it there..??..its because it wasnt there..Spooky Huh..Flashlights are the same way to..I buy the expensive ones to last forever..In about a month they are useless..I cannot keep a useable flashlight in this house..The batteries go dead in a matter of weeks..Maybe those "orbes" are sucking the power out of them..It is just spooky to me..

Anybody else on Spooky House stories..

s..

clay 10-28-2011 08:20 AM

Hi Kel:
THANK YOU so very much..for your kind, inspiring words. I believe the same way.....SHE is out here, and we are working our paths to one another...perhaps I just met her, and am yet to know she is THE ONE! My deceased wife will put us in the right place, at the right time.....
I can't agree more with you on the people who met IRL at the Reunion after meeting online, emails, texts, calls, etc. I know of a couple or three of them..and their love & happiness just shows in the many pics online!!! I am a believer of fairy tales...of fate...of destiny....
I appreciate your friendship and enjoy seeing your work. I can't wait to meet you & DJ at the next Reunion..if there is any way possible, I am planning on going!!!
Have an awesome weekend...hugs to you both...Clay

clay 10-28-2011 08:26 AM

WELCOME, Kelli!
 
Hey Kelli...welcome to the Loft. It is an incredible hangout for people here..and some amazing people pass through all the time. I just love having the "loft" where like minded folks meet up, pass by, leave coffee, juice, pastries, and such fabulous "pearls of wisdom". It is a safe place...a cool place, and love abounds here...so pull up a nice bean bag chair..have some coffee, maybe a danish, and enjoy!!!! Clay

morningstar55 10-28-2011 06:50 PM

hey ya lofters...... wow I sure seem to have a lot of reading's to catch up on.
hope everyone has a enjoyable and safe weekend.

alrighty who's going out to any halloween parties??
i know im NOT .. lol ....... but i do have some decorations on my truck
will have to catch up on the topics a bit later... ttfn
. :)

sharonsuburbia 10-28-2011 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 449333)
hey ya lofters...... wow I sure seem to have a lot of reading's to catch up on.
hope everyone has a enjoyable and safe weekend.

alrighty who's going out to any halloween parties??
i know im NOT .. lol ....... but i do have some decorations on my truck
will have to catch up on the topics a bit later... ttfn
. :)

same here - i have not been in here in ages:detective:

clay 10-28-2011 07:01 PM

Hey fellow Lofters:
Hope everyone is having a great Friday night. I am not going to any H'ween shindigs..lol..haven't done any H'ween fun stuff in years. I don't really celebrate it anyway. Have not lived where there are any kids in several years..sooo..and I sure don't need all the sugar!! smiles...
I do love the candy corn and the circus peanuts...yummy! And a great, old fashioned caramel apple with nuts...bom diggity!! Maybe I will do H'ween sushi..instead....
Have an awesome weekend..hugs to all..Clay

Rockinonahigh 10-28-2011 10:21 PM

Hello and happy holloween to u all,there are no less than 6 places I could go to party away the night aswell as staterday and sunday partys.I would have a ball but im not up to much paryting at the moment.Its not that im a party pooper just not feeling to well,I got some new meds today wich are really quirking me up with tenth degree drunkness,the doc said it would do this but after 5 hours and I was fine..then the little stinker hit,thank goodness I only will be takeing this stuff for 5 days...I hope I never take them again.:seeingstars::seeingstars:

Vlasta 10-29-2011 08:50 AM

Hello All,
I have been away for some time and just found thread where I feel would be good to start again.
My weekend will be quiet. No clubbing for Halloween. I stop doing that while ago. I used to be fanatic to decorate my house, not anymore either. I will hang a wreath on my door and just give out candy.

I hope everyone is having great weekend.:) It’s cold over here, but sunny.

Vlasta


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