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Miss Scarlett 08-10-2013 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 831737)
I'm maintaining. I keep sliding back and forth between the same 2-3 lbs and that's okay. I'd like it to slide on the downward side a little faster but the longer it takes, the longer it will stick.

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Originally Posted by Hollylane (Post 831748)
I'm up two pounds today, but I'm not discouraged. I have been doing all of the right things, and my body is feeling healthier, and that is the most important thing of all.

You ladies absolutely rock!

Daktari 08-10-2013 08:12 AM

Don't forget if you're building lean muscle mass then you could well remain the same weight or heavier.

Gemme 08-11-2013 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Daktari (Post 831878)
Don't forget if you're building lean muscle mass then you could well remain the same weight or heavier.

That's very true. Plus there are natural horomonal fluctuations to consider too. I have crazy fluctuations the week of, the week before and the week after so my only 'true' reading falls in the remaining week.

I'm not unhappy with my progress. Not all all. I am eating much healthier again, feeling better, and actually thinking about what I'm putting into my body and what the results will be from it (sluggish, tired, energized, stuffed, full enough, etc) now. My body is responding appropriately according to what I eat, what exercise I'm getting and my general in/output of calories.

I just wish it were as easy to come by as it was when I was getting to the point I was at before. *grin*

Joness 08-11-2013 01:29 PM

Food Matters
 
Was introduced to this eye opening documentary made in the US. Absolutely blew me away was shocked to see what a money maker illness and bad health is. Here is a link to a trailer of the movie:

http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/food-matters/

I did eat healthy anyways before watching this and exercise regular but after seeing this realised that I needed to up my intake of vitamins and minerals it reassured me the importance or steering clear of conventional medicines especially when they were not completely necessary.

Green Tea all the way :-) :tea:

girl_dee 08-11-2013 07:04 PM

No bread or bread products in over a week,,,,!!!

Andrea 09-01-2013 08:38 AM

Today I achieved a weight goal I have been working towards for at least a year. It has been slow and often disrupted by life, but I made it. Along the way, I have learned many healthy living things about food and exercise, and I will never go back to treating my body badly the way I once did.

Yippie for me!! Doing the Snoopy happy dance and wiping happy tears from my eyes.

Hmmmm..... Is this important enough to wake my honey to share? LOL

Tomorrow I will set my next weight/health goal. Happy, healthy living to you all.

Gemme 09-01-2013 10:09 AM

Congrats, Andrea!

I haven't met my goal but I'm close and within a reasonably accessible range of doing so. Thus far, I've dropped about 18 pounds. It doesn't sound like much, but on my 5 ft 1.5 inch frame, every ounce shows. I feel soooo much better too and find myself, 7 out of 10 times, reaching for a healthier option than I would have a few months ago. I've done it without depriving myself; a sure way for me to fail, so I'm stoked about that too.

All good things!

DapperButch 09-01-2013 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 840174)
Congrats, Andrea!

I haven't met my goal but I'm close and within a reasonably accessible range of doing so. Thus far, I've dropped about 18 pounds. It doesn't sound like much, but on my 5 ft 1.5 inch frame, every ounce shows. I feel soooo much better too and find myself, 7 out of 10 times, reaching for a healthier option than I would have a few months ago. I've done it without depriving myself; a sure way for me to fail, so I'm stoked about that too.

All good things!

Damn, girl, 18 lbs! I had no idea. You don't talk much on the exercise thread about what you are eating. You need to clue us in. I didn't even realize weight loss was a significant part of ahy you were working out. You lost that fast and all with hard work. Congrats!

Hollylane 09-01-2013 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 840174)
Congrats, Andrea!

I haven't met my goal but I'm close and within a reasonably accessible range of doing so. Thus far, I've dropped about 18 pounds. It doesn't sound like much, but on my 5 ft 1.5 inch frame, every ounce shows. I feel soooo much better too and find myself, 7 out of 10 times, reaching for a healthier option than I would have a few months ago. I've done it without depriving myself; a sure way for me to fail, so I'm stoked about that too.

All good things!

Goodness...You better believe that is a lot to lose, and to be proud of!

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedi...Gall-dindi.jpg

Congratulations, you have now lost more than the average weight of a turkey! That is awesome!


Gemme 09-01-2013 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 840176)
Damn, girl, 18 lbs! I had no idea. You don't talk much on the exercise thread about what you are eating. You need to clue us in. I didn't even realize weight loss was a significant part of ahy you were working out. You lost that fast and all with hard work. Congrats!

Thanks. It wasn't fast at all, though. It's taken me 3 months. After my last birthday, I started getting serious about my health again.

A store chain here, Stop 'n Shop, has some pretty nifty pre-made salads in their deli section. The ones that I usually get are the health salad, the broccoli salad and a Greek pasta salad. The last one's not necessarily 'healthy' eating with pasta and a heavier sauce so I don't get it as frequently as the other two. Mainly, it's the health salad I love and I haven't found it anywhere else and I don't find it at every Stop 'n Shop either, so when I find a store that sells it regularly, I stalk them.

The health salad contains small seeds, finely chopped nuts, broccoli, carrots, cauliflower, raisins, dried cranberries, diced red onion and a very light sauce. It's basically all I need on a daily basis....protein, veggies, fruit and something to make it stick.

Breakfast and lunch, on working days, are pretty routine. Breakfast is high fiber oatmeal with chopped pecans and walnuts and blueberries mixed in and it's cooked in fat free milk. I drink a small glass, maybe 4 oz of oj with it. Lunch is a frozen lunch. Either Smart Ones or Healthy Choice something or other, 300 calories or less. I have a couple of small sides with it...usually fresh fruit (grapes are my fave) and either a container of pear applesauce or mandarin oranges. What I have depends on my frozen entree. If it's acidic already, I chill on the oranges, for example.

Those are very structured meals and are easy for me. Dinner is the wildcard. I cook more than I go out. Luckily for me, I'm happy to eat something until it's gone, even if it's 2-3 nights in a row. For example, last night I had turkey bacon with a little Greek pasta salad and a big tossed salad. The night before, I cooked a thin steak and cut it up and made a steak pita with a whole wheat pita, pepperjack cheese and a smidge of steak sauce. Tonight, it'll be steak again (I do love my red meat) but I'll saute some mushrooms with it in a sauce and have a big salad. Basically, I try to hit the major food groups and I try to not go overboard on the fat and unnecessary stuff that I won't taste in the final product.

Some days, though, I want ice cream. I just choose the best ice cream that I can. I have a crazy intense sweet tooth and root beer barrel candies and Tootsie Pops seem to be enough to take care of that when it crops up.

I don't skip meals. I always eat breakfast. I try to drink as much water as I can in the morning and at work because I only want soda with dinner. I drink water after dinner as well. I'm active either with my workouts or doing manual labor at work during the day. I listen to my body more now. Before I stuffed my face until the emotional urge to eat was over. There are certain foods that I just enjoy the feeling of eating...it has nothing to do with nutrition or hunger at all. By that time, my stomach is too full and uncomfortable. I take longer to eat now, so my brain registers that I'm eating and I've had enough. When I do get cravings, I try to talk to myself to find out if it's a random, meaningless craving that maybe a commercial initiated or if it's something I really and truly want.

No one's perfect and I've still had more sweets and junk than I would care to eat but when I am driving home and I pass by Burger King (I used to work there many moons ago and still love the smell of the broiler in the air), the smell gets me once in a while but most of the time, it's now a fond memory versus a Pavlovian response.

Gemme 09-01-2013 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Hollylane (Post 840178)


Goodness...You better believe that is a lot to lose, and to be proud of!

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedi...Gall-dindi.jpg

Congratulations, you have now lost more than the average weight of a turkey! That is awesome!


Gobble, gobble!

:)

DapperButch 09-01-2013 10:54 AM

Hey, Gemme, thanks for the info on your eating. Sounds like you can really balance eating healthy and enjoyable.

Gemme 09-01-2013 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 840192)
Hey, Gemme, thanks for the info on your eating. Sounds like you can really balance eating healthy and enjoyable.

I try. I fully expect to gain a couple pounds back during the Reunion though. Being off routine, plus not having my usual staples handy, plus going out the whole weekend....it'll be alright though.

You hit the nail on the head. It's all about balance. Some days I wobble, some days I fall.

Elijah 09-02-2013 11:15 AM

So...
 
I'm back on track and off the sugar...also, have entered therapy in hopes of having sleeve surgery in 6 mos. One of the conditions my therapist set fourth in order to approve it was that I am to eat like I would post surgically for the next 6 mos.

I won't lie, it sounds daunting. So far, so good. I am down 4 pounds since Thursday, when I started.

It's really interesting what we (as Americans) think a normal portion is. This morning I was making an omelet w/ 2 turkey sausage links, 1 egg, mushrooms, red onion, spinach, and 1 slice of muenster cheese. After just these few days, when I looked at that portion, I had to cut it in half.

I consider that a small victory.

I hope everyone is well.

Elijah

Nic 09-02-2013 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Elijah (Post 840497)
I'm back on track and off the sugar...also, have entered therapy in hopes of having sleeve surgery in 6 mos. One of the conditions my therapist set fourth in order to approve it was that I am to eat like I would post surgically for the next 6 mos.

I won't lie, it sounds daunting. So far, so good. I am down 4 pounds since Thursday, when I started.

It's really interesting what we (as Americans) think a normal portion is. This morning I was making an omelet w/ 2 turkey sausage links, 1 egg, mushrooms, red onion, spinach, and 1 slice of muenster cheese. After just these few days, when I looked at that portion, I had to cut it in half.

I consider that a small victory.

I hope everyone is well.

Elijah

Congrats on your victory Elijah! Hope you reach the goals you determine for yourself.

Hard road, going off sugar. Can be addicting stuff. The woman I'm dating quit using (her term for it) sugar last December. She talks about learning to understand portion sizes also. Apparently she hadn't thought about it until she saw her roommate eating a box of Mac and Cheese and a pint of ice cream for dinner every day. Don't know if it's the key for everyone but she's lost 60 lbs with modest exercise, no sugar and portion control in 9 months. No gimmicks. I dropped 35 lbs about 6 years ago and another 10 last year and portion control is the only reason I had success keeping it off. Don't think I have the discipline for no sugar but if I wanted to lose more, I'd try it.

Glad you're happy with your changes.

Zimmeh 09-25-2013 06:42 AM

After losing my job in July, I went on a binge eating fest. So I have probably gained a few unwanted pounds as a result. Now that I have a job that requires you to be on your feet and is fast paced, I am hoping to loose the weight. I have also been playing the Wii Sports and Just Dance 3. The company that I work for at the airport, gives us a $6.50 credit towards lunch everyday. I have been using it to purchase salads from Chik-Fil-A; our only healthy place to eat. When I work on Sunday and Chik-Fil-A is closed, I got to Quiznos and get a flatbread sandwich with Chicken and Pesto on it. I find it is very hard when I get home from work and I want to *veg* out on the couch and eat every damn sweet in my house. I bought some fresh fruit instead of candy, but the week before *mothernature* hits, I crave sweets! It was so much easier six and a half years ago to lose my original weight of 60lbs.

I am looking forward to losing fifteen pounds! I am signed up with WebMD.com to log my food on a daily basis and I have not done that in awhile. Come Sunday, I am going to start logging my food again and hoping this crazy funk that I have been in goes away!



Zimmeh

girl_dee 10-20-2013 05:41 AM

Good for you Zimmeh!


SInce the Reunion i have been struggling... i crae bread and sugar like nobody's business

i feel so fluidy and swoooshy...

Also since i bought my house i don't walk my dog around anymore..

i am gonna start walking for lunch, the heat is finally going down

Miss Scarlett 10-20-2013 07:51 AM

Gosh, it's been a while since I've posted in here.

Where to start...the problem with not being able to eat is history. It took some doing but I was able to gain nearly 7 lbs.

That sounds odd but my WL doctor explained it was necessary because I was malnourished and my electrolytes were approaching dangerous levels. No more drinking that nasty Pediasure and (equally nasty) Pedialyte every day. No more being "threatened" with another treatment which would have been extremely unpleasant, not to mention socially awkward.

The super short explanation for my not eating - extreme stress.

Every day I thank G-d for the people who never gave up on me.

My WL doctor; so sweet, wise and gentle. A very patient and understanding man but tenacious as all get out! LOL

My friends who cared enough to intervene. Without them life would have been completely unbearable but they kept me afloat in those stormy seas. I am forever grateful to them.

And then there's my Beau. Whose strength, understanding and loving, unconditional support, even during my darkest hours, was simply amazing. He witnessed me at my absolute worst and yet stayed by my side. Not out of some need he had to rescue me but because, as he put it, "You're a wonderful woman who I want in my life. I want to grow old with you."

Now that everything is back on track it's time to start moving forward with my weight loss, though at a much slower pace. This is frustrating (those 7 lbs really bug me) but the healthy way to go and I need to keep that in mind.


Miss Scarlett 10-20-2013 07:58 AM

Sugar is so darn addictive! Did anyone see the story in the news the other day about Oreos being more addictive than cocaine?

girl_dee 10-20-2013 07:16 PM

Yes i read that on AOL... i am not surprised and it's why i don't keep them or stuff like that in the house.

Zimmeh 10-21-2013 01:19 PM

I had two pieces of German Dark Wheat press with lite peanut butter on them for breakfast.

Late lunch: Grilled chicken sandwich with only pickles.

Dinner: Depends on what time I get off from work.

I power walked up a flight of escalators today.

Zimmeh

*Anya* 12-19-2013 08:28 AM

Time to bump this thread!
 
I thought that since many of us lose our way in terms of sticking to healthy eating over the holidays; it might be a good time to resurrect this thread.

My way has been lost. Not permanently, however.

My daughter was over our house last weekend, with my oldest daughter and I was bemoaning the weight I have gained since I have been with D.

My youngest daughter called them "happy pounds".

Uh, no.

I am personally very happy with my love, my job, my life: but not the pounds I have picked up.

I am working on portion control again, very seriously. That is always my first step.

I am back to at weight management as a critical part of my health.

Healthy Weight Loss has always been a great thread and a big help for me.

How are you doing?

Andrea 12-19-2013 08:59 AM

Thank you, Anya, for bumping this thread. I too have put pounds back on and need to refocus.

I have been traveling this week and find it hard to worry about what I am eating and how much I am eating, especially when I have to consider others and their wishes.

As a side note, I did sign up to walk a 5K in March so I will begin my training in January. I have always wanted to do a marathon so this is a good start.

Orema 08-02-2014 02:51 PM

Ten good foods to eat while dieting.

D Phryxus 08-28-2014 06:57 PM

A new determination.

I have decided that I need to buckle down and release this weight. I try not to say l-o-s-e weight because I believe words have power and I don't want my subconscious going "Lost? We lost something? Ok I'll fix that and add more."

I am at the heaviest I have ever been after years of yo-yo-ing between 120 and 140. I am now 180,nearly 190 and feeling it. Most of this was put on during a very stressful time in my life. Now that I have a better outlook, I want to feel better too.

According to the BMI chart I should be around 100lbs (i'm 5 ft tall). So i'm trying to think of accessible goals and ways of achieving them.

My biggest thing is doing exercises that I actually will want to do at home. I love dancing, particularly belly dancing, so I'm looking for video instructionals I can do at home. I also used to do kung fu and ken-do. I'd be willing to do other types of work outs as well but my biggest thing is something that will keep me from being frustrated and bored.
Does anyone have any suggestions for dvd's that I might be able to get my hands on?

Daktari 08-29-2014 05:15 AM

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Originally Posted by D Phryxus (Post 931707)
A new determination.

I have decided that I need to buckle down and release this weight. I try not to say l-o-s-e weight because I believe words have power and I don't want my subconscious going "Lost? We lost something? Ok I'll fix that and add more."

I am at the heaviest I have ever been after years of yo-yo-ing between 120 and 140. I am now 180,nearly 190 and feeling it. Most of this was put on during a very stressful time in my life. Now that I have a better outlook, I want to feel better too.

According to the BMI chart I should be around 100lbs (i'm 5 ft tall). So i'm trying to think of accessible goals and ways of achieving them.

My biggest thing is doing exercises that I actually will want to do at home. I love dancing, particularly belly dancing, so I'm looking for video instructionals I can do at home. I also used to do kung fu and ken-do. I'd be willing to do other types of work outs as well but my biggest thing is something that will keep me from being frustrated and bored.
Does anyone have any suggestions for dvd's that I might be able to get my hands on?

For something a bit more low impact but high results [...in my experience and when the requisite disciplined effort is put in of course] Darcy Bussell's Pilates for Life dvd is one to look out for.

Walking. Walk, walk and keep on walking...try putting Eckhart Tolle Power of Now and/or New Earth on you phone/ipod to keep the walk interesting.

Start small work up.

Medusa 09-09-2016 04:10 PM

Maybe time to resurrect this thread?!

Between getting back on the wagon with my meal plan and being sick last week I lost 8 pounds in 7 days.

I had lost 151 pounds on my own over the last couple of years but had gained 20 pounds back over the last 5 months. Decided to button down last week and get back to what I know is good for me and the 8 pounds is feeling REALLY good off of my knees!

Going back to a 99% meatless diet and back to my Fitbit steps!

anyone else back on the wagon?

Gemme 09-09-2016 05:04 PM

That's phenomenal progress, Medusa. The past two and a half months I've been working to bring down the number on the scale and, more recently, to keep an eye on my sugar intake. It's been slow-going but I'm down a little over 11 lbs. Hopefully, the slower it goes, the more likely it will stay off.

legally_b10nde 12-10-2016 09:50 AM

I drink green tea 2-3 times a day

Medusa 12-10-2016 02:29 PM

I'm hanging in there with my weight but would really love to lose about 30 pounds! Anyone on Fitbit regularly and up for step challenges?

Zimmeh 12-11-2016 07:48 AM

My goal is 40lbs next year. One of my coworkers is willing to help me with meal planning and finding exercises that I can do. My knees are letting me know it's time to lose the weight again. I use the LoseIt App and it's easy to use!

I have been doing meal planning and this helps!

Good luck to all of us!

Zimmeh

girl_dee 03-12-2017 12:14 PM

I have gone off the deep end.

Since I moved here in January my entire regular diet is gone off the deep end.

Why am I suddenly eating junk that I never ate in my life!

girl_dee 04-14-2017 03:45 AM

Back on track!
 
one month later, junk free, just about sugar free.

i feel so much better, but definitely gained some weight during my 2 months home, and not giving a care about my well being.



Gayandgray 04-22-2017 10:29 AM

I've been trying to cut. Ack on junk food and eat more fruit, peanuts, hard boiled eggs, Greek yogurt instead. And I'm watching my portion sizes. Hey it's better than nothing & im losing slow and steady.

cinnamongrrl 04-22-2017 10:57 AM

I finally realized if I just give up the things I love and crave it sets me up to fail...

Instead, I have found healthy replacements for the foods I know I can't live without.

For example:

Ice cream. I started making my own version in my food processor. It starts with 3 frozen bananas and I add to it to make whatever flavor I want.

For a salty snack, I got a whirly gig type popcorn popper. I use coconut oil in a minimal amount and use good sea salt. Im also going to add nutritional yeast on occasion for that yummy cheesy flavor.

I've started reading labels and cutting back on sugar. But if I do eat something really "bad" I just have less of it.

Now I don't feel deprived nor do I feel heaped with guilt when I do partake.

Still no replacement for beer though. I've read that wine is better so maybe back to that. I only get to drink on my,nights off any how. ...

girl_dee 04-22-2017 11:39 AM

ok i figured i probably gained about 15 -20 pounds over the months before my coming to life.

i am bread free AND junk food free 3 weeks now...

i feel better. thats all i care about i think

i am feast or famine....

Gayandgray 04-26-2017 09:14 AM

I concocted my own sweet snack to eat instead of cake, pie, etc. I use natural peanut butter (crunchy), 2 bananas, a dollop of plain Greek yogurt, and I crumble up one of those KIND pressed fruit bars (the coconut pineapple one), mix it all up in a bowl or I could use the food processor I guess? It's good and satisfies my sweet tooth. Not sure how fattening it is? But hey, it's gotta be better than eating other stuff I can think of!

*Anya* 04-26-2017 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Gayandgray (Post 1140427)
I concocted my own sweet snack to eat instead of cake, pie, etc. I use natural peanut butter (crunchy), 2 bananas, a dollop of plain Greek yogurt, and I crumble up one of those KIND pressed fruit bars (the coconut pineapple one), mix it all up in a bowl or I could use the food processor I guess? It's good and satisfies my sweet tooth. Not sure how fattening it is? But hey, it's gotta be better than eating other stuff I can think of!

It depends on what you are going for: reduced total calories, decreased sugar or low carbs.

Your snack does sound yummy.

I found a good site that has most foods. I just put in the name, get what I am looking for (usually the total sugar and the carbs) and then add it up.

I know there are lots of good sites people use.

http://www.fooducate.com

Gayandgray 07-12-2017 05:56 PM

BUMP! BUMP!

girl_dee 07-13-2017 03:57 AM

hi!

i am on a Keto plan right now, i am not losing i don't think but i feel 100% better!


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