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bkisbutchenuff 10-21-2012 07:42 AM

Not to whine...but for the first time in my career...I would do anything to not have face Dante's Inferno ... just saying....

spritzerJ 10-21-2012 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by bkisbutchenuff (Post 680483)
Not to whine...but for the first time in my career...I would do anything to not have face Dante's Inferno ... just saying....

Congratulations on making it this far! Sometimes there really is no rhyme or reason to how and when we get those "years" professionally. You know the shake your head and wonder just how fucked up can it really get and are there any competent administrators out there feeling.... :seeingstars:

I hope you survive BK. It would be a great sadness and loss if you didn't.

Chancie 10-21-2012 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Chancie (Post 671257)
I like talking to parents and I welcome their input if there's something they think I should know about their child. In one way, I am very lucky because I have really fun toys for interesting classes, but it does make for huge cleanup. Once in a while there are parents who pretend they can't see the other ten people in the room. We are supposed to have a sign up sheet for them to ask a counselor to call them and make an appointment for a longer meeting. I like Open House though.

Open House went pretty well. I teach in a small rural community, and it's a very social event. The kids who are active in clubs like FFA wear their jackets and the kids in Culinary make cookies. It's very sweet.

Tons of kids in electronics and robotics dragged in their families to show off their work and to meet me. There was one group of families of ninth graders who expected a presentation, which I had not prepared. Mostly I chatted with parents.

One mother of a ninth grader, anxious to skip the non existent presentation, merely introduced herself. Her family lives across the road from Pete's mother, so I said, Hi, I am across the road neighbor's daughter's partner, and she was a little flummoxed, and I regret identifying myself beyond, Hi, nice to meet you.

Martina 10-21-2012 01:01 PM

I moved for this job. The job is working out so far. Except for a higher proportion of loopy parents, I am enjoying the lower stress environment. I still work closely with students, but. . . aieee. It's hard to explain without kind of saying what I do. But I no longer have classroom management issues. I work with students one on one or in very small groups. Although one day I was teaching math to two students who kept interrupting me and thought OMG I have totally lost my skillz in just a couple of months. I can't even teach two students together. Not true. But lol.

Anyway, all I do now is encourage and motivate. I rarely have to kick butt. One neighboring teacher had a kid using the f-bomb one day and I couldn't resist and nearly threw him out. It turned out someone had stolen his bike AND his dog had just died. That's why the teacher was letting it go. Plus the kid was ED. I didn't know. I completely silenced the poor kid. I felt bad after the teacher explained. Anyway . . .

I moved. That's my point. And I am not reaching out and meeting people. Weight gain and arthritis make me not want to. Hell, I don't even hang with my nice roommates so much. Back home, I would probably also be isolating, but not this much.

ANd it's begun to be a problem. The job is great -- as jobs in education go -- but it's not my life. That's one reason I got the job, so I would have energy at the end of the day. But I am not overwhelmed by the beauty of the area I am in. (I sacrificed that.) And I am not near the friends I hang out with no matter how creaky and grumpy I am. So I have to take action. On my health and I just have to start making time for others.

It's not going to be fun. I am way past being able to walk for exercise. So I have to swim. Anyway, there are lots of "have to's" and I am kind of daunted. But I can't be a good teacher or a good anything if I am in pain and isolated. And I am letting that happen.

lusciouskiwi 10-21-2012 06:53 PM

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bkisbutchenuff 10-22-2012 03:48 AM

Like it or not...here I go....

Hope everyone has a great week!

lusciouskiwi 10-22-2012 04:02 AM

It sucks that you're having such a hard time at school BK. But, you know you're good at what you do and the kids who want to learn from you do. Administrators can't take away the positive impact you have as a teacher.

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spritzerJ 10-22-2012 04:17 AM

Oh it is true. Every time I'm slightly tortured by being across the hall from the music teacher or listening to early morning before school band I understand.... you folks are saints.

bkisbutchenuff 10-26-2012 04:20 AM

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Have a great day and wonderful weekend! Well earned!

cinnamongrrl 10-26-2012 04:40 AM

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Originally Posted by bkisbutchenuff (Post 680483)
Not to whine...but for the first time in my career...I would do anything to not have face Dante's Inferno ... just saying....

i think i recall not loving that book....The Decameron.... now that was a good book.....

bkisbutchenuff 10-26-2012 05:47 AM

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Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl563 (Post 684301)
i think i recall not loving that book....The Decameron.... now that was a good book.....

Unfortunately - its not a book...... :|

cinnamongrrl 10-26-2012 06:31 AM

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Unfortunately - its not a book...... :|

then what is it exactly...hmmmmm?

spritzerJ 10-26-2012 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl563 (Post 684358)
then what is it exactly...hmmmmm?

Yes unfortunately it refers to current working conditions in BK's school. :candle:

bkisbutchenuff 10-30-2012 03:09 AM

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cinnamongrrl 10-30-2012 04:03 AM

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Originally Posted by spritzerJ (Post 684425)
Yes unfortunately it refers to current working conditions in BK's school. :candle:

lol sometimes I am just too literal.... :P

sis 10-30-2012 05:23 AM

Actually, I'm glad its on a Wednesday but only because I'm teaching in Vietnam!! lolol It makes a nice break in the middle of the week. I teach the six and under crowd and they are quite excited about it. Hope you all have some fun while out and about haunting your neighbourhoods!

lusciouskiwi 10-31-2012 04:45 AM

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Soon 10-31-2012 04:47 AM

Heya fellow teachers!

Venting Warning Ahead:

I've got way too much to do before midterm reports are due next week! I have far too much marking, and then entering marks, and then typing in the comments! (btw, what program do people use for marks/grades--we have this one called Markbook)

It's cold and rainy and I am a real suck right now. I just don't feel like being ON and talking to anyone. Sigh.

In other news, I posted a pic in the galleries of me outside my classroom. :)

Chancie 11-01-2012 02:45 PM

School was closed Monday, and then I was out sick for two days. I still felt crappy this morning but I couldn't bear leaving the kids with a sub again, so I went in. I felt so punky by the end of the day, I almost cried, and I lost my temper with a wounded kid with limited social and emotional skills. I apologized to my class, and they were like, God, that's nothing, Miss Chancie, but I felt terrible, inside and out. I know it's just because I'm sick but I feel like I can't catch up, like I'll never finish grading, that I won't have time to call the parents of kids who aren't doing well. I still haven't ordered any of the supplies I need for my two hands on classes and I've been laying out my own money all year and I haven't filled out the form to get reimbursed. Ugh, I feel awful.

Martina 11-01-2012 03:51 PM

((((( Chancie )))))) I hope you feel better soon.

It must be in the air. I am in IEP hell.


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