I'd have to go with not always getting music legally, and I know sometimes people have some strong opinions on that. I can't really think of a good reason for doing it, although a lot of times I look for songs I can't find in the usual places.

I'd LOVE to play :) And I LOVE a good dare!! :sunglass:

I would like another truth, please!

Crikey! Ummmmm I can't answer! Maybe, /hate/ to sound cliche, but eyes? My first butch gf has gray eyes, I used to think they looked like soft velvet. Unless she was angry. And voice. If your voice doesn't crab me on the phone then probably not much else is going to grab me ;)

late bloomer
 

Why is 21 a late bloomer? Plenty of us were older than that (then made up for lost time)

truth for ferret and APG
 

Ferret: Have you ever told a fib to a grrly and what was it?

APG: Have you ever farted while making love? Did you try and cover it up?

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ok Ms. Novela..here ya go...write out a tastefully discreet fantasy on how you like for your wife to waken you in the mornings.....post it on the Sexiest Ways To Waken Your Lover From Slumber thread...I DARE you...grinz...
PS This is all in good, clean fun...mean no disrespect to either of you...:)

No offense was taken...

honestly i think this is when I was married...i loved him (was not in love) or however i don't think he even knew my name lol...no he did he just didn't know how to love or show it or anything like that, by now he loves his kids and his grand daughters and that is evident...He helped give me 3 great kids..

I'll take a truth from someone, please :)

I am originally from New York City but moved with my family to Ohio when I was a baby. I grew up there and left for New York when I was in my early twenties. Now I'm almost 40, and I'm completely identified with being a New Yorker. Perhaps it's ironic but I feel safest in an urban setting. I love the diversity, and it's a great place to be queer!

Oh, gosh. I've fibbed, but I can't think of anything that sticks out to me - like a big whopper or anything. Maybe something along the lines of telling someone she was pretty when she really wasn't my type at all. I hate hurting someone's feelings, although not being truthful about that sort of thing is probably more hurtful in the end.

Kiwi,

I guess my first experience with anyone at 21 sort of made me feel like I was behind everybody else, if that makes sense. It didn't help any that I was at an all female college, with all sorts of pretty girls around, yet pretty much living like a nun. Not by choice, mind you. That make sense?

Sue

Fun thread! I'll take a truth, please!

What's your favorite book and why?

OMG, I am laughing out loud at THIS one!

Umm, yeah, I have. And although I *WISH* I could have covered it up, she was a bit too close, so to speak, for her not to know exactly what that was! I was absolutely mortified, of course, but we ended up laughing about it all.

This whole farting thing is huge for me anyway. I remember asking my grown kids several years ago for them to relate a story that they remembered from when they were growing up. Without discussing it in front of me, they all just looked at each other before one blurted out "You NEVER farted when we were growing up!" LOL And that was true! Different from their dad (who delighted in farting all the time, to their great delight when they were little), I could never do that in front of anyone. I mean, that is what bathrooms are for, right??? LOL

APG, clearly embarrassed now

Wow, just one??

Judging from the number of underlined passages and notes I've scribbled in the margins, I'd have to say Boys of My Youth by Jo Ann Beard. I get engrossed in her life stories, but she's such a finely crafted writer that I'm just as fascinated by how she's telling them. It's like being caught up and amazed by some spectacular magic trick, while simultaneously getting to see (and be just as amazed) by how it's done.

On the fiction side, I'd have to say the Complete Collection of Carson McCullers for much the same reason--I like appreciating the craft as much as the plot.

Oooooo, FUN!!

OK, I will work on it tonight. ;)