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Those who go on and on about their ex....

i don't want to see her bathroom routine and i'm glad not to share mine, unless it's bathing/showering together

I don’t mind flossing and oral hygiene, provided it’s not done at the dinner table, but I’m instantly turned off by bathroom humor.

Instant Turn-Offs...
 

People that suck their teeth or pick their teeth with a toothpick, napkin or something else while having dinner at a restaurant or while walking out of a restaurant... :blink:

I don't care how often you floss ( brushing is nice ) but I do want you to be able to name 5 European countries ( at a minimum ).

Gays who support or vote for Trump...and I don't give a flying "f" what the rationale is.

Judgemental people

People who assume without asking questions first

People who judge a book by it's cover

Bigots
LIARS, worst of all
People who claim to support a cause without fully understanding what it's
all about.
Blind Faith in any human endeavor(politics, history, economics, religion, etc.)

condescending..cruelty, for no good reason..natural grace turns me on

Instant turn-offs
 

Bullying, control freaks, liars, wilfulness

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you just described TRUMP !

Trump the bully
 

chuckling... I watch too much news (lol)

However, I have interacted with others who are like that..., and discovered that because of the criteria to do meditation as I do, they can't do it :)

There is always a price/consequence resulting from the choices that people make... Then again, if they had intelligence/goodness in them, they wouldn't make those "choices", and they would see the difference between choice and right/correct action. It is relatively easy now for me to discern those kinds of people.

Is there an instant turn ons thread?


I find ,that I would rather just think,"not my type"

As I'm pretty odd and tend to annoy people,"not in a I'm a jerk way"just I tend to think outside the box a lot :)

Yes there is a turn on thread but im not quite sure where its hidden on the board!

Turn-offs
 

Being invited to a home that is filthy and gross.
Cheaters
Liers
Druggies
Thieves

Cheaters
Liars
Players you know the more than one woman deal
Wimp ass folks who couldnt bust a grape in a fruit fight

these are all really good ones.. I could add these to the long list

over-dramatic
doesn't take accountability
twists your words
makes everything your fault
they are too stubborn to talk about problems
cannot compromise
always makes it about them
and always wants it their way
or does not care about your milestones or pivotal moments of life
has double standards
then if they hide things...like stupid little things about themselves and blow it off like it was none of your business... ya have to think ...hmm if they lied about that.. what else they lyin' bout?

but i think most importantly on having all these traits.. they still believe they are nice people.

(these are the short list of traits I have experienced over the years of dating...)