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Tuff Stuff 09-11-2015 01:13 AM

My woman is so contented taking care of our home and pets and talking all day on the phone with her family that I asked her to knit me a sweater :knitgirl:..she slapped me.

I don't want to make her mad...she wears high heels..sharp ones.

:darthsmiley:

Venus007 09-12-2015 09:09 AM

Sitting on the porch with my honey lamb not really talking just being and watching the world move by

Gayandgray 04-16-2017 11:29 AM

Knowing the universe has my back and I can relax and just take one day at a time.:praying:

Gemme 04-16-2017 02:29 PM

He does.

<3

puddin' 04-21-2017 06:04 PM

warm weather (it's cold here in nz), good tucker (aka:
food) and friends. this all makes me peaceful as...

gotoseagrl 04-21-2017 06:33 PM

Simple Silence
 
Moments of silence. I'm an introvert. Everyday there comes a point that I've listened to enough music, talked/texted enough with whomever, strained my eyes enough on work and had enough of life noise. Turning away from everything and just sitting there or leisurely writing or doodling with pencil and paper is incredibly peaceful and grounding.

RebelDyke 10-28-2019 06:35 PM

the peck of freezing rain we had here earlier. It brought my focus off my school work for a minute..which gave me a much needed break. I often forget to take those breaks.

It's nice someone has mah back

JDeere 10-28-2019 07:19 PM

Sleep is the only thing that gives me peace, when I do get sleep.

Doesn't happen often due to my phone always ringing with creditors, etc. I can't turn it off due to family emergency stuff.

kittygrrl 01-03-2020 02:24 PM

Being w friends who care about you.who love you for who you are :candle:

Tuff Stuff 01-12-2020 03:17 PM

Sleep Little Baby
 
A 2 liter bottle of Pepsi and a 16oz jar of planters dry roasted peanuts. :beerfunnel:

And a 4 week old fat baby kitten that's grey with fuzzy fur and one white paw.

At this moment she's bringing me peace.

She's napping of course..(the kitty too)

FireSignFemme 01-12-2020 05:51 PM

Waking up early enough to finish brewing a pot of coffee before the sun starts to rise. Opening up the blinds and then standing in my living room in a place where I can see out all three windows and watch the the world down below/all around me come to life as I sip my coffee savoring each drop.

Hearing from my oldest every year before he heads out to celebrate on New Year's Eve. Again when he gets to where he's headed. Again after midnight, and then again on New Year's Day after he's made it home safely. My son has done this every year but one since the age of 18 and he's now in his mid 30's. And the one year he forgot, this year, he still called me before he left, when he got there and before noon the next day. Major dependable, reliable, responsible he is and that gives me such a feeling of peace.

Keeping a little put aside for a rainy day. My sons laugh and give me grief about it but even though they think I'm being paranoid, if they see a really good price on something, some necessity they'll alert me to the sale or occasionally pick something up for me. It gives me a real sense of peace, feeling of safety and comfort to look in my closets, cabinets, pantry whatever and see multiples of things I use on a regular, best of all every day basis.

Kätzchen 01-12-2020 07:20 PM

Best feeling in the world...
 
People who honor and respect your boundaries and treat you with courtesy, kindness and who demonstrate good will. This is essential to a peaceful coexistence in life and provides the best feeling in the world.

Bèsame* 01-12-2020 07:53 PM


tonight, I'm finding peace, all comfy on my couch. Wrapped in a aqua and pink floral fleece throw......Football is on..... Ahhh, Sunday night peace.


kittygrrl 01-15-2020 08:25 AM

the ignore button

:tea:

CherryWine 01-15-2020 10:49 AM

Seeing as I have a tendency to overthink...a lot...this can be a bit challenging at times. But, what brings me peace is really just trying to focus on the moment at hand and accept everything as it is at this moment in time. This really allows me to open my heart up to gratitude, and sometimes that feeling can be so overwhelming that it feels like my heart may burst! In a very good way, of course.

Music and Mother Nature are the two main catalysts that help me get to that place.

:wateringgarden:

JustLovelyJenn 01-15-2020 11:43 AM

The support of my partners and hearing someone tell me I did the right thing, no matter how hard it was and that I am a good mother.

cathexis 01-15-2020 08:37 PM

Doing somersaults in clear, quiet, cool water
Our two cats, Che and Calliope
Watching a swiftly moving river or creek
Endorphins

kittygrrl 01-25-2020 02:47 PM


crackling fire
favorite plaid blanket
fuzzy socks
cocoa
moody blues

Buckaroo 01-25-2020 07:09 PM

i come home and take a long hot shower and then cuddle with my pups. They always make me smile.

RebelDyke 01-26-2020 07:12 AM

Silence. So i can be alone with my thoughts

Sometimes. Music. And sometimes entertaining my dog. He thinks i am highlarious

kittygrrl 01-27-2020 02:41 AM

someone who loves cozy as much as i do..holding hands..kissing..sharing a quiet evening at home

cathexis 01-27-2020 09:02 AM

A Walk Through a Pine Forest After an Ice Storm Alone.:moonstars:

homoe 01-28-2020 04:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kittygrrl (Post 1261035)
someone who loves cozy as much as i do..holding hands..kissing..sharing a quiet evening at home



A lot of these similar traits can be found in those born under cancer, just saying..

RockOn 01-28-2020 07:59 PM

Being with Kevin, Jennifer and Jeffrey brings me peace.

Ginger 01-29-2020 09:11 AM

Exhaustion from good hard work or exercise gives me peace.

SnackTime 02-05-2020 08:40 PM

Long walk on the beach and feeling the ocean breeze

kittygrrl 02-06-2020 06:40 PM

her arms around me

~ocean 02-07-2020 08:16 AM

Life isn't always the way we need or want it to be. I find a state of bliss daily .Many times it involves family around me or just my animals ~ usually both at the same time. Instilled scents w/ an image . sounds from music, to children in a playground laughing, to a hammer w/ a lawnmower in the back round: I can see the music or not knowing who is swinging that hammer ~ u feel the progress of a beautiful day w/ scented air of cut grass and honeysuckle : full of picturesque nature. Ocean breeze with a salty taste , peace ~ erases :)

kittygrrl 02-07-2020 09:26 PM

watching the woodpeckers from my window..they seem so happy pecking at the suet hanging from the feeder..i think i would love being a bird in my next life

https://celebrateurbanbirds.org/wp-c...odpecker-1.jpg

CherylNYC 02-07-2020 09:54 PM

Beautiful music.

Orema 02-08-2020 07:14 AM

Detaching ... learned to use this as a coping skill early in life and it’s one of my go-to places for peace of mind.

RebelDyke 02-08-2020 12:56 PM

night-time driving.. with a clear sky, and maybe a full moon... or no moon at all.. in the middle of nowhere.....

just because the stars... are AMAZING!!!! :cigar2::moonstars::cigar2:

RebelDyke 02-23-2020 06:01 PM

the idea that spring is on its way

listening to the rainstorm and thunder.... but still not liking the cold part of it

having a drink on a Friday night with good friends/pleasant company

Kenna 02-23-2020 08:57 PM

Quiet...
Solitude....
Curling up with my old furbaby by my side...

Tuff Stuff 05-17-2021 08:44 PM

Peace
 
These days it's being home and sleeping in my own bed with the tv on and being with those I care about. It's better than visiting your hometown and nearly getting shot by gang members or going camping and almost becoming a 411 case..both,that recently happen to me.

:wtf::pointing:

Gemme 05-20-2021 09:44 AM

Lately, nothing. Things are more unsettled for me now than during the shut down.

Kätzchen 06-15-2023 12:07 PM

I feel peaceful …
 
When my Sweetie surrounds me in his arms: I feel safe, loved and protected by his love for me, when I am nestled in his loving presence. To feel him stroking my hair while his hand is wrapped around my waist as I breathe with him, our exchange of affection (privately or in public or among our friends, brings peace to us both. ✨✨✨✨❤️✨✨✨✨


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