When She swells with the attitude of, "I am the Head of the Household and don't dare threaten them." Her energy swells to take over the entire room. Everyone can tell who is in charge

Her fearlessness including an uncanny ability to go toe to toe with thugs threatening Her family (pets included), friends, and anyone She cares about.

Her whole Alpha leader package.

Oh, yeah...going into the bedroom to get something and just happening to notice the box of gloves and bottle of lube on the bedside table knowing Her plans for later. twitch...twitch...twitch

A hair tug from out of nowhere

From.the right person "hello" works.... :awww:

reaching for my hand while driving...

Mel Gibson? :p

Wit ... not simply a sense of humor ... but a smart and quick wit ... very sexy.

CLOSE !........... :huhlaugh:

I love femmes, but not the kind who are too foo-foo and always pretend to be weak little damsels in distress.
I like brainiacs with pretty faces they have yet to fully discover.
I like femmes who come after me and catch me, but then they say, "Okay, your turn."
I like sad eyes combined with beautiful smiles.
But perhaps most all, I like a woman who seems refined, articulate, and reserved at first, but then out of the blue she will start cussing, and her favorite word is fuck, whether it's used as a verb, noun, adjective, adverb or nickname. If she springs it on me when I least expect it, and uses it in the, "Hey you, come over here and fuck me silly tonight" sense, well, it makes me very cooperative, fast moving, thorough and downright chipper.

Instant...
 

What makes this femme weak...

Wearing a good suit.
Confidence and a little swagger.
Eye contact.
Kissing my neck.
Boxer briefs.
A sharp mind.
A loose tongue.
A muscular back.
Kindness to children (a butch is never so strong as when they stoop to pick up a child...)
The unexpected discovery that someone is packing.

a butch that is ~ charismatic , cocky , confident , courteous in that order :)

can read me

A woman who can unabashedly laugh at herself.

OMG a fresh haircut and that clean, sharp line across the back of her neck. And there's that certain smile when she wants to get something going... :eyebat::drool:

Intelligent
Decisive
Self respect

A nice hair flip and the "look".

along with..

Intelligence
Bashfulness
Sense of humor
Attentive

and cares about what goes on in the World.

For me.... Body language is huge on my list...

A quick wit but the kind of quick wit that stops me in my tracks...

Eyes... A glance/connection of our eyes together will say a million words to me... Glance wrong & the connection is all over... lol

Confidence meaning someone who knows what they want & are confident enough to go after it without all the what if's & what not doubts....(Nothing is more of a turn off to me then someone who just don't know what they want because they fear the unknown)

Humour..... Everyone needs laughter in their lives....

A cheeky smile that keeps me guessing what they're thinking...

Self sufficient..... Can look after their own affairs without needing me to look after it for them.... (Being reliant upon me & clingy is a complete turn off, I don't want a baby in boxer shorts, I want someone who can be adult & deal with adult life so to speak)

Spontaneous..... I'm a Scorpio.... I love someone who is spontaneous & will surprise me at times....

Sheesh it's becoming a big list! lol Yikes.... :praying:

Their play list or radio station or the CD's in their car

Turn-on's:

--unabashed honesty, when it's delivered with a f*ck-ton of kindness and compassion.

--attentive listening skills.

--a dazzling smile and sparkling eyes (melt!)

--thoughtfulness.

--their hand on the small of my back or when they slide their arm inside of my arm or hold my hand (priceless).

*** Swooooon ***

:stillheart:

1.argue/debate with me and get me to change my mind.

2. make me laugh

both those things come from the same source.

Great personality

Great sense of humor

Nice smile

Someone who likes animals

Non political is a good one as well

Fit and trim Mexican wearing cholos CLEAN from fedora to shined brown shoes. Everything fitting perfectly, pressed pant creases, well fitting jacket.

And most importantly a long gold chain from belt to pocket hanging down 4-5
feet of shiny chain.

Got to have the attitude that s/he rules the world with absolute conviction.
(........will follow anywhere)


mental attributes in another post...all I can think of now if this handsome physical specimen

A natural empath and love of our world,sounds corny?
A woman/femme on a bull horn at a demo is pretty fuckin sexy.
add a skirt and doc martins..................I'm real real gone ,as Van Morrison says.
I like woman smarter than me,I left school at 14,so dont mean academia,but I love peoples minds and I can learn stuff
same music tastes and plays music more than television watching
Also,I gotta say it,someone with a healthy lifestyle

shit any wonder I'm single :(

also dont take yourself so serious ;)

Be judgemental, opinionated, have convictions, and be prepared to reasonably defend and act on those convictions... otherwise what's your purpose on this earth....plus, you will turn me on.

A good kiss
Being touched
Little moments of affection
Giving me THAT look
Pampering me

... of course, those only work if I already love you for all the things about you that you cant see or hear.

Instant turn-ons
 

Truth, beauty

the truth of beauty... :)

the beauty of truth... :)

Turn-ons....
 

Definitely intelligence.

Knowledge....expert knowledge in something. :glasses:

that tongue...yummy

A pulse, heartbeat, and breathing. Very exciting. oooooobaby

Classy sexy lingerie pics, not trashy pics!

complicated committed

Instant Turn-Ons...
 

Confidence and healthy self-esteem. :stillheart:

grace:tea: