Butch Femme Planet - Do you have a crush on anyone here at The Planet?

Today I sit here thinking about crushes.

Crushes are meant to be fun and warm the heart, even friendly crushes.
I read that if someone was meant to be with you, in time it would happen.
With that said, I find that if a crush isn't reciprocated, but being friends is,
go with it because you never know how it may turn out in the end if you don't.

Happy crushing to all of you crushers and crushees...
...you never know when you may stumble upon "The One" if you don't open your heart to possibilities no matter how it makes you feel, good or bad.

Katniss

11-10-2012 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 696274)

Crushes are meant to be fun and warm the heart, even friendly crushes.
I read that if someone was meant to be with you, in time it would happen.
With that said, I find that if a crush isn't reciprocated, but being friends is,
go with it because you never know how it may turn out in the end if you don't.

Your post made me think of the below quote...

“The success of love is in the loving - it is not in the result of loving. Of course it is natural in love to want the best for the other person, but whether it turns out that way or not does not determine the value of what we have done.”
― Mother Teresa

Personally, I believe if the "most" that comes out of a crush is a friendship...then you have already set the bar pretty high...and that is a "win" in my book.

Katniss~~

pynkkameleon

11-10-2012 07:56 PM

It can happen to you..

As of today, it will be exactly 2 weeks before I fly a few thousand thousand miles to see my crush in R/T. The same crush that it took me 3.5 years to admit to.

I truly think that deep friendship built a foundation that will give us a chance to really make it work and even if it doesn't ( which it will :) ) the friendship will last a lifetime. Sometimes you just have to take a chance. You never know what can happen?

Wish me luck!

Sun	11-10-2012 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyRieinAL (Post 695822)

What happens when you crush on someone's crush - is that a polycrush?

Multi-crushing. Bound to happen with so many fabulous people here.

Gráinne

11-10-2012 08:24 PM

I think I'm getting a friend crush on Sun, or at least his foody thread ;).

Sun	11-10-2012 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Katniss (Post 696930)

I LOVE that quote!

Thank you for this post.

Sun	11-10-2012 08:28 PM

Too cute

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Originally Posted by guihong (Post 697501)

I think I'm getting a friend crush on Sun, or at least his foody thread ;).

Aww..that was sweet! Thank you kindly, I am glad that you are enjoying the thread!

Breezy

11-11-2012 12:27 AM

I've always had a crush on Sun. ;)

-Red-Flag-

11-12-2012 08:08 AM

All right folks .. It's Monday .. Lets get to it .. There are crushes to be had and made .. Lets light up the day !

Bleu	11-12-2012 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Katniss (Post 696930)

This is a beautiful post thank you Katniss.

May I just add to this one of my all-time favorite quotes that for me is not just a quote but a mantra for my life:

"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love." ~Tom Robbins

And to bring this one step closer, I know for me, creating the perfect love begins with caring for and truly loving myself. Especially mentally and emotionally.
xo~Bleu

Sun	11-13-2012 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Breezy (Post 697649)

I've always had a crush on Sun. ;)

Ok I think that just made me blush.

Breezy

11-13-2012 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Sun (Post 699476)

Ok I think that just made me blush.

Good! (f) :)

little_ms_sunshyne

11-13-2012 09:40 PM

So I don't know if there are any Beatles fans in the crush thread but I was listening to my cd in the car and thought this was a great song to post in here :)

"Listen, do you want to know a secret?" ;)