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asphaltcowboi 11-22-2010 04:54 PM

happy about the side jobs i just got but dang.. they are burst pipes under mobil homes... i hate crawl spaces ... to many critters live under there!
lol thanks friend for giving me these!

JakeTulane 11-22-2010 04:58 PM

Is it Thursday yet? I want My Mom's stuffing.

lipstixgal 11-22-2010 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Daddy Raven (Post 233020)
My mom and dad saw a Facebook picture of me getting a kiss on the cheek from a pretty femme and gave me a very hard time about it. I didn't intend for them to see it but my Father was spying on my Facebook account and saw it.

My family is very homophobic. I'm butch and my Mom & Dad and one of my brothers just hates it; they're always giving me a hard time about the way I look and dress. My Mom calls me "ugly" all the time and my brother says, "why do you have to look like that?! You're embarrassing me!"

I'm supposed to go to Colorado for Christmas but I'm nearly sick on my stomach about it. I love my family but they put me down and make me feel pretty bad about myself. Stress!! I can't decide on what to do. Should I just go and suck it up or should I cancel my plane ticket and stay home. I hate the idea of losing nearly $600 on a non-refundable plane ticket but I'm beginning to think it's better than spending 10 days with my family and having a lousy Christmas.

Stay home and be happy my family was the same way only thing I look straight so there was no problem about the way I looked except for the weight gain which I eventually lost but was never good enough for them. Don't give them the satisfaction and they shouldn't be looking at the fb page either!!

Random 11-22-2010 05:04 PM

that I'm trying to be a grown up and not pout....

When my son was growing up, I tried to be very fair and mindful of the fact that other people loved and wanted to spend time with him...

So.. summer vacations, christmas, thankgivings... I tried to be fair and let him spend them with other people who loved him and didn't see him every day...


Pout....

Now I still have to be fair and understand that there are other people who miss and love him and want to see him... EVEN when I'm one of those people...

But I told him.. Christmas is MINE... he can have who ever he wants over, but by all that is holy... I will have christmas dinner with my family

lipstixgal 11-22-2010 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by cody (Post 233281)
happy about the side jobs i just got but dang.. they are burst pipes under mobil homes... i hate crawl spaces ... to many critters live under there!
lol thanks friend for giving me these!

They have mobile homes in ARizona I didn't know that!! its good you have side jobs that's work and money I wish I had side jobs..

asphaltcowboi 11-22-2010 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 233288)
They have mobile homes in ARizona I didn't know that!! its good you have side jobs that's work and money I wish I had side jobs..

lol yea just about my whole town is mobile homes me included.. i have a pink and white one!! but its not like mobil parks they are lots people buy some put massive beautiful mobil/ modular homes on on there lots.. or some people save and eventually build or have built a custom home..there are alot of side/cash jobs here .. im usually picky about what ill do or wont do but i have some stuff i want to buy so im taking all work.
(being the local crawl space hoe i guess)

DomnNC 11-22-2010 05:50 PM

Lol at local crawl space ho ... that just cracked me up Cody!

scootebaby 11-22-2010 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 233288)
They have mobile homes in ARizona I didn't know that!! its good you have side jobs that's work and money I wish I had side jobs..

i'm pretty sure there are mobile homes in EVERY city in EVERY state....

and Cody i hear ya...i cant imagine having to crawl under ANYTHING that is tight quarters and unseen critters live

Gemme 11-22-2010 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by ~Bo (Post 232883)
Justin Bieber wins Entertainer of the Year. You gotta be kidding me. :annoyed:

*agast*

I'm afraid for future generations.


Quote:

Originally Posted by Daddy Raven (Post 233020)
My mom and dad saw a Facebook picture of me getting a kiss on the cheek from a pretty femme and gave me a very hard time about it. I didn't intend for them to see it but my Father was spying on my Facebook account and saw it.

My family is very homophobic. I'm butch and my Mom & Dad and one of my brothers just hates it; they're always giving me a hard time about the way I look and dress. My Mom calls me "ugly" all the time and my brother says, "why do you have to look like that?! You're embarrassing me!"

I'm supposed to go to Colorado for Christmas but I'm nearly sick on my stomach about it. I love my family but they put me down and make me feel pretty bad about myself. Stress!! I can't decide on what to do. Should I just go and suck it up or should I cancel my plane ticket and stay home. I hate the idea of losing nearly $600 on a non-refundable plane ticket but I'm beginning to think it's better than spending 10 days with my family and having a lousy Christmas.

That's a decision only you can make, but....is the ticket transferable? Can you still use it but for a different location? Is there somewhere you've always wanted to go?

The holidays are hard enough without being bullied and put down.

Spirit Dancer 11-22-2010 07:56 PM

:ohm::praying:Digging deep to keep it.

asphaltcowboi 11-22-2010 08:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daddy Raven (Post 233020)
My mom and dad saw a Facebook picture of me getting a kiss on the cheek from a pretty femme and gave me a very hard time about it. I didn't intend for them to see it but my Father was spying on my Facebook account and saw it.

My family is very homophobic. I'm butch and my Mom & Dad and one of my brothers just hates it; they're always giving me a hard time about the way I look and dress. My Mom calls me "ugly" all the time and my brother says, "why do you have to look like that?! You're embarrassing me!"

I'm supposed to go to Colorado for Christmas but I'm nearly sick on my stomach about it. I love my family but they put me down and make me feel pretty bad about myself. Stress!! I can't decide on what to do. Should I just go and suck it up or should I cancel my plane ticket and stay home. I hate the idea of losing nearly $600 on a non-refundable plane ticket but I'm beginning to think it's better than spending 10 days with my family and having a lousy Christmas.

im very sorry to to read this and feel for you.. thats a tuff one during the holidays.. maybe not showing will give them some time to think and feel there is someone missing from there family.. i dont like anyone to spend the holidays alone.. do you have another friend that you can use your ticket to go see? most airlines if you call and tell them your ill will hold your ticket credit for another time.. they would rather not have a contagous passenger.

~Bo 11-22-2010 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Kobi (Post 233051)
I dont even know who Justin Bieber is.


But I am glad the entertainer of the year did not go to the antics of Charlie Sheen.


:blink:




LOL.....nawwww.....it was at the American Music Awards last night. Music only.


I was wrong about it being Entertainer of the Year. It was Favorite Artist. Acckkkkk!!!

WolfyOne 11-22-2010 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by ~Bo (Post 233476)
LOL.....nawwww.....it was at the American Music Awards last night. Music only.


I was wrong about it being Entertainer of the Year. It was Favorite Artist. Acckkkkk!!!


I think this means the world as we know it is about to come to a halt :|

~Bo 11-22-2010 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 233480)
I think this means the world as we know it is about to come to a halt :|




I think you're right. :(

Soft*Silver 11-22-2010 08:43 PM

cat urine and how to get it out of carpet

asphaltcowboi 11-22-2010 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by softness (Post 233501)
cat urine and how to get it out of carpet

oh good luck with that!! i was thinking tomato sauce but that for skunk on dogs.. hope its not threw to the padding...itsnt there a site like ask.com or something that might have an answer?

Soft*Silver 11-22-2010 08:49 PM

its actually on a rug that lays ontop of a carpet. I dont think its soaked thru. Banging head on keyboard...cats with anxiety disorders...

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Originally Posted by cody (Post 233503)
oh good luck with that!! i was thinking tomato sauce but that for skunk on dogs.. hope its not threw to the padding...itsnt there a site like ask.com or something that might have an answer?


Oiler41 11-22-2010 08:50 PM

R.I.P. Lupe L., my employee who had a massive heart attack at work on November 11th. He passed away early this morning. He will be buried at Fort Sam Houston with full military honors in the near future. Wishing peace to his family.

Glynn

WolfyOne 11-22-2010 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by softness (Post 233501)
cat urine and how to get it out of carpet


Try one of these: http://www.scoe10x.com/scripts/prodL...?idCategory=17
http://www.urineoff.com/

We've used Urine Off before, seems to work well, but the other product claims to work better than it.

little_ms_sunshyne 11-22-2010 11:45 PM

In sooo much pain!!! Just got back from ER :(

Random 11-23-2010 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by softness (Post 233501)
cat urine and how to get it out of carpet


There is a product by Bissell called ewwww

It works wonders..

Also.. for kitty anxiety.. I recomend feliway...

You might know that we have five kitties..

I came with two and michele came with four.. (we lost mr. diego)

All grown cats in 1000 sq feet... One level..

They get along well enought most of the time, but we occasionally have territory issues...
We occasionally have pee issues (we have a baby kitty who has some nerotic, social issues)

I use the feliway spray in areas that are territory problems... Litter box, food, hidey holes, (It's amazing how one will decided that one of the others has a perfect hideaway and want it.)and on the furniture that they lay on... It really works.... To deal with the stress of the move, I'm going to get a couple plug ins and flood both floors with it...

The ewww really does work better than anything I have ever tried... Just follow the instructions to the letter....

JustLovelyJenn 11-23-2010 12:27 PM

some people in my house need to realize that they... as adults... just need to learn to deal with the KIDS being kids... and NOT adults... not to mention... ummm... my son does not always have control over what he is doing... its part of his diagnosis folks... DEAL WITH IT.

JustJo 11-23-2010 12:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Random (Post 233287)
that I'm trying to be a grown up and not pout....

When my son was growing up, I tried to be very fair and mindful of the fact that other people loved and wanted to spend time with him...

So.. summer vacations, christmas, thankgivings... I tried to be fair and let him spend them with other people who loved him and didn't see him every day...

I hear you on this...I have to share my son with his father, and it's going to be tough to put him on a plane the day after Christmas and not see him for over a week.

Tougher still will be summer vacation, which is split 50/50...trying not to think about that just yet... :|

Leigh 11-23-2010 12:36 PM

On My mind right now is why things can't be different, and why I'm always on the outside looking in when just for once I wanna be on the inside looking out

Soft*Silver 11-23-2010 08:43 PM

thank you all for your tips about getting rid of cat urine! I am going to try them all!!! I have plenty of opportunity and space to do so!

JustLovelyJenn 11-24-2010 12:16 PM

The Thanksgiving Menu....

little_ms_sunshyne 11-24-2010 01:18 PM

Someone that shouldn't be...

MsTinkerbelly 11-24-2010 01:53 PM

Things and people that shouldn't be, but there you go......

It will be helpful to be away from the computer for a while.:praying:

JakeTulane 11-24-2010 01:59 PM

Getting My "Monopoly on" with My niece tomorrow. (f)

Leigh 11-24-2010 02:06 PM

I'm just tired of always being hurt, of always being the other person in someone's life and I'm also tired of being an option in people's lives ~ I'm just tired, and I know that I deserve better

katsarecool 11-24-2010 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Matthew (Post 234660)
I'm just tired of always being hurt, of always being the other person in someone's life and I'm also tired of being an option in people's lives ~ I'm just tired, and I know that I deserve better

Yes you do!!!!

Daddy Raven 11-24-2010 03:04 PM

Sorry to hear it...are you okay? Hope you're feeling better soon.



Quote:

Originally Posted by little_ms_sunshyne (Post 233624)
In sooo much pain!!! Just got back from ER :(


Random 11-24-2010 03:12 PM

where the hell did I put gemme's phone number...

grrrr

AtLast 11-24-2010 03:19 PM

Ugh! Getting one very stinky little French Bulldog in the sink for a bath! He has family to wiggle-up to tomorrow!!! He loves our gatherings at the ranch- little kids to run all over with and lots of food to try and bump-and-spill (he totally has the technique down with the toddlers, even if he is short)!!

Hoping Thanksgiving is the best of your traditions tomorrow, no matter how you celebrate it! And please, have our troops in your mind!

Soft*Silver 11-24-2010 05:04 PM

you are not an option unless you give them that option....

Quote:

Originally Posted by Matthew (Post 234660)
I'm just tired of always being hurt, of always being the other person in someone's life and I'm also tired of being an option in people's lives ~ I'm just tired, and I know that I deserve better


Soft*Silver 11-24-2010 05:05 PM

I am too tired to put the clean sheets on the bed so I am sleeping on the couch tonight.

naturlover_52 11-24-2010 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Matthew (Post 234660)
I'm just tired of always being hurt, of always being the other person in someone's life and I'm also tired of being an option in people's lives ~ I'm just tired, and I know that I deserve better

I have lived this part for sooo long that I didn't know that I deserved any better...also been living w/ toxic family and getting the whole OHHHH Can't give you real love only Tough love.....BUT I will make U dependent on me for money and Rent....so ur not on the street. thing And we all Deserve Better and to also be loved...JUST because we are human and ALIVE....:hangloose::bunchflowers::vigil: and hopefully in time Matt you get what ur looking for

asphaltcowboi 11-24-2010 07:00 PM

that i took to long of a nap this afternoon.. hope i can sleep tonight

asphaltcowboi 11-24-2010 07:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Matthew (Post 234660)
I'm just tired of always being hurt, of always being the other person in someone's life and I'm also tired of being an option in people's lives ~ I'm just tired, and I know that I deserve better

your one step ahead of alot.. you are aware you deserve better.. is it time to take the next step and not allow that in you life?

AtLast 11-24-2010 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by cody (Post 234866)
your one step ahead of alot.. you are aware you deserve better.. is it time to take the next step and not allow that in you life?

Yup! And Mathew, you just go out there and demand what you deserve! I don't mean be a jerk, just let that deserving character of your's flow- they will see this, really!!!


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