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Diva 11-24-2010 08:54 AM

I'm watching Kings Of Leon on the Today Show right now......I think I may love them now.

Rook 11-24-2010 09:00 AM

I crave Granny Smith...
With Caramel Dip...

asphaltcowboi 11-24-2010 10:28 AM

every one have a safe and happy holiday.. please be extra carefull if your traveling!

Gentle Tiger 11-24-2010 11:43 AM

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Blade 11-24-2010 02:47 PM

somewhat confused...but thinking one must have "bed life" before they can suffer from "bed death" :deepthoughts:

BestButchBoy 11-24-2010 04:13 PM

There is no such thing as a short sleeve dress shirt.

JustJo 11-24-2010 04:21 PM

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lipstixgal 11-24-2010 04:24 PM

Just finished up with dinner just a sandwich from Subway that's all and now relaxing and watching tv for the night, its going to be an early night I think..tired

little_ms_sunshyne 11-24-2010 04:52 PM

Just call me Betty...

2 cheesecakes in the oven
1 peach cobbler ready to be baked
Honey Crisp apples peeled and ready to be made into caramel apple pies
Cookies to follow!!!!


I love being in charge of dessert! Those pain meds are goin strong!!!!!!!!!

Diva 11-24-2010 06:08 PM

I haz become immune to The Mucinex. :|
Still my noser blowin'....sneezin'.....coughin'....I'm a mess.

And I told my daughter that she and her bf should probably not come up this evening for Thanksgiving.....I was just not up to it.

The neat thing in all of this......we had a lovely 2-hour conversation.....that was some good medicine right there! :)



Abigail Crabby 11-24-2010 06:14 PM

...put your hands up if you think I'm crazy... think again who's the one sticking their hand up in front of the computer

:byebye:

JAGG 11-24-2010 06:33 PM

funny sign
 
I saw this sign in a store it said, " Beauty is in the eyes of the beer holder".

JAGG 11-24-2010 06:36 PM

Diva
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva (Post 234839)
I haz become immune to The Mucinex. :|
Still my noser blowin'....sneezin'.....coughin'....I'm a mess.

And I told my daughter that she and her bf should probably not come up this evening for Thanksgiving.....I was just not up to it.

The neat thing in all of this......we had a lovely 2-hour conversation.....that was some good medicine right there! :)



Sorry you are sick!!!!

Abigail Crabby 11-24-2010 07:41 PM

You're so cute!!!! ~ Gimme a Kiss ~ Wheeeee
 
Omg if I didn't want a Parrot before
I want one
NOW
lol


scootebaby 11-24-2010 07:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BestButchBoy (Post 234756)
There is no such thing as a short sleeve dress shirt.

what are they called then?

honestly curious here

Rook 11-24-2010 08:38 PM

Coconut Flan .... Check

Key Lime Pie...Check

Pumpkin Cream Cheese Pies ... Check, Check

Arroz con Dulce...Check..

~sips plum wine...satisfied, for now~

The rest I help with whilst watching Macys...

Arroz con Gandules

Lechón {slow roasted..Cuerito !!!!!-dies happy-}

Cranberry/Pineapple sauce..

Green Bean Casserole..

mini Mofongo w/ dressing...

:mohawk::candle:

Enjoy your Holiday Folks...

Diva, Mucinex is a G-dsend....I love it, my wallet cries tears of blood, but I love it.

Blade 11-24-2010 10:09 PM

Can you imagine shopping for 5 hrs looking for a specific thing and coming home empty handed? Well let me tell you there are NO small ornament size tractors, stickers, wooden tractors, match box cars nothing. Nothing at all in John Deere to be found.

Now if you want Thomas the train, Bob the builder, Cars, or Hello Kitty you got it everywhere, but NO JOHN DEERE! I tell ya it has become a very sad day when you can't find John Deere stuff but the world is full of Hello Kitty. Think I'm gonna kill that cat, scrap the "Cars", derail Thomas' train, and cut the power off to Bob the builders tools. :fastdraq:

Grrrr I'm steamin and my feet hurt.

dixie 11-24-2010 11:04 PM

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dixie 11-24-2010 11:06 PM

This is not quite how I remember it...
 
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dixie 11-24-2010 11:25 PM

Doesn't get much better than this...
 
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Rook 11-25-2010 01:11 AM

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:jester:

Abigail Crabby 11-25-2010 01:32 AM

I haz a tummy ache

:|:|:|

Tcountry 11-25-2010 01:52 AM

Sign on the back window of the pickup driving in front of me today:
"I may be a Bitch...but I am a Classy Bitch"

Made me laugh out loud...:sunglass:

Daddy Raven 11-25-2010 04:20 AM

Hey ya'll! In whatever tradition you celebrate, I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving Holiday! Be safe, eat good food and have fun!

BestButchBoy 11-25-2010 06:45 AM

The color of your belt should match the color of your shoes.

asphaltcowboi 11-25-2010 07:44 AM

yeah,yeah,yeah, getting a big dinner and dont have to cook or clean (but ill offer) just have to walk across the street!!

JakeTulane 11-25-2010 09:17 AM

Happy Day of Gathering E/everyone.. be safe.. and let this day help you gather your spirit.. to help you step over a threshold and take hold of the goodness that you hold within.. then take the hand of the one on the other side of that threshold and bring them with you..

Nat 11-25-2010 10:16 AM

Pick a card - any card
 
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asphaltcowboi 11-25-2010 10:42 AM

got up this morning it wasw 20 deg
the toilet was so cold i couldnt pee
i made a grocery list
i checked it twice
the lines were so long
came home with just beer and ice
ran back in the house to finish what i started
now the seat was so warm i wish we never parted.

ok yea i need a drink..zzzz

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LeftWriteFemme 11-25-2010 10:48 AM

http://susanmernit.com/blog/images/thanksgiving.jpg

asphaltcowboi 11-25-2010 10:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeftWriteFemme (Post 235247)

lol wheres clinton!!

ravfem 11-25-2010 10:55 AM

How do y'all know the difference between someone flirting with you and someone having fun with a friend?

i've had this conversation many times over the past year or so, since being in an online community again.

The consensus is that i flirt, a lot. With a lot of people. But, my reality is that i flirt with 2 people here. 2. Seriously.

Only....i'm not meaning to flirt at all, usually. In my mind, i am having fun joking with people i consider to be e-friends, or responding to a great post that made me laugh (or think). But it is taken as flirting..... :seeingstars:

Wonder if i put a disclaimer on each snippet/message/conversation:

"This is rav being friendly. she is not flirting. Really."

Do y'all think that would help??

:eatinghersheybar:

JustJo 11-25-2010 11:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ravfem (Post 235254)
How do y'all know the difference between someone flirting with you and someone having fun with a friend?

i've had this conversation many times over the past year or so, since being in an online community again.

The consensus is that i flirt, a lot. With a lot of people. But, my reality is that i flirt with 2 people here. 2. Seriously.

Only....i'm not meaning to flirt at all, usually. In my mind, i am having fun joking with people i consider to be e-friends, or responding to a great post that made me laugh (or think). But it is taken as flirting..... :seeingstars:

Wonder if i put a disclaimer on each snippet/message/conversation:

"This is rav being friendly. she is not flirting. Really."

Do y'all think that would help??

:eatinghersheybar:

Hi rav,

I think (my opinion only) that what's flirting to one isn't necessarily flirting to another.

At the same time, if you're getting this feedback a lot, then you might want to consider how you're coming across. I don't think adding a disclaimer on everything you say is needed, or even helpful.

For example....if several (or many) people tell me that I am coming across as angry, or negative, or bitchy, or *pick the adjective of your choice*, then me saying "I'm not being negative or..." on everything I say isn't going to convince anyone either.

If I'm getting that feedback (especially from people who actually like me), then I probably should sit with that and consider it for awhile. I may or may not change my behavior...because that's up to me, not anyone else. If I choose not to, then I may need to be prepared for the repercussions however.

Just my .02 :rrose:

asphaltcowboi 11-25-2010 11:25 AM

:dance2::dance2::dance2::dance2: gona have some turKEY...gona have some turKEY

ravfem 11-25-2010 11:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustJo (Post 235266)
Hi rav,

I think (my opinion only) that what's flirting to one isn't necessarily flirting to another.

At the same time, if you're getting this feedback a lot, then you might want to consider how you're coming across. I don't think adding a disclaimer on everything you say is needed, or even helpful.

For example....if several (or many) people tell me that I am coming across as angry, or negative, or bitchy, or *pick the adjective of your choice*, then me saying "I'm not being negative or..." on everything I say isn't going to convince anyone either.

If I'm getting that feedback (especially from people who actually like me), then I probably should sit with that and consider it for awhile. I may or may not change my behavior...because that's up to me, not anyone else. If I choose not to, then I may need to be prepared for the repercussions however.

Just my .02 :rrose:


Good points Jo. i was thinking, while posting, about something i learned a while back, about how sometimes someone says one thing and it's taken to mean something completely different by the person hearing it. Neither is "wrong", just different.

i was picked on by a friend many many months back about my flirting style, and it caught me off-guard because i hadn't been flirting! She said, basically, ohhhh helllll yeah you have been too! So i asked the specific person if they considered our interactions as flirting, and she said yes but only in a friendly way....she knew i wasn't coming on to her or anything like that.

That's what got me thinking and talking about it all. i think i don't really get the boundaries (or something...not sure of the right wording). i mean, ok...if they have a gf.....i would never do or say anything to anyone that i was being friendly with behind the gf's back that i wouldn't say in front of the gf. i guess that's one reason i don't consider it flirting.

A friend helped me understand it once, and though i can't remember the exact wording (i *knew* i shoulda made notes!!) i figured out that i consider it flirting only if there are "i'm hitting on you" undertones to the bantering. Just laughing and talking...that's people being friendly....to me, anyway.

But back to the point.... it's true....doesn't matter my intentions or lack thereof....what matters is how it is taken. And i am indeed paying attention to the message and sitting with it.

i don't know if i *can* change the way i am....i'm just friendly! But, i can curtail my interactions if i know it's making other(s) uncomfortable, for sure.

:hippie:

asphaltcowboi 11-25-2010 11:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ravfem (Post 235282)
Good points Jo. i was thinking, while posting, about something i learned a while back, about how sometimes someone says one thing and it's taken to mean something completely different by the person hearing it. Neither is "wrong", just different.

i was picked on by a friend many many months back about my flirting style, and it caught me off-guard because i hadn't been flirting! She said, basically, ohhhh helllll yeah you have been too! So i asked the specific person if they considered our interactions as flirting, and she said yes but only in a friendly way....she knew i wasn't coming on to her or anything like that.

That's what got me thinking and talking about it all. i think i don't really get the boundaries (or something...not sure of the right wording). i mean, ok...if they have a gf.....i would never do or say anything to anyone that i was being friendly with behind the gf's back that i wouldn't say in front of the gf. i guess that's one reason i don't consider it flirting.

A friend helped me understand it once, and though i can't remember the exact wording (i *knew* i shoulda made notes!!) i figured out that i consider it flirting only if there are "i'm hitting on you" undertones to the bantering. Just laughing and talking...that's people being friendly....to me, anyway.

But back to the point.... it's true....doesn't matter my intentions or lack thereof....what matters is how it is taken. And i am indeed paying attention to the message and sitting with it.

i don't know if i *can* change the way i am....i'm just friendly! But, i can curtail my interactions if i know it's making other(s) uncomfortable, for sure.

:hippie:

wow myself i think flirting makes the world a much more interesting place!! as long as it doesnt go to far or lead to any cheating or relationship problems or become offensive to either.

scootebaby 11-25-2010 11:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody (Post 235280)
:dance2::dance2::dance2::dance2: gona have some turKEY...gona have some turKEY

is this different than TURkey? :giggle:

JustJo 11-25-2010 11:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ravfem (Post 235282)
Good points Jo. i was thinking, while posting, about something i learned a while back, about how sometimes someone says one thing and it's taken to mean something completely different by the person hearing it. Neither is "wrong", just different.

i was picked on by a friend many many months back about my flirting style, and it caught me off-guard because i hadn't been flirting! She said, basically, ohhhh helllll yeah you have been too! So i asked the specific person if they considered our interactions as flirting, and she said yes but only in a friendly way....she knew i wasn't coming on to her or anything like that.

That's what got me thinking and talking about it all. i think i don't really get the boundaries (or something...not sure of the right wording). i mean, ok...if they have a gf.....i would never do or say anything to anyone that i was being friendly with behind the gf's back that i wouldn't say in front of the gf. i guess that's one reason i don't consider it flirting.

A friend helped me understand it once, and though i can't remember the exact wording (i *knew* i shoulda made notes!!) i figured out that i consider it flirting only if there are "i'm hitting on you" undertones to the bantering. Just laughing and talking...that's people being friendly....to me, anyway.

But back to the point.... it's true....doesn't matter my intentions or lack thereof....what matters is how it is taken. And i am indeed paying attention to the message and sitting with it.

i don't know if i *can* change the way i am....i'm just friendly! But, i can curtail my interactions if i know it's making other(s) uncomfortable, for sure.

:hippie:

I hear ya' ...and that's where things get tricky. We all have different measures about what's flirting, what's friendly, etc. I think that's why it's important for everyone to take responsibility for their own feelings. If someone is doing something that makes me uncomfortable, then it's on me to speak up before it becomes a problem.

For me, I try to reverse it. I ask myself...if Scoote was saying or doing this (whether it's in front of me or not), would I feel like it was innocent and okay? If not, then I won't do it or say it.

It isn't that she controls my behavior (she'll be the first to tell you I'm completely uncontrollable :giggle: )...it's just one way that I can look at what I'm doing through a different lens.

My kitchen is calling, so I better get back in there.
Hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving! :)
(and :chocolate: ....just becauase!)

ravfem 11-25-2010 11:44 AM

i love you people.

(that was rav being silly.....her way of saying thank you to the cute lil notes that are making her smile. she doesn't wanna jump your bones (or...well..have you jump hers, but anyWAY)..... i do have love in my heart for all you people).

Soon 11-25-2010 01:40 PM

Here's some amazing photography!


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