hahahahaha, funny, really!! :byebye: :blush:

I got a great chuckle out of that "low mileage"? wtf does that mean exactly.....that is how i would have responded then i may have responded with its not the miles that counts its the "Ride" hahaha

I was dating a fella (when i was a teenager) and he picked me up one day and brought along with him someone else he had decided to "pit myself and her against each other" when she and i exited the car, i had a chat with her, told her he was a serious waste of my time at this point and that she could have him cause he would do the same thing to her he had just done to me and I am not into playing these sort of games. She gave much thought to this and then decided she didn't want him either.....when he was close to dropping me off she told him what a jerk he was and that she would never be with him, when I got out of the car i looked at him and told him to "fuck off" and please don't call me anymore.....

As an adult I have experienced this same thing.....

I would stand proudly next to my sister's than play a silly childish (teenage) game with anyone.

Im not into the games and im not into being "one" of many notches etc...

Life is too short for all that.

If ONLY I were that quick with the comebacks......:blink:
Good one!! ;)

I am a California girl (now) and def have my woo woo side.

But I do not need to know THAT much about your soul on the first date.

Just saying.

Late entry here on this old thread.

-Don't make me have to make the decisions of what to do or where to go.
-When on a double date I like when the butches walk protectively behind us femmes, in full veiw of us in our high femme club wear.
-When sitting together, boldly touching my knee while telling me how lovely I look in that cute outfit you asked me to wear.

A date
 

(Thanks for bumping this one!)

Hmmmm, I guess I'm like a lot of femmes.....I want to be treated with respect and kindness. I'm very old school, so I respond to all the little things like opening doors, holding my coat, pulling back my chair, etc. Flirt with me, if it's genuine. Be honest and be yourself, I want to get to know the real you.

Please DON'T: dance with someone else, flirt with someone else, look at other women, swat the waitresses' butts, or tease/make fun of me. Yes, these have all happened on actual dates. REALLY? So tacky.

Heheh..I had that shirt for a few months :) I enjoyed all of our dates, including us going to Disney's Magic Kingdom for the first time!

You are a sweet person and I'm glad we fell in love!

Zimmeh

I don't think it's about how much money you spend. Be creative, something fun and different will definitely get my attention. Sweet, chivalrous and funny is always a way to win my heart.

I think it's important to be kind and respectful on a date. I like manners and nice conversation. I like it when the person opens doors and offers me their arm to hold onto or asks if they can hold my hand. How I feel when I am with the person is most important. I like to feel safe, comfortable and cared for.

I like to be more submissive when on a date.

I hear its dead but I enjoy chivalry

How do you like to be treated on a date?
 

Like a little queen! Cause really how else would you like to be treated on a date?

how do i like to be treated on a date?
 

thoughtfully..

The same as every other day.

courtesy kindness respect humor.

I have always though a first date should be short with less pressure. Like just having a coffee something like that.

I would love to have the old school opening doors treatment, never have before. I would probably think better of the person I'm dating if they did, but I wouldn’t think worse of them if they didn’t. It’s more like an added bonus than a necessity.

And for the whole cost thing, I think the best dates are definitely free. I would rather someone took me on a hike in the mountains than on a fancy restaurant.

I do not need to be the centre of your universe but I do need to feel at least as important as anything else in your life at this moment in time. Be respectful, be kind, be polite (to everyone). Regardless of what you do for a living do not take calls from work, we are either on a date or we are not. Do not check your emails, texts, facebook, or twitter. In fact, I do not want to see your phone at all. It's not about spending a lot of money, or any money. I'm perfectly fine with sharing the bill.

Talk to me.


Definitely more an added bonus than a necessity. Just don't let the door shut in my face ;)

the variety is staggering in what people like.

what some people need I would be baffled by or put off from.

what I want, other people would feel totally unnecessary or completely not enough.

but that is the whole point of hanging out with each other: to find out and to see if it's a match.

for example - I don't care if people answer their phone. people have jobs that do demand an answer, the have kids or parents in care. They have other friends that may have an emergency (I was out on a date once and my ex called me in hysterics because her new partner was stuck in a very dangerous flood and did not know how to get hold of her, she was missing and she needed just someone calm to talk to her for a few minutes and help her out. My date totally understood and was glad I was open hearted enough to take the call).

I like going to a pub. I don't want a meal. snacks and some drinks and a long conversation and a good laugh.

that's a first hang out with me. Don't fuss but be cool, be a bit smooth. make me laugh, be open, tell me stories about your life.