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Quote:

Originally Posted by joyfulfemme (Post 880319)

1. Honesty.
2. Fidelity.
3. Devotion.

These are reciprocal. Ask for nothing you arent willing to give.

AMEN love!

My posts are meant for entertainment use only. :|

1. Communication
2. Honesty
3. Fidelity

Quote:

Originally Posted by MysticOceansFL (Post 880276)

Sweet Bliss ;
An IQ over 130
A wide vocabulary and the ability to use it with relish
Willingness to get downright filthy!

Well, everyone is smart in their own way so I wouldn't place a limit on someone's ability.

Having a wide range of vocabulary and the ability to use it with relish is nice but willingness to use it in a down right filthy way. I guess it would be great but anyone can use vocabulary well in that way but wouldn't that after a while getting a little redundant like reading fifty shades of grey eh? I mean that's just mhop, besides I prefer the real deal.:glasses:

I took Daktari's post to be three separate things.

High IQ, fancy word user, and a lover that likes being super naughty.

I don't think my brain would work to use big fancy words while being loving. In fact, getting kissed good and proper leaves me breathless and brainless. So much for IQ points,

:rofl: :seeingstars:

And I don't know what the 50 shades of grey/mud reference is about.

tenacity
unconditional
patient

omg... Are we looking for a Golden Retriever ?

worship me
adore me
make me laugh

btw I don't think we should pick apart other people's choices here.

hi everyone.
my three and this comes from experience .
complete honesty.
a job stable job.
mentally and emotionally stable
not addicted to anything ...ok it was four.

No caffeine users
No sugar users
No Nicotine users

Someone pointed out to me that I have AT LEAST 12 non-negotiables..... I lost count after 20 :|

What was that quote? Oh yah I remember now.

Expectations are premeditated resentments.

Thank you Big Book.

A non shedding coat
Not yappy
A cold, wet nose!

:dog:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daktari (Post 881623)

A non shedding coat
Not yappy
A cold, wet nose!

:dog:

Poodle! !:walking-poodle:

Open mind
energy for hours
Teacher of new things

Honesty no matter what tell me the truth not what U think I want to hear

Willingness to b an equal partner

Hood sense of humor know how to take a joke and give also

I have more but that's a start

Must be able to sit through a Lord of The Rings extended version marathon- I have no time for weakness.

Everything that I wrote when this thread was started in December, 2011, still holds true for me.

I left out one thing.

I can write one item as a very, very, big part of a healthy relationship and very non-negotionable:

1. Laughter
2. Laughter
3. More laughter

My GF makes me laugh all of the time.

She can give me a look, when she can tell I am a tad peeved about something, that will cause me to burst out laughing.

My laughter can make me melt into a ball of romantic vulnerability.

I can take pretty much everything too seriously.

She helps me to separate out which ones that I should take seriously and which ones require laughter.

I think laughter is as much the glue for a good relationship, as is great sex, excellent communication, fidelity and honesty.

Debt free
Emotionally literate
Musician

I really do have to find you:

intelligent and curious,
witty and clever,
warm and affectionate

and preferably close by or willing to relocate.

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Originally Posted by silkepus (Post 881683)

Must be able to sit through a Lord of The Rings extended version marathon- I have no time for weakness.

Best post of 2014 so far. lol.

1. Complete devotion and loyalty to each other.

2. A shared sense of humor.

3. Mind blowing sex.