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lipstixgal 10-23-2010 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by ZimmygLrL (Post 212941)
Good Morning Lipstix,

I was able to pull a high C out of my anatomy class. I start anatomy 2 on Monday and several of the students from my anatomy 1 class is joining me. I am happy!!!! I am treating myself to some good old fashioned junk food today...Now I have to finish typing up my review questions for Microbiology so I can get the quiz done and have Sunday to myself.

Sending you some warm sunshine weather up to you!!

Zimmy

Great I'm so happy for you and you get to start the second half of anatomy wow that was fast. Treat yourself to something special today!!:rrose:

sylvie 10-23-2010 11:02 AM


helloo singles~

worked this morning, and go back to work this evening..
so in between i've been housecleaning of course, taking care of my sick son..
now he's sleeping and thought i'd come check out facebook & bfp!

brrrr it's a chilly day here today!

Happy Birthday paposeco, hope it's been a great one so far!

*waves to everyone*

Sam 10-23-2010 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by sylvie (Post 213024)

helloo singles~

worked this morning, and go back to work this evening..
so in between i've been housecleaning of course, taking care of my sick son..
now he's sleeping and thought i'd come check out facebook & bfp!

brrrr it's a chilly day here today!

Happy Birthday paposeco, hope it's been a great one so far!

*waves to everyone*

Nice and warm here in the south, sun is shining.

See?

cuddlyfemme 10-23-2010 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by sylvie (Post 213024)

helloo singles~

worked this morning, and go back to work this evening..
so in between i've been housecleaning of course, taking care of my sick son..
now he's sleeping and thought i'd come check out facebook & bfp!

brrrr it's a chilly day here today!

Happy Birthday paposeco, hope it's been a great one so far!

*waves to everyone*

Hi Sylvie! Its a nice day here in my part of the South. Sending you some warmer weather.

Good Afternoon Singles!

lipstixgal 10-23-2010 11:37 AM

Chilly here too don't want to go outside for anything at all just dog food that's it!! happy day singles!!

Sam 10-23-2010 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme (Post 213033)
Hi Sylvie! Its a nice day here in my part of the South. Sending you some warmer weather.

Good Afternoon Singles!

We are so close i could spit my seeds and prolly hit columbia lol.

Actually i drive thru weekly back to Ga. Gotta love hwy 20

sylvie 10-23-2010 11:51 AM

oh you 2 and your warm weather!! *is jealous*
send some up north please !!
:cheer:

sylvie 10-23-2010 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 213034)
Chilly here too don't want to go outside for anything at all just dog food that's it!! happy day singles!!

brrr here too!
i have to leave for work shortly, and don't wannaaaa! LOL
its all cozy warm in here..

cuddlyfemme 10-23-2010 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by sylvie (Post 213038)
oh you 2 and your warm weather!! *is jealous*
send some up north please !!
:cheer:

*sending warmth to Sylvie and all who need it*

cuddlyfemme 10-23-2010 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 213037)
We are so close i could spit my seeds and prolly hit columbia lol.

Actually i drive thru weekly back to Ga. Gotta love hwy 20

What part of GA?

sylvie 10-23-2010 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme (Post 213042)
*sending warmth to Sylvie and all who need it*

thank you cuddly!!! i actually just dug out my warmer sweater..
i need to move southhh!
LOL
the older i get, the more this cold is for the birds! hehe
*shivers*

Sam 10-23-2010 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by sylvie (Post 213047)
thank you cuddly!!! i actually just dug out my warmer sweater..
i need to move southhh!
LOL
the older i get, the more this cold is for the birds! hehe
*shivers*

Yep right down HERE lol

Cuddly
i'm 20 minutes from charlotte when in NC

and I am also in Covington Ga when i'm with my kid

cuddlyfemme 10-23-2010 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 213050)
Yep right down HERE lol

Cuddly
i'm 20 minutes from charlotte when in NC

and I am also in Covington Ga when i'm with my kid

You are close to where I live

sylvie 10-23-2010 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 213050)
Yep right down HERE lol

Cuddly
i'm 20 minutes from charlotte when in NC

and I am also in Covington Ga when i'm with my kid

don't tempt me Sam!!! heh..

okiesss singles, i'm off to work!!
have a wonderful rest of the day♥ xo

T D 10-23-2010 12:33 PM

Just thought I'd pop in and say hi since I'm single. I have been for oh..... a number of years now. And heck even when I was in a relationship prior to this I wasn't really, cause I was lied to and she was in a relationship with someone else the entire time. Needless to say I have huge trust issues now. Sometimes I just don't understand the stuff folks do!!

Anyway, I was thinking about this the other day..... I think the one thing that I kind of miss about a relationship is the sharing of my day. Like if something exciting happens, or I learn something new about a situation, or whatever, and want to tell someone about it. You know how we get excited about something and want to tell our partner. Mostly the sharing of daily stuff and events. Generally my partner is my best friend as well, so it's a double loss of sorts. This has been the most difficult thing about being single for me. And of course the same from them, hearing about my partners day.

How about the rest of you? What do you miss, anything?


Tommi 10-23-2010 12:34 PM

Andrea, thanks for this .

cuddlyfemme 10-23-2010 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by T D (Post 213060)
Just thought I'd pop in and say hi since I'm single. I have been for oh..... a number of years now. And heck even when I was in a relationship prior to this I wasn't really, cause I was lied to and she was in a relationship with someone else the entire time. Needless to say I have huge trust issues now. Sometimes I just don't understand the stuff folks do!!

Anyway, I was thinking about this the other day..... I think the one thing that I kind of miss about a relationship is the sharing of my day. Like if something exciting happens, or I learn something new about a situation, or whatever, and want to tell someone about it. You know how we get excited about something and want to tell our partner. Mostly the sharing of daily stuff and events. Generally my partner is my best friend as well, so it's a double loss of sorts. This has been the most difficult thing about being single for me. And of course the same from them, hearing about my partners day.

How about the rest of you? What do you miss, anything?


I miss the day to day things that I guess we take for granted at times. I also miss the snuggling

Kobi 10-23-2010 01:08 PM


I miss the companionship and the sharing.

Sam 10-23-2010 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme (Post 213051)
You are close to where I live

Entycing told me you were in columbia SC, i pass thru there on my way home weekly.

i was surprised to know you moved out of the DC area, but i left the MD area back in 04.

but yeah maybe we can do lunch sometime

cuddlyfemme 10-23-2010 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 213139)
Entycing told me you were in columbia SC, i pass thru there on my way home weekly.

i was surprised to know you moved out of the DC area, but i left the MD area back in 04.

but yeah maybe we can do lunch sometime

yes, i moved to columbia in may and am still trying to get adjusted. i miss DC alot but moved because of economics. lunch would be fun!

cuddlyfemme 10-23-2010 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 213139)
Entycing told me you were in columbia SC, i pass thru there on my way home weekly.

i was surprised to know you moved out of the DC area, but i left the MD area back in 04.

but yeah maybe we can do lunch sometime

By the way, what part of MD were you in?

Sam 10-23-2010 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme (Post 213167)
By the way, what part of MD were you in?

i lived on the eastern shore of MD

cuddlyfemme 10-23-2010 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 213177)
i lived on the eastern shore of MD

Thats a nice area, I used to go to Solomon's Island alot

Sam 10-23-2010 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme (Post 213182)
Thats a nice area, I used to go to Solomon's Island alot

i just worked in ocean city md and rehoboth beach de all summer. had a blast

Sam 10-23-2010 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by sylvie (Post 213054)
don't tempt me Sam!!! heh..

♥ xo

i will tempt you, over and over until you give in lol

cuddlyfemme 10-23-2010 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 213189)
i just worked in ocean city md and rehoboth beach de all summer. had a blast

I can imagine that would be so much fun working at either/both places

JustLovelyJenn 10-23-2010 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome (Post 212754)

Yeppers.... timing IS everything! And time available, time for self, time for family, time for reflection...

My kid is grown and has his own family, but, I have been really thinking about being geographically closer to blood family lately. Dunno.... other than I now have a solid plan and time frame to make significant changes for myself that will result in a much more friendly retirement financially.

Today, I added another dimension to it that involves joint replacement surgeries, but, it just feels like it is time to just deal with this. I have a lot of active years ahead of me (although, life does turn on a dime as I have experienced more than once) and if I need some "bionic
" parts to keep active and enjoying life, then, I'm going to just do it!

It's been over 4 years for me since a relationship and although it would be grand to have a sweetie again, I am doing just fine solo. But, I need to get back to dance! Love it and the socializing with those peeps around me.

I have big plans for after my kids are grown and gone. Surprisingly enough, these plans have always been for me "solo"... Its kinda been, if someones around... they can come or they can deal.

I plan on being very active then. Building a Gypsy "vardo" and traveling to Ren Fairs and Medieval Reenactments selling small goods and my fortune selling services. I love to feel free to do what I will and will enjoy the untethered lifestyle.

But for now... I'm content to be where I am. I have the opportunity to make a difference in the lives of children, my own included. That is something I will always enjoy and treasure.

As for someone else. I decided a while ago that I am happy on my own, having someone else in my life is a joy, a blessing, but not a necessity. I do enjoy friends and social situations though, and I am severely lacking in those of late.

bigbutchmistie 10-23-2010 07:00 PM

I do enjoy my " me time" right now. I love my friends, my job, and everything that my life has become...

Im happy and have really gotten to a place where I dont want to settle down out of necessity but its something I desire...

I know it will happen when its supposed too... And I refuse to settle for less than what I am looking for.

I enjoy making new friendships, chatting with folks, and dating. Cause when the day happens that "she" walks in and blows me away, and I settle down, I wont get to do these things :)

sweetfemme247 10-23-2010 07:04 PM

well currently right now I am single, I am talking to someone but we arent "dating" we have alot of stuff that we need to work on with ourselfs so for now it is friendship. I have known this person for over 3 years. I really dont like being single but it is something I need for now, I do want to meet more people but I am rather shy so I dont really talk to anyone here much.

AtLast 10-23-2010 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn (Post 213230)
I have big plans for after my kids are grown and gone. Surprisingly enough, these plans have always been for me "solo"... Its kinda been, if someones around... they can come or they can deal.

I plan on being very active then. Building a Gypsy "vardo" and traveling to Ren Fairs and Medieval Reenactments selling small goods and my fortune selling services. I love to feel free to do what I will and will enjoy the untethered lifestyle.

But for now... I'm content to be where I am. I have the opportunity to make a difference in the lives of children, my own included. That is something I will always enjoy and treasure.

As for someone else. I decided a while ago that I am happy on my own, having someone else in my life is a joy, a blessing, but not a necessity. I do enjoy friends and social situations though, and I am severely lacking in those of late.


Sounds good! I have a small RV/van (older model) and lovfe road trips. And this is a big reason for my going in for surgeries and rehab. I have miles to do!!!

I, too, think in terms of doing this solo. I am just in the phase of life in which a relationship is just not the main event. I honestly do not see me living with a partner again at all. I enjoyed a 21 year relationship and the last was for 6 years (she died). Both enriched my life. Yet, I know that any relationship presently or in the future would have the same variables as my past ones. I am not in the same developmental space (with the same needs) as when I was in those relationships.

I like having my own home and working on it. LOL... however, I did give my last partner a bedroom and bath of her own to decorate as hers and put th8ings in it of hers even though she didn't live there.

I want to go back to Alaska and be a campground host- or maybe somewhere else for a summer. I like being able to volunteer time to the things I care about. Couldn't when I was working and in practice. And I still want to compete in partner dancing!

JustLovelyJenn 10-23-2010 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome (Post 213251)
Sounds good! I have a small RV/van (older model) and lovfe road trips. And this is a big reason for my going in for surgeries and rehab. I have miles to do!!!

I, too, think in terms of doing this solo. I am just in the phase of life in which a relationship is just not the main event. I honestly do not see me living with a partner again at all. I enjoyed a 21 year relationship and the last was for 6 years (she died). Both enriched my life. Yet, I know that any relationship presently or in the future would have the same variables as my past ones. I am not in the same developmental space (with the same needs) as when I was in those relationships.

I like having my own home and working on it. LOL... however, I did give my last partner a bedroom and bath of her own to decorate as hers and put th8ings in it of hers even though she didn't live there.

I want to go back to Alaska and be a campground host- or maybe somewhere else for a summer. I like being able to volunteer time to the things I care about. Couldn't when I was working and in practice. And I still want to compete in partner dancing!

Partner dancing sounds like a really fun thing to compete in. I have always loved ball room dancing but never really had an opportunity to learn or practice much. Campground host is another thing I have looked into in the past, and would LOVE to do later in life.

I see myself having the same problem about my space. When I finally get a house of my own... i know it will be MY home, and I wont really care too terribly much who is living there it will be my decisions on things.... lol...

cuddlyfemme 10-24-2010 05:16 AM

Good Morning Singles! Its supposed to be nice today here so will be sending warmth to all who need it. I've brought coffee, tea and pasteries for everyone. Have a wonderful day all

lipstixgal 10-24-2010 06:10 AM

Oh pasteries yum hello singles how is everyone doing today its early and probably no one is up right now, had to do doggie care for dogs and feed them next its laundry and dishes in the sink and dishwasher, thinking its a soup day with matzo balls gotta love that Jewish food it heals what ales you!!

cuddlyfemme 10-24-2010 06:13 AM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 213405)
Oh pasteries yum hello singles how is everyone doing today its early and probably no one is up right now, had to do doggie care for dogs and feed them next its laundry and dishes in the sink and dishwasher, thinking its a soup day with matzo balls gotta love that Jewish food it heals what ales you!!

I'm up....my cats always wake me up early to feed them and won't stop till there is food in their bowls. Sounds like you have a busy day today. I need to clean my kitchen up today

Zimmeh 10-24-2010 12:02 PM

Good Afternoon Everyone,

I did all of my laundry yesterday inbetween doing homework for my microbiolgy class. Today is my day to take the quiz in my micro class and then finish decorating for Halloween.

Have a good to you all and smile!!

Zimmy

greeneyedlady 10-24-2010 12:14 PM

single
 
Single here in Ontario, Canada. Went through a bad breakup after a four year relationship/engagement a couple months ago. Not sure I'm looking to get back into a relationship although here I would not even know where to start to meet people. Meeting new friends would be be a great start.

Today...I am content with being with my dogs watching the football game. When I look out my balcony from my 10th floor apartment, I can see across the entire city and the changing colours are so beautiful!

lipstixgal 10-24-2010 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by ZimmygLrL (Post 213571)
Good Afternoon Everyone,

I did all of my laundry yesterday inbetween doing homework for my microbiolgy class. Today is my day to take the quiz in my micro class and then finish decorating for Halloween.

Have a good to you all and smile!!

Zimmy

Ah yes good luck on the micro quiz and I bet you are tired of being quizzed!!

sylvie 10-24-2010 05:42 PM

evenin' singles ♥

hope you all had a wonderful day!
mine has been... L O N G !!! lol i'm tired thanks to my BFF *chuckles*
and worked 2 shifts today, was going to bring my son to the hospital tonight
but wow, i'm actually amazed at the awesome improvement im seeing in him just since i left from work.. so i'll be watchin him closely but here's hoping it's just improvement from now on..

ANYway, just thought i'd poke my head in and say hello, think i'll be crashing soon! haha... trying to stay up a bit however..

((((hugggggz))))

cuddlyfemme 10-24-2010 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by sylvie (Post 213772)
evenin' singles ♥

hope you all had a wonderful day!
mine has been... L O N G !!! lol i'm tired thanks to my BFF *chuckles*
and worked 2 shifts today, was going to bring my son to the hospital tonight
but wow, i'm actually amazed at the awesome improvement im seeing in him just since i left from work.. so i'll be watchin him closely but here's hoping it's just improvement from now on..

ANYway, just thought i'd poke my head in and say hello, think i'll be crashing soon! haha... trying to stay up a bit however..

((((hugggggz))))

(((Sylvie)))) I'm glad your son seems to be doing better

paposeco 10-24-2010 10:34 PM

My darlin'..
 
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