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OS Butch 05-14-2012 05:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Maverick (Post 584196)
Thanks everyone for your input and support. I'm still deciding whether to do it or not and, at the advice of a close friend and my partner I'm looking into a nickname instead possibly. I'm not hot about the idea but I'm told that people don't like the name I've chosen for myself. I like the name and I know that's what matters so I may just have to get butch and stick with it regardless lol.

Also, I want to say HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!! to all the mothers out there.

Mav
Dude, I have several names. Legally, my birth name, Joan. Lots of people call me Jo. I wanted a more Butch name than my given name, yet still ummm ...female name. Others call me JJ and Joan and my family calls me Joanie.

Maybe it is an age thing, but really what is in a name? In my opinion, the only time it really matters is in legal papers. My dad found that out at some point because his birth certificate had not been changed from "Baby XXXX" His parents hadn't decided on a name!

You can be called whatever you want. Just tell people that you prefer to be called..whatever you want, then at some point you want to change it legally, do it, but remember it can be a tedious process so make sure you don't have to do it again because you might not really like it anymore.

morningstar55 05-14-2012 06:40 AM
Morning loft dwellers and peekers. ..... thats kinda funny jo... ur dad's real name is XXX? ..... .. anyways still no lap top.. ""sigh " oh well .. have a great day everyone

morningstar55 05-14-2012 06:58 AM
Ok i need a lil vent... and maybe some helpful advice....... seems lately, few times i been around my sister in law.. she has brought up my x co drives name and make.comments nd quesa, why he looks and seems to b like a man... ..i say.. he ah was born that way. Then she wil try 2 disbute that , then i get defensive , i then just leave the room. Ya knw , even though it did not work out driving with my co driver nd i.. i Will, defend his gender and rights.

morningstar55 05-14-2012 08:15 AM
Gues just some thougts , ideas how 2 handle her attitude .. my sister n law can b annoying

OS Butch 05-14-2012 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 584588)
Gues just some thougts , ideas how 2 handle her attitude .. my sister n law can b annoying
One of my mom's favorite things is triumph in silence. Sometimes just walking away is a statement in itself.

Then there is the other hand....Opinions are like a$$holes, everyone has got one. Unfortunately, your sister-in-law has more than her share:blink:

morningstar55 05-14-2012 02:38 PM
Yay, picking up a load via Rochester...and heading 2..... Shreveport lousy ana...ha.... gonna have 2 do a ten hr break along the way somewhere ...about 8 9 hrs frm now .... anyways have a nice evening lofters

OS Butch 05-14-2012 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 584744)
Yay, picking up a load via Rochester...and heading 2..... Shreveport lousy ana...ha.... gonna have 2 do a ten hr break along the way somewhere ...about 8 9 hrs frm now .... anyways have a nice evening lofters
Be safe out there. I am sure you are gonna run into rain along the way.

morningstar55 05-20-2012 04:51 AM
Morning loft dwellers and peekers .. i cant believe being a member of a web site , that is supposed 2 b a great source for support ,and friendships.... that i didnt get any thought on ideas how 2 handle people like my sister in law.. maybe sm of you experienced these kind of questions and such. Anyways hope everyone is having a great weekend.

ruthie14 05-20-2012 08:38 AM
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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 584571)
Ok i need a lil vent... and maybe some helpful advice....... seems lately, few times i been around my sister in law.. she has brought up my x co drives name and make.comments nd quesa, why he looks and seems to b like a man... ..i say.. he ah was born that way. Then she wil try 2 disbute that , then i get defensive , i then just leave the room. Ya knw , even though it did not work out driving with my co driver nd i.. i Will, defend his gender and rights.
Hey Morningstar... haven't been on since last week so I didn't see your post. Some people will just never see the truth. Nor do they want to. If it were me, next time she brings it up, I would tell her the subject is off limits... if she insisted, I would leave the room. That's just me. I applaud your defense of him, but as you have done so, she knows how you feel, and she still is annoying about... then this is more about annoying you and than about her prejudice against people who are different than herself. Just my opinion, but for me, I would change the subject or walk out of the room.

Hope your laptop gets fixed!!! That must suck!

hugs,
Ruthie :wine:

ruthie14 05-20-2012 08:41 AM
Morning lofters, turned 50 in march and because of time constraints, finally had my party yesterday. I had a 60's theme (although few dressed the part). People were lovely, had a wonderful time, except I had a small migraine most of the day. After folks left, it got worse and I ended up at the er. Mom took me and we didn't get home until 4:30 am. Birds were singing. oye.

Beautiful weather today... going to hang out and relax.

Have a wonderful sunday!
Ruthie

morningstar55 05-20-2012 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 588362)
Hey Morningstar... haven't been on since last week so I didn't see your post. Some people will just never see the truth. Nor do they want to. If it were me, next time she brings it up, I would tell her the subject is off limits... if she insisted, I would leave the room. That's just me. I applaud your defense of him, but as you have done so, she knows how you feel, and she still is annoying about... then this is more about annoying you and than about her prejudice against people who are different than herself. Just my opinion, but for me, I would change the subject or walk out of the room.

Hope your laptop gets fixed!!! That must suck!

hugs,
Ruthie :wine:
Ty .... agree.... this last time i did , leave the room.. i was kinda surprised she brought it up... AGAIN....and as soon as i walked in the door. And i noticed oter people sitting there.... i got a lil aggravated , and told hr im not talking about it cuz i already gave u answers.. b4....so i left the room.

rustedrims 05-20-2012 12:56 PM
ok Star...

I havent been in here for a long time..Had a little un-wanted stress for a few months..I will make myself visiable and tell you the perfect thing to say to your sister-in-law..This will make her speachless or get her to studder..

Let her come to you do not approach her..
When she ask you those questions again look her right in the eye and say -Are you asking for yourself or for a friend.??.-Look her in the eye and dont blink..Let her walk away from you and do not walk away from her..
If she still wants to pursue the subject say -cause i can hook ya up.- Keep looking in her eyes and do not walk away from her..Stay on her about hooking her up and tell her you can see couriousity in her eyes..

Try that and let me know how it goes..I have said it a few times to guys at work and it is very entertaining to watch them squirm and studder..
good luck..

morningstar55 05-20-2012 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by rustedrims (Post 588474)
ok Star...

I havent been in here for a long time..Had a little un-wanted stress for a few months..I will make myself visiable and tell you the perfect thing to say to your sister-in-law..This will make her speachless or get her to studder..

Let her come to you do not approach her..
When she ask you those questions again look her right in the eye and say -Are you asking for yourself or for a friend.??.-Look her in the eye and dont blink..Let her walk away from you and do not walk away from her..
If she still wants to pursue the subject say -cause i can hook ya up.- Keep looking in her eyes and do not walk away from her..Stay on her about hooking her up and tell her you can see couriousity in her eyes..

Try that and let me know how it goes..I have said it a few times to guys at work and it is very entertaining to watch them squirm and studder..
good luck..
Haha.... wil keep that in mind... another thing she keeps repeating, is that its my x co driver's that she chooses 2 dresses manly.... and i throw the same ? Bk at her.the way she dresses etc. .... ok am getting aggravated thinking about ths crap she comes up with..... and she is the only person in al my family that does this..... just annoying

rustedrims 05-20-2012 02:49 PM
ok Star
 
Same thing..
Ask your sister-in-law if she wants to take your x driver shopping.?.
Say she has tuesdays off and can probly be ready around 11-11:30 and she will probly buy you lunch..Just throw it back at her..Tell her your x driver might need some new under clothes to..That might get her shopping for boxers or tightey whites for a butch woman..

good luck

morningstar55 05-20-2012 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by rustedrims (Post 588599)
Same thing..
Ask your sister-in-law if she wants to take your x driver shopping.?.
Say she has tuesdays off and can probly be ready around 11-11:30 and she will probly buy you lunch..Just throw it back at her..Tell her your x driver might need some new under clothes to..That might get her shopping for boxers or tightey whites for a butch woman..

good luck
Ha... that would b kinda funny..but um my.x co driver lives a few states away. Not that it would happen an...ways..... well next month wil b another family cook out, will hope she bhaves herself.

rustedrims 05-20-2012 05:02 PM
Hey Star tell her your x driver is going to be in town visiting family..
You could still hook her up..
Gotta think fast..

morningstar55 05-20-2012 05:23 PM
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Originally Posted by rustedrims (Post 588716)
Hey Star tell her your x driver is going to be in town visiting family..
You could still hook her up..
Gotta think fast..
Ha... maybe, i think am gona just , ignore her closed ignorant mind.

ruthie14 05-20-2012 08:23 PM
RR.. you are so funnY! I love it!

rustedrims 05-20-2012 08:54 PM
Hey Ruthie
 
i got a million of em..

ruthie14 05-21-2012 05:03 PM
Well, surgery is scheduled for June 13 on my elbow and then we will see about my wrist. Will be out of work at least 2 weeks...work has suggested disability and to stay out 3 or 4 weeks. Not sure if I can afford it. Worried it might be contested because it was a work injury. We shall see. sigh


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