Hey Starry
 

Verrry well said..
I like it..All of it..

morningstar55 learning through others eyes is a gift yes
 

Hi Morningstar55,

I don't understand your sister thinking for others. Does anyone ever think for your sister, what does your sister do when others think for her...

Why do people do that think for others, like as they know and so push their thinking - thinking all must think like them... Why do they do that?

I know I have flaws where I need to work on myself and if anyone brings it to my attention what I'm doing that's hurting others or offending, I want to change the way how I treat others.

So my next question is: if people don't want to hear how they're offending so then they can take a closer look at themselves to change, why is it that they don't want to know in order to change?

For me, I want to be pleasant to be around and I'd found there's times I'm not pleasant at all, and so I figure it out after wards what am I doing that's make me not be enjoyable to be around, and I seek to learn at least one thing so I can try something different in order to change.

But then again, I've been told I work so hard on myself and why is that., and also I've been told I'm so hard on my self., so maybe there's needs to be balance in this too...

Your sister so busy thinking for others how others must think, that would drive me crazy to be around her, cause there's no freedom of thought and no freedom to be one self...

However your sister puzzles me too., as is it her pride, but what is pride then that she has?

Why can't she learn, if she doesn't understand, can't there be a way where she can learn as she accepts, cause maybe she's confused, but a person can be confused while accepting, I mean, there's times I'm confused, and there's even times I'm confused about myself...

So the thought of completely understanding everything, no that I can't even do all the time, sometimes I don't understand however I can accept the person and learn a new perspective through the persons eyes...

I am only me and see only through my eyes, oh what a gift when I can see through other eyes as I learn through their teaching me their perspective.

OK, i like this thread, but have always been kind of put off by the title. The "over" bothers me. Why not just call it the "elders?" LOL, yes, I am an over and have to say that my 60's are most certainly of the finest vintage.... Yes, I might be being too sensitive, or politically correct. So, what do others that are 60 plus, think?

Ummmm, I am not 60 plus, so I guess I will save my 2 cents.

I'm not 60+ either, turning 50 in six months. If my cents still counts, I am not, nor ever will be, an elder. Much less, a "crone". That's not here; it's from a book I read about women of a certain age who become "crones". Yikes, not me!

Wow tanx for the post...... my sister IN Law. Ha....im not gonna give into hr ignorance and annoying repeating statments or repeating questions

Morning loft dwellers nd peekers...... think its about coffee time.

Hey lofters...... landed in Detroit....buzzed thru Ohio along lake erie.... didn't notice any rusty rims..so gjg kept goin.haha..... anyways am heading bk thru there 2 nite. Migration camp out along the way.. im getting tired anyways have a nicely nite.

Suddenly I'm really glad I'm me. I'm glad I'm not younger than I am and I'm really glad I don't have to do some of that "stuff" again. Finally! The comfort in my own skin I've been struggling to get back!!!

Morning loft dwellers nd peekers ..... i been up and drivin since 3am .... and its been so refreshing with Windows down, feeling the breeze and and the fresh air coming off the lake.....life is great.

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Have a great Memorial Day Weekend!