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Soft*Silver 10-27-2011 02:57 PM

chose her above any friend you might have. ANY friend. Make HER your best friend. Its ok to have other friends,important to have other friends, but not at the cost of your relationship

be faithful. Or get out. Either way you are the hero in your relationship. Even if you dont follow thru but want to, know she Knows you want to. It hurts. Like Dee said, if you need out, get out, dont make her suffer because you lack balls to be a hero in your relationship.

like yourself more than she loves you. Dont let her carry your self esteem. She isnt strong enuf, no matter how strong she is

ONLY 10-27-2011 05:02 PM

At the end of the day, ask her how her day went, pay attention to her, look her in the eyes when she is speaking to you, and if she had a rough day, let her vent if she needs to, listen and then bring her close to you and hug her tight.....with option to then whisper in her ear..... "now let me take your mind off work........" :love1: If her day made her sad, then comfort her, hold her.......
OR

depending on situation (if she is pissed off, not sad) you might wanna stop her mid sentence and make mad passionate love to her :p then do some talking :)

Greco 10-27-2011 05:27 PM

for readers
 
read together on the same sofa

read to each other on sofa, or bed
or in tent

read to her.

Greco

girl_dee 10-28-2011 08:15 AM

leave your baggage behind, that's where it belongs.

ONLY 10-29-2011 03:44 PM

She reads to me (over the phone) before bed and most times I fall asleep within 5 minutes and she thinks that's adorable and loves it

She says I snore (not all the time, right baby? :p) and think it's peaceful, comforting and cute lol

Now you tell me, is that love or what? ;)

I love listening to her read to me, very calming, comforting, relaxing :) I love you SS (f)

* these are things (fall asleep while she reads and snore) NOT to do in a relationship but for us it works :thumbsup: lol *

ArkansasPiscesGrrl 10-29-2011 07:15 PM

And lastly.... don't lose your crush :)[/COLOR][/B][/QUOTE]



I love this. That is what I want, for me to keep my crush and for my someone to keep hys!

clay 10-29-2011 07:35 PM

Absolutely, APG! I was STILL crushing on my wife..the day she passed! I was so in love with that woman!!! And she, me. I want THAT again!

Julien 10-29-2011 08:15 PM

Listen to her, I mean really listen, don't just "hear" what she says "know" what she says and how she says it.

Greco 10-29-2011 09:31 PM

arms are for holding
 
after you have taken her completely made love to her

hold her hold her forever

and never ever take her for granted.

Greco

SoulShineFemme 10-30-2011 05:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ONLY (Post 450008)
She reads to me (over the phone) before bed and most times I fall asleep within 5 minutes and she thinks that's adorable and loves it

She says I snore (not all the time, right baby? :p) and think it's peaceful, comforting and cute lol

Now you tell me, is that love or what? ;)

I love listening to her read to me, very calming, comforting, relaxing :) I love you SS (f)

* these are things (fall asleep while she reads and snore) NOT to do in a relationship but for us it works :thumbsup: lol *


I love it that we have this bedtime ritual and that my voice is the last thing you hear before you drift off.... AND you have the cutest lil snore in the world!! I love you with all my heart.

girl_dee 10-30-2011 07:37 PM

enjoy Jello together!

girl_dee 11-11-2011 05:50 PM

Celebrate every anniversary and day!

:awww:

girl_dee 11-21-2011 03:29 PM

Forgive each other and be happy when it's time to move on.

Hold on to the good stuff... let go of the icky stuff.......


princessbelle 11-21-2011 03:34 PM

Share a cold.

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SoNotHer 11-21-2011 03:34 PM

Make sure they know how connected you are to them and how very much you believe in and need that connection.

As impossible as it is to fully show them how special and important they are to you, try.

And let them do all of this for you.

girl_dee 11-21-2011 03:55 PM

Trust. ..........

And take your Vitamin C

Martina 11-21-2011 05:06 PM

-- Show up --

bigbutchmistie 11-21-2011 05:48 PM

Honesty and Communication.

Honesty even if the truth hurts the truth is still the truth and both parties deserve it... ALWAYS

Communication.. Talk about it all! Even if it is insignificant to you it may not be insignificant to your partner
.

Sachita 11-21-2011 05:53 PM

fuck long and hard. Decide who does what- assign roles.

girl_dee 11-21-2011 06:16 PM

Have goals as a couple!


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