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VintageFemme 09-19-2015 02:55 PM

I have learned . . .
 
that no matter how much I may love cake, cake does not love me.

Teddybear 09-19-2015 03:30 PM

If u get that feeling something just isn't quite right it ISN'T. Question what is being told to you if you feel something is off.

Ask questions of potential dates to get to know them.

gotoseagrl 09-19-2015 04:35 PM

~ To wait
~ Not to settle
~ Some things take forever, while others come sooner than expected

RockOn 09-19-2015 05:35 PM

I seem to be drawn to things or want things that are not good for me.

Now just how fucked up is that? I say a whole lot fucked up! LOL! (may as well laugh about it)
:)

cinnamongrrl 09-19-2015 07:02 PM

I have learned to not expect anything from anyone....its far less disappointing

JDeere 09-19-2015 07:16 PM

To leave well enough alone but I don't always do that.

kittygrrl 12-13-2015 08:25 AM

learned..
 
if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, its a duck

kittygrrl 12-13-2015 08:37 AM

also...
 
wickedness will never lead to happiness........................................h ave I said this before? perhaps, but it bears repeating,

kittygrrl 12-13-2015 09:10 AM

learned..
 
character-constancy over time

Chad 12-13-2015 09:55 AM

Learned
 
I have learned that I should not have expectations of other people and I do mean all other people. I have lost too many relationships with friends, lovers, and family to my expectations.

Now I say what I need and if they can't handle it then they can move on.

RockOn 12-13-2015 10:04 AM

Learning I do not HAVE to work myself outside on the weekends so hard until I drop ... I actually took an hour nap last weekend plus did not work until 8 or 9 p.m. either day.

I am hopeful ... I did fairly well yesterday.
We'll see how it goes today.

I have come to realize I am too driven when it comes to getting things accomplished and I set the bar impossibly high.

Learning how to allow myself to relax some on the weekends, take a little break and sit down.

Getting there! (I think)
:)

Bèsame* 12-13-2015 10:06 AM

What you say, is not always what is heard. Communication needs to work, before assumptions are made.

Greco 12-13-2015 10:31 AM

d
 
that going slowly in building friendship can lead to
delicious surprises built on solid ground.

Greco

Shystonefem 12-13-2015 12:17 PM

I have learned that my gut is ALWAYS right. I still haven't learned to listen to it all of the time, but I am getting wayyy better at that.

gotoseagrl 12-13-2015 12:25 PM

Letting go and getting lost in mindless, nonsensical chatter & laughter to tears at the end of each day makes it possible to get through anything.

Nattih 12-13-2015 02:43 PM

You never get what you deserve. You get what you can negotiate. Learn to stack the deck in your favor for the things you want in life.

cinnamongrrl 12-13-2015 04:47 PM

A lot....and yet...never enough...

Shystonefem 12-13-2015 05:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl (Post 1032078)
A lot....and yet...never enough...

NEVER enough! :glasses:

kittygrrl 12-13-2015 05:22 PM

learned..
 
some things are worth fighting for, some are not, having the wisdom to know the difference..

Tuff Stuff 12-24-2015 12:11 AM

RUN!
 
You(I)can't run off to Texas or New York or Canada...you're(I'm)married!

:wtf:

Leave me alone,plz


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