being supported emotionally ...

we work in two different counties but ended up at the same store tonight on way home .. I get this text asking where I am? They have no idea how much their presence was needed right at that moment on such a hard day...as they snuck up behind me.....but their smiling face and positive attitude was such a pick me up, that I can't help but appreciate all they've done for me recently and how they've been there....even if it's just to help clear the fog from my brain to pick out fruit from an overly crowded store.

....reaching out to take my hand.

...images placed in my head throughout the day
...good morning texts
...random I love you texts
...the random hug and kiss from my partners here
...laughing with them
...long conversations with you
...laughing with you
...listening to you, understanding more and more of you
...letting you understand me
...music
...developing plans with you
...good morning messages
...kisses and cuddles as I sleep
...being able to be playful with him early in the morning
...sleeping, petting one of two dogs

How wonderful it is when hy feels better! I don't take for granted hys gentle, positive ways so I miss them when hy must conserve to heal. This is my first partner who is positive and mushy all over and I love hym. I guess it isn't so much a little thing but a big part of hym. Oops. Wrong thread. :bunchflowers:

A random text for no reason at all
A phone call just because she needs to hear my voice

The texts and graphics he sends me during the night while I'm sleeping so when I awaken I find them and know that he's been thinking of me all night long...and the voice messages! Omg! That voice! (Turns me into a soft kitty...purr purr purr).

He listens and is supportive of my thoughts, ideas, crazy....it's like everything I say or do is pretty much okay.....when it's not, his DOM voice lets me know to get back in place...giggling...(I love it when that happens).

He always makes sure I have a pillow.......no matter what.... :)

Doing things for a partner, not because you expect something in return, but because you want to, because of the sheer joy you get from seeing you've made her happy.

Celebrating the days together without a calendar or commercial holiday telling you to do so.

Being protective out of loyality, not because a partner is weak (because she sure as hell is not), but because you are dedicated.

Faking sick days at work on the same day to have an extra day together.

Cleaning the snow off a partner's car in the morning before she gets up so she doesn't have to.

Making sure a partner's favorite food/drink/treat is always in the house.

Throwing a towel in the dryer while she's in the bath or shower so it's warm when she gets out and dries off.

Sharing freshly baked cookies. Just sayin.

Having a chihuahua snuggled up in my side... She's my best baby :)

And... A quiet puppy sleeping in his pen. *thank goodness*

:)

its the little things...

that make a day go by a little easier
with a little smile
or a big one
a post here and there
painting my daughters nails
watching the lights go up
the penguin and santa and lighted candy canes
a good conversation with my kids
Skyping with my youngest and laughing all the while

I sent her a pizza the other night she is in vegas and on the receipt i had them put a message, to stefanie, love you mom

the little things so she could have pizza with us while on Skype...making her feel more at home..

The love i have for my friends and family :)

This is our long haul week. He has finals, and I have classroom glitter projects. Tonight, while I was busy nailing myself up on the cross, he just took care of shit. Like the laundry. Like the dishes. Like the trash. It was just done. I love a man of action.

It's the little things like...

having your friends check up on you when you are not feeling well... means a lot.

Waking up in the middle of the night 3am NYC time and seeing some people I care about online here with me.

Music.....

I kept forgetting to get my cereal...and he remembered....so now I have breakfast :)

<3 <3