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Daktari 01-28-2012 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 515460)
Yesterday I had 2 smokes in the morning.

Today so far none..still stayin on track where I am supose to be with my plan...The way I have done it has really truely helped me to stay strong.


Congrats to everyone else taking this ride...we can do it!!!

'Grats....well done you..you can do it...it's only a few puffs a day between being a smoker and a non smoker!

Lady Pamela 01-28-2012 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Incubus (Post 515486)
'Grats....well done you..you can do it...it's only a few puffs a day between being a smoker and a non smoker!


Thanks..it's not easy but I know It is worth it..BTW..Your story stopped me from having one at a really hard moment..ty

uniquetobeme 01-29-2012 11:36 AM

I'm still having cravings! What is up with this? Usually they are over by now. Maybe it is because I'm still using the nicotine lozenges. At least I didn't have a craving until I was awake for a couple of hours.
I'm worried about going back to work tomorrow. I think that is a huge trigger for me, especially on my breaks! Not to mention, the stress...It is tax season and it makes it crazy busy at work. I will drink LOTS of water and maybe read or something on my breaks...I may have to do the "I'm not smoking for 5 minutes" thing, 5 minutes at a time until the craving passes. I don't know why it is so hard to quit this time!
I'm glad for this thread. It does help to have a place to vent about it and also for support and it does give me more strength that I would have if I were doing this completely on my own.
You all ROCK!!

Lady Pamela 01-29-2012 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by uniquetobeme (Post 515792)
I'm still having cravings! What is up with this? Usually they are over by now. Maybe it is because I'm still using the nicotine lozenges. At least I didn't have a craving until I was awake for a couple of hours.
I'm worried about going back to work tomorrow. I think that is a huge trigger for me, especially on my breaks! Not to mention, the stress...It is tax season and it makes it crazy busy at work. I will drink LOTS of water and maybe read or something on my breaks...I may have to do the "I'm not smoking for 5 minutes" thing, 5 minutes at a time until the craving passes. I don't know why it is so hard to quit this time!
I'm glad for this thread. It does help to have a place to vent about it and also for support and it does give me more strength that I would have if I were doing this completely on my own.
You all ROCK!!

Keep using them..they are slowing or stopping the process probably...trust me..

Funny story that happened yesterday:

I had my sister put my patch on me. It needs to be taped on because they will not stay on my skin for nothing due to meopause..ha
Well last night I had 2 smokes..irrated myself but still on the program.
Found out this morning, that when she taped it on she didnt pull the tab off..so I only got a tiny piece of the patch all day..ha

So today, the patch is on right..but it does help.

I am using nicoderm patches. They seem to be the best for me.

uniquetobeme 01-29-2012 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 515915)
Found out this morning, that when she taped it on she didnt pull the tab off..so I only got a tiny piece of the patch all day..ha

That is funny! You did really well with only a partial patch :) !

So far today, no smoking...Will do my best to stay strong tomorrow! Maybe I'll treat myself to a little chocolate :chocolate: instead of a smoke on my break...I guess that may not be the best substitution, but maybe for tomorrow it is okay:praying:

Lady Pamela 01-30-2012 12:16 AM

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Originally Posted by uniquetobeme (Post 516198)
That is funny! You did really well with only a partial patch :) !

So far today, no smoking...Will do my best to stay strong tomorrow! Maybe I'll treat myself to a little chocolate :chocolate: instead of a smoke on my break...I guess that may not be the best substitution, but maybe for tomorrow it is okay:praying:

Way to go!!! Keep up the good work! Btw, fruit is a very good thing to eat when your quitting instead of sweets. I have had some sweets but mostly eat fruits. One because they are sweet but they are a free food so to speak. And great for you. Also vegies are great also and a free food as well. Both are full of only good calories.

DapperButch 01-30-2012 06:40 AM

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Originally Posted by uniquetobeme (Post 515792)
I'm still having cravings! What is up with this? Usually they are over by now. Maybe it is because I'm still using the nicotine lozenges. At least I didn't have a craving until I was awake for a couple of hours.
I'm worried about going back to work tomorrow. I think that is a huge trigger for me, especially on my breaks! Not to mention, the stress...It is tax season and it makes it crazy busy at work. I will drink LOTS of water and maybe read or something on my breaks...I may have to do the "I'm not smoking for 5 minutes" thing, 5 minutes at a time until the craving passes. I don't know why it is so hard to quit this time!
I'm glad for this thread. It does help to have a place to vent about it and also for support and it does give me more strength that I would have if I were doing this completely on my own.
You all ROCK!!

I agree with you about the lozenges thing. As long as you are using them you will be going through some type of withdrawal as you decrease use. Subsequently, it makes sense your cravings didn't last as long in the past if you did not use nicotine replacement, as the nicotine got out of your system more quickly.

I did Chantix (so I had one time withdrawal, but it certainly wasn't as bad as quitting cold turkey), but everyone is different, and adding that now wouldn't really make sense at this juncture for you, anyway.

As an aside, "cravings" for me lasted a long, long time. I see this as different from "withdrawal".

uniquetobeme 01-30-2012 04:54 PM

I don't know HOW I made it through the day at work without smoking! A huge trigger was driving past the gas station right by my work...plus work itself. Now I'm off to my class...I will not go outside with the smokers or I know I'll beg for one. Today was the day from HELL at work too. I had a frosty for lunch :-). LOL

Lady Pamela 01-30-2012 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by uniquetobeme (Post 516640)
I don't know HOW I made it through the day at work without smoking! A huge trigger was driving past the gas station right by my work...plus work itself. Now I'm off to my class...I will not go outside with the smokers or I know I'll beg for one. Today was the day from HELL at work too. I had a frosty for lunch :-). LOL


Get cinnamon altoids to suck on..unsweetened greatfruit juice to take sips from... and always carry either a cinnamon toothpick or plain one in your mouth...it reallly helps...smiles Good for you btw!

uniquetobeme 01-30-2012 06:05 PM

Lots of great ideas! Thanks!

Jesse 01-30-2012 06:28 PM

Wow, it's really cool to see so many of you tossing out the smokes! Great job! :)

Jan 5th a year ago was my quit day, and I truly do not regret it a bit.

Just_G 01-30-2012 07:53 PM

10 months ago yesterday for me! I never thought I would quit...I did it.

Stay strong quitters....you can do it!!

uniquetobeme 01-30-2012 11:37 PM

One more day of non-smoking :-) Today was probably the hardest day so far! Tomorrow isn't Monday, so that should help :-)

OS Butch 01-31-2012 08:31 AM

Great job! Keep it up!

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Originally Posted by uniquetobeme (Post 516856)
One more day of non-smoking :-) Today was probably the hardest day so far! Tomorrow isn't Monday, so that should help :-)


uniquetobeme 01-31-2012 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by OS Butch (Post 516958)
Great job! Keep it up!

Thank you! So far, today has been a bit better. I've only had one intense craving, and that was when I was leaving my office for the day. I popped one of those nicotine losenges in like nobody's buisness and the carving went away. I can already feel a difference in my body from not smoking :-). I may be heading back to the gym soon!

uniquetobeme 02-02-2012 10:24 AM

Still haven't smoked and have been trying to wean myself off the nicotine lozenges. I didn't have my first one until 11 am today. I still am gettin about 1 powerful urge to smoke a day...but I've come too far to go back. I wih I could smoke one every once in awhile and not start the habit again, but apparently I can not. I used to be able to, but it is playing with fire! Way too easy to get sucked back in!

OS Butch 02-02-2012 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by uniquetobeme (Post 518317)
Still haven't smoked and have been trying to wean myself off the nicotine lozenges. I didn't have my first one until 11 am today. I still am gettin about 1 powerful urge to smoke a day...but I've come too far to go back. I wih I could smoke one every once in awhile and not start the habit again, but apparently I can not. I used to be able to, but it is playing with fire! Way too easy to get sucked back in!

Been there and done that. I took a trip to Texas and thought what could it hurt, I will quit again once I get back. Well, I have been back and had to start all over again. Today is day 3 with smoking....I am the old school type in many ways....Cold turkey....sometimes I wish I could change the way I am....other times I am fine:)

Keep up with it and keep coming here to check in, it sure helps me and encourages me when I see folks posting!

uniquetobeme 02-02-2012 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by OS Butch (Post 518380)
Been there and done that. I took a trip to Texas and thought what could it hurt, I will quit again once I get back. Well, I have been back and had to start all over again. Today is day 3 with smoking....I am the old school type in many ways....Cold turkey....sometimes I wish I could change the way I am....other times I am fine:)

Keep up with it and keep coming here to check in, it sure helps me and encourages me when I see folks posting!

It is great that you quit again! It isn't easy, but you made it past the hardest part! BTW, I am sure you are fine just the way you are. :)

I usually quit cold turkey too, the 10 or so other time I have quit. I knew I couldn't do it this time. My life is too stressful right now, My work is CRAZY because it is tax season, and I'm taking 2 classes and a few other things, I wouldn't have made it a day without smoking, so I decided to use the nicotine "supplements" LOL.

Today...I had the food craving...I ate way more sugar cookies than I should have! Then...I realized what I was doing and took a nicotine "supplement" to save me from gaining 5lbs in 5 minutes! LOL I'm okay now :-) Good thing I didn't have any potato chips in the house!

Stay strong everyone! I know you all have helped me to not smoke a great deal. The support is great and it's nice that you all understand what a struggle quitting can be. Just realized, it is 7 days today...still not out of the woods...will probably always be in the woods...but each day I breathe a little easier!

Lady Pamela 02-04-2012 07:09 PM

day 22 cutting down
 
First let me say CONGRATS to all who are quitting or trying to quit! That is fanstastic!

I have chosen to cut down as you have seen. I haven't been back in a few days so thought I would check in..lol
I am on day 22 and I am currently at 3 to 4 a day right now.

Will be cutting down to 2 or 3 real soon. My body is still fighting it a lil.
But this is what seems to work for me the best.

Seems to me like that lil bit would be easy to cut down but seriously it is not.
But it will happen...trust that...ha!

It simply amazes me I have kept to it and am down to that..btw I have gained 5 lbs so I am still ok..That won't be hard to get off. smiles

uniquetobeme 02-04-2012 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 520406)
First let me say CONGRATS to all who are quitting or trying to quit! That is fanstastic!

I have chosen to cut down as you have seen. I haven't been back in a few days so thought I would check in..lol
I am on day 22 and I am currently at 3 to 4 a day right now.

Will be cutting down to 2 or 3 real soon. My body is still fighting it a lil.
But this is what seems to work for me the best.

Seems to me like that lil bit would be easy to cut down but seriously it is not.
But it will happen...trust that...ha!

It simply amazes me I have kept to it and am down to that..btw I have gained 5 lbs so I am still ok..That won't be hard to get off. smiles

That is awesome that you can do that! I don't have enough will power! I think I'm an all or nothing kinda gal. LOL

Lady Pamela 02-04-2012 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by uniquetobeme (Post 520447)
That is awesome that you can do that! I don't have enough will power! I think I'm an all or nothing kinda gal. LOL

I did the all or nothing thing last time I quit..I did it well and stopped for 2 years..dumb me picked up a tiny cigar..lol

This time I find I can't do it that way..but I was smoking way more this time than then.

I figure even if stopping is slower for me, it is better than what I was doing and consistant.

I have slowed from almost 2 packs to this now.
Hope to be smoke free soon..smiles

And thank you very much....It is nice to others doing the same or the same process..it really does help during the hard times.

Atleast it does for me!

OS Butch 02-05-2012 08:10 AM

Pacing the floors this morning.....I will not go buy, I will not go buy, I will not go buy!!
So, lemme get ready to have a few folks over for Super Bowl watching this evening....The good news is they are non smokers!

uniquetobeme 02-05-2012 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by OS Butch (Post 520763)
Pacing the floors this morning.....I will not go buy, I will not go buy, I will not go buy!!
So, lemme get ready to have a few folks over for Super Bowl watching this evening....The good news is they are non smokers!

Stay strong, my friend!!! You can make it! I know you can! :-)

OS Butch 02-05-2012 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by uniquetobeme (Post 520766)
Stay strong, my friend!!! You can make it! I know you can! :-)

Well, I did make it to Harris Teeter and back without a stop at the tobacco shop I use to frequent. Teeter had a special, buy 3 coke 12 pack cans and get 3 free! Coke Zero, Caffeine free diet Coke and 2 Digornio Pizza were purchased for this evening football watching!

Daktari 02-05-2012 12:23 PM

Go you OS....you can do it...no reasons only excuses remember.

Well, like you lot I'm giving up something (else) that is so very bad for me. It's day 6 for me and I'm hanging in by the skin of my teeth and by jingo! it's hard. I'm gonna do it though. By hook or by bloody crook!


May the force be with you :tinfoil:

Lady Pamela 02-05-2012 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by OS Butch (Post 520763)
Pacing the floors this morning.....I will not go buy, I will not go buy, I will not go buy!!
So, lemme get ready to have a few folks over for Super Bowl watching this evening....The good news is they are non smokers!

Fantastic!!! That is way cool.

toothpicks to play with help alot.
remember to breath, get rid of all smells on smoke or ashtrays.
And when you really desire a smoke, get busy doing something.


Today is my 23rd day of cutting down...SO FAR I HAVE HAD NONE.

My daughter started today as well to not smoke...way cool

OS Butch 02-05-2012 03:42 PM

Good for you, Dude. Hang in there and remember all that great advice you are giving us!

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Originally Posted by Incubus (Post 520959)
Go you OS....you can do it...no reasons only excuses remember.

Well, like you lot I'm giving up something (else) that is so very bad for me. It's day 6 for me and I'm hanging in by the skin of my teeth and by jingo! it's hard. I'm gonna do it though. By hook or by bloody crook!


May the force be with you :tinfoil:


OS Butch 02-05-2012 03:45 PM

So far so good! Only problem is today I am eating everything in sight. Last time I quit I didn't have this craving thing. I am guessing I will find the 15 pounds I lost:blink:

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 521116)
Fantastic!!! That is way cool.

toothpicks to play with help alot.
remember to breath, get rid of all smells on smoke or ashtrays.
And when you really desire a smoke, get busy doing something.


Today is my 23rd day of cutting down...SO FAR I HAVE HAD NONE.

My daughter started today as well to not smoke...way cool


Lady Pamela 02-05-2012 03:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Incubus (Post 520959)
Go you OS....you can do it...no reasons only excuses remember.

Well, like you lot I'm giving up something (else) that is so very bad for me. It's day 6 for me and I'm hanging in by the skin of my teeth and by jingo! it's hard. I'm gonna do it though. By hook or by bloody crook!


May the force be with you :tinfoil:


That is way cool!!! It is hard as hell but well worth it!!

I stopped other things years ago, and omg it was no easy ride! But well worth it I tell you. I do not know what yours is but I am sure the struggles are intense. Keep it up!

Lady Pamela 02-05-2012 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by OS Butch (Post 521133)
So far so good! Only problem is today I am eating everything in sight. Last time I quit I didn't have this craving thing. I am guessing I will find the 15 pounds I lost:blink:


A few tricks,
Unsweatened greatruit juice,toothpicks, drinking water instead of eating that has ice in it,crushed ice to chew on in a cup,cinnomin everything helps..fireballs are good, get up and move, breath deep, change all habits you used to do to not have them, allow yourself breaks like when you did smoke but breeth fresh air, sugar free cabdies, and fruit and veggies are a free food, You can eat all you want of them. Just be careful of what goes on them and how much...smiles


Your doing great!

OS Butch 02-05-2012 04:01 PM

Thank you and those are really good tricks....wish I had them when I went to the store. Today is Super Bowl watching and the house is filled with chips and salsa...Apple pie and ice cream...I do have Coke Zero..LOL!

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 521140)
A few tricks,
Unsweatened greatruit juice,toothpicks, drinking water instead of eating that has ice in it,crushed ice to chew on in a cup,cinnomin everything helps..fireballs are good, get up and move, breath deep, change all habits you used to do to not have them, allow yourself breaks like when you did smoke but breeth fresh air, sugar free cabdies, and fruit and veggies are a free food, You can eat all you want of them. Just be careful of what goes on them and how much...smiles


Your doing great!


Lady Pamela 02-05-2012 04:06 PM

Just a question to everyone else.
Have any of you noticed horrible heart burn since you have tried to quit or when you quit before?

If so, what did you do for it? Nothing seems to help yet that I have tried.

OS Butch 02-05-2012 04:15 PM

Sorry I don't have anything to pass on for this, I never had that out of all the times I have quit.

Not sure how to reply to the message you left! I don't have a particular team to root for this year....pretty much the Super Bowl this year is just a reason for friends to get together.

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 521150)
Just a question to everyone else.
Have any of you noticed horrible heart burn since you have tried to quit or when you quit before?

If so, what did you do for it? Nothing seems to help yet that I have tried.


uniquetobeme 02-05-2012 11:41 PM

Another day with no smoking :) Great job everyone! Still using the nicotine lozenges, but less and less each day :)

Lady Pamela 02-05-2012 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by uniquetobeme (Post 521438)
Another day with no smoking :) Great job everyone! Still using the nicotine lozenges, but less and less each day :)

Fantastic!!!

I am still on a cut down program but haven't smoked 1 today at all...smiles

uniquetobeme 02-06-2012 11:25 PM

Despite it being such a long day for me...8 hours work, and then a class in the evening, I have only used 3 nicotine lozenges today! I'm looking forward to being completely nicotine free soon!
I hope everyone had a great Monday! Keep up the great work! We can do it!!

Lady Pamela 02-06-2012 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by uniquetobeme (Post 522014)
Despite it being such a long day for me...8 hours work, and then a class in the evening, I have only used 3 nicotine lozenges today! I'm looking forward to being completely nicotine free soon!
I hope everyone had a great Monday! Keep up the great work! We can do it!!

Tottally awesome!
Don't knock yourself out for using help...The big key is your not smoking...good for you!

Lady Pamela 02-06-2012 11:40 PM

Having a hard time today..But I am offically 2 days without a smoke.

Does it get worse? Or does it get better from here...ha

Daktari 02-07-2012 07:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 522021)
Having a hard time today..But I am offically 2 days without a smoke.

Does it get worse? Or does it get better from here...ha

Wooohooooo! Well done! 2 days it brilliant. I'm soooo glad you've got past the intermediate cop out thang of 'well, I am cutting down'. (sorry if that offends but I tend to say as I see it)

Be prepared for the worst then if it doesn't happen it'll be a bonus. :cheesy: Use all those techniques we've all spoken about in the thread. The best things we do for ourselves are not the easiest. It could well get worse but you have this thread for inspiration and hopefully you've developed your own internal positive self talk to get you through the 'wilderness' times.

I'm so stoked that you've made it to the non smoking part. Only another day and the nicotine will be entirely out of your body.

Go you!!

May the force be with you :tinfoil:

OS Butch 02-07-2012 07:51 AM

Everyone is doing so well! Keep it up. I didn't fair as well. On Sunday, my non smoking friends arrived....with a friend I have previously met and she is a smoker without any inclination of quitting. Well, I did bum 2 smokes and justified it by being a good host, not wanting her to be outside smoking all by herself!

The good news is I did not go out and start buying a pack, so here I am on day 2 of not smoking, again!


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