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well , I doubt that,he has a drug problem....and well... I have raised my grand daughter for the better part of 4 years ne way... it is just damn it .. I wish they would get their shit together.. I dont foresee it...
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i am so sorry that u have to put the empty nest on hold again. May u can find some couples that has the same age kids and be able to spend time with them and relax a bit and enjoy good company. There seems to be a few people in their forties that taking care of children.
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This is gonna get a HUGE shriek of disapproval BUT... there is nothing in the Mom Handbook that says you have to take in grandkids or have adult children move home...
Do the grandkids have no other relatives? Where are the other grandparents, any other siblings or cousins age appropriate etc to take responsibility? Is this a matter of you being the only "unmarried" relative and therefore you are free and can take on this responsibilty? Why are you obligated to take them on? If the parents are drug addicts perhaps the kids would be best adopted... As for adult children moving home... just say no, otherwise you are stuck with them 'til you go to the old age home... |
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well in my case, as i have mentioned I have already raised my g baby for 3 out of 4 years, yes My son is on drugs, so are millions of other people, I love my son with all my heart as I do these g-babies. He was my Baby. Now as a matter of fact I am the only relative around. but that would make no difference to me I would fight like hell for all of my G babies. Sometimes, doing the responsible thing is giving your children to some one who loves them and will take good care of them while you get your shit together so you can be a parent in some capacity. I am frustrated, I am disappointed, and a little relieved at the same time. it isnt written in the handbook, I have to take them....no but it is 100% in my heart......I love those babies , and could never stand them to be with strangers or in the system. I have 5, 4yrs old and under..... I would take them all . just been one crazy ass week just had to scream for a second is all. stoney |
((((((((Stoney))))))) I hope everything works out. I would feel the same as you I think. I raised 2 stepkids who now have nothing to do with me... never could have any of my own. Long sad story...I won't get into it here. I just think that if I were in your position I would hope I would do the same. Good luck to ya hun.
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((((((((((((((((stoney)))))))))))))))) if it was my daughter in this situation... i would not or could not allow strangers to raise my grand kids..as in adoption or foster...kudo's for you for following your heart.. blood is always thicker then water.... no matter what.:goodpost: they are part of my blood.. and would do anything to be there foro them. |
Hi my name is Graphiteta2s,
I wanted to introduce myself. I know you are discussing a very personal topic right now. I just wanted to step forward and wish Stoney the best. I'll step back now and keep reading. G. |
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Reading posts. tonight's fare...
tilapia rolled in bread crumbs and dill, browned in olive oil. homemade tarter sauce. BIG tossed salad |
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think its the artist in me .. thinking that way.. lol |
alrighty Lofters...... i think im gonna take a nap before i head to the Nissian plant....... nites |
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mawning Lofters...... and afternooners...... its lunch time i suppose.... huh.. lolhttp://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o.../0e2o1pw56.gif i love steak salad's if they are made right....... heh http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o...a37a57294e.jpg ya know. OLJet.... I love that pic you there for your avatar... very handsome ;) :) dont ever change. heyy Incubus....... hows ur day going over there??? what does your member name mean and how did it come about?? wonder where DELS daughter is this am ... hmmmm mawning to you.... Graphite :) wait its afternoon ... Oyy see what happens to my . when i drive till 3am ish and dont wake up till a later hour then normal ..mess's me up..lol |
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well i am here MS...but i was late getting up this am ...so i had to scoot to work quickly........
just doing a drive by....tonight.....have a great night everyone |
Hi ALL! I hope you had a good weekend and that life is being a good ride for you! I went to the Winter Ball here (a B-F Socials event out of SF & Oakland, CA) and had a great time. Saw people I haven't in quite awhile and danced. If i can dance, all is good!
OK, I'm off to do water-exercise in my spa. Have some new foam bar-bells and flippers! I am a happy :frog: and love my :frog::dog: and working on becomming :superman: (woman butch)!!! |
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^^I'm a dancer too - sadly Mrs.Incubus has two left feet!
Good morning Lofters, I hope that the morning is full of good coffee, smiles and sunshine for you all. morningstar :chaplin: My name? Well as you know I'm Dr.Doo on all other websites but I chose a different name to register here because I wanted to try on a new name for size so to speak. Incubus "An incubus (plural incubi) is a demon in male form supposed to lie upon sleepers, especially women, in order to have sexual intercourse with them, according to a number of mythological and legendary traditions." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incubus I chose it because it represents the rather rude scallywag in me :grindevil: Well lofters, I'm off to a job fair today to find out about getting in college in september to do some sort of vocational degree. Wish me luck! |
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mawning Lofters ........ ha ........ Incubusters..... scallywags can be fun .. * giggling* and i love to dance........ :tango: |
ever feel like your stuck in a rut?? |
Morning everyone,its nearly noon and im sorta geting my stuff together..Today the sun was suposed to be out but all I see is rain clouds but no rain thank goodness.I do know that spring is round the corner cause the tulip trees are sprouting and the red buds are blooming.
Danceing ..I wish I could do that again but haveing a goofy back prevents that,oh but the memories linger. Now MS, just what kind of rut r u in and what is it can be done to get out of it? I dont think I ever have posted hear on the lofters,nice to know we have a place to hang out.Well im off to the pool hall to work on my game..catch yall later. |
**looking up at Rochinghams post.** POOL Hall??? :snooker: hmmmmm :whoop: im sitting in my truck ... bored out of my mind.... waiting for these dumb ass's in the dispatch office to come up with a load for me.... and soo how do you like that??? i call them dumbass's cuz.... they can be.. i mean i been 1st truck in line here with my company for a load here since 3am monday morning..... and with a report of 7 daily average loads here .. i think its a bunch of BS but hey............. i guess it could be worse right??? right?? right?? :cracked: anywaysssssssssssssssss .......... time for ahhh hmmmm well a snack.. lol |
SEEKING...
I posted this in another thread... being proactive I am posting here as well since I am hoping to meet a nice single Butch of the older variety , 40+ but a younger Butch may be considered too... you just have to be able to keep up !
Single Lesbian, 54... 100% Prime Canadian Femme... educated, well read and travelled, quirky and fun sense of humour, I speak French and American as well as English; my many interests include cooking, walking and hiking, reading mysteries, biographies and trashy novels as well as watching tv, going to the movies, hanging at the beach in the summer, not so crazy about winter... I sail, ride horseback, have been know to camp and am a Lager Lout during World Cup Football (South Africa June 2010)... have predicted the last 8 SuperBowls acurately and not bet on them, dammit! I am employed as an IT Geek/ Tech Writer with a Media Relations Co, planning to retire within the next 5 years, I am willing to relocate ... Conversant in BDSM and Leather I am seeking my equal opposite in a Lesbian Butch (F or M ID'd) aged 40-? of the Domme / Top / Daddy variety with some of the same interests, active, employed or retired, sane, with a sense of humour and perspective who is seeking a real life, monogamous committment. So... I await replies and I will will update on the outcome, discretely and revealing no names w/out permission of course ! I found an even better descriptive of what catches my attention best in a Butch... "OFOS Top Domme Stone Butch Daddy". The Stone part of this description is optional on my part... I am happy either way ! |
lol ...... wow kate.. interesting post..
wish u luck... (f) im single myself and seeking somewhat of the same cept for the sm part in bd ,, lol .. :) |
here's a PRE St Pattys day tune..... and let me say this...... i think a butch/TG/FTM in a celt is sooooooooo HAWWwwwwtttt :drool::drool: [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vtp4adNTP0Y"]YouTube- The corrs and the chieftains[/ame] |
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I wish you luck in your quest...If I lived on the same continent I could well be beating a path to your door with my trusty swword (sic) *brandishes swword bravely* :groucho: |
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hello.......... Mr Incubus Sir.. hope you had a nice day today.. im gonna hav to go put some more fuel in this beast....... soo b bk in a bit. |
I wish you luck in your quest...If I lived on the same continent I could well be beating a path to your door with my trusty sword (sic) *brandishes sword bravely* :groucho:
Did you miss the part where I am willing to relocate? Also, as my Dad was Welsh I have a UK passport and able to live and work in the EU community... :sunglass: *points to the path...* |
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please dont sig the spelling police:bobby: after me anyone......... unless well they have hand cuffs.. heh.. |
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KILT... the plaid skirt thingy Scotsmen wear... then again there is the Irish kilt too... *rattles handcuffs... * The kilt is a knee-length garment with pleats at the rear, originating in the traditional dress of men and boys in the Scottish Highlands of the 16th century. Since the 19th century it has been associated with the wider culture of Scotland in general, or with Celtic (and more specifically Gaelic) heritage elsewhere. It is most often made of woollen cloth in a tartan pattern. Although the Scottish kilt is most often worn mainly on formal occasions or at Highland games and sports events, it has also been adapted as an item of fashionable informal, and formal, male clothing in recent years. The Irish kilt is based on the Scottish garment but traditionally made in a single (solid) colour. |
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......ahh ty for annoucing that..... and my embarassment.... wait i may have spelled someting wrong in here too.. |
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Is there any nefarious-character people watching on offer where you are this evening? :cheesy: |
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O M G... I fecking ADORE you (((((((((((((((((MS55)))))))))))))) you make me giggle ! :cheer: |
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