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Hey lofters.... hows everyone sat.?? Mine is so so... hanging here in Morris IL. Till 2morrow afternoon thn headng 2 ..... West Lake, ohiya :)
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Hello Lofters!
Morning Morningstar... Hope you are finding something fun to do while you hang out in Ill. I went to the er yesterday with another migraine. Took a day off work and since mom is away, had to ask a friend to take me. The wonderful Wendy was right there to be my shero! lol Anyway, new migraine med did NOT work so hence the er visit. I am NOT a fan! Love the relief, but not the bills. sigh.. Back to the dr I go to try a new one. I need to stop lifting things ... I hate that I have the muscle to do this stuff and my neck doesn't like it!! Very frustrating. Lifted a box earlier this week (should not have I know), nailed 2 shelves.. also a no no, will have to get someone to finish that for me, and I dared to clean out my bedroom closet... apparently now THAT is a no no.. I am going to have to change how I do some things. Spread them out more and ask for help. I HATE asking for help.. sigh.. but I hate the bills more! I wish I had the cash to pay someone to do some of this stuff. I hate having to ask friends. My mom does things, but she is 72, I don't like asking her either. I need a new body. Anyway, relaxing and watching some of the beautiful women who are playing in the Olympics. Watched the end of the Columbia vs US womens soccor game.. great game... we won. at 3 I'm watching beach volley ball... love that. Trying to take care of some stuff around the house SLOWLY! A little laundry... .. ice and relax.. a little put this or that a way.. ice and relax... I have a date tomorrow. Going to the beach with this really wonderful butch I have been dating recently. She doesn't want a commitment so it is sexless fun for now. lolol It is fun getting to know her though. I just can't do the sex without commitment thing. Don't have to be living together or have a ring on my finger... but have to be committed and not dating anyone else. We shall see. Having fun for now... dating other ppl as well. Nice to have some choices. ttyl, Ruthie |
WAA.... i just lost a long post...... HATE ..doing ths frm my phn.
H understand ruth, i hate asking 4 help 2.... always feel guilty or self concious about askng. I thnk they wil thnk am using thm .. or taken advantage . |
Morning loft dwellers ... another awsome Sunday morning here at the planet ..
later today.... i head up north of Chicago land , and then landing over just West of Cleveland ... Ruth hope ur feeling better over there. |
Wow whats it gona take 2 , get ths thread going again?? Heh
Afternooners all u old farts ... lol am roaming the roads of ohiya lands 2day.... nex stop ... Clyde oh... wher evr that is... heie.. my grandfather's name Clyde :) Anyways....... have a awsome day. |
Hello Lofters.. Morning star!
Hope everyone is having a great weekend! I had a relaxing day yesterday and today I am going to a ladies dance... fun! Going to put blond highlights in my hair today for the first time. I enlisted Mom's help and we shall see.. never did it before, but hey, hair is meant to be played with..right!? Ruthie :blueheels: |
Good morning
The landlord is power washing the house. I was awakened at 7am to the sound of big equipment roaring. lol So, having a coffee, watchin a chick flick, and trying to stay cool in 30 degree celsius weather. (I can't open the windows because he is power washing) I think I will go and see the Spiderman movie tonight. What are the rest of you doing this long weekend?
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Wow what a awsome lunch and visit with 2 awsome guys . Simpleasdirt nd the ever fabulous Dutch Leonard . A very smiling girl here..
Now bk to work i go. And good morning loft dwellers nd peekers Have a awsome day. |
Love this forum!
This is really cool that there is a thread for us forty and fifty somethings! i'm 45 and holding! lol! it's not so bad being in the forty something group, even though sometimes i feel like i've been through the war! but i did enjoy my first time skydiving recently! so that makes up for a lot of the bad and sad times in life! so where are the hot single butches in their forties on here? lol! :sunglass:
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Dance was fun... however on the way to the dance I was at a red light that had just turned green and the car in front of me backed into me.... hard. I pulled over, they took off....ofcourse! Thank goodness I have an honest mechanic who will do the work for 500 that everywhere else would charge me over 1000. Oye On a better note, with the meds change and less lifting at work, I have been almost heachache free for 8 days. I usually get several a day in addition to the migraines so this is a HUGE and WONDERFUL change!!! Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Have a great friday and a wonderful weekend! :blueheels: Ruthie |
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Morning lofty dwellers nd peekers
Its a awsome Sunday morning here near DC ..... IN a little bit here, Will b visitng with ...... chef Jo ( aka chef jo) who Will b whipping upta awsome breakfast... On another note......... y is ths thread so dead??? Hope everyone is having a awsome weekend :):rrose: |
Morning lofters... or should i just say Morning Morning star..... I know what you mean! Where is everyone???
Have a great breakfast with Chef Jo! Pictures please, I have high expectations! lolol Going on a date today.... lunch then swimming or swimming then dinner... Always a lot of fun with her... too bad she has a commitment issue right now. Oh well, I always seem to find the ones that are out of long term relationships before they are ready for another one. I thought this one would be different... she has been out of that relationship for a while. Oh well, the heart mends when it mends. Gonna have fun while its fun...but after a while.. it starts to affect my self worth. That's when I will have to give it a break. I know I shouldn't let it... but somehow it does. *shrug* Ruthie |
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While date was fun, she was definately pulling away. There was affection, but not as much as before. No making out etc. I know she is dating other people, and one other in particular. We have both been very honest with each other. I will not have sex outside of a relationship, she doesn't want a relationship..but does want sex. She has respected my boundaries and I respect her honesty. However, after today, I think she is leaning towards the other woman. We were seeing each other every other weekend (she has kids). Now she is going away on the weekend we usually see each other and the next time I see her will be at a women's event where we will be in the same cabin for a weekend with a number of other women. I know she is having sex with this other woman... fine. My head knows, and I told her, that she needs to figure this out for herself. She no longer wants to be monogamous because of past hurts. I want her to figure this out, I don't mind that she is doing this.It is something she feels she needs to do for a while and figure out what she wants. What bothers me is that she seems to be pulling away from me. She still seems to like me, played with my hair, kissed me sweetly several times, took me swimming and then out to dinner. But I am getting the feeling that she is wanting to go backwards... more of a friendship. I think I need some time away from her to figure out what I want to do. It's starting to hurt, and I don't like that.
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short film - 9 mins, bring tissues
I randomly came across this while watching something else. I cried. Thought this was the most appropriate place to put it ...
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Good morning Ruthie:) I don't get here very often, but thought I would pop in before I head to work.
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Morning loft dwellers nd peekers
am sitting in in , Bojangles getting breakfast and listening 2 Christian music ... where's my coffee .... heh ((((((((Ruth))))))))))) I did take sm pictures of chef jo..... but hav 2 wait til i get on a computer. hope everyone has a blessed day. :) |
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