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The other night, a younger friend of mine, a butch, who knows I've been single for almost two years, asked me if I had ever considered friends with benefits - my response was no, (wanted to sing - baby I was born this way) - and at the same time, I couldn't help but wonder, why I can't just let go, enjoy making love for the excitement of it all - why can't I be polymorphous and know it is ok to be in a polyamorous relationship.
The people I'm most attracted to, those who I have come in contact with over the last few months, live hundreds of miles from Alabama - long distant committed relationships seeing someone once a year doesn't work for me - If I'm committed to someone I want to see them at least once a month, and I would prefer they live the same town. But if I were poly, I would have choices, variety, and maybe I wouldn't dwell on the "age" factor - someone being too young for me, and I wouldn't have to worry that I'm took kink or not kink enough. I don't know - I thought I did - but being without a partner has caused me to rethink my belief that being in a manogamous relationship maybe helps someone to grow and it isn't as off track for me as it seems - and what I know about me, I'm so frigging partner oriented, I want to be in love with one person, I want to share intimate moments with one person, I want to give one special person my attention, my devotion, and my love - and I don't like sharing. So, can you teach an old dog new tricks of the heart? |
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Howdy loft dwellers ....
Ladyrein... welcome 2 the loft, just b urself . As 4 me... watching my cat frm hell... and tanked ha... cuddling up in my blankie sipping sm ginger ale,and eating sm Imodium AD. not feeling 2 well 2 nite. Hey ruth Osbutch i only took 2 and deleted1.. and no wont post it without permission :) |
Thought I could at least poke my head in and say hello. Sad that vacation has come to an end, and that I have to deal with some things I'd rather keep at a distance. Anyway, hope you all are enjoying your weekend.
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I am feeling down tonight... my body is stopping me from doing things that I want to do. Keeping me from spending time with my friends. I don't usually whine about it... but 2 days in a row is a bit much. oh well Gotta find something else to do with my day tomorrow... WILL NOT stay home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Dear LadyRieinAL and Ruthie, I do have a bunch to say on your posts, I am in the same boat( since I am the butch, I will row, if you all don't mind;) )
Unfortunately, it is late and I need to think clearly. But for now, changing the core you and your beliefs in my opinion, may not be the answer. Jo |
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Have a great Sunday all! Ruthie |
Morning loft dwellers and peekers another day at the office headng 2 ..... Toledo.... Catch yal on the flip side ... :) |
Good Mornin Folks and All; Been a peepin for years, but then again, I'm a psychological antique:blink:It's always nice to see the ladies up and at em in here. School started in town today. Seems a bit early. It's the coolest August I've ever seen here. Makes me wonder what winter will be like. Well, that's all for now. Take care of yourselves Folks.
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It sure starts early in the US of A. My little grandson is all excited about grade 3. It has been frightfully hot here in B.C., Glenn, so a little cooler weather would be very nice. The blackberries are now ripe, so that is on my list of todos. I need to get picking and freezing.
I sure don't like that little "Canadian" emicon thing. We don't talk like that. lol:canadian: Have a super week everyone. Candice |
Howdy Glenn nd fever... :)
I have landed in ah .. Byrcus,ohiya..... and pkng up a load here in the morning and headng down to Princeton,Ind..... |
A friend of mine had to put her 17 year old pit mix down today. I am so sad.... her dog Kelsey and I spent a LOT of time together over the last couple years. Her mommy had to go away for work a lot so she would often spend 3 to 4 days a week at my house. Sometimes a couple of weeks. It breaks my heart. Run swiftly over the rainbow bridge my friend!
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Morning loft dwellers and peekers
am hanging near Electrocell territory..... yeha. dont hav a. Load yet which is fine i need 2 get sm paintings done. Ruth sorry 4 the loss |
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There is a thread on the Planet called something like poly and mono. I think the upshot is that you are either wired for poly or you are not. I have never been able to have sex without deep feelings, on my way to being in love. My wires don't work that way. Do I think how much more simple my life would be? Yes and no. If it could be done in the right head space, yes. Me? I would not feel good about myself. I do not judge others that can do it and a matter of fact, I have a little bit of envy because they can. The age thing? Yes, that is hard for me. My ex-girlfriend was 10-years younger. Just this week I got an email on a lesbian dating site that I had not even looked at in almost 9-months, from a butch 15-years younger than I. That just seems too wide a gap. There has to be a limit, right?! I guess when the age category feels really creepy, that's too young! It is flattering though, I must admit! We all have to stay true to ourselves and our personal values. Hard to do sometimes. Have a good day all. |
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