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Looks like this thread is hopping. Someone is bound to name names. I have to wonder tho if anyone is crushing on me? Lol
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Yes! i have been quietly mooning over Her for many years!!!! i think She finally noticed me!!!
i am lucky!!! |
I am crushing on BFP in general! :rrose:
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Congratulations! How did you manage to pull that off? Did you escalate the "quiet mooning" or was it a cumulative effect? :) |
Thank you Ladies. :bowdown:
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yup crush going strong she knows I am interested in her and not because she read it here but because I whispered the secret in her ear......(f) True respect and trust comes with time... |
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*Sigh* I did, still do and always am. Over 3 years of crushing on one of my best friends...
I think Hy knows..? Just not sure if Hy realizes just how much I'm crushing? One of these days I'll quit being such a scaredy cat. Life's too short not to take a chance. |
Hmmm a crush. I wouldn't call it that since to me a crush is somewhat lust filled but admiration absolutely.
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Lately I find myself, somewhat preoccupied, but hy is unobtainable, unavailable..... and so I will never tell, not in public or in private. I shall admire from afar and bask in the warm fuzzy, crushy glow.
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Still waiting....if I read of someone crushing on me here, I'd probably go .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .....................THUD
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Of course i crush on my Daddy, always :D
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Hmmmm. Although, I have been captivated by her for sometime and it has developed into far more than a crush...I still find myself looking at her in the same way that I did when we first met over a year ago. So...hmmm do I have a crush? why,yes, yes I do.
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omg...PLEASE SPILL THE BEANS..!
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I know, doesn't it just drive you crazy not knowing who the crushee is? It does me. Lol
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What I believe about crushes:
1) When a crush isn't reciprocated, it dies of attrition. 2) Crushing can give people the energy to get a friendship started. They might never act on the crush, or it might atrophy (see #1), but then the good news is, they have a new friend! 3) For me, a crush is something I feel for someone who isn't real to me—like Jane Lynch or Martina Navritalova, both of whom are like little people I put in the doll house of my fantasies. 4) If you're a "real" person (i.e., there is possibility of meeting you), I won't crush but might go straight to "like." And really liking someone is euphoric for me, a chemical experience in which my brain purrs. 4) On BFP I don't crush exactly but a couple times I've sensed something in a person's posts that is missing in my life, and it started a longing for that thing, which isn't exactly the same as longing for that person or crushing on that person. 5) I'm not sure I know what a crush is, though I talk like I do. Sincerely, Scout |
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I absolutely LOVE the bolded part, IS! Thank you :) |
My nickname in my 20's was "Crush".
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A crush to me comes in many forms and can develop into many things if or if not acted upon.
1. It is possible to have what I call a butch or bro crush on here and in real life. For me it has nothing to do with sex but more an admiration or an OMG I wish I had said that that way thing....or yeah that's it.....or even I want to be just like hym/him when I grow up. 2. A crush has always been to me something it was okay to have on people in the entertainment field....will not divulge mine they show how old I am lol... 3. A crush on a femme whether here or in rt is the thinking stage for me or the OMG why am I so shy all of a sudden stage it is that spark that starts the process. The one that comes before lust and is oh so much more then lust. 4. I also agree with Scout that sometimes a crush on here is a longing a recognition of something missing in my life, my community, and can have nothing to do with whether or not I want to be in a romantic relationship with the person that wrote it. It can also be the start of the romantic process... 5 Is it not wonderful how one word "crush" can mean so many things and they are all positive things. Things if acted on can only enrich a life. Now back to the torturing of Mr. Nice Guy that wants to know so bad a name of someone we are crushing on....... My crush has lead to so much more already and is actually more then a crush right now.......she is the first person I acknowledge when I wake up and the last person I say good night too, every night.......and in between it is her face, her voice , that fills my dreams and fuels my desires.... So I guess this is my last post in the crush thread since my crush has developed in to more then a crush....but not my last time reading I am still hooked on this thread and its romance just time to go back to it being a not so secret pleasure again..... :rrose: just because every femme deserves at least one a day to show her we butches appreciate you and all you do and maybe that one gesture produces a smile |
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Ah thanks, that is sweet. Being appreciated can never be underrated. And glad to know your crush is blossoming into something more. Scout |
Okay, so even though I have surpassed "crush" for one, I am now onto absolutely Twitterpated. I still have "crushes" on a few butches on here. What they write, how they respond to things, the messages I get all play a part in that crush. A crush for me (on BFP) is a feeling you get when you see them post and maybe you check to see what they said today and you get a bit giddy when you get a message from them. But, in all truthfulness I love to crush knowing that it isn't going anywhere, it keeps me 'tingly' through the day and then that special someone gets the benefit of my 'tingles'. Doesn't mean that in the fantasy world things might be different, I am just a realist, and an insatiable one so I need someone here with me, not far, far away across the boarder. And yes every crush is different, some are 'that's a fascinating person' and some are 'wow, if things were different, I would be all over that'.
But, still just crushes that I enjoy, and friends that I make. My two cents to all you butches that are crushing, take the first step. I know how I feel when that happens, and even if you don't get the girl, you may make a great friend. Happy crushing everyone. |
I may have a wee bit of a femme crush on someone, you know who you are! Can't wait to see her lovely face at the reunion!
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I don't have a crush yet. But maybe someday. For now I just sit back and watch all the fun. ;)
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Somebody needs to come off the name of their crush before MNG goes postal up in here!!
I would tell ya mine but it's no secret and besides, it's past the crush stage. We're already shackin up. :cheer: |
Someone very wise pointed out to me today, as I was making fun of how the butches just show up on this thread to look around and see if anyone is crushing on them—as opposed to owning up to who THEY are crushing on—that the femmes don't name names, either.
Maybe the idea is just for people who have crushes to all show up in the same place and mill around and wonder about each other. What are the chances of them being the object of each other's crushes? Maybe pretty good! People are we in the seventh grade or what???? I suggest anyone with a crush PM the person you are crushing. Let her/hyr/him know how you feel! Own it! I dare you! |
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(((((((((Alix)))))))))) You are such a dear friend to me and it makes me happy to know that You are with someone who accepts You for You. i know You've been through alot in the last little while and it does my heart good to know that You are finally finding the happiness that You deserve :) |
Postal? Now that's a bad word but a good idea. Just kidding. What I will say is this thread is slowly making me want to crush. Actually it's making me want a gf. Hmmm, something to ponder.
*** thanks for the smile FunkyFemme. :) |
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And if I haven't told you it doesn't mean you're not crushable, but I like a butch to make the first move. Make me pay attention |
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Being a naturally shy person, I also like when a butch makes the first move ~ not always because I'm shy but sometimes because I'm just so damn oblivious lol. The one I'm with right now made the first move by chatting with me in the BFP chat room and asked to get to know me better. Apparently I caught Hys eye while I was flirting with someone and it just took off from that very first conversation ~ I'm so glad Hy was brave enough to talk to me :) |
All you Femmes are a tease. You do crack me up trying to be mysterious. Lol
If I did some research I might even be able to guess who your crushing on. :deepthoughts: |
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Just letting the butches know, I am available for crushing! Crush away! :cheer:
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Very good point, Sleepy. No one likes to be crushed like a can and tossed to the recycle bin!! (God, I love my own jokes!) |
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