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Mornin Folks and All; How are you? I hope you are all well. There's a senior couple living on an old farm up the road a piece. I see them outside once a year or so, on my way to the store. I always slow down to see how they are doing. Yesterday I saw them, standing close together, holdin on to each other for dear life. Sort of pulled my little pecker string. That's all, and take care Folks.
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Morning loft dwellers nd peekers
drove all nite... hate that , it Ross's up my Morningstar ..... and morning ritual... heh. Ty Mr. Leonard for trying to help me stay awake , ... BTW you snore... giggling...... Anyways walked around homedepot.. now thinking of making some guacamole , with unsalted chips and rotisserie chicken:) |
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has anyone seen this in the news??? http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=5548 |
FYI all, MS makes really good guacamole
This I remember from a party we both attended some years back So, if she's ever traveling into your neck of the woods, invite her over asap :) |
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u remember that? Haha |
ok im able to get on the lap top tonight........ sooo wher'd everyone go too??? |
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I have found myself going for coffee and just socializing, only to discover that it was perceived as a date. Hence, I think there was a book written or maybe I read it some where that was something like " Is just coffee or is it a date?" Over the years I have learned how I handle these situations. I will state just for coffee or dinner. I will do this kind of hanging out not exclusively with one Femme. It is a toss up as to whether or not it I go dutch on the bill. It is definitely not a date if we go dutch, in my book. When it comes to dating....and it has been awhile since I have dated, I date monogamously. I will ask about dating exclusively because for me, it is I have found something in that Femme that is attractive to me and I want to tempt the fates as to whether or not this would be the beginning of a romantic match... at which point it would turn into courting. To me, hanging out is just that, socializing one on one. Dating, to me, is the prelude to finding the happily ever after, the white picket fence, and I can only do that monogamously. There are those that can date multiple people.... I am one that cannot. You have to decide which fits you best and be open in your communication as to what you want and what is acceptable for you. As I have gotten older, my needs have changed. At one time I was very open to long distance relationships. That option is no longer one that I can do. So, no matter whom I may be crushing on, unless they are willing to move here, I will not entertain the possibilities of dating. I have circumstances in my life that I cannot move. So, once I do decide to enter in the dating scene, it will be local....which there seems to be very few Femmes in this large metro area! |
I suppose I'll jump in here, lol. Id like to know what dating looks like, or, more accurately what A DATE looks like :glasses:
In my most recent (ended) relationship I was introduced by a mutual friend and it progressed quickly from dating to a monogamous r/s. After that, it just felt like hanging out all the time. Sigh.....I'd like to be courted for a while and actually go on dates, real dates. The kind where you dress nicely, care about how you smell and maybe your palms get a lil sweaty, yanno? |
Happy Friday! TGIF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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and a gazillion ..... thanx to .. either... for all thm reppies .. lol hope u and everyone have a awsome Friday. |
I hope everyone has a great weekend! I'm preparing for surgery and will have tons of "down time", sigh.....not sure how to do that, but I bet I can learn fast :blush:
This is the part of being a lofter that sucks.....grrrrrrr |
Lola I hope your surgery goes well....rest is sometimes a welcome change albeit hard to get used to....been there once for 4 months...did alot of reading..."s".....
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I'm glad I'm not the only one who wonders what in the hell a date is. And it would definitely be nice to have someone to court. The last person I was interested in...Things went way too fast, and then crashed and burned in a big way. I think I'd like to go a little bit slower next time and actually get to know the person. No reason why there should be any rush, you know?
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morning Loft dwellers and peekers looks like its a off day for me ... and hangin around this Indianapolisssss town.. tomorrow morning... i pick up a load and head to Olive branch MIsssiSsspppiiii .. lol http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v4...hts/coffee.jpg |
It's always been my view point that things that go quickly do not last. Those that take time to build last much longer. How much time is time enough is different for everyone. I know it's hard to wait, especially when the other person melts you, but remember it will all the more worth it. Just my opinion. Okay?
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Morning loft dwellers n peekers
Hope you all r having a great weekend.... I have to drive ... all the way to Memphis area..... Funny thing , I might not make it home to get some items, before its time make my way to little rock.. so electrocell suggestd just to wear some jeans to the event's :| Ahhh ...... I dont think so. May hit a mall or 2 in my travels... ha Time roll here. |
Im a bit old fashioned, i like to do the asking out but if i were asked out and wasnt sure it was a date I would definately make sure I was clear on what basis it was - on the other hand if you went out with someone and didnt want to see them again, it would be quite handy to be able to say "hey, I didnt know it was a date, i thought we were just hanging out" I like options............lol!:cigar2:
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wow what a long day.......... im pooped.
landed in .. west memphis ... and its been well... stormy sort of . unwinding here.... just a note.. i am allowed passangers... but only room for 1 .. and have to be able to stay out a couple weeks or so. |
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