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Sachita 10-02-2012 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 666228)
Thanks Mel, I needed to hear that right now!!You are very sweet!

Apparently, this woman doesn't share your opinion. I am ok, I guess, but the fact that my mother shares my home (mind you she is independent, healthy, is not here 2x's a week, very accepting of me and my friends/gf etc) and that I have a dog... well, that put the brakes on it. Wow... really?

Oh well, such is my love life recently....

on top of that, my dog has been ill the last 24 hours. Was trying to figure it out... finally I realized my mother had given her a steak bone from her dinner last night. Bella has a very sensitive tummy and cannot eat but very spacific things. So here I am, up late, washing her bedding, cooking rice and will have to get up early to cook her chicken (had to get it out of the freezer and is just starting to thaw) so she can have it for breakfast. She is still throwing up. I am exhausted! Only had Sunday afternoon off from working and will work straight through to the weekend. 2 jobs on tues and thursday. urrrrggggg

:ohm: Can somebody please help me find my happy place!!!



That's screwed up. Family comes first in my book. In fact I had this conversation with my hairdresser about dating and family. My family accepts anyone I date and some of my ex's stay in contact with me and them. Family is very important to me and truth is I'd rather be with family when i have time off work. So if my partner can't dial into this whole family thing then we won't be moving into the future. I also prefer to be with someone who has strong family ties but also know that some families are not as accepting as mine.

I'm sorry to hear about Bella. hugs she will be fine.

Ruthie I know how you feel, really I do. I've been a lone and single for a while now. I just refuse to settle. I prefer meeting everyone as friends and I'm slow going. Focus on your friendships and building deep wonderful bonds. Woman's space is just so nice sometimes. Make time for it. I'd love to meet up with you for something. You're not that far. Maybe a nice half way point some of us could meet up and enjoy the fall colors.

Be good to yourself. You're an amazing person.

Sachita 10-02-2012 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr.Nobody (Post 665890)
Hey y'all...I would like to hang out in here with you if I may. I live in South Dakota and turned 50 last year. I'm a photographer now, after a first career as a car detailer.
I look forward to getting to know some of you a little...


go away! you can't hang out here boo! lol kidding.

hy is a great photographer and took some pics here at the farm.

morningstar55 10-02-2012 11:50 AM

Afternooners loft dwellers and peekers
wow all the new faces...... welcome to the loft.

Ruth... hope ur feeling better... I understand lonely... I get that way to sometimes .. just gotta keep busy.. get involved in your local gay community .. never kno ... right? :)

morningstar55 10-02-2012 04:17 PM

Picking a load up here in the morning in ol new Orleans, and taking movie stuff to Manhattan.. yikes ... but dont have to b there until Monday morning... have to figure my route and what.kinda trouble I can get into along the way ......
Gawd i hate doing this from my phone al the time
:(

Two-spirit 10-02-2012 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 666676)
Picking a load up here in the morning in ol new Orleans, and taking movie stuff to Manhattan.. yikes ... but dont have to b there until Monday morning... have to figure my route and what.kinda trouble I can get into along the way ......
Gawd i hate doing this from my phone al the time
:(

Hi,
I just wanted to ask are u moving? or are u a truck driver?

Two-spirit 10-02-2012 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 666676)
Picking a load up here in the morning in ol new Orleans, and taking movie stuff to Manhattan.. yikes ... but dont have to b there until Monday morning... have to figure my route and what.kinda trouble I can get into along the way ......
Gawd i hate doing this from my phone al the time
:(

Hi.
I just checked yr profile and I see your a truck driver. So am I...I wass workign for USX but then I stopped to look for a lcao job but havent had any luck. So Im looking to maybe get back on the road.. grrr..Its not what I want to do, but I need to use my lic. before I have to redo everything again. Hope u r well and drive safe !

Heavenleahangel 10-02-2012 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Two-spirit (Post 666723)
Hi.
I just checked yr profile and I see your a truck driver. So am I...I wass workign for USX but then I stopped to look for a lcao job but havent had any luck. So Im looking to maybe get back on the road.. grrr..Its not what I want to do, but I need to use my lic. before I have to redo everything again. Hope u r well and drive safe !

Hi, Little Feather; I still have my Class A CDL. I drove for Werner until I got my feet wet then took out one of my nephew's trucks. I can tell you stories that would curl your hair! Lol...

eclectic_fox 10-02-2012 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 666187)
Welcome to the loft Fox .. :)

why thank you, it's nice to be here

eclectic_fox 10-02-2012 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Two-spirit (Post 666172)
Hello,
and welcome,I'm new myself just joined about a week ago..Met some nice people and hoping to keep meetign new friends.

Little Feather

thanks for the welcome. Yes I'm hoping to meet new friends too

clay 10-02-2012 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by eclectic_fox (Post 666765)
thanks for the welcome. Yes I'm hoping to meet new friends too

Welcome to you both, two spirit and eclectic!!! There are some truly beautiful people here!!!

clay 10-02-2012 07:09 PM

Evening Lofters! Sending warm hugs out to each of you!
Ruthie: hope your little furbaby is better now, and that you are as well!
Licious: Hey girl, I don't get to see you too often.
Heaven: It is so awesome to see you feeling so much better and posting again.
Morningstar: You are a very pretty lady...loved the pics of you in the gown!!
That color suited you well!!!
hi to all the others I missed!!!
Spreading welcome mat for all the new people!

Two-spirit 10-02-2012 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Heavenleahangel (Post 666726)
Hi, Little Feather; I still have my Class A CDL. I drove for Werner until I got my feet wet then took out one of my nephew's trucks. I can tell you stories that would curl your hair! Lol...

I started out with Werner,and i was suppose to be a NE driver..But they had me from ill down to Laredo tx.and had me out for 4 months.. So I switched to USX until I quit in may..I was sooo tired and stressed ..
Would love to hear soem stories..I went through some scarey shit out there.I honestly dont get how pple can drive for 30 or more..
Jess

morningstar55 10-02-2012 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Two-spirit (Post 666721)
Hi,
I just wanted to ask are u moving? or are u a truck driver?

Yes I am.
I work for a truck owner whom has this.truck leased onto
Panther expediting .. I been with panther fir 7 yrs.
I have NO ... TRAILER.
I haul everything big trucks just smalled loads.. have electronic logs .. etc.
im gone frm home 2 weeks or more at a time.
The pay is decent ... anyways its not the most favorite job. But gotta do what I gotta do... im lonely out here, o sometimes think reasons y I might still b single .. maybe my job took my femme card away. ?? Ha ... ahh welll

morningstar55 10-02-2012 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by claybaby (Post 666785)
Evening Lofters! Sending warm hugs out to each of you!
Ruthie: hope your little furbaby is better now, and that you are as well!
Licious: Hey girl, I don't get to see you too often.
Heaven: It is so awesome to see you feeling so much better and posting again.
Morningstar: You are a very pretty lady...loved the pics of you in the gown!!
That color suited you well!!!
hi to all the others I missed!!!
Spreading welcome mat for all the new people!

Thank u. .. clay :)

clay 10-02-2012 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 666824)
Thank u. .. clay :)

much obliged, ma'am!!

ruthie14 10-02-2012 08:06 PM

Thanks everyone. It just gets so frustrating sometimes. Sachita... I totally agree with you. That is usually how I operate. I would love to meet you sometime. That sounds like fun!

Dyke... YOU are so right! I should have listened to you...but I really think the other one is NOT in market for a gf.

Bella is doing much better. Stayed up most of the night with her, changing the towels I put in her crate several times, washing them, cooking rice and chicken etc. Went to bed when I thought it had calmed down, but there was more in the am. So I did more laundry. She is feeling much better!!!!!!!!! No more problems today. Ate her rice and chicken with no problems. She is resting a lot, but that is probably a good thing. Mom is going to take her to the vet on Thursday to check her out. She was suposed to be 4 1/2 when we adopted her last year, but she has since gone totally blind from cateracts (sp?) and is having joint issues. My little girl is probably more like 12 or 13.

I think there is a picture of her in galleries.

ttyl,

Ruthie


txdoc 10-02-2012 09:25 PM

My people! Love being the age I am...

clay 10-02-2012 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by txdoc (Post 666897)
My people! Love being the age I am...

welcome txdoc!! This is a fun spot for all us fine wine folks to hang out, converse, and such!! Everyone is welcome here!!!

Dance-with-me 10-02-2012 10:00 PM

OK, honest opinions requested: 53 yo wearing her roller derby shirt to her jeans-and-t-shirt high school gathering. Too attention seeking (though I mean it as only a combination of conversation-starting and "hell yeah I love derby!" not "look at me!" since I'm definitely not looking to be an attention-seeker in this crowd!) or cool? Honest responses, please - I'm packing tonight and trying to decide what to wear to this casual event!

Two-spirit 10-02-2012 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 666821)
Yes I am.
I work for a truck owner whom has this.truck leased onto
Panther expediting .. I been with panther fir 7 yrs.
I have NO ... TRAILER.
I haul everything big trucks just smalled loads.. have electronic logs .. etc.
im gone frm home 2 weeks or more at a time.
The pay is decent ... anyways its not the most favorite job. But gotta do what I gotta do... im lonely out here, o sometimes think reasons y I might still b single .. maybe my job took my femme card away. ?? Ha ... ahh welll

Hi.
Oh ok. I was checking out the expeditie truckign jobs. and they seem you have to be an O/O.i dotn want to own a truck Im to new to get into that.
But I agree u have to do what u have to do..It is lonely out there I sooo hear u on that one.Stressful and exhausting..
I found out when I went out on the road. alot of woman think being a trucker is sexy !. who knew? but it is hard to find that one lady who can deal w u beaing away for so long.It woudl be nice to find a lady who shares the same job.Good luck out there and be safe..smiles..


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