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Abby is just wishing that she had a fairy Godmother, so she could attend the ball (reunion) lol
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It's time for breakfast and to get up and out of here!
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Venting so hold onto your hats!
How ridiculously selfish some people are.
I mean really, is it crazy to expect someone to respect you if you show them the same? Is it crazy to expect truth from someone if you give them that? Is it crazy to think that they will eventually understand the level of courtesy you show them and yet they don't!? And that's just the friends! And don't let me get started on monogamy and exclusivity...ha! ((Big cleansingandlettingitallgo sigh))...oh well...I'm not wasting time on that...I got things to do (retail therapy sounds excellent right about now)...no use crying over spilled milk, or toxic people. I'm going shopping! |
It was a good week until right before I left the office last evening. My boss is going to be out of the office Mon and Tues next week and I wanted double check with her about 2 things I needed to take care of on Monday.
I did this; got my answer and then, with a sour look on her face, she states "You know to call ___, ___ and ___ if you have any problems." This insult is a reference to an incident in March where a client's bad behaviour outside the office spilled over into our office and the end result was that the boss hung it all on me even though I had nothing to do with what had happened. All the damage was done before the client called the office. My sin was 2 voice mails left for the boss about 3 hours apart (explaining what had happened and requesting a return phone call) neither of which she got until a couple days later. The day she returned to the office she laid me open over it wondering aloud if she needed to ask someone to "babysit" me when she was out of town. (Never mind that when I first came to work for her she was able to leave the office for several days at a time for various reasons including the sudden death of her mother-in-law.) No, this client's behaviour caused her great embarassment at the courthouse and how that was my fault remains a mystery. (Compare this to the multi-vehicle chain reaction rear-end collision in which the last car in the wreck gets the blame regardless of the fact that the lead car suddenly slammed on the brakes and caused the darn thing in the first place.) Geez, I am getting upset all over again just writing this. Guess she has selective short term memory issues forgetting that a month ago she was able to go out of town on vacation for an entire week without incident. Apparently the vote of no confidence in me she cast in March stands. Never mind the fact that yesterday at 4:58 pm on a Friday she came to me to ask about witnesses subpoenaed for a trial on Wed. and the instruction to contact a medical office to determine whether or not another physician was involved in something crucial to our case. Never mind that without looking in the file I could rattle off the list of who we subpoenaed and whether or not they had been served. Never mind that at 5:04 pm on that same Friday I was on the phone with the medical office and subsequently the doctor we subpoenaed. Never mind the fact that I was, in less than 10 minutes and with one phone call, able to get the answer to her question. Never mind the fact that I could offer her the chance to speak to the doctor, whose notes she had been reviewing for a great deal of that very afternoon, in case she needed to ask her something - she didn't. Never mind the fact that she could go into her long weekend knowing that this was no longer an issue. Never mind the fact that I exercised a little personal initiative by going ahead and placing this call (there was absolutely nothing to lose) rather than waiting until Monday as she expected. Did I mention the fact that there was not even a "thank you" for going ahead and taking care of this? Unless you consider "You know to call ___, ___ and ___ if you have any problems." an expression of appreciation. Anyone venture to guess what my therapist and I will be talking about on Thursday? |
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Truth be told I've been drinking all night. I usually don't do this but heavy things happened today and I feel like it.
I'm thinking of my cousin, Dawn. She died of lupus in 2001 and I can't get my mind off her. We were best friends and I had the best times with her. I miss her tonight in the worst way; the tears won't stop and I feel my heart just sinking. She's was the 4th of four great women I've lost in my life, I try not to think of them. But tonight...well, tonight..... I would give anything for just 5 minutes with her. It's funny how your life passes in front of you. ....just 5 minutes. |
How good it is to be home finally! I spent a week away at a friend and her gf ( fiancee) dog sitting and house sitting while they were on vacation. :)
Came back home today.. Cleaning house and getting ready for another week. In between working some hours today for my boss cause he needed me. :) A week full of texts, phone calls and emails that have left me speechless. :) Setting up a few goals for the next year... Wondering if I should send flowers? |
I sent the flowers snicker :)
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I left a cucumber in the bird bath....
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oh...and there have been two killings (shootings) in the past month within 6 streets of me in opposite directions.
I am not out in the country anymore :fastdraq: |
Looking for a new boss? I honestly wouldn't put up with her insecurities especially when you have done more than she has asked of you. It also sounds like she has no faith in you. I had a boss, that told all of us employees, that if she could, she would fire us. This was less than a week after she became the new store manager. I ended up calling the ACLU against this woman and our HR dept. By them time I was done with her, she couldn't sit down for a week.
Hope you have a good weekend and don't let that miserable woman get you down.. Zimmy Quote:
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Having my coffee this morning and going to visit my best friend yesterday. She looks horrible and the pain meds the hospital are giving her, aren't working....
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I cancelled the order cause true colors always come out :(
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How well she tends me..
She takes joy in taking care of me... Of doing for me.. She is a wonder.. I am a lucky woman.. |
I am going to give my first AA lead since my relapse Nov 13 2008. Before then, I had 20 years of sobriety. I remember leading when I was living in Ohio, for the first decade of my recovery. I have such a different, more honest lead to give now. I really am so glad I relapsed...
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So much, I have a really bad headache! Yikes!
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so much, and it's all good. motorcycles and volunteer work. another aspie. small animal friends.
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Holdin on a few more days until my vacation starts.
I work a 4 on 2 off rotation. So, I have 2 more days on, then 2 off, then 4 on, then I'm off for vacation!!!!!!!!!!! |
I'm dead dog tired, but it's been an amazing weekend.
Sometimes life is really sweet. |
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