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Lady Pamela 05-26-2012 09:30 PM

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Originally Posted by not2shygrrl (Post 590831)
So happy and proud of all you quitters !! Keep it up, and know that there are peeps here who want you all to be successful in having a healthier you!

If there has been a set back or a cheat, DO NOT beat yourself up over it. Accept it, and continue toward your goal. Truly it is a mind f**k emotionally to even think of quitting. Those of you who are in the midst of doing so have surpassed that first emotional hurdle. I vividly remember how the mind starts messing with you even just thinking about quitting. More than 3 years now for me and I have never looked back.

You have the strength, you hold the power, you are so worth it! Know that you have my admiration for wanting to do this. It is not easy but so worth it!

Just wanted to say this thread has really helped me.
And Thank you for your support as well...smiles

Not quite there yet but on the 4th will be 4 months.

.Keep it up everyone!

LadyRieinAL 05-26-2012 09:59 PM

Kick it!!
 
May 25, 2006, I became a non smoker -
I picked the date - May, being my mother's birthday month and the 25th, being the date of christmas -
My mother was laying in the hospital dying of cancer/COPD, and she begged me and my two younger sisters to stop smoking.
I loved my cigarettes!! But, I decided this was so important to her, I was going to do it - and I didn't tell a soul, I just picked the date & did it.
I gained 80 lbs in the process, but I certainly smell better.
Good luck to all of you!!

Lady Pamela 05-26-2012 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyRieinAL (Post 592650)
May 25, 2006, I became a non smoker -
I picked the date - May, being my mother's birthday month and the 25th, being the date of christmas -
My mother was laying in the hospital dying of cancer/COPD, and she begged me and my two younger sisters to stop smoking.
I loved my cigarettes!! But, I decided this was so important to her, I was going to do it - and I didn't tell a soul, I just picked the date & did it.
I gained 80 lbs in the process, but I certainly smell better.
Good luck to all of you!!

Awesome!! See I just love hearing from those who have stopped for a long time..smiles wAY TO GO!!!
You made your mamma proud i am sure.

I am thrilled and amazed I stopped..Though 3 weeks ago I was told I have copd/emphysema alot with a few other things...Hard thing to swallow however maybe it stopped the big C...I can only hope. No cells yet.

Either way..it is a good thing I am stopped


Lady Pamela 06-04-2012 01:43 AM

yippieeeeeeeeeee!
 
TODAY IS 4 MONTHS SMOKE FREE!!!

Incredible...Just saying...ha!!!

Breathless 06-04-2012 01:53 AM

day 3 absolutely not one single smoke.. and everyone is still alive. Big thanks to my non smoking, praise delivering friend.. who has a constant supply of gum :)

Lady Pamela 06-04-2012 03:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Breathless (Post 596917)
day 3 absolutely not one single smoke.. and everyone is still alive. Big thanks to my non smoking, praise delivering friend.. who has a constant supply of gum :)

FANTASTICK!!!!

That is way awesome and I know you can do it!
Keep showing up both here and to your friend.
It is nice to get praise but it also keeps you honest. And on track.

WAY TO GO!!!!

Lady Pamela 06-04-2012 03:35 AM

Just thought I would add;

4 MONTHS SMOKE FREE TODAY........That is 4480 smokes so far I haven't put in my lungs !!!!

DapperButch 06-04-2012 05:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 596921)
Just thought I would add;

4 MONTHS SMOKE FREE TODAY........That is 4480 smokes so far I haven't put in my lungs !!!!

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Keep it up! Glad you continue to check in here and keep the thread bumped, as well!

DapperButch 06-04-2012 05:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Breathless (Post 596917)
day 3 absolutely not one single smoke.. and everyone is still alive. Big thanks to my non smoking, praise delivering friend.. who has a constant supply of gum :)

Good job! Keep it going!!! Most of the nicotine is out of your body now. Cravings will still be there, though, mostly psychological. One day at a time.

Scuba 06-05-2012 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Breathless (Post 596917)
day 3 absolutely not one single smoke.. and everyone is still alive. Big thanks to my non smoking, praise delivering friend.. who has a constant supply of gum :)

You!!! You rock!!! I am soooooooooooooo proud of you. I'll buy you gum for the rest of your life if that's what it takes :)

Scoobs!!

Breathless 06-06-2012 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Scuba (Post 597790)
You!!! You rock!!! I am soooooooooooooo proud of you. I'll buy you gum for the rest of your life if that's what it takes :)

Scoobs!!

That is what im talking about!!! how could i want to smoke with that kind of support :)

G Snap! 06-06-2012 02:45 PM

I want to lend my support to those who are trying to quit smoking... I know how hard it is! Keep up the good work, I promise it will get easier as time passes - not to mention you will feel so much better and get sick a whole lot less.

I will be celebrating my 2 year kick-the-habit mark come September (right around the time of the reunion!)
How did I do it? I moved! I lived with other smokers and it is just about impossible to quit if there is someone else who is smoking inside the house.

Daktari 06-06-2012 03:28 PM

Well done all who are keeping the faith and not giving up giving up. Fandabbydozy! :thumbsup: ...as the very short woman who dressed as a schoolboy on telly used to say

Go you G-snap...I celebrated my 2yrs nicotine free on the 26th of April just gone and it, along with with quitting alcohol are the best things I've ever done for myself.

It's been a relatively easy road I guess because I've been 'lucky' in that I have the fear that comes with lung disease. A new-found willingness to concentrate on my redeveloping my conscious contact with a higher power (mine happens to a christian God)also helps because I don't feel alone with my addictions. Sorry folks, it's 12 step speak all the way for me at the moment. :rolleyes:

Since returning to work on a 12 step programme it's been harder in some ways . These bloody addicts yanno, they all seem to smoke! There can be weeks where I'm triggered most days at meetings but I work those first 3 steps like a demon around my nicotine addiction and have still not smoked...not one puff! :groucho: The memory of that last near fatal chest infection sticks with me in full technicolour. :|


May the force with y'all :tinfoil:


Day 128

Glenn 06-09-2012 03:49 PM

Checkin in: Thirdday cold turkeyIdon'twant tosayanymoreandjinxmyself...

Lady Pamela 06-09-2012 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Glenn (Post 599502)
Checkin in: Thirdday cold turkeyIdon'twant tosayanymoreandjinxmyself...

Way to go!
Keep checking in here..it helped me to keep honest..and to have others to answer to besides myself.

Also, the people on this planet and threat rock!


not2shygrrl 06-09-2012 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 599519)
Way to go!
Keep checking in here..it helped me to keep honest..and to have others to answer to besides myself.

Also, the people on this planet and threat rock!




*yikes* threat??? rock??? no throwing stones at the non smokers people!! <wink>

Ranger Butch Force 06-09-2012 11:03 PM

I haven't had an actual cigarette since about mid January. My ecig has been helping me quite a bit.

Lady Pamela 06-09-2012 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by not2shygrrl (Post 599707)
*yikes* threat??? rock??? no throwing stones at the non smokers people!! <wink>

HA!
Sometimes my disorder makes me type bazzar..lol
I mean't thread and ya all rock!

Lady Pamela 06-09-2012 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Ranger Butch Force (Post 599727)
I haven't had an actual cigarette since about mid January. My ecig has been helping me quite a bit.

That is fantastick!
Keep it up!

I wondered how those ecigs work..guess ok huh...smiles

Glenn 06-10-2012 11:40 PM

Checkin back in on my 5th non-smoking day. Ok... wth is goin on? I tried to cheat today and that is'nt even fun anymore. My cig tasted totally different! I mean... yucky and pukey different! It almost made me sick.:( Did that happen to anyone else here, or is my mind playin tricks on me?

Lady Pamela 06-11-2012 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Glenn (Post 600298)
Checkin back in on my 5th non-smoking day. Ok... wth is goin on? I tried to cheat today and that is'nt even fun anymore. My cig tasted totally different! I mean... yucky and pukey different! It almost made me sick.:( Did that happen to anyone else here, or is my mind playin tricks on me?


Glad to see your still hanging in there. Keep it up!

And yes sometimes it does make the tabacco taste nasty..actually what you are tasting is the true taste of the ciggarrette but not the tottal amount of it yet.

Your smell and taste buds change as you become more and more clean.
Hell I have super sonic sniffer now..ha I can smell everything.

Just keep doing well. And don't be asamed to use an aide if need be. That is what they are there for. For those of us who needed a crutch inbetween point a and b.


DapperButch 06-11-2012 05:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Glenn (Post 600298)
Checkin back in on my 5th non-smoking day. Ok... wth is goin on? I tried to cheat today and that is'nt even fun anymore. My cig tasted totally different! I mean... yucky and pukey different! It almost made me sick.:( Did that happen to anyone else here, or is my mind playin tricks on me?

Congrats on day 5!

Just like Pamela said, it will taste shitty. Problem is, by cig 3 it will begin to taste good again. So, DON'T GO THERE!!!!

Lady Pamela 06-11-2012 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 600347)
Congrats on day 5!

Just like Pamela said, it will taste shitty. Problem is, by cig 3 it will begin to taste good again. So, DON'T GO THERE!!!!

OOPS! I overlooked that piece of info.
Very good information to consider.
Cool you caught it..ha

And it is so true.
When I quit years ago..my little cheat turned into another 12 years of smoking because of that.

Lady Pamela 06-25-2012 09:40 PM

Bumping the thread...still holding strong.
How is everyone else doing?

Glenn 06-25-2012 09:52 PM

Well.. you were right,that one cheater set me back to withdrawal day one again. But I can't stop trying because breathing is non-negotiable.

not2shygrrl 06-25-2012 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 600300)
Glad to see your still hanging in there. Keep it up!

And yes sometimes it does make the tabacco taste nasty..actually what you are tasting is the true taste of the ciggarrette but not the tottal amount of it yet.

Your smell and taste buds change as you become more and more clean.
Hell I have super sonic sniffer now..ha I can smell everything.

Just keep doing well. And don't be asamed to use an aide if need be. That is what they are there for. For those of us who needed a crutch inbetween point a and b.




I feel it is amazing what our minds can do and where we can be lead in thought. To go with using an aid as an option is very wise.

Failure is the opportunity to begin again more intelligently.
-- Henry Ford

A person using an aid has incorporated a learning tool for assistance, thus possibly admitting the desire...need...for help to successfully quit smoking!! Now my thoughts have taken me to wondering if that building upon is what helps or lends in success? Then does one who quit cold turkey become more vulnerable to failure, utilizing no tools or assistance?

Either way.....deciding to quit smoking is very admirable :) and I continue to daily check this post. In my heart, I wish the best success to all who desire or need to quit.....and continued success to those who are living and breathing their continued success!!

spritzerJ 06-26-2012 06:19 AM

I will research alternatives today. e cigs, gum, somethings to help. cold turkey not going to work. sigh...

spritzerJ 06-26-2012 11:01 AM

Okay a friend is going to bring me an ecig they never used so I can check it out and I am looking at some herbal supports to help out too. I just really need to quit. Each failure at not quitting seems like such a bummer. And it is past time. enough with the excuses and such. I am going to be firm with myself. :readfineprint: for myself.

spritzerJ 06-27-2012 04:36 AM

okay still a wussy today. I am going to do my best to stave off smoking. goal... find smokers cleanse product to help out... focus on breathing and more breathing.

spritzerJ 06-27-2012 05:05 PM

2 cigs today, not too bad. ugh didn't want to do any. I was taking a herbal supplement and it had oats, duh didn't think to look for that and itchy all over.
switching to the smokers cleanse and hoping that helps. staring at the ecig box thinking it is awfully complicated and I am not up for that at the moment. tomorrow I will tackle that. tonight just breathing. breathing and more breathing. oh and maybe ice cream.

grenade 06-27-2012 05:16 PM

I did it.
 
6 weeks as of yesterday. I had tried to quit in the past but never stuck with it. This time I just decided out of the blue that I was done. Gave the last two away and did it. The first week was the hardest. I just stayed away from fellow smoker's and out of the gas station I purchased them at. When I want one I picture my babies' faces or other reasons I want to hang around this world a little longer.

6 weeks and one day later.... I feel healthier, I smell better (when it isn't 106 degrees out) and I can hit notes when I sing that I haven't been able to in a very long time.

Best wishes to you all. You can do it.

DapperButch 06-27-2012 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by spritzerJ (Post 607663)
okay still a wussy today. I am going to do my best to stave off smoking. goal... find smokers cleanse product to help out... focus on breathing and more breathing.

Quote:

Originally Posted by spritzerJ (Post 607946)
2 cigs today, not too bad. ugh didn't want to do any. I was taking a herbal supplement and it had oats, duh didn't think to look for that and itchy all over.
switching to the smokers cleanse and hoping that helps. staring at the ecig box thinking it is awfully complicated and I am not up for that at the moment. tomorrow I will tackle that. tonight just breathing. breathing and more breathing. oh and maybe ice cream.

The BEST, most POWERFUL cleanse of toxins for your body is drinking water. Lots of water. Hands down. Throw away all the other crap.

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Originally Posted by grenade (Post 607953)
6 weeks as of yesterday. I had tried to quit in the past but never stuck with it. This time I just decided out of the blue that I was done. Gave the last two away and did it. The first week was the hardest. I just stayed away from fellow smoker's and out of the gas station I purchased them at. When I want one I picture my babies' faces or other reasons I want to hang around this world a little longer.

6 weeks and one day later.... I feel healthier, I smell better (when it isn't 106 degrees out) and I can hit notes when I sing that I haven't been able to in a very long time.

Best wishes to you all. You can do it.

Congrats, grenade! Keep it up!

Lady Pamela 06-27-2012 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by spritzerJ (Post 607946)
2 cigs today, not too bad. ugh didn't want to do any. I was taking a herbal supplement and it had oats, duh didn't think to look for that and itchy all over.
switching to the smokers cleanse and hoping that helps. staring at the ecig box thinking it is awfully complicated and I am not up for that at the moment. tomorrow I will tackle that. tonight just breathing. breathing and more breathing. oh and maybe ice cream.

Can I make a suggestion here....

This thread is full of wonderful ideas that have worked for many.
I suggest you might read from first to last, then come up with a program that works fo r you personally.
Also , base it on those things which are tried and true.
But build it around your triggers/fears etc. so you take controle of yourself again. NOT the smokes.

This was actually posted for everyone trying at this time.
It truely did work for me.
And making sure you show up here daily helps as well.
Also holds you accountable to someone other than yourself..You know, in those times of sneak or cheat...ha!...smiles

Lady Pamela 06-27-2012 06:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by grenade (Post 607953)
6 weeks as of yesterday. I had tried to quit in the past but never stuck with it. This time I just decided out of the blue that I was done. Gave the last two away and did it. The first week was the hardest. I just stayed away from fellow smoker's and out of the gas station I purchased them at. When I want one I picture my babies' faces or other reasons I want to hang around this world a little longer.

6 weeks and one day later.... I feel healthier, I smell better (when it isn't 106 degrees out) and I can hit notes when I sing that I haven't been able to in a very long time.

Best wishes to you all. You can do it.

Are you as amazed at your self controle and achievement ..as I was/am of mine?

WAY TO GO!!!!!! It is so awesome...and maybe just maybe you will heal and have saved yourself from health issues.

I'm proud of you as well...ha

grenade 06-27-2012 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 607977)
Are you as amazed at your self controle and achievement ..as I was/am of mine?

WAY TO GO!!!!!! It is so awesome...and maybe just maybe you will heal and have saved yourself from health issues.

I'm proud of you as well...ha

It's very empowering. Makes me feel like there is nothing that I can't do.

Scuba 06-27-2012 06:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by grenade (Post 607953)
6 weeks as of yesterday. I had tried to quit in the past but never stuck with it. This time I just decided out of the blue that I was done. Gave the last two away and did it. The first week was the hardest. I just stayed away from fellow smoker's and out of the gas station I purchased them at. When I want one I picture my babies' faces or other reasons I want to hang around this world a little longer.

6 weeks and one day later.... I feel healthier, I smell better (when it isn't 106 degrees out) and I can hit notes when I sing that I haven't been able to in a very long time.

Best wishes to you all. You can do it.


YAY!!! Another non-smoker to add to the list :D Way to go Gren!! For anyone still struggling...just hang in there!! The cheer-leading squad is filling out nicely in here and you have a whole lot of peeps rooting you on!

Scuba 06-27-2012 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by spritzerJ (Post 607946)
2 cigs today, not too bad. ugh didn't want to do any. I was taking a herbal supplement and it had oats, duh didn't think to look for that and itchy all over.
switching to the smokers cleanse and hoping that helps. staring at the ecig box thinking it is awfully complicated and I am not up for that at the moment. tomorrow I will tackle that. tonight just breathing. breathing and more breathing. oh and maybe ice cream.

A good doctor got me on the smoke-free path. For me, I had to be told that my body was on the verge of a meltdown. I had a choice, quite smoking, exercise and eat better or end up in the ER...hopefully still alive. I saw her twice a month for 4 months. Once a month for 4 months and then she cut me loose. My second visit with her she put me on medication both for blood pressure (150/90) and smoking cessation. My last visit with her ended up being one of the best days of my life. I no longer needed the BP medication. The Chantix had worked well in getting me to quit and I was healthier than I had been in years. I dodged a BIG bullet and I know it. That was almost two years ago :)

I keep a copy of that bullet as a reminder...good luck!! You can do it!!

Scoobs

spritzerJ 06-28-2012 04:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Scuba (Post 608030)
A good doctor got me on the smoke-free path. For me, I had to be told that my body was on the verge of a meltdown. I had a choice, quite smoking, exercise and eat better or end up in the ER...hopefully still alive. I saw her twice a month for 4 months. Once a month for 4 months and then she cut me loose. My second visit with her she put me on medication both for blood pressure (150/90) and smoking cessation. My last visit with her ended up being one of the best days of my life. I no longer needed the BP medication. The Chantix had worked well in getting me to quit and I was healthier than I had been in years. I dodged a BIG bullet and I know it. That was almost two years ago :)

I keep a copy of that bullet as a reminder...good luck!! You can do it!!

Scoobs


Scoobs,

Thank you for sharing. I guess with all the folks that share it is wonderful and your story strikes me as it matches my reasons and story. Your blood pressure is low compared to mine! I desire to bring it down, have it stay down and lower the BP meds (I don't know if I will ever get off). I go back to the doctors in 2 weeks. I don't think Chantix will be a choice for me but hopefully some other options will be.

The cheering section,

I will read the posts. Water, water, water. I tend to be a floater anyway so I will continue to water it up! And thank you for being so positive.

Grenade,

Way to go!

Thank you all.

Lady Pamela 07-07-2012 01:55 AM

Wasn't here on the 4th to check in...but....

Officially on the 4th of July...I AM NOW SMOKE FREE 5 months...smiles

Thanks for all the support and for allowing me to give back as well...

.

DapperButch 07-07-2012 08:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 612146)
Wasn't here on the 4th to check in...but....

Officially on the 4th of July...I AM NOW SMOKE FREE 5 months...smiles

Thanks for all the support and for allowing me to give back as well...

.

Fantastic! Keep it up! Glad you keep checking in! :hangloose:


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