-remain steady when things are rough for them or between us
(showing up)
-anticipate their needs / wants before they are mentioned or asked for
(paying attention)
-tell them, always, and in all ways
(speaking my truth)


GM3 ways you process grief

That is a good/difficult one to answer... I've had a whole lot of experience with loss and grief, you'd think I'd be a pro.

I process my grief by:

• Recognizing that it's made up of a myriad of emotions (stages), that there will be triggers, that it will ebb and flow, that it will always be with me, able to be tapped and brought to the surface, and that the strength of the grief will lessen as time goes by - and that I have to submit to it, go through it, let each stage wash over and through me...
  
• Talking about it - in therapy, with family and friends, through writing and art and music.
  
• Finding strength in the love and bond I shared with the person I've lost.

Give me three ways you manage your anger

go to they gym
yell at the top of my lungs
listen to music/do art

gm3 canned veggies you like

White corn
Baby peas
Field peas with snaps

GM3 Things that you refuse to wait for

Things a person might refuse to wait for suggests a particular cluster of things pertaining to controlling outcomes or hard limits or things of this nature, that are involved in refusing to wait for x, y or z (etc).

I'm probaby not the right person to answer this particular item of interest.

Please give me three ideas for a fun mini-vacation during spring break.

Rent a cabin at a lake.
Stay at a bed n breakfast n get a massage
Go on a riverboat dinner.

GM3 things that would wreck your day.

The car breaking down
Finding out my youngest son is in the hospital (again)
Finding out one of my kids was suspended from school (that didn't really happen)

(That's besides death of a loved one, getting mugged, serious car crash, etc.)

GM3 things that would MAKE your day!

Winning the lottery.
Getting a raise.
About 50 more degrees farenheit.

GM3 things you refuse to wait foe.

I refuse to wait for.......new tires on my truck
adults to act as such
to be happy


Gimme 3 things that you always wait to do till last minute

Xmas shop
Grocery shop
Pack

GM3 Things you would love to do this weekend

Have a massage
get some pictures framed
have a relaxing mani/pedi somewhere luxurious

GM3 things you have to do this weekend that you really don't wanna.

Summer
Spring
Going on vacation

GM3 Things you have had enough of

-my mother
-renting
-delayed gratification

GM3 : ways you express gratitude

Ignorance
Inequality
Health Disparities

Please GM3--of your favorite snacks

Katniss~~

1) Any type of cheese from Switzerland..with black corinth grapes.

2) Celery with creamy peanut butter.

3) Molinari Italian dry salami.


GM3 of your favorite words.

Yes
Please
Daddy



Give me three times you smiled really big

Running barefoot on the shoreline.
Watching someone I loved sleeping
Opening gifts from my neices

GM3 Things you are going to do this weekend.

Taxes
Buy a cellphone and join the texting generation
manicure

GM3....of your favorite comic book characters (and why)

Katniss~~