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Teddybear 01-28-2017 09:41 PM

I have learned that no matter how much you want something with another if they aren't there they ARE NOT there. Walk away.

Sometimes you just have to remember what you had and live with that and know that they is someone out there for you.

Loving someone is never wrong maybe just the wrong time in your life.

easygoingfemme 01-28-2017 09:47 PM

I'm learning to be better and more quick at trusting my gut and taking action in the way it directs me.

Stone-Butch 01-28-2017 09:47 PM

I have learned
 
Intelligent people have something to say. Others just have to say something.

Gayandgray 02-12-2017 01:37 PM

I have learned that sometimes life ain't always greener on the other side.

Gayandgray 02-12-2017 01:38 PM

I've also learned that sometimes you just have to take a chance, no matter how scared you are of failing.

JDeere 02-12-2017 01:41 PM

That being obsessive can be a negative and positive thing.

Gayandgray 03-14-2017 04:29 PM

I've learned that when you make major mistakes in life, you just have to suck it up and start all over again, sometimes from the bottom.:jester:

Chad 03-14-2017 06:19 PM

Learned
 
I am researching storm surge structures and I ran across a report about an aqua duct that was above grade and crossed over a river. Imagine a road bridge that crosses over a river only it was full of water and used as a shipping channel. It is located in Germany. It was awesome I have never seen anything like that before. If I knew how to upload photos in a thread I would.

girl_dee 03-14-2017 06:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gayandgray (Post 1133250)
I've learned that when you make major mistakes in life, you just have to suck it up and start all over again, sometimes from the bottom.:jester:

Yes, and with more information than you started off with.

WolfyOne 03-14-2017 07:15 PM

Oh, I am still learning
You trust the people you think are right, only to find out they are wrong.
Wake up happy and don"t let anyone steal it from you' I've finally learned this one :)

BullDog 03-23-2017 07:31 PM

That your heart can be a safe harbor, a sanctuary of sorts, of all your loves, failures, disappointments, broken dreams, hopes for the future that you have and have had, if you just are still and let things be and cherish every special person and moment you have experienced in your life. To just hold it all in your mind and heart at the same time.

I really hope this hard headed butch has learned this and it isn't just a temporary epiphany.

JDeere 03-23-2017 07:42 PM

Life isn't fair, at all, but you live and continue to learn.

DapperButch 03-23-2017 09:01 PM

I think I am at my best when I am alone. :thinking:

easygoingfemme 03-24-2017 04:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 1134908)
I think I am at my best when I am alone. :thinking:

I often feel the same...

Gemme 03-24-2017 05:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 1134908)
I think I am at my best when I am alone. :thinking:

For me, there's a fine line that I must walk so I don't lose myself in the relationship and become resentful. Being alone has its perks but so does snuggling on the sofa. Apparently, for me, the fine line is somewhere on the sofa.

:blink:

kittygrrl 03-24-2017 07:19 AM

control your thoughts-this is always where the trouble starts:tea:

Chad 03-24-2017 07:26 PM

Learned
 
All work and no play makes me grumpy.
I need some fun.

My wish list
:knighthorse::bbq::flying::theisland::movieguy:
:fishingboot::sailing::fishing::party:

Gayandgray 03-24-2017 08:00 PM

That sometimes life just ain't fair. It is what it is. Move on.

JDeere 03-24-2017 08:58 PM

I have hardly any patience left.

GeorgiaMa'am 03-25-2017 12:37 AM

It is way easier for me to be compassionate than to carry resentment around about the small everyday irritations.


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