Hi all,

I've been single about 5 years now and in all honesty, have zero interest in another relationship but love making friends!

Good evening, single peeps!

Evening singles! Hope you had a decent Monday... and here's to a smooth work week! Is a bit chilly here in NC 45 and rain expected.

Love? Not sure where to post this
 

Good evening. I'm looking for your thoughts. Perhaps your advice. I'm not sure if this is an appropriate place to post.

I've been single and dating for the last 2 years. I've recently come in contact with someone I dated several months ago. The first time I saw her after our reconnection she told me she loved me and "never stopped." I've always believed her to be genuine. I want to be believe her. But... she can't understand my need/desire to communicate with her on more than a weekly basis (or about that). Example: we spoke this weekend. I have not heard from her in 3 days. In my heart, I don't feel that love she speaks of without that contact I desire. (Note: this is a local, not internet or long-distance dating situation.)

I don't feel like I'm being "played" by her. (I definitely know what that feels like.) More like... I just don't know if our communication styles are compatible - which is why we stopped dating in the first place.

Can anyone relate?

Clay buddy please help yourself,hear is a full hot tray of hot bisquits right out of the oven,there is butter,honey,and a varity of jellys and jams on the table...I'll have one myself...mmmmmmm good...anyone else want one, hear they are.

Thank you ma'm,its a job I love to get up for,cooking that is.Help yourself to some hot bisquits and jam.

Okay, you talked me into it.

MMMMM buttermilky

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Gooooooooood morning, singles!!

So, I just got back from a weekend in Baltimore, and I am in love with the aquarium and the science center. They'd be perfect for dates! There are a bajillion little places to eat in the Inner Harbor area where you can just look out over the water. It's so freaking beautiful!!

All you east coast singles, get your butts there and check it out!






mplsgrrl: I can relate. Thing is, I know myself really well and I know what I need to feel comfortable and valued in a relationship. One of those things is regular, frequent communication. It's very insightful that you know that you are someone who requires that too. As much as you want to believe this person cares for you, that doesn't change the way they communicate. It sounds like if you try to be with them again, you'll be spending your time wishing they would change, and that's a path to heartache. :( I wish you the best of luck, keep your chin up, I'm sure you will find someone who communicates and shows affection in a way that makes you feel fantastic, and that's the one you want. :)

G'mornin Singles...

Yesterday proved to me, again, that Mondays genuinely Suck shyt...
Migraine was kicking in, around Noon-ish, I tried catching it early, not a dent....
By 5 pm it was starting to bother, and I felt terrible, I figured I'd invite the Family to dinner, my treat...
Maybe kill the Migraine in the process....
No such luck, after a great dinner @ Olive Garden, my brother told me he had both part 1 & 2 of Harry Potter's Deathly Hallows in 3-D, I did try to sit thru part 1, Nausea kicked in, couldnt get comfortable...
After almost passing out in pain and "praying to porcelain G-d", I admitted the E.R. was a decent idea.
Had to deal with 2 very ....Vapid and Snippy Receptionists...
--"Do u need a Dr.?"-chewing gum, fluffing blonde bangs-
-- Uhh, yes...*scowls, feeling and obviously looking terrible, waiting room folks never disguise their stares*
-- "Hold On....Oh my gawd Grrl, he did Not!!....Yes, right above my bitchprint, I was like Oh wow.....
-- Umm, I'm a cardiac patient, on Dialysis, do u 2 think u can actually work or do I puke right above your crude collective asses??"
**Registered Nurse shows up fast, glares at THEM**
I was treated rather well otherwise, the emergency room nurses are rather kind, and we tend to bump into each other often doing Groceries, their conversations and witty jokes ease the misery a bit..
Blessed with Benadryl and 2 doses of Dilauded...
My BP was sky-high, until the pain subsided..
I texted my brother while having a serious Buzz that obliterated migraine & nausea, telling him I wanted to finish the Movie with 'em..
Went to have a Yumm breakfast (a light one...)
Tuesday so far rawks...(ignores the pissing rain)

How's your Tuesday?
:mohawk:

As a former north carolina resident, I feel it is my duty to remind you of the wright brothers and all the awesome stuff there is to do at Kitty Hawk as well. :)

You are absolutely correct BUT I am NOT in NC, instead I am in SOUTH Carolina darling! It is okay everyone ALWAYS mixes the two up!!! wink

Then perhaps you ought to change your location to ONE of the carolinas instead of both of them. :)

Plus i'm there :p

lol, i didn't see that on the travel brochure.

i owe you breakfast at Bob Evans.

Feel better, Rook!

Morning everyone. It's another beautiful day in New Mexico. Got a few fluffy clouds here. Beautiful sky....

Hoping to get my car back from the mechanic today!

And hoping to get a lot of work done!

Carry on.....

Hope you are feeling better!


Zimmeh

single boi in dallas
 

well hello all my single friends..... in the words of colby caillat "i never told u"
just what im listening too right now....:mohawk:

good morning singles and everyone! hope all are having a great week.. feel better rook. and all have a great day.. been a lil busy with side jobs on this end... blah!! gotta be a friend tho.

Only if you're making them.. LOL

Ohhh busy we are here single fockers.

Zimmeh, guess you got your wish for fresh biscuits. My biscuits consist of those stupid pop out of the container ones that scare me! I was craving some the other day and stopped by McD's for a chicken biscuit and it was freakin' hard as a rock I was disappointed and wont' be doing that again. Hence, homemade better!!

As far as those getting back into the dating pool, just be yourself, be honest about what you desire, don't settle or commit into anything more than dating if you're not feeling it. Take your time and enjoy. There does have to be some attraction, compatibility and communication I think or I'm just not interested. Most of all, have fun of course!! After all it's just dating.

Happy Hump Day and have a wonderful one everybody! :)

Let me score a day off and I will make them! Eww to McDonald's food :/

Zimmeh

From one lurker to another...I am sorry to hear of your bad days. They are unfortunately part of the process. I hope you will find it gets easier and the time to work on 'you' invaluable. I have been single for over 12 years now and, while I don't necessarily recommend an 'exile' of this length for others, it has allowed me to know exactly who I am and of what I am or am not capable.

I am wishing for you...all you wish for yourself!

Good words of advice, Ruff. I agree with the attraction part, but communication is key. I have to be able to talk to the person and have some sort of intellectual and personal exchange. Talking is another form of intimacy...especially if it's honest and from the heart.

what's up with this wind...damn

I keep looking up to make sure nobody's trying to drop a house on me... :)

I’m going to crawl under my covers and not come out until Spring.

Hello to all the singles

February 26th will make the two year anniversay that i became single. I am enjoyjng being singkd, but i am ready to find a partner.

Zimmeh

QUOTE=SweetJane;507472]Good words of advice, Ruff. I agree with the attraction part, but communication is key. I have to be able to talk to the person and have some sort of intellectual and personal exchange. Talking is another form of intimacy...especially if it's honest and from the heart.[/QUOTE]

I enjoy lurking on here. Been single a long time, and nothing really clever to say for now...

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