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MsDemeanor 04-22-2010 02:33 PM

Puppy kisses.

(In my book, all dogs are puppies. Once a puppy, always a puppy.)

Ldyluck88 04-22-2010 02:38 PM

I feel in order to be loved one has to love oneself. The more I love myself, the more I can love someone else. Expectations? Well, I think the more I love being in the company of someone who can be themselves, by sharing laughter, conversation, heartaches, etc., the more I feel I have found my "best friend" and this is a feeling no one can express in mere words. In essence, they show their love, and in return, I show them love back. :)

MrSunshine 04-22-2010 02:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by June (Post 90192)
Oh. I was waiting for an opportunity to post another one of June's unpopular (and personal) opinions.

Rule #1 - Femmes Always Run The Fuck. Even when they're taking it from behind.


Judging from comments received I would have to say it's not such an unpopular opinion. But we would like to believe we are in charge of something other than holding your purses while you try on a new pair of shoes.

Apocalipstic 04-22-2010 02:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrSunshine (Post 90205)
Judging from comments received I would have to say it's not such an unpopular opinion. But we would like to believe we are in charge of something other than holding your purses while you try on a new pair of shoes.

I let my G/F work on the pumbing sometimes too...you know, on those rare occasions when holding my purse is not enough.

:thumbsup:

MrSunshine 04-22-2010 02:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by apocalipstic (Post 90208)
I let my G/F work on the pumbing sometimes too...you know, on those rare occasions when holding my purse is not enough.

:thumbsup:


Well, I do feel the love when the purse matches my boots.

Queerasfck 04-22-2010 02:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by June (Post 90192)
Oh. I was waiting for an opportunity to post another one of June's unpopular (and personal) opinions.

Rule #1 - Femmes Always Run The Fuck. Even when they're taking it from behind.

O June, June, June. I'll be first in line to buy your book of rules! I love a good laugh.

WickedFemme 04-22-2010 02:52 PM

Effort; when I communicate my needs, make an effort by listening and then making the appropriate changes. If there is anything I need to do differently, let me know and I'll make the changes. Effort means a lot to me.... I don't expect perfection but some effort and mutual give and take is lets me know that i'm loved, which I am feeling presently... I am feeling the 'love'

SuperFemme 04-22-2010 02:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrSunshine (Post 90205)
Judging from comments received I would have to say it's not such an unpopular opinion. But we would like to believe we are in charge of something other than holding your purses while you try on a new pair of shoes.

Fucking running shoes, right?

Queerasfck 04-22-2010 02:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by June (Post 90215)
Here, honey, hold my football while I do the Touchdown Dance.

:clap:

Why'd you have to take it there June? Now I need a cold shower.

MrSunshine 04-22-2010 03:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SuperFemme (Post 90217)
Fucking running shoes, right?


Usually clogs, I like the wood.

chefhottie25 04-22-2010 03:20 PM

kind gestures..kisses..emotional intimacy

weatherboi 04-22-2010 03:39 PM

love this thread!!
 
Strong trust bond...
I would rather someone talk to me about a fear or insecurity before making up stuff in their head about it. I know I am gonna try like hell to do the same.

Checking in with each other regularly...
I am gonna approach the person I am with and ask if everything is ok with the relationship. I am gonna ask if there is something I can do to make things easier/smoother. I am gonna ask if I am igniting the fire on the regular or if I need to step it up. My expectation is my partner do the same. I have had some great all night long conversations from this approach.

Support the girl and the growth...
I am a proud sponsor of the "you go on and grow girl" club . No membership fee required to join. Life is short and we all gotta get our piece of the pie in every compartment of our lives. I need this to be reciprocated.

Common interests and support of things that are not so commonly interesting to one party or the other. Enthusiasm

Passion and input please and I am not talking about sex. I am referring to opinions about the life we are living and having them.

Sex is important to me in a relationship in order to feel loved. I am a lover of fucking and having painful raw dirty random renedevouz's so I am gonna be cruising my mate constantly inside the home and outside the home. I like to feel this reciprocated.

:asswhip: this makes me feel loved and secure
:spank: this also makes me feel loved and secure


willingness to negotiate is a good quality :)

i may or may not be back to post more...

Beau 04-22-2010 03:53 PM

just her
 
Apparently, all I ever needed was a sweet, brilliant, pixie Cubana with an amazing mind, incredible passion, raucous humor, and divine soul.

Life with my Queen makes me feel intensely loved.

:stillheart:

NJFemmie 04-22-2010 04:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Beau (Post 90234)
Apparently, all I ever needed was a sweet, brilliant, pixie Cubana with an amazing mind, incredible passion, raucous humor, and divine soul.

Life with my Queen makes me feel intensely loved.

:stillheart:


Ditto, 'cept mine is Polish and comes complete with torture equipment.
*sigh* Life is GRAND!

:stillheart::stillheart::stillheart::stillheart::stillheart:

Random 04-22-2010 04:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrSunshine (Post 90205)
Judging from comments received I would have to say it's not such an unpopular opinion. But we would like to believe we are in charge of something other than holding your purses while you try on a new pair of shoes.

I let her carry everything (even though I am the stronger) and I try to remember to let her move the heavy furniture... Isn't that enought.. sheese..


Hehe

Lillie 04-22-2010 05:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by June (Post 90192)
Oh. I was waiting for an opportunity to post another one of June's unpopular (and personal) opinions.

Rule #1 - Femmes Always Run The Fuck. Even when they're taking it from behind.

I LOL each and every time I see this posted..something so simple as "run the fuck" gets me each time ..ahahaha..

ok anyyyyyyyway lol..

I have no one way to feel love..I think each person loves differently..and each person recieves love differently..I remember the first time my first (ex) told me she loved me..she kept staring at me over dinner..and of course I asked what? and she said I need to show you..so she took my hand and traced the words I love you on it..it was a moment I know I will never forget..because without words she showed me..it was what our relationship was all about..showing!..it was in the "doing' of something not the "saying" of it..

Now fast forward 20+ years and its in all ways..I love to be romanced..I love to have notes left in places like my lunch box or car door..just saying..hello beautiful..it takes my breath for that moment..that is very powerful for me..I love to hear it as well..but..to me loving a partner must encompass what the word Partner truely means to you..it means everything to me..we share everything..im your rock you are mine..I do not feel the need to be reassured 24/7 of your love for me..but when we are together It will be known, felt..in a touch a certain look..the tone of voice in the conversation we are having. Im a queen and treat hym like a king..and I reap the rewards from that..it is unspoken yet it is the loudest I have ever heard it!..

Lillie

Lillie 04-22-2010 05:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrSunshine (Post 90222)
Usually clogs, I like the wood.

:elefant:I like the "wood" too!" lol sorry had to:elefant:

Lillie

bigbutchmistie 04-22-2010 07:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Random (Post 90019)
For me to FEEL loved and secure...

Show me you love me by being mindful of me... By listening when I say something is important to me... by being consistancy in your actions...

For me to FEEL loved.. I need to trust that I can count on you... If I don't then I start building walls, taking back my trust, my belief in you... I won't rely on you, won't expect anything... and for me.. that's the beginning of the end...

For me... Romance is wonderful, but it's not what makes me KNOW that I am loved...

And Im the same exact way :) except I enjoy Romance


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