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Crossing bridges by foot, especially those with traffic underneath (for some reason, the rapid movement of the traffic freaks me out).
I'm always afraid that I'll succumb to a sudden temptation to jump and inevitably have to wait for someone to hold my hand and walk me across with my eyes closed. Words |
eeeeuooooow - spiders, good thing my honey's not scared of em.
big crowds - NO!! most of the other things are getting better with each try :-) and a fear that's too big to say, cuz I don't want to jinx them :praying: |
I have three..
1 Heights without a rail or some sort of barrerer... I can do it but I break out in the sweats and the shakes... Why, yes I do love driving through the mountains.... 2 Something horrible would happen to my son.. It used to be my biggest fear, but now that he is out on his own, it's lessened... Lol.. I can't know where he is and what he is doing every day... 3 Not knowing where a loved one is... If someone was supposed to be home at x time and they are not and I haven't gotten a phone call, txt, email... I start to panic... They are dead on the side of the road... I used to say... It's not that I care where you go or how long you stay... I just need to know when to start worring, when to start calling the hospitals and driving the streets.. (I once left a voice mail on a friends phone at 12am telling him that he didn't call me when he was supposed to and now I'm imagining that he has ripped out his stitches and laying in a pool of blood and if he didn't call me back within a half hour, I was calling the ambulance to go make sure he was alive...) |
not breathing to the point that i actually smother to death
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any type of snake, dead, slithering, rattles. ANY
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heights as in falling from or looking from or being in or thinking about :|
bugs of any kind, any color, any shape size or ID A flat tire (I must get triple A, i keep forgetting) Drowning (learning to swim is also on my to do list) Something happening to someone I love (i'm a worrier) the world running out of coffee :tea: |
Heights, weird cuz I never was afraid of heights until the last few years. I get vertigo without warning so if I go up, I tether to something.
I fear losing more hours at work and then losing my house and truck, but I'm looking for a job so maybe something will come up at least maybe a part time job I don't fear crowds but I'm not crazy about being around a a stadium full of people. I do have a fire fear, but am told that comes from a previous life. |
So many of the things that I have feared in the past just don't bother me as much anymore. Don't know if this is a good or bad thing... After going through the deaths of 4 family members and a lover in a short time period, I was very fearful of cancer. Now, I have calmed and know that it is up to me to take care of myself and go in for preventive tests, etc. Not that I am perfect about this at all- those damn personal flaws!! FDR's "there is nothing to fear, but fear itself," rings true for me in terms of doing whatever I need to in terms of combating my own anxieties.
I do fear the rising of the far right to the point of gaining a majority in the US government, however. |
What is/are your biggest fears?
I'm disabled and deal with chronic pain and mobility limits, so most of my fears revolve around that. I fear not being able to take care of myself when I'm older and losing my independence. I also fear being unwanted and a burden to others.
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...Not being there...to protect or help a loved one...
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Elavators :| Don't like them , I avoid them especially if there are a lot of people in there ..Years ago I was in one , it started to get full , and before I could get off on any floor , it stopped real fast and this drunk guy flew into Me and My first reaction was to turn and bodyslam him to the back of the elavator :| He hit that back and slid down , oppssss :blink:
The one at the hotel for the reunion was a lil freaky for Me , but it was never full and it was fast ...lol :) |
I think i have to get out of bed and drive to it right now. :(
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i fear escalators. Nothing traumatic has ever happened on them, i remember riding them as a child and doing fine. But i fear them now to the point that just walking by one makes my palms sweat and my heart race.
i fear giving all of me, and having the recipient eventually say, "no, i changed my mind, i don't want you anymore". i fear breaking my right arm. i fear, right at this moment, that i'm going to have to go upstairs and have a come-to-jesus meeting with my new neighbors. OK, maybe "fear" is the wrong word.....or maybe it's right, but not for that reason. Maybe i really fear the beat down imma hafta leave her with. :| |
fear
Dying alone in a nursing home.
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Dying alone and not meeting anyone soon.
Bugs any kind especially cockroaches had when I lived in NYC it was awful!! Certain Heights it could be an elevated area to.Animals in the garbage like oppossum, one was in the trash a couple of weeks ago I think dead..yucky |
swimming
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a smaller fear of a bigger truth.
finding out I was right about everything... and then some. :confused: |
Im scared of :
Heights... No roller coasters etc for me :) Dying Alone |
Isolation and being alone;
Not achieving my potential; I have a reoccurring nightmare that I am working in retail sales again, don't want that to happen |
My greatest (real) fears:
Being trapped, anywhere... Being home alone in the dark (even at night sometimes) - we had a break in a few years ago, and I was home alone...and I thank God every day that our pups scared the intruder away...but, I've never been the same. Failing. Miserably. Falling apart at the seams..and having no tape, thread, or glue. |
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