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dixie 01-04-2011 11:12 PM

I would so date me...lol
 
Personally I think the pros outweigh the cons...lol

PROS
- loving
- caring
- passionate
- quirky
- always in the mood (*wink wink*)
- mad bedroom skills (*teehee*)
- pretty darn good cook (mad baking skills too)
- intelligent
- easily amused
- tenacious
- patient and loyal (most of the time)
- optimistic
- impeccible manners (unless we're just chillin' by ourselves, then I will prop my feet on the coffee table...but only if it's our coffee table)
- enjoys vacuuming, dusting and doing windows
- thoughtful (when not being forgetful)
- compassionate
- attractive
- fun to do things with/travel with
- good with animals...and some humans lol
- yada yada yada

CONS
- jealous
- attracted to shiny objects
- somewhat of a packrat/hoarder
- sometimes absent-minded
- crazy cat lady in training
- sometimes too silly
- picky eater
- sometimes too horny
- cuss like a muthaf'ing sailor (but never around family, children or others that would be offended, I do show respect...although idiots in stores and road rage do set it off sometimes)
- some days too cocky/some days too self-conscious
- devious (which can also be a good thing in the bedroom lol)
- sometimes annoyingly over-optimistic and/or cheery and/or perky
- coldhearted vicious ice queen bitch if disprespected

Medusa 01-04-2011 11:18 PM

I would definitely want to date me but would probably be a little intimidated by how little I sleep and how many projects I always have going on. Oh, and I might think the relationship with the big orange dog was unhealthy.

Blade 01-04-2011 11:28 PM

yep I'd date me

Starbuck 01-04-2011 11:29 PM

Heck yea, I'd date me! I'm very affectionate, very giving (I have a huge heart), love helping others, I can cook fairly decent, LOVE to make people laugh, not hung up on myself, I don't keep track of who's done what to whom, disappointed when others do, honest to a fault, and I love blonds!

The down side? We all have to honest right? Well, I have trouble saying "no" to others sometimes and get overextended easily, & I can't take a fish off a hook w/o help :fishingboot:.

Kobi 01-04-2011 11:58 PM


I'm still not sure if I would date myself.

One the one hand, I would like the responsibleness, organization, adherence to routine and ritual, get it done approach to life with someone who doesnt drink or do illicit substances.

I would also like the appreciation of simplicity, the need for peace, quiet, and lots of space, the love of electronic toys, and nature and the sea.

I would adore not having to explain how I can eat the same thing morning, noon and night for a week, why IF the toilet paper MUST be on the holder, it will be under not over, why I sing the theme songs to old tv shows in the shower, why the tv show Big Bang Theory is funny, or a sardonic sense of humor.

On the other hand, I don't know if I would want to deal with an intense, serious, curmudgeony, aloof, pain in the ass. Plus, I would find myself to be high maintenance cuz I would have to hire a cook, housekeeper, laundress, handyperson, and decorator.

Hm. I must ponder more.

Guy 01-04-2011 11:59 PM

okay sure, but our first kiss would be a lil awkward.

betenoire 01-05-2011 12:05 AM

Big Bang Theory is currently the ONLY funny show on television.

If Leonard was a real person and not a character on a teevee show I would divorce my lawfully wedded wedded person and pursue Leonard wholeheartedly. I would even be willing to put up with Wolowitz if I could have Leonard.

Oh sorry. I forgot that this isn't the "would you date that person who doesn't actually exist" thread. My bad.

nicetgurl_30 01-05-2011 12:08 AM

Easy A
 
Yes, but I thought that was what being single meant!

Nightshade 01-05-2011 12:42 AM

Yeah, I think I would fasten my seatbelt and go for this ride. But then I've always felt that passion was the best motivator in life.

Plus, I know all the secrets to bringing out the best in me.
:heartbeat:

Diva 01-05-2011 12:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva (Post 259566)
I guess I'm the only one who would, since I've not been asked for a date in forever......






And just for the record, I'm really ok with this.......I can't settle for someone who can't deal.




Martina 01-05-2011 01:07 AM

Yes. We'd have great sex and terrible fights. i wonder if the conversation would be interesting or too predictable. The bdsm would be a problem since i don't switch. i think it would have to be an open relationship.

Arwen 01-05-2011 01:10 AM

Me? In a New York minute, I would. I like my company. I think I'm very funny. I like to do all the things I like to do so it's easy to plan a date.

I will go out to eat alone.
I will go out to the movies too.

I sometimes have to force myself because so-called society thinks it's weird, but there ya are.

I'm officially weird.

I just get annoyed when I double book myself and stand me up.

weatherboi 01-05-2011 07:29 AM

limits!!!
 
i would but after much thought there would have to be limits when dating myself. we would also need a safe word for a timeout on those days we just can't deal with me anymore!!! ohhhh and i would have to like using vampire gloves on me, that is important.:mohawk:

NJFemmie 01-05-2011 07:59 AM

I think I would, but then again, I'm already with someone who is very much like myself - which is quite spooky at times - but other times - very comforting. Being on the same wave length, thinking the same things at the same time, sharing a lot of the same experiences, qualities, etc...

On the other side of that, we do have our differences and I think that is the key to what makes me a better person.

Daktari 01-05-2011 08:02 AM

Good God no! I'm not my type, far too grumpy and impatient.

The_Lady_Snow 01-05-2011 08:19 AM

Oh yeah I would!!! It would have to be polyamorous though, and the other me COULD NOT own a goat damn BEAGLE!!!

MsDemeanor 01-05-2011 08:19 AM

I'd probably be too frustrated by how little time that I would have to spend with me right now. Maybe in another year or so, when things have settled down a bit.

Even then, though, there will be the issue of always wanting to kick me out of the kitchen so that I can cook.

JustJo 01-05-2011 08:50 AM

Not only would I date me...I'd move me in and be in a committed relationship pronto! :)

Just think...someone who cooks the way I like it, bakes, makes the coffee, wants to go to the beach all the time, plays like a big goofy kid at Disney, has a job with lots of freedom, and gets things done around the house...awesome!

On the down side...it's hard enough to get me to go for a walk or to my doctor appointments now. If I had me giving myself more slack...that could be an issue.

Sexually...ummm....not going there :winky:

scootebaby 01-05-2011 12:55 PM

not even if you paid me..ALOT!!! i am cranky,moody,forgetful,grumpy,relunctant to see any other way than my own,forgetful(did i say that already?) a smart ass,an asshole at times,take things for granted,expect things/ppl to be a certain way,defensive about the smallest things---the list could go on,but then Jo may start wondering why she is still with me :|

cinderella 01-05-2011 01:09 PM

Based on looks alone...no. I'm not into feminine-looking women.


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