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Frankly I don't understand why people get so offended when they find out someone isn't attracted to them. I don't/won't slam anyone for their preferences. It isn't my place to judge them. Someone who says someone is "too butch" or "too femme" is really just saying "I am interested in X" or "I fit best with X", but of course, it could be said in a gentler way. I think the majority of people are attracted to a particular segment, or segments on the gender spectrum. It's less common for people to be attracted to every single possible gender /gender ID. If someone doesn't like you, or your apprearance, or your eye color, or your clothes... just move on. It really IS that simple. |
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I absolutely LOVE femmes **drool**
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Before anyone starts a lesson on gendernomics I realize that straight girls can also be butch and femme girls can be straight etc and so on.... |
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*raising my beautifully manicured hand* been accused of being "too girly" also...broke my heart, but I won't change who I am to suit someone better. Hang in there, when you find the boi of your dreams, oh my, you will know it! And hy will enjoy you in your delicious girly self!!
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<----aime la femme
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Hierarchy sucks
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Ladies maybe it is not because you are a girly girl or to femme for them , it's because they might think you are a high maintenance femme whether you are or not. They just might be saying that you are too femme instead of coming out and saying you would cost me alot of money .Not saying this to be nasty but alot of guys automatically think this way if they think you will need alot of things to keep you happy.
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I have also not been able to find femmes who will seriously look My way and yet I love femmes :)
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Honestly, and for us femmes that are interested, we cant get anyone to take notice. |
I promise you sanee, I am one guy that will *always* look your way :)
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**Looks at you from afar, a smile on My face** :) |
I thought I would stop by and see what's going on in this thread and introduce myself. I'm Julien and hello to one and all. I hope you are having a great evening. :sunglass:
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Maybe not, but you always look girlie in that wet t-shirt. :tease: |
I too have been accused of being 'too girly' which is freaky as aside from the way I present, there is nothing girly about me, even my husband doesn't think I'm girly! I know some people just don't like long hair and makeup regardless of personality, but others just assumed I would be 'girly' purely based on looks. From the point they clapped eyes on me it was all about the box they thought I fit into, rather than the actual person who was in front of them.
Luckily my FTM loves me as I am and didn't care that I suck at romance and have to be reminded to change the bedsheets.. |
Daddy June needs to buy you a muzzzle!
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Now now ~bo we all know breasts do not equate girl/girly!!! :p |
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