awww shares my birthday......

WELCOME! I bet you will end up loving this place as much as we all do!

Crossing appendages
 

Hey all! Good to see so many familiar names.

I was worried mentioning the other sites was some kinda taboo. I for one loved, loved, loved the old Butch-femme site, even some of the arguments were fun as long as there were no threats of fallacious charges. Last time I logged in it felt like everyone had left the party, I'm guessing because people were using it to harm each other. Sad because I know it meant a lot for so many of us. :wine:

Then the dance?!?! Fun for a minute, then I think management must have thought "Not on MY site" and people started getting 'nasty' public admonishments from management for the slightest dissagreement, or perceived violation. I myself was kicked off when a femme who was staying with me created a profile for herself. Just a nasty gram and !Boing! I was kinda pissed cause I had bought about a half dozen anonymous subscriptions.

So I am hopefull that this place finds some middle ground. You know what they say about she who ignores history........
-Jordan

Um

WELCOME!

:|

Welcome, Jordan! Hopefully we end up being the new home for you.

Anyone know?
 

Thanks for the welcomes all! Linus glad to know your on board

Wondering if anyone know what was the BFdances' undoing? As I said I have warm memories of the old site, but the dance is a really curiousity to me.

Nope. And to me, doesn't matter. The members here are what matter most and what I concern myself more with. All the rest is interesting but more of a technological curiosity (more of a what-not-to-do or what might be interesting to add here).

Welcome to the site. :)

Yeah that's what I mean. Was anything learned?

I already bought a subscription because I will always give financial support to venture of this kind, but investing my heart in another doomed community just doesn't feel smart. Yanno?!?!

.........maybe this isn't a conversation people want to have?

They are Gone! And like I said I got kicked off.

Um this isn't the way to start off with a new place dooming it when you don't know what's up, unless....

Anyways just give it a whirl.

Point taken
 

I chose this thread ...'Third time will be a charm' because that's what the title suggested to me. An examination of the success of this third attempt in the light of the past two experiences. Corkey tell me what you think this thread is about.

I'm gonna go with Strutts was looking for a new place to hang out, she did.. Now she's....well I'm gonna go with she's busy with her little girl and work etc.

So I'm gonna go she was looking for more friendships for....

$800.00 :|

This is what the thread is about:

Hi, everyone...I'm Mrs. Strutt.

Some of you might remember me from butch-femme.com and butchfemmedance.com as Strutts Wife. I left both sites quite some time ago for personal reasons and have very much missed interacting with the bf community.

I am hoping the third time is the charm and butchfemmeplanet will prove to be a place of honor, respect, and, most of all, loving community. I look forward to renewing old acquaintances and making new friends!

Namaste

It's in the newbie introduction forum for a reason. Mrs. Strutt was introducing herself to the site. Feel free to begin your own introduction thread or a thread based on comparing sites but it's not fair to hijack someone else's thread.

Gettin off to a bad start? Dooming the site? Sorry that's what your hearing form me. I am also sorry it seems I am making people feel they have to defend or protect the site. I haven't seen a flaw in it yet, really I have not a simgle critique.

I feel like I am looking for information and perhaps some thoughtful exploration from other invested witnesses.

Is this a fluff thread, because if it is (my bad) and I will digress.