Opposites attract?
 

I think some in common and some opposite is good. I definitly think (in my own opinion) that to begin with that butches and femmes are opposite to begin with in many ways. I think their being who they are begin the attraction in the first place. I am butch, I like femme and hopefully a femme finds me attarctive as well. I also think that respect and honesty is formost in any relationship weather it be friends or more. Appreciate what others bring into a relationship as they are giving you a part of themselves when they share their llikes and dislikes as well as their personal feelings about certain things. Put each other first and it will make your relationship grow.