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in my years of loving butches and FtMs, I must say I have felt with some of them, their anguish over their bodies, which had layers of discomfort for them for different reasons. Size being one of them. I have come to realize it doesnt matter if one is femme or butch/FtM, we all can be sensitive about size issues. Frankly, I love me a solid fella. No offense to the thinner ones, it is just not my taste. I have loved thinner ones but I am drawn to the larger butches and FtMs...
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did you know the average size in America is 14?
Marilyn Monroe was a size 14. My daughter today weighs as much as I did in the height of my eating disorder. She feels she is too heavy. I thought I was getting thin! Its all how we chose to see ourselves. Its not the numbers that matter..its how we compare ourselves to who we expect ourselves to be,... |
meeting someone...
well All I just wanted to come in and say hi....
I have met a great woman online....she is a large sized woman like myself...SOO I am NOT so scared about being together sexually...BUT still I am a lil nervous....SHE says that she loves me for me and COULD care less about my size. BUT I still feel a lil bit self conscious of my size. I think that this is because of how society makes us feel w/ all this NEED to be sooo skinny. I think too because I am the only large woman in my family. thanks for letting me rant. |
bumping....
did we forget we are celebrating the beauty of plusness? Lets hear more comments! |
hey there
I agree w/ Softness....
I haven't gotten responses either here or at BIG BUTCH LOVE.....COME ON BB...People I only say this because I id as a tweener/Tomboy/softy.....and NOT into femmes....just other Tombois/butches.... NOT that I don't find Femmes attractive IT is jut that there ISN"T any attraction. HOPE everyone is well and happy....Take care :pirate-steer: |
Just linking up these two friendly threads :)
http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...read.php?t=418 (Big Girl Love) http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...859#post189859 (BBW) |
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*bumpitybumpbump*
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What a great idea for a thread! It should keep going! Hope everyone had a great day :)
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Im a big boi and am good looking on the outside just as much as the inside. I love the girly girls of all shapes and sizes... :) I love this thread. Its one of the very few that I truly feel at "home" in when Im on it... :)
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~Rubenesque~ <smile> |
I like "Volumptuous" lol Makes me feel sexy ;)
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What a wonderful place to be, as was put in a post earlier, I feel "at home" here. I am a lady with curves and a few extra pounds and I am very comfortable with the person I am. I am drawn to a person with more to love, lol. Now all I need to do is find that person, :)
Good morning to one and all, and I hope you have a wonderful Friday. |
how we feel
Yes I think my thing though Is that I am a butch that loves a sweet butch from England originally and we are getting together in March...hopefully. Yes I have considered myself Large and IN Charge is how I see it. I have had probs w/ my body but learning to love it NOW that I have someone who loves me for me. I agree that I come here and we can talk about anything......JUST how I feel. I may be attracted sexually etc to Butches but Also find wonderful "eye Candy" all you lovely ladies.....Hope that didn't come off as Being a lil crass.
have a great day all. thanks for letting me rant :hangloose::moonstars::mohawk::batman: |
Happy Friday Everyone!!! Now that it is finally here I have NOTHING TO DO!!!! How does that happen? Was looking forward to something that just didn't work out. Boooooo! Oh well :) What to do...hmmmm....
Hope everyone has a great Friday!!!!!!! |
Hello beautiful ladies :) Im sitting here watching some t.v. tonight. Its Saturday night.. I hope you all are having a wonderful weekend. It's great snuggling weather here in Big D...
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Hello beautiful ladies :) Enjoy your Monday Evening... Big hugs all the way around
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BBW also have more area to spank! |
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All I gotta say is this ~ A*M*E*N |
Mmhmm that is the truth :p
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Hello to my fellow BBW's !!!
I've been reading through the threads that are BBW related and I am impressed by the positive attitudes that people have. Being a big girl myself and tall to boot (6 footer here) It is so nice to read peoples thoughts and feelings and being able to relate :thumbsup::thumbsup:
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Still worshipping the beauty of bigger femmes :rrose:
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as my body started to change after my surgery and I dropped weight, I had mixed feelings. I loved feeling more healthy and that I would be buying clothes that didnt cost more just because they were a larger size. But I also missed my own ampleness. I had gotten comfortable in my curves and really liked the way I felt. I had loved myself that way. I had to "mind adjust" that I could love myself this way too, altho I felt I was betraying the "fat girl" in me. She remembered the lover I had had, who looked at me scornfully for gaining weight (even tho she outweighed me..lol...isnt that a farce!) I made a promise to to the All of me, that no matter what size I am, bigger or smaller, no one was allowed to make me feel bad anymore. Especially myself. I didnt need to internalize her message. And that pretty much took care of the BBW in me! I am by no means thin ..never plan to be, but as the weight drops off, I am moving further away from being a BBW. I am wondering if others, who have lost weight, have also mourned this departure too, as I am?
is there a title for a tweener body sized girl? Not thin, not BBW, but not exactly average either. Oh my goodness...am I seriously looking for another label!!! ACK! SOMEONE KNOCK SOME SENSE INTO ME!!!! LOL |
No matter what size you may, or may not be softness, you will always be beautiful My friend :rrose:
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I know it has been a few months since you posted this softness, but I stumbled into this perfect thread by chance today and want to say my peace. BBW is not all about size in my perspective, it is about loving yourself for who and what you are, It is about altitude and confidence and the power in our selves to maintain that confidence not matter what someone else's opinion happens to be. It is about owning and taking pride in the beauty of yourself/ourselves regardless of what the not so norm norm seems to show. I believe for most once you have spent a part of your life as a big woman who understands her beauty and has seen what it entails and how we are reflected on in most of the world, we have learned a certain amount and perhaps type of compassion for everyone that could not ever be duplicated. As far as looking for labels :) I like your screen name! That is my perspective :soapbox: |
Good evening. I'm also a BBW and an Amazon one at that lol. Just peeking to say hello and what a wonderfully positive thread.:thumbsup:
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Cheers to all the BBW's out there...
I am a BBW and loving it. Aint nothing more beautiful than a woman who embraces her curves |
Okay so i have a funny story, I was planning my trip to Maui it was supposed to be me my mother my cousins and aunts and uncles. i figured great some all of us stuff and maybe some cousin time so i didn't feel like i was joining the senior center at 35... well my cousins dropped out one by one due to various issues, so I was left to figure out what i was gonna do when I needed some decompression, so i put an add out just looking to see who was about and up for making a quick new friend or hanging out while there... BBW coming to visit, seeks tourist company.
I got a few responses but only one seemed umm..... sane? we emailed a bit back n forth and talked on the phone a little, we spent some time talking and walking around the island, and at some point she said I am not so good at the computer lingo, what dose BBW mean? she thought I was saying that I was a black woman. poor woman she must have been all confused because we did send pictures and I am Norwegian and Irish, and look every bit of it. I asked if she did see the pictures i sent and she did, so now I am laughing a little and confused at how she could have seen the pictures and thought i could still be a person of color... But i am proud of my self I got my self up on a surf board and learned how to stand up on it for a little while anyways! :hangloose: |
SO happy to see this thread on here!!
If you haven't already, I encourage you all to check out adipositivity. :) Honestly, this is just what I needed. A great thread full of wonderful people who have made me feel fantastic this morning. THANK YOU!! |
I love big beautiful bodies on women. Come to think of it, on men too. Before I came out I married a guy who carried 260. I think I weighed 110 or so at the time. I always have loved a woman's soft body to caress.
Other shapes and sizes, too. I don't have a set type, but if I had to narrow it down it would be... wider. :) |
My 2 cents as a BB femme.... I love my body, I love its curves & roundness... I love wrapping my entire self around my butch with all my softness... I am giving, accepting, lush & passionate, completely satisfied with me, as a BBW & lover. I find that confidence = attractiveness, I "own" who I am & my weight holds me back from nothing!
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such beauty there is in the embrace of a plush body. To lay next to softness, to feel the warmth of plus flesh against mine...to spread open large thighs and find treasures in ampleness....nothing finer...
nothing finer.... |
I cannot wait to have the honor to have one beautiul bbw princess as my Queen... So lovely, so soft. A BBW doesnt put up with crap. They hold their own, but yet have a vulnariblility to them that I love. I love the beautiful curves of their bodies. The realness of their personality and so much more. Yep this big boi loves me some bbw femmes... :)
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Good Morning Beautiful Femmes :rose: I hope you guys are enjoying your Sunday.... :)
Its 92 degrees here in Big D today... I am loving this weather. Finally getting cooler... :) |
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Big Girls, You are Beautiful! :) |
I will propose and one day marry my BBW Queen! But first I have to meet her, and I cant wait :)
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Love to the BBW!!
Oh how I love a chubby butch, oh baby turn me on! This probley has to do with me being short(5'4 1/2) and chubby!
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Just peeking in to say hello to my fellow BBW Femmes and Admirer's *smiles* I hope you are all enjoying your Friday- i am so glad it is the weekend although it is a bit chilly Brrr i am looking forward to hopefully being able to go to the little fall festival we are having here for some pumpkin flavored wonders.
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