Gosh so much that I want to respond to in here right now. First, I have dated women who were a range of body shapes and sizes, some more slender than me, some larger than me, and some in between. And I can say that not once was there ANYTHING about their bodies that I felt like I had to "look past" or "try to accept" or do anything about other than lust after and enjoy. Not once. Not ever. If I'm attracted to someone then I am attracted to them, period.

But it's always easier to apply these lessons to other people than it is to oneself. Be patient with yourself. I have battled body issues on several fronts (and the occasional rear) for a long time and am still trying to get it right.

Wish I had time to stay more, but I ought to get back to work. Oh and I had heard of Adipositivity but had never been to the site before -- but hello! Really amazing.

You are toooo sweet!

No hot butches? Nobody who weighs over 107? Do you live in Vancouver? We were the stand in for LA in The L Word, you know. ;)

Typing this on an iPhone keyboard is insanity.

Just being honest honey :-)


Geez, maybe Vancouver is alot more like Winnipeg than I thought :|

Letter,
I live in Palm Springs! I imagine iPhone typing is a bitch. I'm on my iPad right now and it's a bit frustrating to say the least!

Seattle seems to have waaaaay more butches than femmes. At least it has always seemed that way to me, though I cannot really speak to whether or not it has many hot butches. You would have to consult an expert on that one.

--Slater, who is also typing on an iPad and is waiting for the inevitable autocorrect disaster

Ill be packing my bags for Seattle now....
:byebye:


(love my iPad, I've only had it for a week. My iPhone and iPad are lick crack to me......)

What was that you said about autocorrect disasters???? I can't believe I typed that, instead of "LIKE crack"!!!!!!

(hiding under furniture now)

I'm *SO* zipping My lips shut and NOT saying anything because I'd probably get in shyt for it LOL

It's official!! I'm positively salivating in anticipation of October. First time on the left coast, and I am about to find myself in a city of butches??!?!? Bestill my heart! I hope they're ready for the force of nature that is the Scandal!




BWAHAHAHAHHAH!!! You just made my day!!! I "like" crack too! lol




Oh come on, now! How much trouble can you get in the same convo with a person who has "Scandal" in their name for good reason?

**Shakes head**

Ayup, that spells bad news for us LOL

:byebye:

That's it. I renewed my passport this morning. I'm heading to Seattle.

It happened to me late last night. The iPad corrected 'dykes' to 'dukes'. I laughed at that.

I'll come too, I've always wanted to visit Seattle (heck I'd love to move there someday) especially so I can watch My Mariners play baseball and My Seahawks play football :D

HA i live in everett which isnt far from seattle

SeaGULLS is more like it.

(Me? A rowdy Atlanta Falcons fan? Never.... ;) )

Atleast I'd finally get to meet you right? ;)


Pfffffffffft My SeaHAWKS will trump over your Falcons anyday :D

:jester:

I am moving to palm springs sept 19th

**blows you a raspberry** Fine, meanie :p

lol

hahahahah oh whatever.......... i have lived here 5 years and you have known me for 4 1/2 and havent came to see me one time

No your right I didn't but I also didn't have the money, otherwise you knew I would have!

You know, I had assumed there probably was a good reason.

Well ... I don't have an iPhone and the iPad is new, but I've been told these devices will "learn" based on the things you type frequently and make assumptions and corrections based on that.



--Slater, trying to be helpful :innocent:

Good evening everyone I hope everyone is doing great.

I'm doing well. Avoiding housework, but doing well. How are you?

I am good as well thank you!

Good morning BBWs and BBW lovers!!

Quick question, do you have a particular style preference?

Some people prefer classic style, some like urban, some go for the hippie look. Me, I think I'm sitting here at the intersection of rockabilly pinup. Just wondering what makes you feel good, makes you look like a million dollars! :)

I like! That sounds lovely!

Good evening everyone I hope ya'll are doing great!

so far so good, and you?

Doing great here ty!!

lol mistie, i WISH!! I think I'm just too dang intimidating. :) Nobody ever asks me out, it's always me doing the asking and I've been turned down the last three times i tried!

Huh. Very strange. Maybe they're afraid of lobsters.

Wouldn't you be?

I think they just know better than to try to handle a firebrand such as myself. Or maybe it's really weird for a femme-ey girl to be all "hey, you're awesome, what are you doing Saturday? We should get food". Is that too blunt? Maybe I'm too blunt.

oh for goodness' sake, i am clearly never going to get the hang of dating, so i'm just going to sit here and look nice for a while. :)

Whether we're beautiful ladies or hot guys/butches, we should all be having hot dates ~ I need a hot date damnit LOL

There isn't a thing wrong with being blunt, and I can't believe that people turned you down ~ are they nuts? They clearly have no taste :D

In the summertime I like to keep cool so with being a bigger guy you'll generally see Me in muscle shirts and shorts. In the colder weather if I just wanna be comfortable I'll wear sweats and a shirt (I'm not a big t-shirt person) or I love plaid sweatshirts and I practically live in hoodies LOL ....... I guess I don't have a particular style, just whatever I'm comfortable in :-)

Dateless, here. I'll be spending Friday night cleaning my bathroom. Woo.

Good night to the BBWs and BBBs (big beautiful butches) out there. Love you all.