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The_Lady_Snow 07-27-2010 05:55 PM

(((((((((Spirit)))))))))))


We have you in our thoughts....



WolfyOne 07-27-2010 06:13 PM

I talked to Spirit Dancer a couple of hours ago. She was on her way to see the doctor and is waiting for results from an MRA and MRI. She's numb on part of her face and has had a headache for 4 days now. When she called me the other day after getting out of the hospital, she called her mini stroke a TIA. Although she told me what those letters stand for, I can't remember. I'm quite concerned for her health as her blood pressure is quite high. She doesn't release stress well even when we tell her to breathe and take some time for herself. As much as she needs rest, she needs her community. It would be really nice if some of the Nashville BFPers could check on her, lend her a hand, stop by her place for some real live conversation. I know many of you in Nashville know her, know how private a person she is. Just know, she's not going to reach out for help, so ya'll are going to have to take the initiative. The hardest thing for some of us to do is ask for help when we need it the most. What's going on with her and her family isn't a disease you can catch, so don't leave her hanging when she needs our help the most.

Strappie 07-27-2010 06:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva (Post 161111)
Many of You know our member Spirit Dancer....and some may be aware of the health problems her partner has been going through.

Well now, it seems the stress of going through THAT battle has created a battle of her own.....she has suffered a [minor] stroke (is a stroke EVER 'minor'???) and is to go into the hospital early tomorrow morning for a series of tests.

Her doctor has said that this may very well be stress~related.....many of You know that her plate is, indeed, quite full. MORE than full. And yet, she continues to give to all of us with her positive energy for us!

She has given me permission finally to tell You this because she needs Your energy now....Your prayers, if You pray....Your candles if You light them....Your intercessions if You request them on her behalf, for answers and healing and energy to take care of herself (for a change!).

On her behalf, I thank You in advance. She is in need of Planet Energy now......



First off... Diva thank you for letting us know about her.

SpiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiRiiiiiiiiiit

Honey god bless you and everything you do. I will say many prayers for you till you recover fully!!

Thinkin of you and yours!!

SnackTime 07-27-2010 06:54 PM

A candle is lit...

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers

Lady Pamela 07-27-2010 07:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 161801)
I talked to Spirit Dancer a couple of hours ago. She was on her way to see the doctor and is waiting for results from an MRA and MRI. She's numb on part of her face and has had a headache for 4 days now. When she called me the other day after getting out of the hospital, she called her mini stroke a TIA. Although she told me what those letters stand for, I can't remember. I'm quite concerned for her health as her blood pressure is quite high. She doesn't release stress well even when we tell her to breathe and take some time for herself. As much as she needs rest, she needs her community. It would be really nice if some of the Nashville BFPers could check on her, lend her a hand, stop by her place for some real live conversation. I know many of you in Nashville know her, know how private a person she is. Just know, she's not going to reach out for help, so ya'll are going to have to take the initiative. The hardest thing for some of us to do is ask for help when we need it the most. What's going on with her and her family isn't a disease you can catch, so don't leave her hanging when she needs our help the most.

Wolfy,

I just wanted to thank you for the update.

Kätzchen 07-27-2010 07:25 PM

((((((( SD ))))))))))

:candle: :candle: :candle:

:praying:

Sending lots of healing light,
love and sweetness, to help you!!!

violaine 07-27-2010 07:26 PM

:phonegab: lots of love to you, dear sweet spirit.

talk with you soon!

ox

ruthie14 07-27-2010 07:40 PM

:praying: Saying a prayer for you spirit dancer! May you feel calm and peaceful in spite of your stressors. :rrose:
Ruthie

Diva 07-27-2010 08:29 PM

Update
 
Hey everyone......

I just got off the phone with SD.....

She has a consult with her surgeon first thing in the morning to see what the next step will be.

SD is so thankful to all of You for Your love and thoughtfulness, but she is requesting no more calls/texts for the next several days. It makes sense, actually.....she's having to 'tell the story' or update with each call and part of the issue is the stress she was already under, right? So while she knows You mean well, it makes her dwell more on it when she needs to be taking care of herself by staying calm. And she is having some vision issues now, as well, so reading the texts are difficult for her right now.

I will do my best to give You as much information as she gives me permission to relay and in a timely manner.

In the meantime, she knows You're all here, wishing her well. SnackTime is there and is being very helpful. He and I are in touch, too, to discuss how we can best serve her needs.

Thanks for Your understanding and continued prayers and support for our Spirit Dancer.

~Diva





Lady Pamela 07-27-2010 08:45 PM

Thank you Diva for taking the time to help keep us updated!

Thank you SnackTime for being there when we can't..and for keeping us updated as well.

Massive 07-27-2010 09:13 PM

Sending lots of healing over the pond to you SD. I hope all goes well and you get well soon.

SuperFemme 07-27-2010 09:18 PM

Sending all of todays WOO to Spirit Dancer.
We're keeping you in our hearts and willing you back to good health.
Hang in there and be good to you. :bunchflowers:

Lady_Wu 07-27-2010 11:45 PM

Sending Healing Light
 
I am sending Spirit Dancer's partner healing light and will put her on my altar.
I have recovered well from two strokes, onemajor, one "minor". Twas not easy and I needed the support of friends and loved ones. But can be done, with enough determination and care.
May you both prosper; may you both regain health; may you both have peace!
Lady_Wu:candle:

Kätzchen 07-28-2010 12:21 AM

For our Friend, ((((( Spirit Dancer ))))))
 

:candle::candle::candle::candle: :candle:

:praying:

Tommi 07-28-2010 12:52 AM

Spirit Dancer this July........
 
May the power of the the sun brighten your eyes. In the darkness, listen to the rolling thunder move across your sky to remind you of an energy far beyond our understanding. Be still. Listen for the birds wakeful song, and feel the moonbeams kiss upon your cheek to say goodnight. Be at rest with yourself and your loved ones, and may the little one hear the music of the planet as her superhero soars. http://listverse.files.wordpress.com...nder-cloud.jpg

miss entycing 07-28-2010 09:16 AM

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Damon and I are sending you our thoughts and prayers, please be well my friend.
I'm here if you need me, always.(f)

Apocalipstic 07-28-2010 09:35 AM

Thinking about you SD and sending healing vibes.

Snack, if you need help, call me. I am getting ready for a work trip, but will be back in town next Wednesday. Thank you for helping out!

Jess 07-28-2010 09:37 AM

Thanks for the updates folks.. we've been hesitant to call and add to her stress... sending out lots of prayers for the whole family (f)

Leigh 07-28-2010 09:56 AM

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Diva 07-28-2010 12:36 PM

UPDATE

Just got off the phone with SD.....

As suspected, she waited for the surgeon quite a while (he had a couple of 'surprise' surgeries).....

But she DID see him. There is no aneurysm! But there are 2 arteries that are causing the issue.....an enlarged left artery and a too~small right artery in her brain....that's what is causing the issue.

SO they are going to put a stint in her neck to relieve the right artery. She will go back to the surgeon tomorrow to determine when this will happen. She's got some new meds, too, that I think will do her some major good.

Ya know? There is just something about having knowledge that dispels fear.....and now that she KNOWS what is going on, SD's spirts are much better. She sounded so much stronger and more at peace.

She said to say "thank You, everyone".....she appreciates all of Your energy and well wishes so very much!


ravfem 07-28-2010 12:39 PM

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still sending positive energy out to you SD!

Massi & rav

Jet 07-28-2010 01:05 PM

You have guts and spirit SD.
Sending good thoughts to you through this time.

j

SuperFemme 07-28-2010 01:08 PM

sending more woo. for you.

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The_Lady_Snow 07-28-2010 01:15 PM


violaine 07-28-2010 01:45 PM

she sounded pretty good when she rang me late last night/early morning, and with all of her will, a great physician, and the combined amazing energy of people in this thread, i think she's going to be just fine :candle: (f)

Greyson 07-28-2010 01:49 PM

SD, sending you my thoughts of healing and prayers.

Lady Pamela 07-28-2010 02:00 PM

Sending guardians to watch over you and yous.
 
Sending more blessings your way.

Guardians to watch over you and yours.
And also lighting a candle in my window for you all.



I ask these guardians to lend you some animal magic.
To help you and yours heal.
Also to guide those in charge of your care.
That they will be directed in what needs to be done.
And that they protect you all from further harm.
And thank those now, who are willing to assist.

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May the GREAT SPIRIT be with you know.

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WolfyOne 07-28-2010 06:08 PM

I am so thankful to the powers that be for keeping her alert enough to make it to the hospital when this first started. I'm also glad that with her medical background, she knew that she needed more help than her knowledge could provide her.

The power of prayer with the circle of online and RL friendship is amazing
Much WOO to you my friend, you are missed here at The Planet

Passionaria 07-28-2010 06:28 PM

Sending you lots of :::

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:kissy: Pashi

Stearns 07-28-2010 06:28 PM

We're keeping you and yours in our thoughts, Spirit. Here's wishing you well and good news.

Soon & Stearns

Diva 07-28-2010 11:04 PM

SD has gone to the hospital....they are running tests and I will let You know when I hear something back.

She is asking that You do not call/text. Thank You.

violaine 07-28-2010 11:05 PM

i just spoke briefly with spirit, as this is our usual hour it seems for conversing. she sounded good, and since a nurse was there drawing blood, we will pick up conversation later on. how do people get any rest in the hospital?

Jesse 07-28-2010 11:07 PM

Continued prayers and healing light to you tonight, Spirit Dancer

Diva 07-29-2010 05:39 AM

UPDATE

SD was back in the hospital last night with some pain. They put her on an IV with meds to break up a suspected problem in her arm, then sent her home. She will see her doctor again on Friday morning, then be admitted on Monday for a couple of stints, which should clear up her issues significantly.

I have suggested to her to not answer her phone at all. Anyone who does call will ~ hopefully ~ get her voice mail. She may or may not call you back. Don't take that personally.

SD is ill. Don't disturb her. Every time she has to tell someone about what's going on with her, her stress level increases, and that's what is causing the issue to begin with. Yes? This is not about YOU. It's about Spirit Dancer!

Please, please, please........post Your well wishes here....she will come to this thread later on and see just how thoughtful You all are for her now.

Medusa 07-29-2010 06:00 AM

SpiritDancer - I hope you are resting and finding some quiet moments. My best wishes for peace and continued healing to you.

XO

suebee 07-29-2010 06:53 AM

The healing power of the ocean.
 
Let the rhythm of the waves take over. As each wave hits, it's calming power sooths you as it breaks up the clots. Soon the power of the waves will heal you.

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Sue :floatbee:

miss entycing 07-29-2010 06:58 AM

sending more healing strength...
 
thinking of you this morning... I hope the day is kinder to you, and you're able to rest your body, and your mind :praying:
Deanna and Damon

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JustJo 07-29-2010 07:17 AM

Sending healing thoughts and energy...

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MysticOceansFL 07-29-2010 07:23 AM

Sending healing prayers and thoughts your way Spirit Dancer!!!!!!! and I light a candle for you also!!!

dark_crystal 07-29-2010 11:34 AM

my very best wishes to spirit dancer


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