Dapper

Wrapping you in a green blanket of healing energy! May your recovery be speedy.

Best Wishes to you.

Dapper, my very best to you.

You are one of the people here I have great respect for and get so much out of your musings.

I am glad you have support around you and I think it is a good thing to post this as we care about you as a right-on member here! A good friend of mine recently had colon cancer surgery and treatment and she is doing great which will be the same for you. But, hell, this is a big deal to be dealing with! sounds like the surgery went well. Good!! The first step is over!

You RAWK and I will keep you in my thoughts while you get through this.

Hey bro. It was a good idea to let people know here. Well, maybe not Corkey and Betenoir. Lol. They would always sink to the bottom, so to speak.
Know that your community here will keep you in our thoughts and/or prayers, sending light and evoking the healing power of collective will. Candles lit through your chemotherapy. And, yes, rlin was mostly right ... mostly. Depending.

I know that you have a lot of support at home. We've just widened that circle. You can't do better. Hugs to you, bro.

Hey now! Me and Corkey provide a valuable service!

It is no coincidence that poo rhymes with woo.

:whoop:

Are these services paid for, or, ate they freebies? :sunglass:
Poo woo? :seeingstars:
I'd watch out for these two if I were you, Dapper. In the meantime, just be sure to :fart: and keep the surgeon happy.

Update
 

Just wanted to let everyone know that Dapper didn't fall off the face of the earth after starting this thread.... Hy unfortunately developed an obstruction in hys intestine and ended up back in the hospital on Thursday. Today hy had surgery to remove the adhesions and everything went well.

Thanks for all the well wishes and woo.... (and let's hope the poo will soon follow):praying:

T

Hi, Folks!

Thanks for all the well wishes...I am back in business!

As tatalizingfemme said (thanks, honey!), the day I wrote the thread (strangely just a few hours later), I started having intense pain and then went into the emergency room. I had a second surgery and just got out of the hospital the end of last week. This is my first day I have turned on the computer. Tougher recovery this time around, but onward and upward!

Later this week I will meet with the oncologist in my area and then next week I will meet with the folks in Philly for a second opinion on chemo.

Thanks again for all of the wonderful support...it is so very much appreciated!

:fart:

UPDATE
 

Well, this is IT, folks!

Last chemo infusion today!

It has been a tough road since August, but I am FINALLY done! Just in time for summer!

The support I have received through my gf (tantalizingfemme), has been incredible over this time, and I just want to give a thanks to her here at bfp! I truly couldn't have asked for a better partner!

Also, a little shout out to Bete for being a wonderful support to me as well. I didn't know her before the chemo, so it is pretty cool that we became friends during this time and I had an online support friend.

Also, I appreciate the support that I have received from EVERYONE here.

One can get a little whacky with chemo (perceptions get off and brain doesn't work oh, so well), so I apologize if I have been a little "off" in my posts at all. I suspect that the ones who know have kind of treated me with kid gloves if I offended without thinking, which I appreciate!

I hope to not have any problems in the future. With the surgery and chemo, I only have about a 18-20% the cancer will return, so that is awesome!

Thanks again, all!

Sweet Dapper....
Thanks so much for this good news! I'm sorry I haven't kept up with You (I started to say "haven't kept up with Your ass..." but that would have been over the top, I'm thinkin'... )..... I have no excuse for that....

But THIS! THIS is grand news and I'm so happy for You and Tantalizing Femme....and God bless her for helping You through this hard part...and onward!

WOOO! I am incredibly excited on your behalf. You should have a PARTY.

Oh don't even. It's clearly been a two-way street - you've been a good friend to me as well. Which is a lot of work, because I just happen to be batshit crazy.

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Silly, there is already precedence in this thread for ass and poop jokes. I started it - don't let the grand tradition die!

Mazel Tov, Dapper! Being new to BFPlanet, I had no idea you were hang to walk such a tough road:-( I am delighted for you and your honey that you are doing well and are done with chemotherapy.

Sending continued healing energy and wishes for many years of goods health and happiness.:blueheels:

By the way, I think you need to buy her lots of presents. And pay her lots of attention. I like that woman.

Good point! I repped Diva telling her she could call me an ass, anytime! You know, as long as I could have a piece of her a....<cough..oops that would be over the top to say, I'm thinkin' ...>

Presents? But I am a cheap bastard! Actually, I'm not. I think you are right!

This joke was funnier when I invited your ladyfriend to the Lesbian Film Fest and said that you had to stay home. Don't recycle my jokes, bro! ;)

Good Dapper. *pat pat*

Me in red
 

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Or over the bottom.....as it were..... :|

Dirty. :whoop:

Thank You. :eyebat:


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CLEAN UP ON AISLE DIVA.......................

Just whatever you do don't let anybody use that cottonelle with aloe to do the cleanup. Like I've said - it leaves a filmy residue on yer nethers.

Nethers.

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Fantastic news. We are sending you healing and happiness and so glad you had support from your wonderful girlfriend through all of this.

Dapper, thanks for sharing your good news. I sense you are a one of a kind sort of guy. I am very happy to know you are going to be here with us and posting more things to ponder.

Thanks everyone for all the well wishes. It is very much appreciated! :-)