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Andrew, Jr. 12-12-2009 08:16 PM

What gives me peace
 
I am a very emotional guy. When I was younger, I was forced to be un-emotional. It is like being stompped on by a full grown elephant.

I have learned to step back, and refocus my energy on something other than who or what is bothering me.

This is what I do:

*Garden
*Mow the lawn
*Smoke a cigar or two or three if need be :cigar:
*Pray
*Mediatate
*Listen to music :listening:
*Chant
*Sing :rainsing:
*Walk with Dino :dogwalking:
*Do a Word Search
*Watch ESPN :basketball::cheerleader:
*Talk to my friends
*Play Golf :putting:
*Go Fishing

Jet 12-12-2009 08:25 PM

A stiff drink, and an old movie :movieguy:

Lynn 12-12-2009 08:57 PM

When I'm stressed, it's often in relation to some kind of argument or misunderstanding. So, good, productive communication brings me peace.

Also...

Knowing that my kids are OK.
The scents and sounds of nature, especially the woods or the ocean.
Paying my bills.
Reading a good book.
A day trip.

Andrew, Jr. 12-12-2009 10:14 PM

Today This Gave Me Peace & A Huge Smile
 
Arlington Cemetary was decorated with wreaths today. I think it was something like 1500 and all the wreaths were donated along with small American flags. :wwii-veterans::wreath::wreath::wreath::usa:

Selenay 12-12-2009 10:46 PM

An Old Fable
 

A traveler was walking along a beach when he saw a woman scooping up starfish off the sand and tossing them into the waves. Curious, he asked her what she was doing. The woman replied, "When the tide goes out it leaves these starfish stranded on the beach. They will dry up and die before the tide comes back in, so I am throwing them back into the sea where they can live."

The traveler then asked her, "But this beach is miles long and there are hundreds of stranded starfish, many will die before you reach them - do you really think throwing back a few starfish is really going to make a difference?"

The woman picked up a starfish and looked at it, then she threw it into the waves. "It makes a difference to this one," she said.

violaine 12-13-2009 07:31 PM

space

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BornBronson 12-14-2009 02:14 PM

Silence

Knowing a God does exist and that it is not our duty to save anyone's soul but our own.

A good cigar helps.

Fresh air too.

:seesaw:


Andrew, Jr. 12-14-2009 02:28 PM

What gives me peace
 
Everything that BornBronson said. :hangloose:

Plus this saying that was my Grandmother's. It is now hanging on my kitchen wall. It comes from the Bible I think. It reads "Christ is the head of this house, the unseen guest at every meal, the silent listener to every conversation."

Corkey 12-14-2009 04:33 PM

Hearing my wife's peaceful sleep
feeling Slick purr right next to my heart
the love and support of our family
sunshine on a gloomy day
the rustle of leaves
the warmth of the earth on my feet
the smile of a child
the coo of a baby
the face lick of a puppy
the blessing that is this life.

apretty 12-14-2009 04:44 PM

polytheism
 
when the Ez takes the gods out for a long walk. silence/bliss

Andrew, Jr. 12-15-2009 12:59 PM

What gives me peace
 
Knowing who and what I am :bbq:

Frame every disaster with these words "in 5 years will this matter?" - by Regina Brett of The Plain Dealer :LGBTQFlag:

NJFemmie 12-15-2009 03:54 PM

Silence gives me peace.
I like to sit in silence and let my thoughts do it's thing and when all is said and done I can re-process.

Hot baths/showers work wonders too.

Gemme 12-15-2009 10:45 PM

Gut wrenching, soul stirring music.

Andrew, Jr. 12-16-2009 03:06 AM

Sometimes I go to St. Jude's Shrine and just sit in a pew for a few hours. All walks of life come into the Shrine for everything from sight-seeing, to praying for a miracle, for shelter for a few hours, to just having some peace and quiet.

Sometimes I go and look at the stain glass windows, other times I go when the organists is practicing, and then there are times when I just go and sit and think.

Diva 12-16-2009 08:44 AM

Children's voices singing carols like "Lully, lullay..." and "Stille Nacht" and "What Child Is This?"

It's very calming and peaceful......there aren't many things more pure than a child's voice....


NJFemmie 12-16-2009 09:02 AM

"You can hear the footsteps of God when silence reigns in the mind."

violaine 12-16-2009 09:37 AM

pp, p x 3; being heard/seen + 500; q's over assumptions

:flyaway:

Andrew, Jr. 12-16-2009 01:40 PM

I found an Italian singer who really calms my nerves. His name is Andrea Bocelli. He is blind, and a very spiritual man. His last cd is called "Incanto". It is pure bliss. :musicnote:

UofMfan 12-16-2009 02:02 PM

At this moment peace eludes me.

Andrew, Jr. 12-17-2009 01:26 PM

There is a prayer I say all the time. I just learned it was from the Navajo Indians.

"Peace before us, peace behind us, peace under our feet. Peace within us, peace over us, let all around us be peace.":stillheart:

Gemme 12-17-2009 06:32 PM

The quiet air at night when nothing stirs but the falling snowflakes.

Tommi 12-17-2009 06:49 PM

Watching the roaring ocean waves rolling across the beach, ebbing and flowing taking the sand and turning it anew.

Andrew, Jr. 12-18-2009 03:50 PM

I struggle with understanding things. Sometimes it just gets overwhelming to me. I go and talk with Linus. He is so kind. Never making fun of me, or belittling me. I will be like what did I say that cause this reaction? Or I am confused on what this means. Or I thought I meant this, and this person said this to me. Why? I just find so much comfort and peace in Linus. He is so patient and kind. Never mad or frustrated with me. He is a good man.

I am so lucky to have him.

Gemme 12-18-2009 06:26 PM

Earlier today, I wrapped Christmas pressies. I had SNL's Gilly Christmas special on in the background, the pups at my feet and tons of wrapping paper to play with.

Now, I'm at work but I'm finding some peace in having Elf on in the background (for the 12th time this season!) and playing on the Planet and crunching on some hard candies. Yummy!

purepisces 12-18-2009 09:27 PM

Writing. Getting my anxiety out of my head and onto the page always seems to help. And I've got stacks of journals to prove it! :)

hottprof 12-19-2009 10:39 PM

watching the snow fall...

suprisingly... shoveling and then seeing my acomplishment after (my car has its very own fort)


Smiles :frog:

la_la 12-22-2009 05:20 PM

What Gives You Peace?
 
Yoga and meditation at 6 am prevent a cruddy day

Andrew, Jr. 12-22-2009 05:52 PM

Meditation helps me a great deal. :ohm:

Scarlet Harlot 12-22-2009 06:08 PM

Hello All xx
 
Today was cooking. I made laods of stuff and listened ot children's stories on the radio.

Gemme 12-22-2009 06:10 PM

It may weird, but I love to go shopping this time of year. Well, I like shopping anyway and think it should be an Olympic sport, but I digress....

I don't care for the difficulties in finding a parking spot, the rudeness sometimes encountered or the long lines, but other than that, I love it! There's this energy that is so vibrant because of the sheer number of people in enclosed spaces that I just adore. It's so strong, it nearly hums. It gives me energy and a smile on my face, as well as peace.

Scarlet Harlot 12-22-2009 06:12 PM

Singing to old favourite tracks at the top of my voice and not caring if I'm in tune or know all the words or not.

IttyBittyFem 12-22-2009 08:35 PM

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The candles are all lit - complete stillness, clicking of the keyboard is the only sound



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hottprof 12-27-2009 11:09 PM

What gives me peace:

meditation

yoga (when I can stop thinking and just make it happen)

of which I need to do both...

Smiles :frog:

Andrew, Jr. 12-27-2009 11:30 PM

Peace for me:

Meditation :ohm:

Prayer - lots of it today :praying:

Rereading My Holy Books on Tape :listening:

RNguy 12-27-2009 11:42 PM

peace
 
1. meditation
2. prayer and faith
3. xanax ( kidding, but sometimes I probably could use it )

-RNguy

FeminineAllure 12-27-2009 11:45 PM

Someone I trust completely in control.

Rene 12-28-2009 01:30 AM

My wife.

That is all that is necessary.

R.:stillheart:

Diva 01-02-2010 11:55 PM

Finality......



Eddie 01-03-2010 12:54 AM

Bacon.....


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