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Leigh 10-12-2010 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by browneyedgirl
its been amazing, rough and scary


Yes it has, but through it all you've been there for Me ~ thank you :)

MaggieBluIze 10-12-2010 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by dark_crystal (Post 206411)
Maggie, Pixie, and Tcountry are my fave glasses-wearing Olive Garden dates! And special thanks to Maggie for helping me feel less shy about Thanksgiving at Diva's and mushroom-eating teamwork!!

Thank you so much for this DC ... You have been just absolutely amazing about my trip to Houston ...
I couldn't have asked for a better date my first night here, such interesting conversation, such open sharing and great Margarita's ...
And then Olive Garden for the 2nd night - Yuuummmmm - And I will share mushrooms with you anytime ...
Can't wait to see you at Diva's ... I know how it can be rather intimidating to go to things, but also know how very much fun you will have and how you will love to meet all the people you know just by online or ones you have never even heard of before.

Anyway ... Thanks for being you, not even hesitating about entertaining me my 1st night, always looking adorable, being such great dinner company, and for being so very open and genuine.

pajama 10-12-2010 01:52 PM

Told you I'd be back....

Irish is so incredibly creative. I can't wait for Kinky Kraft time thursday where she has some wonderful economic torture-toy ideas. What a clever girl.

And to her Sissy...

Pixie is such a sweet, funny, energetic soul that brightens any room just by being in it.

That is all for now...
A

AtLast 10-12-2010 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by sassy_girl (Post 206513)
I compliment the folks that exchange lifestyle information respectfully and without judgement, thank you. The rest of the world could catch on to that concept.

I compliment Snowy because I tingle when she says ~rawr~

I second this!

Yes.... the world needs the spirit of the Planet!

AtLast 10-12-2010 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by dark_crystal (Post 206411)
Maggie, Pixie, and Tcountry are my fave glasses-wearing Olive Garden dates! And special thanks to Maggie for helping me feel less shy about Thanksgiving at Diva's and mushroom-eating teamwork!!

My guess is that you will be in very good company at the Diva's! At the Oakland Bash in '08, I got to meet many of the Austin folks and it was indeed, a pleasure. They know the meaning of community! Have a great time! Oh, and, savor the cooking!

nycfem 10-12-2010 02:51 PM

This compliment goes to ALovelyKiss. Over the years, whether we are wicked busy and not emailing or in our cocoon of sending back and forth long emails constantly, I always know that I have a sister in you. I admire your commitment to your studies and the excitement you have about learning. You are passionate about all areas of your life, and that's a wonderful quality to have. I feel overwhelmed with gratitude for the positive, loving, and caring energy you bring to our very special femme friendship!

Kätzchen 10-12-2010 03:49 PM

Dearest Jennifer-

We've known each other for what seems years now: You are dear to my heart- the friendship we have shared over the years has inspired me, helped me to see the value in leaving room in my heart for the least enjoyable aspects that life can often bring and during the good, bad and ugly times of life? I have savored your poetry, learned about your life in New York (I do miss living in Manhattan, I do!), and the beautiful partnership your share with your sweet-BB and the love and joy that grounds and melds the universe that the two of you share! ((( Jennifer? ))) Thank you for being you!!! ~D

PS/ thank you for your service to the community here, where you live and abroad!

:rose: :rose: :rose:

Kätzchen 10-12-2010 03:55 PM

Dearest Natalie,

I want to share here that you are such a dear heart and I have thoroughly enjoyed your zest for poetry, the spoken word, your sense of fashion and the wealth of knowledge you share with our online community! I have read your posts, over the years, and it was only recently in the past year or so that I actively began to cultivate a friendship with you! Thank you Natalie for the encouragement you have gifted to me, for being a willing participant in our community and for sharing your values and beliefs in ways that helps others (me included) to see all the beauty and wisdom you possess! Thank you so much for the sweet friendship we have shared!

~D

PS/ I truly love the fashion thread! (Baby Blue tutu and all!)

:rose: :rose: :rose:

Kätzchen 10-12-2010 03:59 PM

Dearest ravfem (rhonda),

I have only known you for a little while and during that time, you have been such a source of support, encouragement, sharer of divine chocolate sweets (and lemon drops!) and I totally like the music that you post in the music forums!!! What I appreciate the most about you and our friendship, is that we can talk about anything and be there as friends for each other when life can often times be perplexing! I love your sense of humor and I do believe that the best in life is yet to come for you (and for me)!!!!
Thanks for the friendship we share and for always having a kind word to share with me!

~D

PS/ I saw a decadent recipe for lemon cake (chocolate included too!)

:rose: :rose: :rose:

Kätzchen 10-12-2010 04:06 PM

Dearest DIVA (Janey),

I just want to thank you for all the kind words and lovely friendship and all the fun we have shared over the years!!!! I love your sense of humor (duct tape, being a special 'sheriff', and super coordinator of activities and fine dining experiences - twill make it to your house one day and pick pecans off the tree) and your never ending willingness to say what you mean and mean what you say and to ceaselessly renew your commitment to the health and wealth of our communal enclave here! I'm gonna stop right there for now because if I continue, I may shed a few tears today!

Yours Femme sista sista in a RED Hat,
~D

:rose: :rose: :rose:

Kätzchen 10-12-2010 04:14 PM

Dearest PinkieLee (Tonya),

Lord have mercy, I have never laughed so much as to be entertained by all your fun loving revelry in the music forum threads and for the way you impart your southern hospitality! Although we have known each other as aquaintences over the years, it has been this past year that I have gotten to know you in ways that has touched my heart! You are so compassionate, passionate, and your sense of gratitude for your family, your friends and those you know here, inspires me to harness my energy and use it wisely! Thank you so much for the love that you spread to those you know and know hardly at all! Your graciousness is truly beautiful, Tonya! Thanks for being such a beautiful friend to me and for all the encouragement and support you have been to me too!

~D

PS/ This is for you tonight, k? :wine:

:rose: :rose: :rose:

Kätzchen 10-12-2010 04:20 PM

Dearest Tabitha,

Thank you so much for the compassionate support you have been to me during my eldest sons' demise... Thank you so much for reaching out to me during a very difficult time in my life as I watched with horror, the details that spiraled out of his and my control to help him when he needed me most! I think that our being mother's to our children who have served our country is one of the toughest roles a mother could ever endure. Thank you for F*cking much for all the love and tender care you have given to me during a very difficult time in my life. I continue to champion his cause and do all I can for him because despite what has happened, he did give up his life to serve our country and deserves so much more that I could ever give to him! Because of your influence in my life, this hardship has helped me to retool my ability to respond to serious pressures in life that I never knew to exist! You are the sweetest and I send you much Femme love today!

~D

PS/ thank you so much for the beautiful cards you leave on my friendship page! Thank you Tabitha!!!!

:rose: :rose: :rose:

Kätzchen 10-12-2010 04:24 PM

Dearest Gemme (Kat),

You are a source of inspiration to me and this community!!!! I totally adore your sense of humor and your knack for calling out the absurdities that often stop me in my tracks! You have been so supportive to me, over the past years and I just want to say to you Kat that I appreciate you extending an invitation to me to attend next year at the Planet's Bash! We share a beautiful friendship and I want to congratulate you and Organic on your mutually shared happiness and joy and that I wish you both the best in the days to come! AND, thanks so much for all the unconditional love and kindness you have extended to me over the years!

~D

PS/ You know those circus peanuts you love? I say embrace them! ;)

:rose: :rose: :rose:

Kätzchen 10-12-2010 04:30 PM

*Goodness sakes!!!*

:cheesy:


To all my friends here who know me (or not!),

Thank you so much for being a part of my life! Each and every one of you have impacted me in one way or another, over the years. To all of you, I want you to know how much it means to me to be friends with you here and to be of support to each other as we spend time on the Planet and enjoy ourselves and learn along side of each other. You all have brought valuable gifts of intellect, wisdom, compassion, passionate discourse, and shared your sense of humor or even your sense of what upsets you and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for tolerating me and all that makes me weak, strong or just plain disillusioned! Each of you have inspired me, taught me important social lessons that have helped me to be the person I am. I owe my deepest gratitude to each and every one of you and may the days to come, bless you deeply!

With much kindness and sweetness for all of you,
~D

:rose: :rose: :rose:


PPS/ I have always loved James Taylor's song,
shower the people you love with love
and this goes out to all of you!!!


Passionaria 10-12-2010 04:31 PM

A Lovely Kiss,
Your sweet notes and supportive words, along with your fun musical sharing is a reflection of the beautiful spirit that is you. You make this Planet a nicer place to be!

:rose: Pashi

Passionaria 10-12-2010 04:34 PM

Ms Gemme,
Could you be any cuter? And a great a** too? Giggling........

:rose: Pashi

Passionaria 10-12-2010 04:37 PM

Spirit Dancer,
You have proven to be a true friend and such a beautiful human being. I :heartbeat: you! And then there is your writing, beauty comes from beauty....

:rose: Pashi

Kätzchen 10-12-2010 04:42 PM

Dearest Pashi,

You are such a sweet friend to me!!! I've gotten to know you over the years and even though we never got to know each other in Ashland, we've overcome that, yes? LOL! Thanks Pashi for offering your alternative medical views here, for writing such beautiful poetry and for all the love you spread to members of the community here! Thank you too, for being such a sweet friend to me!

~D

PS/ It's nice to see you here today! (((( YOU ))))

:rose: :rose: :rose:

waxnrope 10-12-2010 05:07 PM

I have to say that Ravfem is something special. She gave me a whole Toblerone today ... and threatened to beat me up if I told anyone. You know that she doesn't share. So this was real special. Besides, I'd like to see her try and whup me :)

Greyson 10-12-2010 05:28 PM

I want to give a shout out to many of the butches and Transmen that I have learned from. I may not always agree with them but I do respect them and some of their values.

ABbutch, Strappie, Theo, Thinker, Boots 13, Stearns, CityButch, Dredgeek, Hack, Blade, FR, Mike, Jack, Tommi, Dylan, Rope, Toughy, TD, Jess, Corkey, Metropolis, Bulldog, SnackTime, Linus, Self Made Man, Logan, BigButchMindy, blackboot, Mr. Bent, Ezee, Atomic, Liam, Thoreau, AT, Joe, DapperButch, BestButchBoy, Firegal, BlackLeather and Frost. I am sure I am forgetting some. There have been many that have passed through the years.

jenny 10-12-2010 06:30 PM

Jenny... what a wonderful thread idea!! Of *course* it came from you -- you with the big heart, the big imagination, and the gift of generosity of self. I'm so glad to call you my friend!!! (And we soooo need to hit Carmine's SOON!)
Love you!
OtherJenny

Jet 10-12-2010 06:44 PM

My favorite person here is (drum roll please).......................Greyson.
Pretty classy guy and a real gent. He's the only person here who I would like to meet in real time.

Julie 10-12-2010 06:48 PM

How do you compliment people, without the body language to truly express yourself...
I will try my best, to give justice to those people now and in no particular order (well that might not be so true).

Dreamer... For seeing me as the beautiful bitch I am, when most times all I see is the bitch - For calling me out on my shit, when this could be dangerous to all involved. I compliment you on your endurance and honesty. Thank You!

Snowy... You may not realize this... But I am so honored to know you, that you have called me friend. You are one of the most honest people I have ever witnessed. You just don't care - because YOU BELIEVE in what is RIGHT and will challenge what is WRONG. I compliment you on your passion and self-respect and the dignity you carry.

Weatherboi... What can I say! Every time I see your name, I smile. You have this beautiful sense of self and what I imagine is to be a most patient spirit. I am learning from you, without you even knowing it. You are teaching me to give myself permission. I compliment you, on being the greatest teacher of all, in your magnificent grace.

Mr.Sunshine... You cocky arrogant son of a bitch. I met you that day smoking cigarettes in LR. I thought... Who the fuck is HE? What I did not know at the time, you would touch my life and the life of my youngest child. You would bring a great humility and understanding of human nature to our lives. I compliment you on your great honesty and ability to love, unconditionally. Even though you might not think you do... I know different.

(I am getting emotional)

June... You surprised me the most, I think. I had read for years what a cold (do not touch woman you were - in your own words). What you showed me was a woman who shared a common ground with me. We are MOMMA'S and we cried and shared our stories of raising our sons. What this means to us. Thank you for sharing you with me. I compliment you on being brave enough to open your heart and share your tears with me. I will be forever touched.

Medussa... Thank you for looking at me with that furled brow and firmly taking me by the shoulders and saying... You are Beautiful Julie and if you want to be a SLUT - then you be it baby girl! When you said it, I felt it. Really felt it and knew it would be okay, should I decide to be the slut, I so long to be. That I could actually celebrate it. I compliment you for the non-judgmental honesty you give.

(okay I need to stop now)

Tommi - I am not sure you realize the impact you had on my life. We talked in the lobby in L.R. and you asked me about my voice. I told you about the tumors on my vocal chords and then said... I will be right back, I need to have a cigarette. You actually cried. Do you remember? You told me about your friend who thought his/hers were benign (as I do) and said, they were not. I quit smoking Tommi -- It is two weeks now, and I will have my surgery when I return from Australia - And when it got tough, I could hear your voice and see your tears welling in your eyes. So, I am not sure if this is a compliment, but gratitude to you, for sharing and being firm. Thank You.

(Now I am a goner - I can't do this anymore).

I will be back, because there are so many more people, who have touched me deeply with their honesty and kindness. Even those who have pissed me off - I compliment them.

I will be back.

Julie


Ms. Tabitha 10-12-2010 07:28 PM

ALovelyKiss
Your so very welcome. You know that I'm always here and yes, there is a bond that is shared with mother's who have children who are serving. Our children join the military and take an oath to serve and protect our country. Our children come home and they have changed, mentally and physically. They are not the same as when they left, that is for sure. My son has served in Iraq and now his deployment to Afghanistan will be not just his greatest challenge, but mine as well.
You are a great mom and you have so much love and strength for your son and you are having your greatest challenge as well with him and what he is going through. You are a wonderful mother and I admire you for your strength. As always my prayers and thoughts are with you and always know I am here when you need a shoulder.
Thank you as well for our friendship and our conversations we will continue to share. Thank you for being you.
Much love and respect~

~ L

nycfem 10-13-2010 10:46 AM

Jenbean- you have a depth and humor that makes for a very rich friendship. Plus you enjoy big Italian dinners. What's not to love about you?

LeftWriteFemme 10-13-2010 04:30 PM

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I would like to compliment my wonderful friend, nycfembbw, who is a doll, wonderful and kind.
She is so creative that her work even made my mother gasp and that is a feat, let me tell you!




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Soft*Silver 10-13-2010 08:58 PM

sometimes lists like this come across as popularity contests and having been a kid in school who had no one on her side, it gives me sad feelings. But I will participate regardless because I am no longer that sad child. I am enamored by many people here and I shall not be able to get everyone I wish to compliment into one post...so if you are not mentioned in the first one, just know your turn will come...

AtLastHome: you are such a tender soul. Sometimes I just want to reiki over you and take your sorrow away. Its there only because you have had such a full loving life and have such an abundance of life and love to offer and so wish to do so...god, Susan... the muses wake each day because of people like you...you are THEIR inspiration...

Strappie: I have a new friendship crush on Strappie. I have seen her be friends with others and have delighted in how genuine of a friend she is. I finally got up the nerve to ask if I could be a friend to her too. And thankfully she said yes. I am honored.

NYCfemBBW: Girl..you have been a true friend for so long...I have turned to you when I could trust no one else...

Gemme: I met you thru the scrapbook craft thread. You have the one of the kindness personalities I have encountered online. An angel amongst demons at times...

Liam: A quiet voice is heard above the roar and strut of bulls. I adore you.

BigButchMistie: Honey, it is so evident how much love you have to offer someone and how unwilling you are to settle for less than what you want. Do it right honey. Do it one time instead of many. It hurts me to see butches go thru femme after femme as tho we are chattle. You show me you see us as treasure.

Random: you are such a strong fierce femme. Not afraid to be cut from a different pattern. I love you so much for that.

more later...

Soft*Silver 10-13-2010 10:16 PM

Wryly: You and I met elsewhere. You are one of the sweetest butches I know! You are who named my new home Rose Cottage. Some butches are so wound around that a femme can hardly get in. You, tho my dear, have a heart that is right there for a femme to see and touch and feel. Some lucky lady is going to find you and be blessed by having you as her butch

Ryobi: your strength of character shines through in everything you write to me. I can always count on getting genuineness from you. Thank you.

Semantics: I dont think there is a more sweet femme. I have always been touched when out of the blue, you would reach out to me. I have always likened you to walking along the beach and suddenly finding the most precious of all shells...

PrincessBelle: I call her my BFF. There is something to be said about pink princess femmes...lol. I love her to death.

more to come

Cyclopea 10-14-2010 12:06 AM


Soft*Silver 10-14-2010 02:05 AM

Metropolis: Your art work is so stunning. I have gone to your youtube video and watched it a few times. The depth of your paintings leave me speechless. And the self portrait, my dear, brings me to tears. How did the earth ever create you?

this one deserves its own post

katsarecool 10-14-2010 02:07 AM

Looking at the photos of our couples here in the galleries; your pics make me smile!

FlowerFem 10-14-2010 04:25 AM

thank u
 
I'd like to compliment all the warm folks who welcomed me when I first came here a few weeks ago. It feels like I really belong and I love this site!!!!! Been to many a gay web-site, but none have ever made me feel,that it mattered to them if I was there or not. Thank you to all who reached out and chatted to a perfect stranger.

nycfem 10-14-2010 04:24 PM

I'd like to compliment my dear friend, Spirit Dancer. She has a knack for finding a picture and quote that not only brighten the day but speak to one's soul. She also started and maintains one of my favorite threads, Light a Candle. This thread is reminiscent of how she is as a person: deeply caring, full of awareness, and someone who gets right in there to help. She is also a very talented poet and has an awe inspiring skill with the Native American pieces that she makes and is so generous with. She's one of a kind!

Diva 10-14-2010 04:56 PM

What a wonderful thread....
 
My compliments to Jennifer for beginning such a [typically] thoughtful thread. You have a very sweet and loving spirit....always ready with a smile to give.

To my BFF, ShariBerry, I compliment You for knowing me and loving me in spite of myself. Your friendship has been one of my best gifts.

I compliment those dedicated workers who brought the miners up to safety and their families. God bless You for Your dedication.

To my GalPal, Nina, I compliment You for the gift You possess in being able to see the positive side of things, the way You make me laugh, Your unconquerable spirit and generosity. I'm thankful to have You in my life.

To Spirit Dancer, I compliment You for Your generous heart and tenacity. You give and give and give....sometimes at the cost of Your own health....to give to Your family and the rest of us.

I compliment ArtDecoGoddess for her kind heart and positive attitude. She is always ready with a kind word and she reads a mean stack of Tarot cards! I also compliment blugrass, ADG's partner, who had the good sense to claim her! And those luscious pens!!!

My compliments also go to PinkieLee, one of the most thoughtful women I've ever known. She's my Karate Princess Trollop.

I compliment Medusa, Jack, June & Linus for Your convictions in creating a SAFE space which is welcoming to all those in our community also committed to involve themselves as team members, to contribute to that same safety and community building. There is no compliment huge enough to cover my gratitude. I admire You all.






MysticOceansFL 10-14-2010 06:22 PM

I just wanted to thank the owners for the web site and giving new people rather they are into the leather living or just into the butch/femme dance its great to feel like you have friends here and not be judged one way or the other.

Spirit Dancer 10-14-2010 07:39 PM

What a wonderful thread and right on time.

Jen~
I compliment, Your soul and kindness shine brightly, running into you that day
was a blessing indeed. Your welcome spirit is a site to behold and
I'm blessed to call you sister friend.

Diva~
I compliment you for seeing and understanding when there was deafening silence,
for giving beyond and for sharing your writing skills here.
What a wonderful loving soul you have. Thank you for being in my life.

Lady D~
I compliment you for beauty and grace, For reaching out and sending smiles.
For sharing bratiness and sassiness. You're an amazing soul and a blessing and welcome addition to our family.

More later

Nat 10-14-2010 08:30 PM

Spirit Dancer is most definitely teh awesome - strong and still shining light and kindness on everybody around her. :)

Greyson is awesome too - over the years he has posted some of my favorite posts. I love his warmth, his depth, his knowledgeableness :) and his welcoming spirit.

AtLastHome has posted some of my other favorite posts - I really appreciate her sensitivity, knowledge, realness, (hotness).

I am by no means even an 8th of the way through my very long list, but I must call it an evening. :)

Nat 10-14-2010 08:33 PM

Oh, one more.

purepisces is very threadstalkable - great quotes. :)

katsarecool 10-14-2010 09:25 PM

I, also am thankful to the folks who have welcomed me to B-F. It is not easy being new and a complete stranger.

DomnNC 10-15-2010 10:52 AM

I've not been here that long but I have to compliment the owners/moderators for creating such a space with a sense of community. Kudo's to them, moderating is a thankless and nasty job at times.

I have to compliment the rest of you for adding to that sense of community and being able to debate and articulate your responses on the forums in such a wonderful respectful manner (from what I've read thus far, lol).

We all may not see eye to eye on issues at times but all that truly matters is that you are afforded the respect of having your opinion and being able to express those same opinions.

The diversity I've found here is simply amazing, again kudos and my compliments to all of you for making that possible!


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