Aloha kãkou
 

I had the most wonderful dream last night about Sweet.

Sending love to the entire family.

xo

Dearest Cali -

Thank you so very much for being unfailingly kind and patient to me when I first found the dash site. I have always been grateful that you "showed me the ropes" so to speak so I didn't blunder too badly with all the labels and definitions.

You touched my life.

Sending light and love as you move to your next adventure. I am certain its full of lovely truffles.

Mike & the heathens - know you are in our thoughts.

Much love,
Christie & Jess

(((SweetCali)))
 

I remember your kindness and humour in chat on the dash site. Thank you.


May your journey continue safely knowing you are loved by so many.

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Peace and light to you Sweetcali. Strength to you Mike and your children.

Sweet and Mike. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sweet, you were exactly what I needed when I fell into chat six years ago. I was a broken mess and your kindness, realness and patience helped me. Thank you.

This body is not me. I am not caught in this body.
 

A peaceful journey to someplace better Sweetcali. You are remembered with fondness and love by many.

Peace and love to you and Mike.



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Lifting you all up in thought and prayer... Sweet... you are a beautiful woman... My prayers are with you during this transformative time.

Mike... I hold you in my prayers...

Sweet - you were always the best in chat, giving me advice and keeping us all in line. I'm glad i got to meet you at your house a few years back and deliver your chocolate covered strawberries to the B/F picnic.

Go in peace. Mike our thoughts are with you.

Tura & Stray

Thinking of you at this time
 

I wanted to thank all of you for your thoughts , prayers, and guiding light. Like I said Sweet is a fighter. On Saturday, hospice, and I thought we were at the end of this life as we know it. The nurse was here, Sweet was unresponsive as she had been mostly the 2 or 3 days before. We left it at that. Sunday morning at around 7 Sweet woke me up to tell me she wanted a bath. We made this happen. (Actually we had 6 baths on Sunday.) We got back in bed and dozed off. Around 8 30 the hospice nurse came back and guess who answered the door. Sweet did! The nurse was in shock. this couldnt be the person she had visited on Saturday who didnt even know she was there.
When Sweet couldnt swallow the pills they where giving her we had to stop trying that and just rely on liquid pain meds to help her. They think she was having a reaction to one of the pills and it took that long for her body to rid itself of that medication.
She's been up, and very lucid on and off since then. She has started eating again, and altho tired, manages to be awake for the girls for short periods of time. WE know the end is somewhere out there, her will to be there for her girls is amazing to say the least.

Again thank you everyone for all your kind thoughs, she hasnt been able to read this yet, but I have been telling her about the amazing community we have and all of you.

Mike

She's a fighter and bopped Santa Muerte in the head with hrer glass nail file.

The joy of a bath!!

That's my girl! Luxiouriating!

I am glad she is having some time with her babies and with you - That's all that really matters in the big picture is that she feels the love that people have for her.

We all love her and are thinking of her every day. Thank you, Mike, for taking the time to update us!

<3

You know this is amazing but seems to be in keeping of the tiny bit I know about her. The first and only time I met her she was so gorgeous in her full length dress with the jeweled collar and so much fun and full of life that I could not believe she was so ill.

I am glad she has more time to spend with her babies and you Mike.

Mike, you are all - you, Sweet, and your family - in my thoughts. She sure does sound like a fighter! What a beautiful example of love, loyalty, and perseverence she sets for so many. I haven't seen Sweet in a long time, but please tell her lyric sends her love. I send it to you, too. *hugs to you both*

Wishing y'all a wonderfully relaxing time -
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with some beautiful flowers -
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and a pretty sky -
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Blessings to you!
t.

...ditto! :gimmehug::flowers:

For Sweet
 

I feel that I should up date this but, I am really at a loss for words. Sweet has been steady going downhill the past week. She's resting, for the most part without to much pain. She's asked that her girls not be in the room. It's hard on them. Her brother and sister both have come and gone home. My hope is that everyone has said the things they need to say to her and her to them and that everyone has found some peace. I am collecting pictures of her, if anyone took any at a bash or a social event please send them to me at beyond_male@yahoo.com. All we can do at this point is make sure she knows shes loved, treat her with respect and let her go when shes ready.
My thnaks to all of you for all your kind words.
Mike

You are both in our thoughts.
Much Love,
CherryFemme & blackboot

sweet
 

Hey Mike hope you're hanging in there. I'm sending both of you positive energy, and my prayers.
Always JAGG

Sweetcali
 

Hi Mike, thanks for the update on your Sweets. I will speak for myself and say I've wanted to inquire how she is doing when I see you in chat but refrain from overwhelming you with questions.

Please know that you, Sweets and the girls are in my thoughts everyday. That you are all loved.

Safe and peaceful journey Sweet.
Love

Musicman

It's time to rest lil' mama. I love you.