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The_Lady_Snow 11-21-2011 09:24 PM

;)
 
I should have said i did not like, prefer, have a reacción to "straight bio guy" smell, I never have been able to be attracted or aroused by it like I am with queer smells for "me" the reaction, response and fetish for it is different... I'm not the only queer woman that's felt this way as someone who is into pit worship I know 100% what *I'm* attracted to... Hence why *I* came and posted from my *me* place cause not everyone feels this way about pit licking and such..

The_Lady_Snow 11-21-2011 09:27 PM

P.S.
 
It's a sensory *space* I'm coming from it's a mental, physical and olfactory response...

Billy 11-21-2011 09:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Apocalipstic (Post 470474)
Thank you to each and every person who decided not to post pit pics. :rrose:

You want Me to just send it to your phone ! :)

And for the record I like My partners pits , bits and legs shaved :)

funkyfemme 11-21-2011 09:46 PM

Mmmmmm.....
 
I absolutely adore pit hair on my partner! I love to twirl it between my fingers, I love love love to bury my nose in it after hy's been working up a sweat and I just love to plain look at it! There's just something about that fur that drives this femme c.r.a.z.y.!!!

As for me, mine is fine as frogs hair...I shave mine everyday, along with my legs and bits. I love how I'm all soft and shaven and hy is furry all over. Yummo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;)

Elijah 11-21-2011 09:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Billy (Post 470507)
You want Me to just send it to your phone ! :)

Haha......

Soft*Silver 11-21-2011 10:05 PM

I know, Ms Snow! As I said, I understand why some would think this way...

some people might find it very strange of me to accept smell of a person born male. And thats ok. A few years ago, I would have struggled with that statment as well.It just happens thats how I evolved. I respect everyone's opinion and tastes...and didnt mean to imply you didnt...my apologies...

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 470491)
It's a sensory *space* I'm coming from it's a mental, physical and olfactory response...


The_Lady_Snow 11-21-2011 10:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss_Tia (Post 470537)
I know, Ms Snow! As I said, I understand why some would think this way...

some people might find it very strange of me to accept smell of a person born male. And thats ok. A few years ago, I would have struggled with that statment as well.It just happens thats how I evolved. I respect everyone's opinion and tastes...and didnt mean to imply you didnt...my apologies...



Gay men, leather, sweat pit smell to me is wayyyyyyy different than straight bio guy smell, I'm not sure if it's cause it's engrained or because I'm not attracted to straight bio males at all.. I was thinking about it cause my Owner was a pit hog so maybe it's sensory but I'm unsure cause as far back as I remember it icked me out.. I even had issues with the husbrat smell and vocal about it too:|. I'm sitting here discussing it trying to figure why the fetish and reaction only comes from queer bodies..

The_Lady_Snow 11-21-2011 10:17 PM

Processing
 
Like out door leather events where gay, queer leather pit, sweat, cigar, hair, sex, all combine into this almost high like scent that protrudes all ones senses.. It's a hot fetish and I can't ever ever reach that tantric space via straight bio male scent it's nowhere near the same...

:|<~ it makes my cock hard they (straight guys don't).

Interestin huh?

dark_crystal 11-22-2011 10:45 AM

i shave ebberyfing
Mr. Jenny is neither required nor encouraged to shave anything at all

1QuirkyKiwi 11-22-2011 10:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by princessbelle (Post 470246)
I shave of course. But, with a twist.

.

OUCH! ........Doesn't that hurt and make your eyes water? *Winces* ...LOL!

1QuirkyKiwi 11-22-2011 11:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nat (Post 470278)
I think hairy pits are hot. This might have hit my programming when one of my first girl crushes was an unshaven hairy beautiful Cicilian hippie exhibitionist flirt.

http://image.take40.com/300x400/juli...ry_armpits.jpg

http://fashionc-lothing.info/image/2...2153540225.jpg

http://cdn.pimpmyspace.org/media/pms...nna048zf-1.jpg

I shave when I wanna.

However, I don't like the societal expectation that women's bodies be hairless or near-hairless. Hairy pits and legs and pubes are secondary sexual characteristics and I'm not sure what the meaning is behind shaving those off. Then again, facial hair is a secondary sexual characteristic, and most facial-hair owners shave daily.

On my partner I have no preferences as it's a part of them - I'm more concerned about good hygiene. Also, I wouldn't feel comfortable telling someone to shave as it's their body and the hair isn't harming me in anyway - at least I hope not! LOL!

A close family member loves hairy women and found it highly amusing when I told them that my Italian cousins confiscated my razors when I lived there - every time I bought one it just 'vanished', lol! "How do you expect to find a decent woman when you shave and are not your true self? She will love you for you, and if she doesn't sh'e not for you!" Is what I got told! Those words always ring in my ears as I shave, lol!

That reminds me! I must buy new blades for my razor tomorrow, lol!

Estella 11-22-2011 04:26 PM

Two words ...
 
Hot wax. I never put a razor next to my skin.

Chancie 11-22-2011 04:35 PM

I prefer Pete natural.

barnes 11-26-2011 07:29 AM

ok ill start with me the butch first ! i would never not ever shave my legs, my arms, or armpits ! or that place where the dragon hangs ! i do however shave my head bald and i shave my face daily all over !
now for the femme id like her to shave her everything but her head lol !
pretty old school butch femme stuff i guess? ! actually id take a femmes shaving as a sign she was wanting sexy time u know what i mean ? ! lol thank you kindly !

Sparx1_1 11-26-2011 02:53 PM

I finally stopped worrying about shaving my legs all the time lol. Hairy pits I just cannot do.

HoustonHuny 11-26-2011 05:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 470557)
Like out door leather events where gay, queer leather pit, sweat, cigar, hair, sex, all combine into this almost high like scent that protrudes all ones senses.. It's a hot fetish and I can't ever ever reach that tantric space via straight bio male scent it's nowhere near the same...

:|<~ it makes my cock hard they (straight guys don't).

Interestin huh?

LOL....You are ALWAYS interesting! :)

Pheromones work for insects but not for mammals because

quote:

In dealing with mammals, however, scientists faced an entirely different problem. Compared to insects, whose behavior is stereotyped and highly predictable, mammals are independent, ornery, complex creatures. Their behavior varies greatly, and its meaning is not always clear.

:winky:

o222Good 11-29-2011 12:01 AM

I love that my fiance shaves her underarms!
I haven't shaved mine in about four decades,
but there isn't much there.
Lady Snow, maybe it's because gay guys
understand how to use cologne?
Which brings me to a pet peeve, I really do
not appreciate smelly pits. I think it is anti social,
and a red flag that someone may have (I'm sorry
to say) mental problems. I don't want to offend
people with BO or mental problems, but that's
just my take on it.
- Kooch

RiverBoi 12-01-2011 01:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tawse (Post 470177)
depends on the person and if they can rock it - regardless of hairy / not or femme / butch.

Some people shouldn't try to grow it out. Like me. Just looks like pubic hair gone wild. :|

lmfao! Too damn funny! TY!

The_Lady_Snow 12-01-2011 02:17 PM

Yikes!!!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by o222Good (Post 475952)
I love that my fiance shaves her underarms!
I haven't shaved mine in about four decades,
but there isn't much there.
Lady Snow, maybe it's because gay guys
understand how to use cologne?
Which brings me to a pet peeve, I really do
not appreciate smelly pits. I think it is anti social,
and a red flag that someone may have (I'm sorry
to say) mental problems. I don't want to offend
people with BO or mental problems, but that's
just my take on it.
- Kooch


No, Leathermen for the most part don't wear scents it's just pit smell.. Good ol' sweat, hair, leather nothing to hinder the natural scent..

I don't really know how to respond the body odor equates mental problems I really don't..

:|

Ryobi 12-01-2011 03:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by o222Good (Post 475952)
I love that my fiance shaves her underarms!
I haven't shaved mine in about four decades,
but there isn't much there.
Lady Snow, maybe it's because gay guys
understand how to use cologne?
Which brings me to a pet peeve, I really do
not appreciate smelly pits. I think it is anti social,
and a red flag that someone may have (I'm sorry
to say) mental problems. I don't want to offend
people with BO or mental problems, but that's
just my take on it.
- Kooch

I trim everything every couple months, the only thing I shave is my face.

A partner can do as she pleases with her body hair, though there are times I will be granted the pleasures of her natural smells, everywhere.

o222Good. I quoted you because I do take offense to your "unintended offense". Here's why. I am a hard working dog. Sometimes no amount of deodorant, cologne, or lysol for that matter is going to curb the stink I can work up. On that day, I stink because, I stink that day. Has nothing to do with the fact that I may have suddenly developed a mental illness through out the day. And, on the flip side, I have experience (daily) with folks that truly are mentally ill. None of them stink like BO. Does BO automatically equal mentally ill? Absolutely frickin not.

I mentioned above that sometimes I like a smelly partner pit. That doesn't make me mentally ill either.

The_Lady_Snow 12-01-2011 03:58 PM

Thinking
 
Yanno I thought of this for a long long time, and I have to add that some people may have something wrong with their body chemistry I know I have a friend who has this and I really can't remember the name and sometimes she has to shower 3 times a day because she gets an unusual body odor and there was nothing mentally wrong with her. It's like when someone has halitosis they can't help what is going on in their mouth and it's not like they don't have good dental hygiene it's just their body chemicals that are all cattywompus.


"As explained by R. Kenneth Landow, an associate professor in UCLA's Department of Medicine and Dermatology, body odor is a common symptom of diabetes, gastrointestinal ailments and the now rarely seen typhoid fever. Hormonal fluctuations and other metabolic changes, such as high glucose readings in a diabetic, cause cause unusual if not always unpleasant scents to permeate from the skin."

Ryobi 12-01-2011 04:28 PM

Thank you for posting that Snow. I'm going to pay attention to if I'm more likely to have a smell day during hormonefuckery. Doesn't happen often but, it happens.

Outlaw 12-01-2011 06:37 PM

AhhhmPITZ
 
My Niece is 6 and obsessed with armpits and feet. She is a pretty funny kid, really bright and more than a bit precocious. She somehow works smelly arm pits, or stinky feet into most conversations be you friend or foe and then.... laughs at her own jokes! Did I mention we were related???

o222Good 12-02-2011 12:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ryobi (Post 477699)
o222Good. I quoted you because I do take offense to your "unintended offense". Here's why. I am a hard working dog. Sometimes no amount of deodorant, cologne, or lysol for that matter is going to curb the stink I can work up.

This wasn't what I was talking about. I'm not talking about kink, or after a hard day of physical work. I will share a real situation. I worked for years with someone, successful, brilliant, even famous for a while professionally, but he never wore deodorant. This was not a physical job, it was like an office and he stunk in a God Awful way. If you had to stand next to him and have a conversation, you would gag. Now, I mean really, what is up with that? What the F^^^ is up with that? He wasn't allergic, he just chose not to wear deodorant. I definitely think there was something mentally off with him.
- Kooch

The_Lady_Snow 12-02-2011 07:59 AM

:/
 
I guess I would of had a talk with HR or the supervisors..

:|


Quote:

Originally Posted by o222Good (Post 478056)
This wasn't what I was talking about. I'm not talking about kink, or after a hard day of physical work. I will share a real situation. I worked for years with someone, successful, brilliant, even famous for a while professionally, but he never wore deodorant. This was not a physical job, it was like an office and he stunk in a God Awful way. If you had to stand next to him and have a conversation, you would gag. Now, I mean really, what is up with that? What the F^^^ is up with that? He wasn't allergic, he just chose not to wear deodorant. I definitely think there was something mentally off with him.
- Kooch


*Anya* 12-02-2011 09:18 AM

I know that most butches have expectations for how a femme is supposed to look-said most<.

I have waxed my legs for 30 years. Never shave them. As time has gone by, hair now minimal and does not feel stubbly. Do it monthly and I am fine with that.

Underarms. Painful to wax. They drive me crazy after I shave them, itches like crazy-not sexy to scratch armpits. Once in a blue moon, I suck it up and shave anyway. I don't have much hair under my arms to begin with.

I have OCD traits so you can imagine the care with which I practice good hygiene. I pretty much always smell like a sweet flower, lol.

Nether region-well and very neatly trimmed, don't shave there, see armpit issue.

If a butch doesn't like my little bit of hair under my arms, oh well.

Re: butches, don't care if they have hair, no hair-just do not have BO please. I understand some people have a medical condition but this is rare. Some people just do not bathe regularly or use deodorant. I have nearly gagged in an elevator before and had to hold my breath for 6-floors, not fun.

*Anya* 12-02-2011 09:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by *Anya* (Post 478175)
I know that most butches have expectations for how a femme is supposed to look-said most<.

I have waxed my legs for 30 years. Never shave them. As time has gone by, hair now minimal and does not feel stubbly. Do it monthly and I am fine with that.

Underarms. Painful to wax. They drive me crazy after I shave them, itches like crazy-not sexy to scratch armpits. Once in a blue moon, I suck it up and shave anyway. I don't have much hair under my arms to begin with.

I have OCD traits so you can imagine the care with which I practice good hygiene. I pretty much always smell like a sweet flower, lol.

Nether region-well and very neatly trimmed, don't shave there, see armpit issue.

If a butch doesn't like my little bit of hair under my arms, oh well.

Re: butches, don't care if they have hair, no hair-just do not have BO please. I understand some people have a medical condition but this is rare. Some people just do not bathe regularly or use deodorant. I have nearly gagged in an elevator before and had to hold my breath for 6-floors, not fun.

Oh, I left out something important: I am not talking about the smell of arousal or the odor that may emanate from our bodies during, or after, hot sex. I absolutely love that smell. It is wonderful and a turn-on unto itself.

:)

Ryobi 12-02-2011 11:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by o222Good (Post 478056)
This wasn't what I was talking about. I'm not talking about kink, or after a hard day of physical work. I will share a real situation. I worked for years with someone, successful, brilliant, even famous for a while professionally, but he never wore deodorant. This was not a physical job, it was like an office and he stunk in a God Awful way. If you had to stand next to him and have a conversation, you would gag. Now, I mean really, what is up with that? What the F^^^ is up with that? He wasn't allergic, he just chose not to wear deodorant. I definitely think there was something mentally off with him.
- Kooch

I know you weren't talking about physical work and/or pleasure in your previous post. I used that as part of my examples in pointing out your generalized sweeping statements equating people with BO to the mentally ill. One does not automatically mean the other.

I would be really surprised if there is someone on this site that has not had a similar experience as you talk about here, a co worker, a classmate, someone on a plane....etc, that has stunk, or just plain stinks. One thing that sticks out clear as a bell for me in your post here is, "he just chose not to wear deodorant." That was his choice. I don't know one person in my life that had the choice to be mentally ill or not. I know it's rare but, not everyone gets a choice to stink or not. A lot of people in this world chose not to wear deodorant for one reason or another. Again, it's a choice, not a mental illness.

It offends me that you think he's mentally ill because of BO. Maybe he's just rude or insensitive. Maybe he gathers pleasure from annoying people around him. Maybe he just doesn't give a crap that you think he stinks. Non of those things equal mental illness.

I think all the 24/7 good smelling people in this world should thank their lucky stars they didn't live pre deodorant. I can't imagine how miserable they would have been.

I'm taking myself out of this discussion on the thread. I'm sure it's not what the OP had in mind. Feel free to PM me if this topic needs to go further. I'm not able to be online everyday, it might take one or two to get back to you.

Ryan

o222Good 12-02-2011 03:18 PM

Google it.
All I said was that it's a red flag that
someone may be having difficulty.

But back to hair.

I was a young hippie in the late 60s and the more
hair, the better! I still can appreciate a lot of hair,
for example, Bears are cool!
Yet, I do really like it that my partner shaves her
underarms. I think it's one of those differences
between us that defines us...

Gemme 12-02-2011 03:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 478134)
I guess I would of had a talk with HR or the supervisors..

:|

Or maybe the guy himself.

If it was that bad that people would gag near him, I could imagine easily that it affected his business in one way or another.

o222Good 12-02-2011 07:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 478366)
Or maybe the guy himself.

If it was that bad that people would gag near him, I could imagine easily that it affected his business in one way or another.

Well, I was relatively new, and he was a superior. It was sort of a running joke with the old-timers, they would just nod and say Oh Yeah! But they didn't really make anything of it, because he was an old friend and very important. Go figure.

Chancie 12-03-2011 06:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ryobi (Post 478219)

<snip>

It offends me that you think he's mentally ill because of BO. Maybe he's just rude or insensitive. Maybe he gathers pleasure from annoying people around him. Maybe he just doesn't give a crap that you think he stinks. Non of those things equal mental illness.

<snip>

I'm taking myself out of this discussion on the thread. I'm sure it's not what the OP had in mind. Feel free to PM me if this topic needs to go further. I'm not able to be online everyday, it might take one or two to get back to you.

Ryan

Ryan, thanks for calling out the broad generalizations made about people living with mental illness. I don't think it's an assessment to be made lightly or flippantly.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nat (Post 470161)
Because now I'm curious about your feelings on pits too.

See the feet! thread for the original poll.

Let's talk about pits, baby.

Dreams 12-09-2011 09:36 PM

thats just me...
 
ok since I (i myself.i know way TMI) have very little hair on my body due to my race and or culture..it would be hard for me to state or demand a preference if my partner is comfortable with how they feel about themselves..i have been with women who have plenty of body hair shaved or unshaved.. i'm cool with it

starryeyes 12-09-2011 09:40 PM

When I was 15-18, I never shaved my pits. I had dreadlocks, made all my own clothes, bathed in patchouli, and did hippie things. It fit me during that time, but now NO WAY, haha. Most people can't believe I have such a granola past. I am still a hippie at heart though... with a Gucci bag. LMAO!

:-D
Starry

Nat 12-10-2011 12:47 AM

In 7th grade, a girl sat behind me in my advisory class. She had extremely strong BO. She also wore deodorant - she even carried it with her in her bag to re-apply it several times a day. She looked mean. She had one of those faces I think that looks frowny when at rest. Her earlobes both were torn where earrings used to be. She was one of the nicest people in school - a very gentle, sweet person. I sat next to her all year and I've never forgotten her. I moved away that summer, so I never saw her again. I don't know why she had such strong BO, but it wasn't because she didn't wear deodorant and it wasn't because she didn't take showers and it wasn't because her clothes weren't washed. I think some people are just more endowed with scent glands than others or something.

I grew up in Austin, so a relative amount of hippie odor is just air to me. I'd love to smell the austin air again.

Nat 10-15-2013 11:46 PM

I definitely find pit hair hot, but not my own. It's not dense enough. Dense pit hair is hot. Body hair is hot to me. There ya go.

PoeticSilence 10-16-2013 12:07 AM

I'm one of those people that just doesn't have a lot of body hair per se, or it's so light you don't notice it. I don't think I've shaved since ... well I don't really remember when. I've never had a problem with a woman that had a lot of hair either. In Europe a lot of women don't shave and sport some pretty impressive lip hair depending how far east you go. I'm more likely to be offended if a woman colours her hair than I am if she let it grow/cut it. My wife is of Spanish descent, so ... she's got more hair and it's darker than mine. She prefers to shave, and I don't care either way. She did have an issue when we first got together about not using deodorant, I can understand because I have allergies to fragrances and if I don't get hypoallergenic deodorant I can really suffer, but we worked through that, she never knew that it was available.

One thing about body odour that people should consider. Sometimes the meds you take can make you smell funky. I know that one of my meds now leaves a horrible acidy-metal smell that works its way out my pores. Nobody else seems to notice it, and I've asked, because it's so obnoxious to me. I can smell it on my clothes. Thankfully, nobody else does. But I did take one med that did evaporate off me and people DID notice, and I got that changed.

DanceFoolsDance 10-16-2013 04:44 AM

I really don't care, as long as they don't stink!

GeeGina 10-16-2013 08:01 AM

Now, while I like me a hairy armpit - and I confess, even a little funky too - it's not a dealbreaker or a dealmaker.


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