Finally! I got a thanks on it. ha

<<< Loves laughing at my own jokes. IM FUNNAY HAHAHAHA!!!!

I actually say that too. especially when someone else is looking fed up. :D

Here goes....
 

I'm butch, looking for a nice femme to be a great partner. Love the wifey types....good in all aspects of a marriage. I'm 54...just a lil chunky...with a good sense of humor. I have 2 kids...one daughter and a son, 2 grandkids I love to death and would do anything for. I am a loyal person and very loving. I can cook and clean for the most part...I need passion!

HEY
 

the date HB line
I used to be in that line....do I get to claim my old spot?

Let's see...

I'm a 37 year old femme interested in meeting an FTM/butch within 10 years of my age. I really like nerds or those who appreciate education. Intelligence is sexy. Someone who is a gentleman, stable, has a career, and likes children because I have a 2.5 year old daughter. She is not a negotiable. Please be emotionally available. Someone who can laugh at themselves and not take themselves too seriously. Must be very liberal.

I'm a dental hygienist, very liberal, and generally happy. I like to go out to eat, explore cities and towns, travel, vegetarian, and fun. I also like to hang out at home. I try to be very positive and maybe to a fault. I am a very good person, very loving, and have a lot to offer.

Let's see if I get any bites....this dating thing is soooo hard. There's gotta be somebody out there.

I am in search of my bestfriend.. The rest will follow:praying:

ok! i'll play!! :) this is my POF profile...
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Do you wanna know something? Life is short! Seriously! It's also a wonderful journey, one that twists and turns and goes up and down...(I think I'm getting sea sick).

That being said, I'd like to tell you a little about me. I've been single for about 4 years now, and to be perfectly honest...I'm over it! I think I'm ready to meet my LAST wife. I want to meet someone who's kinda like me..BUT is a girly-girl. For instance, I love to cook and am pretty good at it, my specialties are "low south cooking" and BBQ/grilling. I don't drink alcohol however, I AM very 420 friendly ;)

I am a lover of animals but I'm especially crazy about dogs and have a huge soft spot for pit bulls. I believe in the goodness of most people and the evil in some. I believe in God and I pray..a lot. I'm kinda shy and at the same time I can be the life of the party. I love my job and about 97.5% of my co-workers. I believe that it's important to laugh and have fun. I listen to all sorts of music and love to "play" with anything with the word "Digital" in it's title.

I would like to meet someone who's happy, who loves to laugh and have a good time. I'd like to meet a woman who's kind to others and I want her to make me forget to breathe when she looks at me. I'd like someone who understands the butch/femme dance. I'd like her to be a femme, a girly-girl like I said earlier. I want to have a biggo crush on her! It would be so cool if she liked a bunch of stuff that I like! :)
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skeet

I missed this!!

I did see these at all.

I'm giving out tenners for compliments today so, thanks!!!!

I sincerely wish there were more people in vancouver that felt that way

thank you!!! xx :)

Tall (5'10"), athletic(big muscles) Butch Daddy looking for sexy femme girl. Must be open and honest and a non game player. I am looking for a sweet babygirl to take care of and who will take care of me. I am handsome, have a good job and my own car and home.

Seeking femme for LTR
 

I am going to try this on here..WHERE are all the FEMMES who like butches hiding? I know you are out there somewhere.

About me: I am white, 44, soft butch, 5'6'', curvy, short black hair and blue eyes, with lots of tattoos.

I am tired of being alone, and I am looking for Femme that feels the same way. I know your out there, and I am looking for you. I'm too old for games and lies. I am down to earth and honest, and would like my ideal woman to be the same. I am extremely easy going, yet very shy socially until I get to know a person. I'm very easy going and laid back kind of person. I hate drama and try my best to avoid it. I do not like crowds, but prefer a few close friends. I am rather quiet until I get to know someone. I enjoy most outdoor activities and love animals. I like to go to parks and take walks, sometimes off the path. I like to be on the waterfront and watch a sunset. Camping, hunting, fishing, and lots of outdoor things. Walks in the woods, and exploring. I'm not into the bar scene, but I will occasionally go out to one.

I would like to meet a woman who lives within 25 miles of town (Columbus,OH), and identifies as Femme (not an over the top barbie girl, but somewhat of a girly girl) someone white between 30-50 (although I might consider a bit younger or older) Blonde hair is my downfall (MAJOR TURN ON) but brunets are OK too, so are Goth looks and alternative hair colors, but please no redheads. Sorry ladies, but I have had nothing but BAD experiences with those. Tattoos and piercings OK. Right now I am looking to meet and date long term, and see what happens next. Possible relationship later, with no rush, but I am looking for my one and only. I want a woman who is out to everyone about her sexuality and not be afraid of lots of PDA when we are out somewhere together. I want to be able to hold your hand, kiss you, cop a feel, hug you, etc in public with no cares in the world. I would like someone who is honest and up front with their emotions and feelings. Must be a good communicator.

Feel free to ask me anything. I will respond to all inquiries.

If you made it this far, you might be the one for me. If your interested, drop me a line email removed by admin.com and let's see where it goes.

I'm not going to turn this into a discussion about race but I don't think I've ever seen a personal ad where someone has posted for someone "white" before.

That's leaving aside what appears to be a discriminatory perspective on redheads.


After reading the above post, I'm suddenly viewing my curmudgeonous, embittered self in a whole new liberal light :|

I was simply stating what I am looking for. Why should I settle for something that I do not want or that I have no attraction to? I am only stating personal facts when I mention redheads. Im sure not all of them are bad but I have tried more than my share and they have all been the same. I am just trying to save the time and effort of myself or anyone reading my ad. If you don't fit the description of what I am looking for it's probably better to just pass.

Wow. I'm with Ciaran. snowinghawk, I was really shocked that you would specify someone white. Do you really require whiteness? What's up with that?

And not to pick on you, but your insistence on something as insignificant, (and ephemeral), as hair colour being a deal-breaker is mind blowing. Good luck with that.

Ok it's like this ladies. If I am not sexually attracted to someone it's just not going to work for me. I am not sexually attracted to women who are not white, who are redheads, or who are not femme. I am not racist. I have many friends of many ethnic backgrounds. I know what I want and will not settle for less. Why should I. And as far as having good luck with this....actually I have met an amazing femme here who fit my description of what I am looking for and so much more.

I answered a singles ad once, we chatted for a while and decided to meet. She asked if I was a white woman. I said yes, and she replied "we'll see". I laughed and we met later that day for lunch. The first thing she said was "you really are white! " " yes, and I glow in the dark. " I replied. Seems she preferred white women for various reasons, but was partnered with women of various cultures in the past. It may not be PC or even polite, but not everyone needs to be. I have preferences also. It is important to me to be able to understand not only how someone likes their coffee in the morning , but whether we are compatible culturally. It relates to our race, our socioeconomic status, our religious education and beliefs, our education levels, whether we were bottle or breast fed.


There are probably on average 1,000 different variables on what attracts us to a potential lover, for lack of a crystal ball, we start with what we are most familiar. The face we see in the morning while we brush our teeth.

We may fall in love with an exotic face down the road, but until we are in a more comfortable space with the unknown, we will continue to go with the familiar.

PC or not. Like it or not. Very few of us grow up in a cosmopolitan, egalitarian home. Very few of us grow up eating cuisine from around the world. It's a miracle we can find a lover who sticks it out after the honeymoon. Let alone after the "you didn't replace the toilet paper" incident.

Well, the good news for you and me is that I think I do fit the description - in that I'm white with dark hair (I did have copper highlights in my early twenties - hope that is okay?) and I'm possibly in the femme camp as you've kindly referred to me as one of "ladies" in post # 457.

Alas, I'm not within a short distance of Columbus, OH ..... otherwise, we'd likely be making love with each other in the kitchen just now.




I'm not sure that's true - well, I cannot speak generally but certainly from my perspective. I am culturally insular and far from PC - I will continue to be so. I grew up in an almost 100% monocultural, white British-Irish environment and, whilst I now live in a large cosmopolitan city, it's that monocultural environment that I yearn for and will always be home.


However, for me in terms of relationships, differences often attract. Doesn't necessarily mean a polar opposite but, certainly, I would run a mile (actually, more like a marathon) if I ever stumbled upon some sort of femme equivalent of me who had similar background, status, religion etc.

There in lies the rub.

What you consider "less than" is what others may consider best.
Agreed, attraction is based on one's personal preference.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Etc.

The words..." Less than" are so caustic.
If you stated..." I know what I want and will not accept what I don't want."
That statement sounds so much better and leaves out the negative implications that do not belong there.

As far as experience goes,
I was just wondering what would happen if you fell for a blond haired woman who was a natural red head? She just happens to color her hair.

Just a few of my thoughts.

[QUOTE
I was just wondering what would happen if you fell for a blond haired woman who was a natural red head? She just happens to color her hair.

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That would be perfectly fine with me. I just have no attraction what-so-ever to redheads.

That would be perfectly fine with me. I just have no attraction what-so-ever to redheads.[/QUOTE]

I think the point trying to be made is you being superficial about a potential partner just because their hair is a certain color. It doesn't make a woman any better just because her hair is lighter or darker. So tell me this, if you fall in love with "Jane" who has awesome blond hair and a year down the road she decides to let her hair go back to the natural color of flaming red, you would end the relationship? After all, she is a redhead and that disqualifies her from what is acceptable. I'm curious to know....

Being one of those artsy types, and being very visual, what attracts me initially is visual. Words on a screen, a pleasant face, or photo. Here at bfp it's usually the words on the screen. Not everyone posts a photo. Me included. That's due to my lack of techie skills.

Only once has someone posted a photo that sent me reeling with unrequited love. So anyhoo, its the tall dark handsome types that attract me usually. The opposite of me. The intellectual types with dry sense of humour, strong hands that play musical instruments. Someone with a strong lap to sit upon. There are loads of other things, at least a 1,000.

But that doesn't mean that's the one I fall for. It is usually undefinable, mysterious, and on the quirky side.

Would love to meet "the one " . Hasn't happened. Que sera.

I got it covered, apart from the tall and handsome parts :winky:

That would be perfectly fine with me. I just have no attraction what-so-ever to redheads.[/QUOTE]

Why is hair colour such a button pusher? I know peeps who go ape for red hair. So what if someone else doesn't.? What's at stake here? It's like having a personal say in what a total stranger likes for breakfast. My exe has thing for blondes, there are pictures of Marilyn Monroe in every room in her house. Not one of me, ever. Try competing with a dead Sexual Icon.

I'm a pretty good catch, as far as I know, I have a special way about me that's lovable.

And I'm still single. So red hair isn't the problem, I wish it were that simple.

A little levity on the subject of personal ads (courtesy of the BBC)
 

I am ...
 

I am the marshmallow in your hot chocolate
the sugar in your coffee
Ice cubes for your tea

The teaspoon in your bed
a pillow for your head
The pencil for your lead

The flowers in your garden
apple from your tree
pollen to your bee

Me and thee
At last you see
Are meant to be

Oh my giddy aunt, I posted reply #69... it's an omen!!!!

Would like to meet ...
 

a sweet smart ass with twinkling eyes, crooked smile, and ticklish toes.
irreverent sense of humor, unabashedly naughtily wired for fun.
relaxed life view, infectious laughter, occasional flatulence in public.
admiration for natures gifts, fury, mystery.
voracious learner, under the sheets aficionados.
animal lover, cigarette free, silliness provider.

all nerds, goobers, misfits, underachievers welcome to apply :)

You keep describing me, when will you see the Britlandian light? :hamactor:

perusing for useless facts junkie,
avid spiritual seeker,
liberal taste buds,
sober magician,
nature lover .... :praying:

...and still you continue to describe me :canoworms:

you are so cute :rrose:

why do you live so far away?

Put kettle on love! :tea:

New ad by me:

My six month celibacy stint is over and I'm looking for something casual and fun. And I'm open to entertaining if you are on the way though my city, since most (all) of you don't live here. I personally can't travel due to school but I'm happy to be very good, attentive, charming and frisky ;) company... I give a great massage among a few talents.

I'm a sub, mostly a bottom but I service top for those that need a particular kind of finish and happy to do what's asked of me.
I like soft butch, butch, tg butch, non-transitioning ftm, stone butch, garden variety butch...
Daddy's and/or Doms and Dom heavy switches. I don't do well with old guard style leather stuff: I'm just a kinky dirty tart and a smart ass. I like those who are perverted and able to be dirty, look me over and be handsy,. I like those that can say the kind of filth on their mind and not worry about "offending a lady"

I am kind, I am actually really sweet in person but I am not a lady nor am I a princess - I do not wish to be treated like one (cautiously, afraid of offending). With casual sex and a quick visit (one or two nights) I really don't have the time to do a courtship style wooing to get to point. Treat me like a sweetheart tart.

Treat me well when we go out for dinner but be able to be dirty. Be able to touch me. Be able to read body language and be brave enough to touch my leg without having to ask permission. If it's not ok I will very gently let you know. But if we've had a chat long enough to agree to a visit, it will most likely be ;) I get curious just as much as you do.

OR I also would be able to swap sex texts or phone sex as I don't have a local play friend. No strings. If it's just the internet or texts there is no long getting to know you. Just hot play. I'm very good at being very descriptive, I have done it for a living.

Send me an IM if you are interested.

I know girls don't put these kinds of ads up here but there isn't really a place to put it. Craig's list just has men writing to me or bicurious house wives or dykes wanting a relationship! Even though I've been blunt. I have done this in other dyke forums when in other countries and it's received just fine.

So, I hope if anyone else was wondering where on earth they could possibly just get a little friendly attention... You can put an add here yourself or if you are butch... try sending me an IM and see if we mesh for a bit of fun.

What a refreshingly honest post, honeybarbara!
;)

Good luck!

thank you Happy go lucky! appreciated!

I forgot to add - I don't care what size anyone is: I've had partners from size 8 to size 26 and from 5'4 to 6'3. So in terms of casual fun, I'm more concerned about courage, drive, dirty and the ability to talk/state ones fantasies. I am also rather fond of anyone with a tit fetish.

ha.

:)