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*Anya* 12-30-2012 06:17 AM

Before I die...
 
...I want to be able to retire.

Healthy enough (also able to afford not to be employed) to be able to enjoy my time.

Yes, retirement sounds lovely.

:tanning:

girl_dee 12-30-2012 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Teddybear (Post 725435)
I have shared it with the person who it concerns and in time with the rest of bfp I promise

Lovely!...

WolfyOne 12-30-2012 08:47 AM

Dee, first let me say, I enjoyed the entire video and when she started to cry, I was sad with her.

Reading all the posts, up to this one, made me think a lot.
Made me think, what do I want for me before I die since I always seem to put others first.

So, before I die, I'd like to fall in love again because loving someone just isn't enough
I'd like a home I never have to move from again because I like it enough to stay
I'd like a job I enjoy going to instead of going because I have to
I'd like to go fishing anywhere and everywhere when I can
I'd like to publish my poetry for others to read for years to come
I'd like to advocate for abused and neglected animals
I'd like property to build a cat habitat/sanctuary for all the throw aways to live without being chased away by humans


Although I know in my heart, I will always want more for others rather than myself, this is what I came up with off the top of my head.

To my BFP family, lets just all live in peace and harmony before we die.

Sachita 12-30-2012 08:52 AM

To fall madly and deeply in love.

To watch my granddaughter fall madly and deeply in love with someone who reciprocates.

Talon 12-30-2012 09:53 AM

Let's see..
 
Hang glide off the Swiss Alps...Ride a bull...Ride a horse on an Iceland seashore...Walk across hot coals..See a volcano erupting...Ice ride my dirtbike across a frozen lake...Live for a year in both Berlin and the Czech Republic...And see all 7 wonders of the world.

Boots13 12-30-2012 11:38 AM

...they say the third time's a charm.
 
Ah, to raise my arms victorious, face to the heavens, feeling the pin-prick burn of the sun and the steel cold chill in the wind while I struggle for breath... all from the 22,837 ft. summit of Aconcagua.

cinnamongrrl 12-30-2012 11:40 AM

Before I die I want to....


See my daughters happy and successful....

and

Have at LEAST one grandbaby :)

but I'm in no hurry for that....tyvm

girl_dee 12-30-2012 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 725520)
Dee, first let me say, I enjoyed the entire video and when she started to cry, I was sad with her.

Reading all the posts, up to this one, made me think a lot.
Made me think, what do I want for me before I die since I always seem to put others first.

So, before I die, I'd like to fall in love again because loving someone just isn't enough
I'd like a home I never have to move from again because I like it enough to stay
I'd like a job I enjoy going to instead of going because I have to
I'd like to go fishing anywhere and everywhere when I can
I'd like to publish my poetry for others to read for years to come
I'd like to advocate for abused and neglected animals
I'd like property to build a cat habitat/sanctuary for all the throw aways to live without being chased away by humans


Although I know in my heart, I will always want more for others rather than myself, this is what I came up with off the top of my head.

To my BFP family, lets just all live in peace and harmony before we die.


Thank you for watching the video, i was hoping people would!

i could have written this list, only replaced poetry (i am no writer like you are!) with photography. i want to share how i see things with the world, and before i die would love to see people enjoy my photos and see what i see.


In reading these lists, most of them are about *us*. What we want, what we need.. but life isn't always about us. Like before i die i would like to see m y mother happy. She is not a happy person, before i die i want to see her enjoy her life, just once.


The question isn't really what we would like to *do* although that certainly comes to mind... but what we want before we die, whatever that may be.

girl_dee 12-30-2012 12:10 PM

Before i die....

i want to see men stop attacking the women of the world, mostly sexually.

Before i die... i want to see a world where it's not the norm to have women and children raped, hunted, abused.


Before i die i want to see a world free of fear.

girl_dee 12-30-2012 12:11 PM

Before i die i want to see a world free of hunger.

Before i die i want to fly a plane!

Novelafemme 12-30-2012 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee (Post 725712)
Before i die....

i want to see men stop attacking the women of the world, mostly sexually.

Before i die... i want to see a world where it's not the norm to have women and children raped, hunted, abused.


Before i die i want to see a world free of fear.

AMEN!!!!!!

girl_dee 12-30-2012 12:15 PM

Before i die i want to teach! ...........

Novelafemme 12-30-2012 12:30 PM

...live abroad.

....go skydiving.

......run a marathon.

.........see an end to rape and violence against women and children.

Sachita 12-30-2012 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee (Post 725717)
Before i die i want to teach! ...........

You already do this. Many people do this and don't know it. many people learn from you.

girl_dee 12-30-2012 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Sachita (Post 725752)
You already do this. Many people do this and don't know it. many people learn from you.


What a compliment. Thank you so much!

i wasn't thinking of this project idea as a bucket list per se, but i think it has to be somewhat.

i know that i will not live long enough to read all the books i ever want to.

So before i die i want to try!

ahk 12-30-2012 02:54 PM

...have babies w/ my wife.

Words 12-30-2012 03:07 PM

Before I die, I want to....
 
...learn to tango and make Blue promise that we'll tango our way through old age, even if it has to be in wheelchairs

...see two of my three children married and settled and know that the third will be taken care of once I'm gone

...hold my first grandchild

Anything else would be a bonus.

Words

Dante 12-30-2012 03:20 PM

See everyone be able to get married, legally.....
Get married, legally .....
See Lady Gaga in concert, and perhaps cruise around town in a limo and be able to chat with her...
Go to a Laker game and sit with Jack Nicholson, courtside.....
Swim with doplhins .....
Be able to talk with my mom one more time, even though she is no longer amongst us ....
See an end to world hunger .....


MarquisdeShey 12-30-2012 03:23 PM

Before I die...
 
...I want to walk down the isle with the love of my life with no questions about my rights to love
...I want to adopt a little person
...I want to plant a garden and be remembered by it
...build and be Mistress of my own gifted and talented school
...have a huge wooden table to gather friends and loved ones
...get it right and have a chance to say I am sorry I hurt you

girl_dee 12-30-2012 03:31 PM

before i die i want to see peace in the Middle East

JAGG 12-30-2012 03:32 PM

Marry the femme of my dreams. Know what it's like to wake up every morning next to the woman you love the most in this world. Know what it feels like to hold her every night while we fall asleep. Grow old together.
To build a bond with my wife that noone and nothing can ever come between.
Know what it feels like to be loved. And feel safe in that love.
Play golf in Scotland.
Snorkel in the Great Barrier Reef.
Visit Ireland.
Have a little 2 seat converable , just for fun.
Learn to tap dance. Or just dance period.
Learn Spanish.

always2late 12-30-2012 07:09 PM

Before I die...
I want to see this country change the way it cares for, and treats, the most vulnerable among us; the elderly, the poor, the mentally ill, the developmentally disabled. I would like to see our entire system of elder care overhauled, so that all people can live out their lives in an environment of dignity, love, care, and acceptance. I want better access to FREE treatment for the mentally ill. I want the poor not to be looked at as a "burden" on our society, but looked at with compassion and the knowledge that many of us could join that community but for one twist of fate. I want the developmentally disabled to be viewed not by what they can't do, but by what they can, and to be celebrated for it, instead of being looked upon as "different."


girl_dee 12-30-2012 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by always2late (Post 726015)
Before I die...
I want to see this country change the way it cares for, and treats, the most vulnerable among us; the elderly, the poor, the mentally ill, the developmentally disabled. I would like to see our entire system of elder care overhauled, so that all people can live out their lives in an environment of dignity, love, care, and acceptance. I want better access to FREE treatment for the mentally ill. I want the poor not to be looked at as a "burden" on our society, but looked at with compassion and the knowledge that many of us could join that community but for one twist of fate. I want the developmentally disabled to be viewed not by what they can't do, but by what they can, and to be celebrated for it, instead of being looked upon as "different."



Wow. <3 ....

little_ms_sunshyne 12-30-2012 07:27 PM

Before I die...

I want to own a bakery or cupcake truck!

girl_dee 12-30-2012 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by little_ms_sunshyne (Post 726033)
Before I die...

I want to own a bakery or cupcake truck!


You would SO rock a cupcake truck!

girl_dee 12-31-2012 05:48 PM

Before i die i want to finish learning sign language

:hangloose:

puddin' 12-31-2012 05:53 PM

befo' i die...
 
i wanna know, not jus' feel, i've made a differeence in da work i've done wit' mentally ill adults bof hea and in da years i worked wit' dem in da u.s


it's been mah life callin' (32 years to be exact), and i adore it...

Prudence 12-31-2012 06:26 PM

Take a world cruse. Buy a loaded R.V. and visit all the National Parks after I retire.

Cid 01-01-2013 06:37 PM

Before I die I'd like to find the love of my life. I'd actually like to do that before I turn 52. That gives me 5 weeks. Wish me luck!

girl_dee 01-01-2013 09:42 PM

Before i die i want to buy a stretch limo van for the folks i fell in love with at the Head Injury Unit on Cape Cod.

Before i die i want to enjoy many years with the love of my life, know what it is like to grow old together (it's happening rapidly) and look back on many years together.

Soft*Silver 01-01-2013 10:05 PM

Before I die, I want to go to the Kentucky Derby

and the Mermaid celebration on Coney Island

and ride in one more horse show

I want to hold my grandbabies

and find peace with my daughter



I have to say, that I have done just about everything I have set out to do in my life, except write a book...and I am hoping to do that this year...

PaPa 01-02-2013 06:09 AM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee (Post 725717)
Before i die i want to teach! ...........

Dee, you already do in so many ways...
Your photography, your sharing, hell even your open personality makes others receptive to listening to you. Whether you know this or not you may not have taught in a formal educational setting, but you do fulfill this role already.

girl_dee 01-02-2013 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by PaPa (Post 727361)
Dee, you already do in so many ways...
Your photography, your sharing, hell even your open personality makes others receptive to listening to you. Whether you know this or not you may not have taught in a formal educational setting, but you do fulfill this role already.


Thank you so much, but i am ever the student in life.

i will soon teach in a formal setting, but my hope is to be more than that, but to me to others what my teachers have been to me.

girl_dee 01-02-2013 03:22 PM

Before i die i want to understand the way of other people's minds.

little_ms_sunshyne 01-16-2013 11:03 PM

Before I die (list continued)-

Perhaps attend culinary school.

Parker 01-16-2013 11:30 PM

Before I die, I want so very much to visit Ireland - especially, Galway.

Right behind that: Norway, Scotland, and England.

girl_dee 01-18-2013 07:37 PM

Before i die i want to learn to see a change for women over the world.

girl_dee 01-19-2013 09:33 PM

Before i die i want to find all of my spirit guides and find out why i am drawn to certain ones..........

Girl_On_Fire 01-19-2013 11:14 PM

Before I die...
 
I want to send out as much positive/healing energy into the world as possible. We're just borrowing these bodies. Our souls have a much higher agenda so I try to speak with mine as much as possible (even though I end up putting my foot directly in sometimes). Spiritual messages + human receivers= Lost in translation. *shrugs* But that's what I want to do and hopefully I can keep doing it after I die too. ;)

JinxieB 02-01-2013 03:17 PM

before I die I want to........

Come out Fully...
be my authentic self...
travel...New Zealand, Scotland, Ireland, Nova Scotia, Canada, Australia and Germany...
have a relationship with a lovely woman who is kind, sweet, gentle and devoted...
go to more concerts...
live in Washington, Oregon, Alaska and Maine...
watch my children grow up to be happy, healthy and responsible adults
shot more in black and white...
rubbertramp my way across the U.S. taking pictures...
spend time on the beach...
learn to surf :)
see equality for ALL...
volunteer more of my time....
win a fishing tournament...
run a 5K, 10K, full marathon and a mud run...
drink more margaritas...hahaha

That's all I can think of right now...I am sure I will be back to add more as they come to me :) I really like this post...Thanks for making it :D


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