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Dominique 12-28-2017 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1184217)
I have found de-cluttering my space has worked wonders for me! It's definitely made my life more simpler, peaceful, and enjoyable!

This is so true! Who knew?

Dominique 12-28-2017 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Kätzchen (Post 1184192)

It's never too late to be a better person or do something nice to make your home life simpler, more peaceful and enjoyable, right?

Here's to all the days ahead and finding more enjoyment along the way. :flowers:

no, Katzchen, It’s never too late.

Written with eyeliner on my bathroom mirror, so I’ll see it daily, are the words “ improve a life. Yours or someone else’s “ .

Chad 12-28-2017 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Chad (Post 1120190)
Happy 2017!

Time with friends and family is always my top goal. For the first time in a very long time my family and I are all located near each other. This makes my life as a dad and granddad very happy and complete.

Travel is important to me. I have two trips on the books for 2017 and I am planning to add more trips to the list.

My work is very important to me because I can make an important contribution to the environment. I plan to keep working on the balance between work and fun.

Dating is fun and I plan to "date" more this year. I joined a dating site to help me achieve that goal.

Work hard and play hard in 2017.

Chad :cowboy:

I just saw this from 2017. It is still relevant, I have loved spending time with my family this year.

One change is that I may slow down on the personal travel to spend more time with mom this year.

I have an awesome life and I am grateful for that.

Kelt 12-28-2017 09:27 PM

I want to go home. I am so out of place where I am, not even sure where that is, I split my time between two states and neither place is right.

I may fly down in the spring and pick up a temp apt or something...

'Cause who doesn't want to live in three states, right? :blink:

Mopsie 12-29-2017 07:32 AM

Balance and consistency
 
I've been thinking about the New Year. Normally I like to have goals. The social worker in me likes them to be measurable and realistic. But so far I just have sort of a mantra or a theme for the year.

Balance and consistency.

These are two things that I'm not particularly good at - I have a little bit of ADHD and a bit of an addictive personality so I tend to focus all my energy on one or two things at a time and then refocus something else. When I do that I forget areas of my life that need tending to - often those neglected areas are the ones that involve self care.

Bèsame* 12-30-2017 11:19 AM


Gayandgray 12-30-2017 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Bèsame* (Post 1189572)

I like this!

Mopsie 01-03-2018 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Mopsie (Post 1189298)
I've been thinking about the New Year. Normally I like to have goals. The social worker in me likes them to be measurable and realistic. But so far I just have sort of a mantra or a theme for the year.

Balance and consistency.

These are two things that I'm not particularly good at - I have a little bit of ADHD and a bit of an addictive personality so I tend to focus all my energy on one or two things at a time and then refocus something else. When I do that I forget areas of my life that need tending to - often those neglected areas are the ones that involve self care.

I decided to focus on meditation first. My plan is to start meditating each day for ten minutes and increase that time as I am able.

PlatinumPearl 01-03-2018 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Mopsie (Post 1190574)
I decided to focus on meditation first. My plan is to start meditating each day for ten minutes and increase that time as I am able.

Awesome!! I too have started to mediate daily....I do the guided meditations on YouTube which I find helpful in silencing my busy mind.

A few of my intentions for 2018 include:

Meditation
More balance work/play
Be more creative

Gayandgray 01-03-2018 11:24 PM

Well since my health is now suffering I have no choice but to lose weight. I’m re-commiting back to low carb and starting to slowly add exercise to my daily routine. Like others, I too, want to try to meditate at least for a short amount of time to start, each day. I’m thinking even 5-10 minutes a day would help.

Bèsame* 01-04-2018 12:06 AM

Dont give up on your dreams...just keep sleeping 💤💤💤😇

akiza 01-04-2018 07:17 AM

i think that i've told that in my fb account and in groups i keep wishing the best for others and for me ^^ to be less shy,always open minded,to keep an eye on my weight*really i don't want to add more*,to finish that year

Mopsie 01-20-2018 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Mopsie (Post 1190574)
I decided to focus on meditation first. My plan is to start meditating each day for ten minutes and increase that time as I am able.


I have been meditating most nights. I have worked my way up to about 20 minutes a day although I have to admit that some days I stopped before the 20 minutes was up.

I have really noticed that it helps me stay calmer during the day and more focused.

How is everybody else doing so far?


Kätzchen 11-26-2019 11:37 PM

Goal (s): I plan to have three big bills paid off in full, so when I take a vacation next fall, I can take the dream vacation I have always wanted.

My biggest wish is to see justice served to the current person occupying the WH, and to see all their followers get the comeuppance they deserve. So that the social message they receive loud and clear is that cheaters, liars and manipulators deserve no reward for their behavioral choices that hurt others.

Gemme 11-27-2019 09:49 AM

My main goal is to stay on my financial plan. It's a 3 year plan but if I get lucky with hours and get some good bonuses in, I could reduce that down to 2.5 years.

My wish is that my paperwork for the medical program I applied to goes through and I can start the treatments before the end of the year and January at the latest.

Chad 11-27-2019 10:02 PM

New year
 
I don't really do New Years goals but for 2020 all I want is for my shoulder to be 100% again.

I am blessed with a great life and good health so I think that is all that I could ask for.

:cowboy:

homoe 12-27-2019 09:32 AM

BUMP BUMP ..........

cathexis 12-27-2019 07:27 PM

We have to get out of this one-horse town. No movie theatre or any other entertainment.

I haven't been out of the apartment except for doctor's appointments and one trip to the grocery since October 2018. I am going crazy, afraid I'm getting a little agoraphobic.

We need to move back to a city where there are things to do and places to go. Before my Partner's sister stranded us here, we lived in Albuquerque. Before that I was a traveling RN, taking contracts around the country. Now disabled, I don't know what to do with myself now.

homoe 12-27-2019 08:56 PM

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It's not a goal but I do wish I could pick up and haul myself off of Green Acres & to Chicago!

FireSignFemme 12-27-2019 11:18 PM

-Start a gratitude list and every day write down at least one thing I'm thankful for.

-Keep a baby book for my grandson since daughter-in law doesn't plan to do that.

-Spend time playing laser tag or engaging Monte in some other form of exercise at least three times a week.

dark_crystal 12-28-2019 06:56 AM

re-take the GRE
apply to Master's program
begin second Master's

Chad 01-01-2020 09:17 AM

Goal
 
I plan to take Tai Chi this year. I have wanted to do that for years now. I want to work on my balance, posture, and my center of gravity. My natural healer agrees that it will be good for my health.

:cowboy:

Orema 01-01-2020 11:18 AM

I’ll be happy if 2020 is as good to me as 2019. I had a few rough days (damaging a tendon, nerve, and artery was probably the worst of 2019 for me), but I was able to overcame most obstacles personally and professionally.

So my wish for 2020 is to overcome, with success, any hardships or obstacles that are bound to pop up.

Gemme 01-01-2020 11:32 AM

Not only are we going into a new year but a brand spanking new decade as well, so this New Year feels filled with a bit more positivity and hope than recent New Years. I have some loosely imagined goals but I want them to occur as naturally and organically as possible so that they will be more likely to stick. I have recently started to make some changes that are already delivering results in some aspects of my life, which makes me happy.

firegal 01-01-2020 05:28 PM

Wishing that we see a more respectfull kind and polite USA.

Goals …. get more active physically. My house remodel ruled my life in 2019.

Travel a bit more.

Go to see a movie more than 2 a year.

That's all I can come up with as of now;

T

Orema 12-31-2020 06:45 AM

Goals:

– Move to the Midwest and set up new condo
– Get to see in person, if not touch, the new babies in the family
– Exercise more than I did this year
– Have a trust created

Bèsame* 12-31-2020 09:00 AM

Goals..

Back on track with healthy, smart choice eating. This Covid diet has to cease!

Consciously drink more water. My blood work gave me away!

Stop bringing home plastic bags. At least eliminating 90% of them!

Move my Mom closer to me in the Spring💝💝

CherylNYC 12-31-2020 11:40 AM

Build my Garage Mahal.

Cin 12-31-2020 01:58 PM

I guess I don't have any goals. The story of my life. Lots of wishes but no goals. Sometimes I think maybe I should wish for goals. But I hesitate because I'm not sure I understand the dangers and complexities that come with being goal oriented. Anyway there is little chance of that ever happening for me. I'd be better served worrying about something that could happen. I'll stick with wishes, I'm more familiar with those.

I wish for peace and loving compassion for myself and for all others. The world appears to be entering a difficult period for human beings. Without caring and watching out for each other the future will be grim. Humans tend to close up tight in an attempt to protect themselves and they build walls instead of bridges. They find enemies to focus blame and hate on when things get difficult. They reach out with greed and selfishness instead of a helping hand and grab with both hands whatever they can for themselves. I doubt the human race will survive with that kind of strategy.

Stone-Butch 12-31-2020 10:18 PM

New Year wishes and goals
 
My wishes and goals for 2021 will be to meet some new friends and perhaps a new relationship. To not spend another year alone at my birthday, Xmas and New Years. I look forward to getting rid of this depression and start a new year with more hope and happiness of which I am sorely lacking right now.

I wish that they could stop this virus that has taken so many lives and gave much sorrow to so many families and friends. The vaccination will help but not soon enough for so many around the world. I wish a better new year for all folks, those that have been touched and those who haven't. Keep safe and well and remember each moment is precious in your life. Hold tight to all that you love and let them know how much each day.

kittygrrl 01-01-2021 10:49 AM

make more love & waffles...https://www.kingarthurbaking.com/sit...?itok=AexPm6sPit's cold outside but i'm warm:praying:

Gemme 12-26-2022 09:26 PM

2023
 
I wish for genuine joy and happiness, which has been sorely missing this year for a variety of reasons.

GeorgiaMa'am 12-26-2022 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1291904)
I wish for genuine joy and happiness, which has been sorely missing this year for a variety of reasons.

Ditto.

Plus, I wish for better health.

Orema 12-27-2022 04:27 AM

New knees and maybe a new cat.

Bèsame* 12-27-2022 09:19 AM

Find time for me. Organize my clothes situation, lol. Learn how to relax.

First, off with the holiday sweets!!

Blade 01-02-2023 11:25 AM

New knee or 2 and more camping
If I get new knees the goal is the gym on a regular basis

akiza 01-11-2023 01:58 PM

I want to try to take care more of my body eating disorder wise . I put the emphasis on trying . Trying to keep bs away from me ^-^

Bèsame* 01-18-2023 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Bèsame* (Post 1291916)
Find time for me. Organize my clothes situation, lol. Learn how to relax.

First, off with the holiday sweets!!

✅ gone sweets!


I have goals..HS reunion!


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